INSOMNIACS place to talk in the wee hours

tinkertude

Really? That would be great I am going to pm you my info... 

sas-schatzi

That girl welcome- we are here until we aren't here

Valgal

O.K I guess I'm a little addicted to the site. Tink you have a TON on your plate. We all need to worry about ourselves a little more around here I think. We can't help our family if we're not up to speed ya know.

Aussies - I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO COME THERE its my dream trip to see your country and go on to New Zealand.

 Ok good night all!

sas-schatzi

Thatgirl what drugs are you on --are you depressed can't tell --we all have different reasons Basically they all suck

tinkertude

VALGAL YOU ARE SO RIGHT!

WELCOME THATGIRL!!!!

SO TRUE SAS..

sas-schatzi

Once thought about moving to Australia because they were more FREE than we are. Our laws our becoming so restrictive the land of the free and the home of the brave ---ain't

sas-schatzi

Tink were you referring to the land and free concept?

Alyson

Not so sure about Aus or here being freer that the US, we do both have lots of very restrictive laws.

tinkertude

OH  no I hadnt read that yet,,, I was referring to the it sucks why we are all up comment..

sas-schatzi

There you are alyson --tell me more so i won't think you live in nirivanha

sas-schatzi

MInes Aromasin and no life outside of this house

tinkertude

aahh gotta love the meds...

sas-schatzi

Basically it's my own making I'm not ready to move on and I can get going after 1-2 in the afternoon, but the nights are hard , because he's gone. I have to be ready to collapse before i want to go to bed

Alyson

We pay quite high taxes because most things are gov run, in the past both countries had fairly socialist governments. In NZ we still have state run hospitals, schools etc. Not that I want the gun laws here changed but all guns must be licensed. Our police do not routinely carry guns.

Tell me why you think we have more freedoms.

sas-schatzi

probably just preception. I love listening to those that love Aust. except for the killing spiders---Quick interruption dog has to pee will be back shortly

tinkertude

You too have had alot on your plate SAS just the bc alone and then add that loss to it and thats understandable... itss only been 7 months... my dad passed away in August of 2008 and my mom hardly sleeps in her bed and will not eat at the kitchen table unless she has company,

Alyson

Yes those spiders have migrated here as well to join our ones. Most of our pests come from Aus! No really we had no mammals  here until Europeans arrived

sas-schatzi

Ok back writing to you both slow typer

Alyson

Can't be any slower than me

tinkertude

well ladies I am going to have to take half a pill to get to sleep I have to get up and take my daughter to a doc appt tomorrow and its gonna come quick.... so glad to have this thread!!!! I hope you get to sleep soon ..... chat again tomorrow  SAS I sent you a pm

hugs!!!!!

sas-schatzi

Tink I got bc and dx same day with abraintumor--had a closed head injury several months before--ultimately led to me not being able to work--dh dx'd 3 months later with lymphoma. worst kind

!0 hospitaal admissionin2010--then passing------------mylifelong strength of dealing with things went in the toilet

Alyson --where's auckland from aust.----hope those spiders don't migrate here

tinkertude

oh my goodness. all at once SAS!...God bless you that is alot for anyone  to deal with... give yourself credit though,,, you are a survivor !... and everyday you get up is another victory.... love ya girl!

sas-schatzi

Tink thanks night babe

Alyson

Auckland is about 1200 miles from the east coast of Aus. They had to have come by ship as there is a great big ocean in between.

sas-schatzi

Seriously, bad----I obviuosly have to do a mapand some study--don't retain much because of the head injury , but some        east what are you feeling with all the seismic activity

sas-schatzi

It's like the snakes that got into Hawaii    all planes are searched by a dog -duh pain in the ass dog-that takes these snakes right on. these snakes came from I think Aust. they have almost depopulated the bird population .

sas-schatzi

Have to work it in reverse--small dog developed as a rater. fearless. can't find it but they have to inspect all planes coming into hawaii

sas-schatzi

Alyson are you here or am I back with the chickens

sas-schatzi

well it's me and the bloody chickens again-------damni'llstay awhile then whom ever comes here if somelse is here ducky have fun

mostlymom

This is the fastest moving site - I love it!  You guys are a lot of comfort in the wee hours.  I'm so sorry SAS - you really got dumped on - hang in there....  This is a strange new life from here on out & it's a pleasure to share it with you who understand.  I really thought I knew what my daughter went through at age 32 in 1998 & my mother at age 50.  My heavens - I didn't have a clue!  I have a new respect for their strength & a new understanding of my daughters fears when it's check-up time.  Part of me is still in shock.