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Hap, I know this decision has been really hard for you. Especially with the side effects you've had. Many have given you their stories but ultimately it's YOUR decision whether to continue with treatment or not. NO ONE is going to tell you to quit or go ahead. It's YOUR body that is suffering from the side effects. Not every body reacts the same. Maybe it's time for you to seek a second opinion. Another MO that can look at the whole picture and tell you what they think your stats are. For me personally, would I have stopped treatment? Hell No! But this isn't my third cancer and I'm not in my 70s.
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Susan, it's always great to hear from you. Congrats on your almost five years. I'm sorry you've had to deal with all these long term side effects but I agree that it's always good to be on "the right side of dirt".
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HapB,
Cancer AND chemo are a crapshoot. On my chemo board (July 2014), we initially had 40 members. Since July 2014, one member has passed away (she was stage IV to begin with) and three members have joined the stage IV club. Two of those three were diagnosed with HER2+ cancer and finished their entire chemo regimens. And yet, they still recurred.
Chemo is no guarantee, but it may lessen your chances of recurrence. Mommato3 is right, though, it has to be what YOU want to do. Best wishes!
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hap - you could continue the Taxol without Herceptin, but it is hard to say how much of an effect it would have as a solo systemic treatment for a Her2+ patient. The reason to have the two together is for the Taxol to help the Herceptin work better. If you drop the Herceptin, the reason for the Taxol becomes somewhat moot. The aggressive driver of your cancer, the Her2+ part, would be receiving no targeted therapy. If you are strongly ER+ the actual chemo may have less effect, and you may actually achieve more systemic control if you proceed to anti-hormonals at that point.. However, it is important for you to know that more people complain of bone/joint pain from those drugs, than from Herceptin. You asked earlier about how many patients recur. Generally, 30% of early stage (stage 0-stage 3A) recur. How many of those patients had chemo now that Oncotype Dx, and other genetic assays, are available to help with chemo decisions, is uncertain. How many of those recurrences are local, loco-regional, or distant - not sure. I have been on this site long enough to see all three things happen to people who had chemo, and to those that did not.
Links to some SEER data:
https://seer.cancer.gov/statfacts/html/breast.html
This is a long thread devoted to this subject here on BCO, and is worth reading:
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/105/topics/812929?page=1
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HapB
Do not know if you are religious but when I have a really hard decision, I give it to God. Then listen silently and your answer will come
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hap - no way to know, but chemo is thought to be less effective on strongly ER+ cancer, and the Her2+ aspect would be less effectively treated without Herceptin. This is something to discuss with your oncologist - I would ask him/her if you would get a bigger bang for your buck with anti-hormonal therapy than with Taxol alone
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HapB, i am also a believer and i am praying for you...how about changing the herceptin to every 3 weeks and infuse over 90 minutes should you decide to do it? to give your body more recovery timejust a thought. God bless!
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kae - my concern for hap with 21 day dosing is the potential for greater SE with a higher dose, even with a 90 minute infusion time
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Hap, my heart goes out to you. I understand some of your concerns, but obviously not all, as I'm not in your shoes.
I had triple positive cancer in 2010 in my left breast (along with some ILC that was only ER and PR+). I had the breast removed, and really wanted the breast surgeon to remove both so I didn't have to worry so much in the future, he refused to remove a perfectly healthy breast. I did three rounds of FEC (I'm in Australia and it's standard of care here) and then started Taxotere and Herceptin. FEC treated me moderately well, I could have done it again if I had to. Taxotere was an absolute nightmare for me and I could only do two of the treatments. Herceptin - for me - was a breeze. Towards the end of the twelve months it was getting hard, I had the big D and headaches, but nothing that stopped me from going to work full time.
Five years and one month after my first dx I found a lump in my right breast - the perfectly healthy one I wanted removed along with the left one. To say I was in shock is an understatement. My whole world dropped out from under me. I'd had an MRI seven months previously and there was absolutely no indication of any sort of cancer present. I'd seen my onc only a month previously and he'd done a breast examination and didn't feel anything. But when I found this lump - it was 2.5cm. I was convinced it was triple positive again. I told my husband that there was no way on this earth that I was going to do chemo again. It nearly killed me last time. I would have done the Herceptin - that part was easy, but not the chemo. He just smiled, held me and said he'd stand by what ever I decided.
It wasn't triple positive - this time it was triple negative. I was still adamant - no chemo, and by now I knew soooooooo much more about bc because of this wonderful community. I was terrified. Chemo was going to decimate me. I was still on an AI from the first bc - and will be on it for the rest of my life according to my onc, and I have quite debilitating ses from it. I decided that at 59 quality of life was way more important that quantity.
I did see my onc, and by then I'd decided I should give chemo a go, if it got too bad, I'd just stop.
My onc prescribed three treatments of AC every three weeks and then 12 weekly doses of Taxol. I couldn't have four doses of AC as I'd already had three lots of Epirubicin (part of the FEC) the first time around and the A part of AC is a similar drug and you can only have a lifetime dose of six. I was terrified of the Taxol, because of the way I reacted to Taxotere last time. Well this time the AC nearly killed me - and every time I'd say I'm not going back. But I did. Then it was time for the Taxol. It was so much easier than the Taxotere had been. It wasn't without it's problems, my liver started to shut down, so we had to postpone treatments for a while, but I got there in the end.
Am I glad I did it? Yes - I'm still here, but have lots of problems that have been caused by chemo. But I'm living with them - they aren't so bad I wished I was dead.
If I found out I had it again, would I do chemo again? I really don't know. I mean that - I really don't know. It would probably depend on how old I was, and where the cancer was. If it was another breast (I know, we only have two - but for the sake of this argument and we had three!...) I would seriously consider it.
That's my story though - you have to decide for yourself if you want quality of life, quantity of life, fear that you've done the wrong thing, all the things that goes through our minds.
I have a friend who had very small "spots" of triple + bc in her breast and felt lucky that it was so small and not "too bad". She didn't have a taxane (either Taxotere or Taxol), just FEC and 12 months of Herceptin. She then refused an AI as she didn't want hot flashes. She is now stage IV and in a lot of pain. Another friend also didn't have the full treatment, and told me to be careful of taking an AI as it was the "devil's drug" and she's now passed away.
It's your choice, and no-one can make it for you. I would support you no matter what you decided. I do, however, support giving something a go before dismissing it. I know you've already had Herceptin and are getting pain from it? But I'm not sure if it's just one treatment or more.
Breast cancer reduces us to a quivering mess sometimes. No matter how intelligent, strong, brave - or whatever other descriptor you care to insert here - breast cancer steals our minds, our decision making processes, in my case it stole my self confidence and self assurance. Don't worry - I've got it back now!
You are probably at a point where you just have to make a choice and make it one you can live with for the rest of your life. Easy!! LOL!!
You are in my thoughts.
Trish
xoxox
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Hap - I hope you come up with a decision that you are happy with. I totally understand doing things on your own, will make everything so much harder for you.
Have you thought about having weekly Taxol and Herceptin? The weekly Taxol is so much easier to tolerate than a three weekly dose dense treatment.
Trishxoxo
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HapB - I've been away from my computer for a while and just want you to know that I'm sorry not to have answered your questions sooner and also to assure you that you are not alone. You have all of us!!!
Long before breast cancer, I had been diagnosed with left bundle branch block and also slight high b/p. My normal LVEF was 56 and I saw a cardiologist because my heart rate would get scary high at the gym. Fast forward to the age of 57 and b/c...
I didn't realize at the time that I had a decision to make regarding treatment. The onco said taxotere carboplatin herceptin every 3 weeks for 6 infusions, then herceptin alone for a year. An echo before treatment showed 56%. T/C was stopped after only 4 infusions, my body/labs prevented further chemo. I had 3 or 4 more H infusions and I was having breathing problems and my lower legs and feet were huge. An echo was done and my LVEF was down to 35%. I was told that I was banned from Herceptin forever. Although my cardiologist says that my LVEF is low 50's, I am currently taking both carvedilol and lisinopril "to protect my heart" and that I could very possibly develope future heart issues from the H and the radiation to the left side.
Even with all this, I would recommend going forth with the full treatment and insisting on an echo before each infusion. I wish they had checked me sooner than the standard 3/4 months.
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HapB,
I hope you make the right decision but no one here can make that for you. I have been following along and you have been given wonderful advice. Some you have taken and some you seem to just skip right over. I'm sorry but it sounds to me like you are wanting someone here to tell you "NO DO NOT TAKE CHEMO AGAIN" But honestly it is you decision and only yours. Sorry if you think I am being rude. I have done tons of research myself for my own type and stage. No matter the age of a person there is always the risk of recurrence. It is just a fact of life. We have all been dealt a crappy hand (some worse then others) How you decide to fight this crappy hand is all on your shoulders.
Again sorry if you think I am being rude. I wish you all the luck in this huge decision that you have to make.
Shelabela
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Hap, I would recommend seeing a cardiologist if you're concerned about your heart. My cardiologist said he recommends all patients be on some sort of medication prior to certain chemo and Herceptin/Perjeta. That is a practice that his office has recently started doing. It never hurts to get additional counseling when you're making such life changing decisions.
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just checking in. Hap...i have been reading along and all decisions are yours. God helps tremendously but we need to listen. Your body will tell you. Your mind will lead you, trust your instincts from the knowledge you have gained here. Looking back, my journey was tough then, now i am at a fairly good place. Tomorrow, who knows. Live today as God has given it to you, and don't worry, we are in His hands. And all of us B C. Survivors, we can only help with words, and prayers. Be survivors till your last breathe.
Maryann
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I agree with the sciatic pain. I have found the best relief with yoga stretching and a massage therapist that works it hard and does a stretch (Thai massage?). I have found great relief. I need to remember to do it monthly because it seems to be a long term side effect to Herceptin or the forever long Tamoxifen
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Yeah, I never knew how painful it was until it happened to me. I'm glad the massages are helping you with your sciatic pain. I wish I would have caught it early enough, but it appeared to be my herniated disc that was causing the problem. I wish I knew what caused it. I've never had a problem with my lower back or that nerve before being diagnosed with BC.
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HapB,
It's still not that clear to me. I've been reading other forum topics of people who have the same symptoms. None of them have been taking Herceptin.
Someone at my office has a totally different cancer. She's having the same issue as me. It's her L5-S1 disc that is ruptured. I gave her the name of my neurosurgeon. She has an appointment with him in a couple of weeks.
She went through chemotherapy for something else. Herceptin wasn't involved in her situation either.
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HapB - Obviously, once every 3 months was not enough for me. I went downhill fast. Afterwards, I had 36 rads and have been on Tamoxifen for 2-1/2 yeqrs. Since I didn't complete any of the recommended treatment, other than the rads, I'm scared not to take the Tamoxifen.
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HapB.... sometimes you have to eat what you can.... I know for me Lay's Potato's chips was the only thing that I could choke down and I've been drinking Country Time lemon aid.. Not something I normally eat ... but its that or lose too much weight..
My MO said during chemo she wasn't worried what I was eating as long as I got enough protein ... and fluids...
If ice cream is the only thing the woman can get down.... that's all she can do ... its high calorie and does have protein which she needs I'm betting ..and if she is having a lot diarrhea and nausea the sugar in the ice cream may help with her energy level ....
For me after chemo is a whole other ball game ... that's why I'm going to RD that specialize in cancer patients in Aug. ...
I already know how my eating habits are going to change.. just want her to fill in the blanks for me ....
But for right now..if its potato chips and lemon aid is all I can stomach then I'm going to eat it ... -
Ladies,
My time here is done... not mad .. just need to step back and focus on me and not the net so much...
Already have ask the Mods to take me off..
If you are on FaceBook..look me up.
I wish everyone the best..
Mucho Love
Denise Tordoff -
Denise. Sorry to hear, but understand. Take care, prayers for you. Will miss your input and insight.
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Being judgemental about what others choose to eat is not a good idea, but never more so than when they're in the midst of chemotherapy. I ate and drank things during TCHP and AC that ordinarily wouldn't see the inside of my kitchen. If someone had called me out on that I would have flown at them with claws and fangs bared.
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Thank you BJI
Look me up o FB tho
Blessings... and Healing -
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I am so new at the TP world that I have hesitated from becoming part of the recent kerfuffle concerning the role of sugar in cancer but I have to say I really don't get it.
Just as I was grateful to SpecialK's post on the importance of protein in the healing process I was equally grateful to HapB for pointing out how sugar can fuel cancer cells. I wasn't even thinking about the role of nutrition during cancer treatment because I have been too busy panicking and reading articles about HER2 treatment.
But attending to my nutritional needs is something I can try to control myself during this time when so much is out of my control. I'm not sure how successful I'll be as meals have taken a real hit since my diagnosis but now I am at least thinking about what I should be doing.
My bottom line is that I appreciate any knowledge I gain, from any source, without exception, so please keep it coming.
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I am so new at the TP world that I have hesitated from becoming part of the recent kerfuffle concerning the role of sugar in cancer but I have to say I really don't get it.
Just as I was grateful to SpecialK's post on the importance of protein in the healing process I was equally grateful to HapB for pointing out how sugar can fuel cancer cells. I wasn't even thinking about the role of nutrition during cancer treatment because I have been too busy panicking and reading articles about HER2 treatment.
But what I put into my body is something I can try to control myself during this time when so much is out of my control. I'm not sure how successful I'll be as meals have taken a real hit since my diagnosis but now I am at least thinking about what I should be doing.
My bottom line is that I appreciate any knowledge I gain, from any source, without exception, so please keep it coming.
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Actually, the role of sugar in encouraging cancer has been much discussed on BCO.org. It is very controversial, and many BCO.org members consider it to be junk science. For example, one opponent of this view is ChiSandy, who has often written about the fallacy that "sugar feeds cancer." As she notes, "Now, nobody needs sugar, especially not as sucrose or fructose or from refined carbohydrates that become simple sugar when acted upon by the enzymes in saliva and the gut. Sugar is responsible for a whole host of ills, from Type 2 diabetes to insulin resistance to reactive hypoglycemia to fat storage and inhibition of fat burning. But sugar--in the form of glucose, which the body turns it into, fuels ALL cells, not just cancer cells."
As for me, I ate chocolate chip cookies during chemo and saw all of my active cancer wiped out by chemo. To each their own!
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ElaineThere - It's not that I take everything/anything that is written here as fact, by any means, but posts about nutrition gave me food for thought, if you don't mind the pun. I'll read lots about the subject, draw my own conclusions, work out my own plan, and eat what I choose, but I'll still be grateful to SpecialK and HepB for opening this door for me.
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HapB - thanks for the resource list!
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HapB, no I didn't read the actual report, just viewed the video via Cancer Network - Journal of Oncology.
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