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  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Psalm 23King James Version (KJV)

    23 The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

    2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

    3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

    4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

    5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

    6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

    King James Version (KJV)

  • auroaya200882
    auroaya200882 Member Posts: 942
    edited October 2016

    Amen on those verses Nancy! Yes I'm still getting rads three more sessions to go. Last weekend was the worse I'm feeling better now I asked the doctor for more náusea medicine and they gave it to me. Also yesterday I started my new systemic treatment (Xeloda) which has its whole set of side effects so please pray they are mild or non-existent. Praying for each one here.

    Auror

  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited October 2016

    Nancy, your verses and banners always seem to be the right words at the right times. They are always comforting. I am feeling better, I think the lung infection is better. I still have some fatigue but I think it's just the SE's of the meds. Thank you for asking and praying for me and everyone here

    I haven't posted much because I'm having trouble with the keyboard on my iPad. There's a lag that drives me crazy ever since I updated it. I'm going to have to take it in but there's just too much going on to take the time to do it. I'm not sure if I congratulated you on getting your calendar published and into a gift shop. I hope it's selling well. You should be very proud of yourself. That's quite an accomplishment.

    I've been reading and praying for all the needs here as there seem to be so many. Satan is really working hard all over the world. We need to pray for our dear sisters who are so ill and have family problems too. It just doesn't seem fair. And we need to pray for this country, no matter who wins this election, I feel there will still be so much turmoil in this country and the world.

    May God bless us all,

    Love, Faith (in the future)

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Thank you Faith. I continue to pray for you. Computer problems when you are dealing with so much is very disappointing I am sure. After having my computer with the Geek Squad for several days a few weeks ago it is still not right.

    I am watching a nail biter with the Cubs and the Indians in the 7th inning stretch.

    My calendars are going over well. It is a gamble to know how to prepare if I need to put in another order or not. This is new territory for me for sure. I am just amazed at what the Lord has done and I am happy that it is published and out now. I put a ton of hours into this project but it was a lot of fun and a lot of work all at the same time.

    I am enjoying this weather. I still have flowers in bloom as if it was the middle of summer. Pretty unreal for this late in October but I am not complaining.

    Aurora, I am so glad to hear that you have been able to continue your rads and so glad to her you only have three more treatments. I will be praying for you new chemo drug. I hope the nausea meds will help you deal with all the SE's. I continue to pray for you.

    I hope you and all the ladies have a good weekend and that the stress that so many are going through can be alleviated by some pleasant distractions or better yet by a miracle of God.

    Love,

    Nancy


  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited October 2016

    Nancy, your post of Psalm 23 was an amazing conformation. I gave a testimony last night and opened with a meditation on that very psalm! Thank you.

    I am grateful this early morning that I was finally able to share with my hubby about what's going on with our granddaughter Alexia . Such a blessing to be able to share, comfort each other and pray for them. Please pray for my daughter and her husband as they decide what to do about the baby. Also for their marriage as they've been living apart since the my granddaughter had the breakdown in July. They have been married for 28 yrs and they say they're ok but I worry. I hope my daughter goes back home soon.

    Praying as I read the posts. Love , Jean

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Jean, I love it when God does those type of things.


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  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited October 2016

    Today I am grateful for a wonderful visit with the kids and my great granddaughter Valentina . It looks like they are leaning toward keeping her! We offered any help, financial, emotional, actual caregiving and anything else we could do. Please keep praying for them and my missing granddaughter. I also think we need to pray earnestly for the election and the future of our country. Hope you all had a blessed weekend. Love , Jean

  • tatatootsie62
    tatatootsie62 Member Posts: 86
    edited October 2016

    Charlotte, Nancy, Jean, Lita and all of my sisters on this website....sorry for radio silence but this past week has

    been anything but uneventful. My doctors where I work here in Huntsville, AL ( I am a nurse at a 6 surgeon ophthalmology

    practice) have overwhelmed me with support, love, friendship and you name it ! I have completed my pre-op labs, EKG and

    chest x-ray and am good to go. My surgery is Tuesday at 3 pm; I have a wonderful surgical team, and working in the medical

    field I sort of have carte blanche of who I want....and I have the two best surgeons in Huntsville. My co-workers and the

    doctors all wore pink on Friday in support and honor of me; I cannot begin to tell you how touching that was; I had all I

    could do to get through the day. My family is assured and at peace to know that I am loved and cared for by my peers. My church

    has set up a meal plan for me and my at home care-taker once I leave the hospital.....there are no words to express the happiness

    and gratitude that I feel in my heart. And most importantly, my heavenly Father has seen to it that everything has fallen into place for

    me.

    Charlotte, I am praying for your grand-daughter...I can relate to substance abuse; my youngest son went through a "mess" in

    his life, but triumphed over it.

    Lita, have you ever heard of "bone broth"? Amazon sells the powder form and it helps connective tissue problems...also taking

    turmeric twice daily is suppose to help inflammation from any joint or musculo-skeletal issue; I have tried it and the arthritis

    in my neck does not bother me as much as it use to. I have no oncology follow-up as yet, but it's coming soon pending the

    pathology results of my cancer and the lymph nodes, then my oncologist can better map out a proper care plan, I am confident.

    Praying for all, big hugs to all and will keep you posted, in Christian love, Patty.

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Ladies you might want to make note of these surgeries for prayers.

    Patty- Tuesday, November 1 surgery. Patty are you have a bilateral mastectomy. I thought so but please correct me if not.

    Charlotte- Thursday, November 3, Gallbladder removed and taking a break from her chemo for SE to subside,

    Ellen- November 17 hip replacement


    Patty, I am so glad that you are feeling so loved and supported. That makes a huge difference. We will be praying for you for you Tuesday surgery and future treatments.

    If I have any of these things wrong please correct me.

    Jean, continued prayers for your family.

    Joanne, continue prayers as you and your family deal with the overwhelming stress.

    Love,

    Nancy (Cubs win wooooooooohoooooooooo)


  • tatatootsie62
    tatatootsie62 Member Posts: 86
    edited October 2016

    Nancy, I am sorry that I have been "off radar" for a while but in response to your 10/23 post....my surgeon ordered an MRI because that

    is, and if it is not, it should be the protocol for "invasve lobular" carcinoma. My surgeon left general practice after several years and did another

    fellowship in breast cancer and now that is all he does is breast cancer surgery, as does his partner. I have had a second opinion and the

    second surgeon's "MO" is the same. I am glad that I did get the MRI because it revealed several other lesions undetectable by ultrasound.

    And I believe I have posted that because of this, the incidence of recurrence in the same breast is increased as it is in the fellow breast; my

    choice, after all options were given to me, was to have bilateral surgery with reconstruction. I have chosen not to be a "sitting duck" for the

    cancer to reoccur in the same breast by just having multiple lumpectomies, or for it to occur in the fellow breast. I don't believe that God is

    finished with me yet. There is a reason why I have been dealt " a bad hand"; and I am on track of figuring it out. Thanks for your prayers

    and moral support. Love, Patty.

  • tatatootsie62
    tatatootsie62 Member Posts: 86
    edited October 2016

    GO CUBS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After 108 years, this is their time to be in the limelight...on to WIN

    the 2016 World Series. As I was watching the game tonight, I saw my cousin, Joe Torre on

    camera view. He has done a lot for baseball as has his brother Frank. If you have not read

    the book, The Yankee Years, get it and read it....it's a great book. Mr. Steinbrenner was right

    to keep him as manager for so long.

  • tatatootsie62
    tatatootsie62 Member Posts: 86
    edited October 2016

    Nancy, don't you just love it when God makes a plan come together?

  • Lita57
    Lita57 Member Posts: 2,437
    edited October 2016

    Tata/Patty, I make my own bone broth in the crock pot, and I also use turmeric and drink a turmeric tea, its the only way I can walk :o).

    Lita

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Thanks Patty for the reply. I will be praying. I have just been hearing about bone broth from Dr. Axe (sp?) and I saw him with Jordin Rubin giving a pitch for bone broth protein powder which sounded interesting. I had read that Tumeric could interact badly with my AI so I sent back the bottle I had just ordered after reading that. I have fibromyalgia and pain from ???AI possibly. I am a lap swimmer and that helps. I am praying for you this week as well as for Charlotte.

    Lita, good for you for making your own bone broth. I see an alt doctor so have been into the alternative world for many years. However I have had many bad reactions to things with my AI which has been a bummer.

    Yes, it is high time the Cubs win a series. Then they will have to get rid of their title of the lovable losers!!!!

    Love,

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited October 2016

    Ade, praying for your DH, James and that he gets some answers to his mystery illness. Praying that you get encouraging news today at the doctor's apt.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • Faith-840
    Faith-840 Member Posts: 995
    edited November 2016

    Praying for everyone's needs here, especially those facing surgery.

    I am feeling most grateful tonight that my SIL has finally found a job after a year of being out of work.

    Thanking our dear Lord for answered prayers.

    God bless you all and may He send His healing grace into your lives.

    Love, Faith (in the future)

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Faith,

    That is great news about your SIL! Praying it will be all he has hoped for.

    Love

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Amen to those banners and scriptures, Joanne. Praying that your stomach problems will improve. Praying for a good nights sleep and some distraction from all of the stress you have been under.

    Praying for you Patty.

    Love,

    Nancy

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Patty, praying the the Lord will make your surgery and your recovery as smooth as possible. Praying for a successful surgery and for good pain control afterwards. As you start this journey I pray God will give you the needed strength to counter any challenges whether it be physical or emotional or spiritual.

    Charlotte, praying God will give you peace as you face your surgery this week too.

    Praying for all of you dear sisters today.

    Love,

    Nancy


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  • auroaya200882
    auroaya200882 Member Posts: 942
    edited November 2016

    Hi everyone, as always praying for the needs of everyone here. I just wanted to share that my daughter was hired today on the spot! It's not her ideal job but it can lead there. Please pray for her to be able to secure a permanent position as this one is temporary, but praise God! we really need the income.

    I have two more radiation sessions left, my knee still hurts when I walk though. I started my new oral chemo last week and so far there has been no negative se's. Please pray that this medication kicks the mets to the curb!

    Thank you my sisters.

    Aurora


  • quiltspice
    quiltspice Member Posts: 13
    edited November 2016

    Hello! I am new to this site..... just diagnosed last month with IDC, Right, Grade II, ER+/PR+, HER2-

    I am 59, ...... never in a million years did I expect to have BC!!!! I have had 4 melanomas, 2 Basal Cell Ca (one with skin grafting), and Cervical Cancer when I was pregnant 30 years ago! (refused hysterectomy/abortion). I keep thinking that I've met my cancer quota!

    I go tomorrow for my Plastics Consult and then surgery will be scheduled. Even though my tumor is small and at this point it looks like lymph nodes are not involved I'm opting for bilat Mastectomy with reconstruction..... I think they do muscle sparing Trams - I'll know more tomorrow. Not looking forward to surgery but I have a great Onc/Plastics team, and have a lot to be grateful for........I could not do this without the Lord... O' that Peace that transcends understanding.........

    Well....... I'm joining you all on this journey, learning so much from all the wonderful supportive women that have walked this road-testimonies, prayers, and encouragement are extremely helpful!!!!

    ~Tracey

  • SA8PG
    SA8PG Member Posts: 371
    edited November 2016

    Praying for you Aurora!!!! 2 more to go!!! Cancer die at the root in Jesus name!!! Thank you Lord for no side effects for our sister & for her daily blessings. Thank you for providing employment for her daughter. :)))

    Welcome to our group quiltspice I'm sorry we are meeting on here because of cancer but so thankful for the testimony you have of the Lord killing cancer for you twice before!!!! He did it before & He will do it again. :))))

    Blessings & Love to everyone. Praising God that it is November and that we are still here to give others Hope in the storm.

    God bless you all.

    G

  • zjrosenthal
    zjrosenthal Member Posts: 2,026
    edited November 2016

    Psalms 138:8
    The LORD will perfect that which concerneth me: thy mercy, O LORD, endureth for ever: forsake not the works of thine own hands.

    The above is for all of you, especially Jo. It gives me peace to know that if I am concerned about something, He is perfecting it!

    I am very grateful today for the chronic disease support group at my church. Love, Jean

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Aurora, that is GREAT news about your daughter. Will be praying for a permanent position but Praise God that He has supplied this one in the mean time. Praying you can finish these last two rads and so glad you are doing well on the chemo drug so far. Thank you Lord!!!

    Welcome Tracey. I am glad you found us here. I am sorry you are having to deal with another cancer but you will get through this and we will all be here to support you through your journey. Your little person in your Avatar is precious. A grandchild perhaps????

    G, glad to see your post and praying you are feeling better each day.

    Jean, praying for your family as they go through this difficult time.

    Joanne, praying for your family while this court case hangs over all of your heads.

    Patty, praying you are resting comfortably after your surgery and praying for a speedy recovery and good pain control over the next several days.

    Charlotte, as you get ready for your surgery praying that all goes well and that you have a very quick recovery from your gallbladder surgery and that you will be able to resume your chemo treatments as soon as you are able.

    Faith, praying for strength for you and praying your situation with insurance gets worked out.

    Take care dear sisters. Have a good night.

    Love,

    Nancy


  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited November 2016

    WOW I can't believe it! I have been trying all this time to post and couldn't log back in.

    I have read every one of your posts and have been praying for you all.

    I wanted to thank you again for praying for my James. Yesterday the Infectious Disease Specialist found NO abnormalities in his blood tests OR CT Scan! Just some "old spots" on his liver, spleen & lungs that the doc wasn't concerned about. The Lord answered our prayers! James is even getting more muscle strength! I am SO SOOO grateful! Now that I can get back in I shall return soon. Love to you all! Ade

  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Ade, that is GREAT news. So happy to hear nothing has been found that would be serious. I sure hope James continues to gain muscle strength.

    Love

    Nancy

  • quiltspice
    quiltspice Member Posts: 13
    edited November 2016

    Thank you Nancy, and I so appreciate the support that this forum offers! The picture is my granddaughter - almost 3 years ago- we have a new granddaughter now 3wks old (her sister) and I'll try to post that pic of her 'singing' as well. I have a lot to post and questions to ask but have a doctors appt this morning. oh..... the picture is huge..... sorry . Anyway...... Singing praises to the Lord!!!!

    ~Tracey

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  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    Let's pray for Charlotte for her gallbladder surgery for Thursday, Nov. 3. She is in the middle of chemo and has had so stop for bad SE so she definitely needs our prayers as she has a lot going on.

    Let's pray that Patty has a good and speedy recovery from her bilateral mastectomy yesterday.

    Ade, that picture is priceless. She could be practicing for either Miss America or The Voice. LOL Congratulations on your new granddaughter.

    Praying for you dear sisters.

    It is a rainy day here in the Chicago area but we are rejoicing at the Cubs win last night. They could make history tonight!!!!!

    Love,

    Nancy




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  • bandwoman1234
    bandwoman1234 Member Posts: 5,542
    edited November 2016

    You've got to listen to this. Amazing!!!!




  • Ade
    Ade Member Posts: 740
    edited November 2016

    Tracey - ADORABLE baby picture! Congratulations on your newest grandaughter! Hope your doctor appointment went well.

    Lord, our Healer, we lift up Charlotte to you right now and pray she has Your peace this night before her surgery. We ask that You grant the surgeon skill to perform a perfect surgery, and that Charlotte may have a complete rapid recovery without complications. We ask that when she goes back on her treatment that You would eliminate the side effects please and give her smooth sailing to defeating cancer. We also pray for those others who are recovering from their surgeries that You relieve the pain and facilitate fast, complete healing for them. To YOU be the glory! Amen

    Great posts, Nancy!

    Blessings upon your night, ladies and sweet dreams!

    Ade

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