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  • Wonderland
    Wonderland Member Posts: 3,288
    edited February 2010

    I didn't find BCO until after my mastectomy, chemo, rads, and delayed recon. I am inspired by all the brave, funny, brillant women here. The women on the Stage IV forum have given me more than I can ever give them - I have learned the most about life from them. Thank-you.

  • kathimdgd
    kathimdgd Member Posts: 268
    edited February 2010

    When i was diagnosed with BC,my surgeon suggested this site,so i'd have something to reference and people to talk with that had gone or were going through what i was about to do.He said he wanted me to be well informed,even though no 2 of us are exactly alike.I've been here ever since and have learned a whole lot about what we all go through,how to handle it etc.I've cried with some,laughed with others,and had MANY questions answered,so it's a GOOD THING !!!!!

    Kathi

    2-5-10

  • DebZaz
    DebZaz Member Posts: 50
    edited February 2010

    I felt so alone when first diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer but coming to this site and conversing with other women I felt not only NOT alone, I had hope for a longer future.  The women here are so strong and caring.  I love this site!

  • jenn3
    jenn3 Member Posts: 3,316
    edited February 2010

    When I was dx'd I knew nothing about cancer, much less BC........... BCO has given me the ability to learn more about BC from other women, as well as connect with people going through the same thing (chemo, radiation, surgery) or with the same stage.  On my worst days I knew I could come here and read other stories and information and know that I'm not crazy, this is what happens during treatment or start a topic to vent, ask a question or share a story and the BCO Sisters respond everytime with support. 

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited February 2010

    It has been a place of support, a place where I found information and a place of friendship - for some reason I didn't want to discuss things face to face. I have made the most wonderful group of friends who I can share feeling with and they know exactly what I mean. It is a wonderful place.

    Alyson

  • Ihopeg
    Ihopeg Member Posts: 399
    edited February 2010

    Breastcancer.org has been a lifesaver to me. When I was first diagnosed, I went on other websites that scared me to death. This website gives me a feeling of belonging to a huge support group any time I need them. Thank you so much for being here!!

  • pagowens
    pagowens Member Posts: 194
    edited February 2010

    Breastcancer.org gives me the support I need from people who truly understand where I am and what I am experiencing.

  • yellowrose
    yellowrose Member Posts: 886
    edited July 2010

    Our doctors may assure us that everything will return to "normal" after treatment but the fellow cancer warriors at Breastcancer.org provide sincere empathy and support that is crucial to emotional and physical healing.

  • echosalvaje
    echosalvaje Member Posts: 191
    edited February 2010

    Breastcancer.org has given me a resource that stimulates a proactive approach to my disease and treatment. Even the best minds in medicine don't have all the answers and haven't been able to corral all the subtleties each of us feels in our different experiences. I am grateful to have this information at my fingertips should I choose to seek it.

  • Annie62
    Annie62 Member Posts: 1,081
    edited February 2010

    BCO has been a great source of information during and after my treatment. I got better information on how to treat SEs from chemo from posts here than I did from my oncologist. I was able to offer good information on the radiation forum as well. And the mojo thread has made me realize that I am not alone and I need to take charge of my QOL.

    It has also offered reassurance that my treatment plan in general was a good one for me.

     Thanks BCO!

    Annie

  • lkc
    lkc Member Posts: 1,203
    edited February 2010

    BCO has been an incredible support sytem, providing me with accurate information and a wonderful caring network of fabulous women.

  • DCMom
    DCMom Member Posts: 624
    edited February 2010

    BCO has been where I dump my fears, express my thoughts, and am able to be a part of the club.  Breast Cancer stinks, but these woman are absolutely incredible and have been my support whenever the "bad" things start coming into my mind.

  • Joviangeldeb
    Joviangeldeb Member Posts: 213
    edited February 2010

    Breastcancer.org provides me a with a wealth of information, understanding and support. Thank you.

  • LindaLou53
    LindaLou53 Member Posts: 929
    edited March 2010
    Breastcancer.org has VERY successfully filled the gap currently present in the medical community’s ability to share comprehensive treatment information with full disclosure and to also provide meaningful ongoing support to newly diagnosed women!
  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited March 2010

    This is all SOOOOO great to hear. Thank you all for taking the time to share!! It means alot to us, and helps us to convey your words to potential donors who we desperately need to keep our site humming. 

    Warmest wishes,

    Melissa and Team

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 2,298
    edited March 2010

    1. I thought I was alone, until I found breastcancer.org.

    2. When in doubt, go to breastcancer.org.

    Both, heartfelt.

    Thank you for being here. A million times, thank you.

    Traci

  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited March 2010

    I love this Traci, it should be on a t-shirt Laughing

     Traci

    When in doubt, go to breastcancer.org.

  • Zzap
    Zzap Member Posts: 77
    edited April 2010

    I came here when first diagnosed and going through treatment.  I don't come as often now, but check in from time to time.  I've made some lasting friendships and learned that I am not alone.  This site is awesome!

  • fighting4mykids
    fighting4mykids Member Posts: 69
    edited April 2010

    BreastCancer.org has given me a place to come to feel okay to just be me and share my thoughts and worries without judgement. It has given me a place to find real information from amazing women facing the same horrible disease as I. Thank you!

  • Daisymay333
    Daisymay333 Member Posts: 2
    edited April 2010

    Has any one had brest cancer spreadto their bones?Please help

  • bettysgirl
    bettysgirl Member Posts: 938
    edited May 2010

    BC.ORG is a gold mine of EXCELLENT information and filled with EXCEPTIONAL women and men who are all going through the BC journey together. For so many of us it has been a lifeline of information and support and has helped us forge friendships that will never be forgotten.

    Thank you for such a WONDERFUL website!!

  • Laurie_R
    Laurie_R Member Posts: 262
    edited May 2010

    I love the verity of threads and all the information. And it gives me a place where I can ask questions and not feel like an ideot.  I also am free to give support and possibly help someone who is going through where I've already been

  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 6,416
    edited May 2010

    Oh how do I put a 5 paragraph answer, into a few words?????

    I needed knowledge and I needed it fast.

    I needed someone " real"  to tell me I was not alone at my age...

    I needed a place to read and lurk...  and reach out for help....even at 3 am.

    I am thankful for the Hospital I go to.. that told me to come to BCO

    I am thankful to have met everyone I have met...

    I am now, two yrs later... thankful that I am alive.. to still be hear to now... talk to other new sisters who need us...." old timers"

    THANK YOU BCO!

  • slh_tn
    slh_tn Member Posts: 61
    edited May 2010

    There are so many decisions to make after you are diagnosed with breast cancer.  Because others have shared their stories, I have been prepared for each step.  During a time that is so out of control, it is so comforting to have some control and to know that you are not the only one experiencing this crazy disease.  

  • RIV54
    RIV54 Member Posts: 359
    edited May 2010

    BCO has been a place where I could feel that I am not alone and there is someone who understands where I've been.

  • snowyday
    snowyday Member Posts: 1,478
    edited June 2010

    Breast cancer .org has saved my sanity throughout my cancer experience, without the members giving me knowledge I would have been in big trouble with my treatment and healing.

  • AsiaYM
    AsiaYM Member Posts: 2,216
    edited June 2010

    I am so grateful that I found support and comfort here.  Thanks a million.

  • certified
    certified Member Posts: 13
    edited April 2011

    Information, information, information.  I had no idea even of what questions to ask my onc.  Since finding breastcancer.org 2 weeks ago I have spent many many hours reading the various forums.  I see my onc this Friday and have a list of questions I want answers to.  Thank you all for being there.

  • jennyboog
    jennyboog Member Posts: 1,322
    edited April 2011

    I need BC.org, it gets me through each day. 

  • Katarina
    Katarina Member Posts: 386
    edited April 2011

    I'm one month into this diagnosis. I spend more time on breastcancer.org than doing anything else. Your real stories, advice and not just doctor talk give me solace. Thank you all so much!!

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