Celebrate with me - another milestone!
A mundane and yet momentous occasion - renewing my driver's license today. How well I remember at my 4/06 diagnosis assuming I would expire long before my license did! Part of my healing process has been trying SO HARD to be grateful for every single day I am given to live. Staying connected to these discussion boards has helped me re-focus whenever I start to stray down that dark path (which happens all too often!)
Thank you everyone for giving me a place to shout this out...
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YAY! Congrats Julie! I understand how good it feels to see another year come around and still be NED. Feelings of amazement and gratitude and the hope that there may actually be a long future ahead!
CELEBRATE! Remember how strong you are to get to where you are now and don't turn back. ONWARD!
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CONGRATULATIONS! Doing the Happy Dance for you! Tami
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drive on!
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You have a great reason to smile and say "cheese" for your photo ID. Congratulations!!!!
Moissy
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so good to hear this!!! Thanks for sharing!!!
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Julie-
I thought I was the only person who thought that. In fact, the last time I renewed my license I was bald but wearing a wig. Everytime I have to take out that license I think of how I did not care what I looked like because I figured it was my last time to renew anyway. It is almost time to renew mine too.
Congrats. I know how hard the after treatment crap is.
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That's awesome, Julie! Congrats!
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Funny how things change for us - bet you were smiling the whole time you waited for that license. Thanks for sharing.......Congratulations!!!!!!
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what's funny is when clerks look at my driver's photo (with hair) and then at me quizzically.
it's been different.
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Julie...congrats!!!!! we can do mail in drivers license renewal here in Colorado. I don't remember when I last renewed my driveres license, but I did it by mail and it was a pretty good picture....and I know it was before BC Dx....but last spring, I lost my drivers license, so I had to get my picture taken and it is awful.....a couple months later, my old license showed up in the mail. Hate showing my id to anyone!!!
But congrats on a milestone.....our Dx are similar...my 4 year is coming up next month.
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Julie, Each day that passes teaches us in little ways to allow ourselves to believe we have a future. I understand so well what it means to have the "mundane" milestones. I have mine, too, and today is a very big one for me. Congratulations, drive on!!!!!
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hi julie
happy dance and yes, SHOUT it out** YAY**
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sugarplum, you go girl! Vroooom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Leah
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Hip Hip Hooray! License renewal day....and wishes for many more. Beep Beep!!!!
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Yipee! Good for you - keep on truckin'!!
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THANKS TO ALL!!! Funny thing about the license picture - I purposely renewed by mail this time because that picture is my last link to the "old me" (straightened blond hair in a pageboy that I wore most of my adult life). Since treatment I've been superstitious enough to keep it super-short, in case it all has to fall out again - AND it grew in dark! If anyone questions whether the license is me, I'll be more than happy to tell them my cancer tale...!
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Congrats!!!
Great that such things can make us so happy!!!
That reminds me, I have to renew my passport in a few months.
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Congrats, sugarplum! I had to renew my license in October in the middle of my radiation treatments and taking a picture with my wig on. I remember thinking at the time that I hope I'm there at the DMV 5 years from now to renew it again.... Never thought I'd be so excited about an upcoming DMV appt in 5 years but such is the life of cancer patients, hoping, praying, and dreaming for time. Glad to hear you've made it this far! And I hope for many more license renewals for you!
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Congratulations!.......Now look ahead to the next renewal!.......I actually bought myself a new car to keep me motivated because as long as I still owe on that car I CAN"T expire!...LOL......So happy to hear such great news form you!.......
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My renewal came due in August when I was still in the midst of dx and figuring out tx. I had really wanted to get the WA enhanced DOL so I wouldn't have to remember my passport when we go visit the kids in Vancouver (BC - not the one by you!) but I didn't want to get my picture re-taken with the deer in the headlights look wondering about my future. So I also opted for the mail renewal. A couple of times, crossing the border, I've gotten those multiple glances at my picture and me -- you can just read their minds -- so we volunteer the information that I'm going through chemo and it's a wig. Someday I'll get the enhanced but not till I get my real hair back and I can really look forward.
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