I,m very alone too

hopeinfitcher

hello,ladies.I,m in same boat with you.Feel very alone and scare.I need somebody talk about my disses.I moved to US about 9 y.ago,my English no good.).I live alone,no husband,no children.Want to find friends on this board

  Zina

Anonymous

Zina...Well, keep posting and tell us how we can help. It's especially hard being alone when we go through everything associated with a cancer diagnosis!

If you can accept us as "cyber-friends," then, you won't be truly alone, will you?

~Marin

j414

Zina

Also look into joining a support group in your city. A lot of groups have weekly meetings, events and provide services. This board provides phone numbers to locate a group in your area (see the link below).

Best,
J

http://www.breastcancer.org/questions/support.jsp

hopeinfitcher

 hello,Marin.thank you for response.I now steel on treatment.-about 15 ahead.I feel no very bad(tfu,tfu tfu).How do you feel?On the picture you look good.I attend support group,but at home I feel very alone.It,s very petty,everybody single ladies from this site live very far from me.Every morning I go for treatment,but today they coiled me-no treatment because machine broken.Now,you my a new friend and I,m glad I can talk about my desiase with other ladies who was diagnosed this desiase .Be strong to . Write me and be strong to. Marin,I,m sorry,if I write no correctly.    Zina

hopeinfitcher

good morning,J.Thank you for information.I attend support group,but at home I feel very alone.About 1,5 month ago I broke my car and can,t take bas so far...Before,I often went to movie or somewhere ,but now ...How do you doing? everything okay? I wish you all best!I,m glad,I found this site.Now ,I have new friends.very sad,we live  far from each other...In groups,I attend all ladies married,after meeting they go home. J,I wish you all best and God bless you! write me,if you have a time.   Zina

sheila888

Zina...You will always have friend in these boards.

I live alone have 2 daughters and an ex husband. May I ask what is your language. I moved to US when was 20.

You can only posts 4 times in 24 hour until you reach 50 posts. You can PM anyone of us if you need it. Top of the page on the right side it says Private Messages click that and follow what it tells you to do.

<<<<<Hugs >>>>>

 Sheila

LittleRed

Dear Zina:

When I first came to these boards I was lonely, scared, and very sad.  I'm still struggling with those feelings, but the wonderful women here have shared, encouraged, and helped me find hope.  There's great kindness here.

I also contacted the American Cancer Society and they were able to connect me to a volunteer breast cancer survivor that lived near me and that I could talk to.  We spoke by phone and emailed for weeks.  We finally met for 'coffee and a hug' a week ago.  You can call 1-800-227-2345 to see if they have a volunteer near you or that you can talk with on the phone.

If you reach out to the other women here they will share and help.

You've come to a good place.  You are not alone. 

Hang in there - be good to you.

Anonymous

Hi Zina! I PM'd you back, but just want to add that I think the idea of finding another survivor in your city is a very good one. You might also ask if they have a social worker or counselor at the clinic or hospital where you have treatments because he or she could hook you up with some of the groups in the area where you can meet other survivors too.

I understand also about going home alone when all of the other women in your group are married and have families to return to. Just try to stay busy with us here or reading some good, light, fun books (in your native language?) or renting some fun & funny movies. This period in your life WILL soon pass and you can get back to some "normal" living and finding connections in your local area.

Hang in there, Zina. It seems much worse now, but please know that the sun will shine once again for you!

~Marin