Getting Married :)

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Anonymous
Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
edited June 2014 in LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer

Hi all...I keep forgetting about the Lesbian threads in this place!

I just wanted to share that after being together with my sweet-half for 10 years we are getting married LEGALLY this Saturday!  We did have a ceremony in 2001 but because it wasn't legal in the govt eyes then it didn't "count" ...well, it did for us but you know how it is.

We met online 10 years ago (she's from USA and I'm from Canada)...within 3 months she had sold EVERYTHING (house, boat, brand new truck, and all her belongings) and moved to Canada with me.

We have had an amazing 10 years...she's been with me through my cancer dx and STILL loves me lol (even Frankenboobie and the Lone Ranger).

I just thought I'd share...some of you know me...some of you don't...but it's always nice to know one can have a same-sex married legally!

Hugs

Peggy

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  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited May 2009

    I'm crying tears of joy for you. Thanks for coming here to share your joy with us.  Hearing about one of us getting married and having that marriage legally recognized is such a joy. I saw a clip of the first couple to be married in Iowa last week, the women got up at 4:00 am to stand in line to be the first Iowans to tied the know, they were hooting and hollering and woooooohooooing and saying, "we're married. we're married."  That's what equality is all about.

    Are you going away for a honeymoon? Please post pics of the ceremony, I'm dying to see them,

  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Member Posts: 4,484
    edited May 2009

    Peggy, congratulations!!!!!!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    Yes many congrads Peggy!!!!!!!!!

  • dee1961
    dee1961 Member Posts: 1,672
    edited May 2009

    Hoping you have many many more happy years together...Congratulations!!

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited May 2009

    Ain't love grand!  Congrats and best wishes, Sige!

    Linda

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    Congratulations Peggy...  having your marriage be legally recognized is a wonderful thing!

    Hugs,

    Doreen 

  • FeyLynn
    FeyLynn Member Posts: 19
    edited May 2009

    Congratulations - My wife and I were married in 2005 - it is such an awesome experience.

    All the best to you both.

    Peace

    Lynn

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    peggy,

    congratulations on your upcoming wedding,

    may you have much continued happiness together!

  • Iza
    Iza Member Posts: 117
    edited May 2009

    Oh I am SO happy for you! Congratulations, and a big hug to both,

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    Thanks all...I'll post some pics afterwards :)

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited May 2009

    going to the chapel and you're going to get married.....

    going to the chapel of looooooooooove.

    (though chapel is metaphoric, elvis could be marrying you in vegas for all the difference it makes).

  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Member Posts: 4,484
    edited May 2009

    Hi Peggy,

    I'm guessing your new avatar is a wedding-day picture?  Beautiful!  So happy for you!!!

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited May 2009

    Details. Details please :). Congrats.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    Okay, here are a couple of shots from the wedding...it was amazing!!!

    This is me and my lady...

    ...and us again...

    Here's a shot she took of us and our new granddaughter...

    ...and me and my beautiful sisters...

    And one last one of Helene and I...

    ...oh one more :)

    It was fabulous!  The weather was PERFECT...everyone I wanted there was there...and we had so much fun!

    Hugs

    Peggy

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited May 2009

    Beautifuls pictures, Peggy!  Thanks for sharing them with us.  Everyone looks SO happy, and I'm thrilled that you were able to "plight your troth" in our country.

    Warm wishes to you both,  Linda

  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Member Posts: 4,484
    edited May 2009

    OMG!  You are all so beautiful!  Fantastic pictures -- they really convey so much love and happiness!

    And I love that overhead "kiss" photo of you and Helene in B&W on the green grass, amid the green trees!  That would be an amazing photo even without the color effect!

    Thanks!  and congratulations, again!!!!!

    Hugs,

    Ann 

  • She
    She Member Posts: 503
    edited May 2009

    Incredible photos of a gorgeous couple!  Wishing you many, many years of joy, laughter and love!

    Blu

  • NoH8
    NoH8 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited May 2009

    Wow- what wonderful pictures. Did you have a professional photographer? I love the one under one last photo-- black and white on color... they are amazing and you guys are gorgeous.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2009

    Thanks all - Amy, yes we have a good friend who is a professional photographer :)  We were lucky - she took about 130 photos and it only cost us $200.  She did an amazing job making us look fabulous!

  • melonira
    melonira Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2009
    i am so happy for u. thats great!!!! hope u all the luck in the worldCool
  • melonira
    melonira Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2009
    i am so happy for u. thats great!!!! hope u all the luck in the worldCool
  • melonira
    melonira Member Posts: 5
    edited November 2009

    U GUYS LOOK GREAT.

  • casaredonda
    casaredonda Member Posts: 37
    edited December 2009

    congratulations on your marriage.

    My partner and I got married june 2008 while it was legal in California.  As of Nov 4th it's no longer legal but all the marriages between June and Nov are still legal at least in California.

    We've been together for 29 wondeful years.  We live in a redneck rural county so we rushed off to another county which is more liberal to get our license as soon as we could. I was so delighted to have been able to take this step as I honestly never thought it would really happen.  In fact, we thought of going to Canada to have a ceremony even if it's not recognized in the US just to have a wedding.

    wishing all of you a happy and healthy new year

  • dee1961
    dee1961 Member Posts: 1,672
    edited January 2010
  • Cherylis
    Cherylis Member Posts: 20
    edited April 2010

    I'm a little slow in reading all the threads!  My partner and I were married in May 2009.  The avetar is a picture of our newly pedied toes as we left the train station on our way to Toronto.  The first leg of the trip was the train from Vancouver to Toronto, 4 wonderfully relaxing days in our own little cabin!  We flew to Ireland from there. 

    We'll be celebrating our 1st anniversary with chemo behind me/us and our future ahead!  Laughing

  • wingedheart1952
    wingedheart1952 Member Posts: 7
    edited March 2010
    MANY Congratulations!!!  I am the lesbian sister of a woman with stage III breast cancer.  I came here looking for help for her and support for me as her main support source.  She doesn't have computer access.  I was so pleasantly suprised to find this forum and so very happy to see your post with wedding pictures yet!!  I hope you and your woman have many years together of wonderful wedded bliss!  Again, congratulations.

    Hugs and blessings,
    Sally
  • apple
    apple Member Posts: 7,799
    edited March 2010

    warmest congratulations.. i have many gay friends (and a sib) and know how many of them long to legally marry.  your pictures are Lovely

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