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I am scheduled for a unilateral mastectomy Wednesday May 6th. Onc. said I will definetly need chemo, not sure about rads yet. But Onc. doesnt know what kind of chemo yet and for how long. PS wont do recon until I have stopped smoking for minimum of 6 weeks ( I am not doing very well with quitting right now). PS told me 6 weeks out of work for recon.
So my question is does anyone know about how long I will be out of work? Will they throw me back to work while doing chemo? Will I be out for a few weeks then go back, then be out again. I would rather just stay out till it is all done.
Confused again, it seems like as soon as my head is clearer from one thing I find another thing to obsess about. Hense the name AKA Sybil.
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Deborah (Sybil) - I did not have a mastectomy (lumpectomy recommended for me) and am doing CMF chemo. From what I have read, working thru chemo is not that bad. I could easily work thru chemo (CMF is not very tough). Many women work thru the T/C etc. with little issue - some organize their schedule once they know what days are harder, so if day 9 is tough, they work backwards to decide what day of the week they should do their infusion so they can have a weekend to recover.
Did you know that there is a stop smoking support thread? I don't smoke, but have read that smoking will interfere with healing and chemo. Check out that thread - it seems like those women are doing well and very supportive to each other - plus will have some great advice for you on all of the above.
I wanted to respond because I do know how confusing and scary this ride is - once you are in treatment and thru surgery it will become easier - I promise. It still SUCKS but at least you are in treatment, have a plan, etc. etc.
Hang in there!
Susan
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I have been out of work for the last four months due to the side effects of chemo. I go every three weeks and for four hours get the strongest cancer chemo there is. My cancer is aggressive so the medication I am on keeps me home from work, near the restroom and hardly eating fearing it will not stay down. I have two more treatments and will probabkly not return to work until July. I am bored but look good from what my visitor friends tell me. I praise God every day for giving me strength to get up and face it. God loves you as we do so stay strong and positive.
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Deborah/Sybil
I am having unilateral mastectomy on May 11. My BS said I will need chemo and rads. I asked how long I will be away from work and she said I should allow for 6 months. I was a bit taken aback by this, but she said that as I work with young adults I will be putting myself at risk of infection if I go back too soon. My cancer seems to be quite aggressive so my chemo probably will be too.
I expect I will also get bored Teresa, especially as one of my favourite activities, gardening, is going to be out of the question for a while due to risk of infection.
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