TenderIsOurMight, you are loved
I know that Tender NEVER offers her advice with the intent of receiving gratitude and praise.
I know that Tender NEVER offers gentle support and comfort with the intent of getting tons of comfort back.
I know that Tender really knows her stuff, and is willing to share it in the most amazingly loving manner.
Tender, I know that you don't expect this public post of gratitude, but I want to say THANK YOU.
I have been asking Tender directly for quite some time when I have a question, and she ALWAYS answers. What a precious, precious human being.
(PS-I also know that there are many other women on this site who also offer fantastic medical advice, and please don't think that you have gone unnoticed!)
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Amen!
Thank you Tender!
Laura
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I totally agree... and think that we are sooooo fortunate to have Tender in our midst!!
Doreen
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Tender was one of the first people to reach out to me, she is a wise ol' rock for all of us and we are blessed to have her!
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I also want to send a warm THANK YOU to Tender........your name expresses it all!
Love Always,
Terry
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Ohhh, how gracious of you! I just logged on and was going through the posts when I came to this one. Thank you for your very kind words, all of you.Being involved here with bc.org is an honor for me. The site is one of the best on breast cancer, with their experts so willing to share, and the format easy to stay up to date on breast cancer. This discussion forum shows breast cancer as it truly is: not glossy, not easy, with tremendous lows and tremendous highs, and support eternal from women and men on this board.I look forward each day to coming to this forum. Thank you for your kind words. I have a big smile on my face.
Tender -
I ditto what everyone else says.
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Tender, you are the best. You are an angel in this journey. You have helped me more than you know. Maryiz
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Ditto.....
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I appreciate all the support of Tender
and everybody else who is there to hold hands when I need to be plucked from the ceiling again

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Agreeing with everyone here, Tender! You are one special person, and I appreciate all you do.
Jennifer
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Tender, I do hope you realize how much we all appreciate your kindness and generosity. I lean on your shoulder more than you realize.
otter
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Oh, my gosh! Thank you, Tender! You are definitely loved and appreciated! Here's a BIG hug for you!
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Amen to that! Thank you tender for always being there to lend a guiding thought, or support everyone whether they need it or not. Just being here and offering words of wisdom....we all appreciate it!

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Tender you add to everyone's life. We are all grateful to you.
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Thanks, Tender!! You have helped ALL of us so VERY much!!
Harley
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I have to add my heartfelt Thank You, too! When the economy seems to be going all to heck, it's amazing how much we receive here, absolutely free. A kind word, a cyber hug, that soft shoulder to lean on when we need it most. These "gifts" are truly priceless. With the holiday season coming up, the gift of time is truly shared here...
Linda
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I agree. Tender is a very warm, wise and intelligent woman. Your presence here is a blessing.
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SO glad you posted this and the opportunity to openly appreciate a beautiful person!
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Amen whoopsiedoodles.
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I agree. I have learned so much from Tender's posts.
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Tender
We look forward to you coming each day to this forum
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Tender.... you're the sweetest!
Miss S
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Tender, you are such a wonderful asset on these boards. Thank you so much for all your help. You are a truly compassionate person.
many hugs,
celia
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Tender, you always seem to know exactly what to say. It's true. Have long admired you.
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Spirited on with your very kind and always encouraging words.It's always nice to hear the simple words "thank you".Thank you all,Tender
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I would like to add my thanks to Tender - I have learned so much from her wise posts. We are very lucky to have her with us on this journey.
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Dear Tender,
Friend to all, gracious and kind supporter of all who come here. Much love to you.
Bren
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Just wanted to add..thanks Tender!
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I can't agree more with all the other posts.
Blessings to you Tender for your tender and giving heart.
Trish
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