A wonderful email from my sister to the bc.org sisters.

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snowyday
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Just so you know ......


       A  young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day,

       drinking  iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As

       they  talked about life, about marriage, about the

       responsibilities of life and the obligations of

       adulthood,  the mother clinked the ice cubes in her

       glass  thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance

       upon  her daughter



       'Don't  forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling

       the  tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll

       be  more important as you get older. No matter how

       much  you love your husband, no matter how much you

       love  the children you may have, you are still going

       to  need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now

       and  then; do things with them.'



       'Remember  that 'Sisters' means ALL the women...

       your  girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other

       women  relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women

       always  do.'



       What  a funny piece of advice!' the young woman

       thought.  Haven't I just gotten married?

       Haven't  I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a

       married  woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely

       my  husband and the family we may start will be all I

       need  to make my life worthwhile!'


       But  she listened to her Mother. She kept contact

       with  her Sisters and made more women friends each

       year.  As the years tumbled by, one after another,

       she  gradually came to understand that her Mom really

       knew  what she was talking about. As time and nature

       work  their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,

       Sisters  are the mainstays of her life.


       After  more than 50 years of living in this world,

       here  is what I've learned:


       THIS  SAYS IT ALL:



       Time  passes.

       Life  happens.

       Distance  separates.

       Children  grow up.

       Jobs  come and go.

       Love waxes and wanes.

       Men  don't do what they're supposed to do.

       Hearts  break.

       Parents  die.

       Colleagues  forget favors.

       Careers  end.

       BUT.........


       Sisters  are there, no matter how much time and how

       many  miles are

       between  you. A girl friend is never farther away

       than  needing her can reach.


       When  you have to walk that lonesome valley and you

       have  to walk it by yourself, the women in your life

       will  be on the valley's rim, cheering you on,

       praying  for you, pulling for you, intervening on

       your  behalf, and waiting with open arms at the

       valley's  end.


       Sometimes,  they will even break the rules and walk

       beside  you...Or come in and carry you out.



       Girlfriends,  daughters, granddaughters,

       daughters-in-law,  sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers,

       Grandmothers,  aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended

       family,  all bless our life!


       The  world wouldn't be the same without women, and

       neither  would I. When we began this adventure called

       womanhood,  we had no idea of the incredible joys or

       sorrows  that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we

       would  need each other.


       Every  day, we need each other still. Pass this on

       to  all the women who help make your life meaningful.

       I  just did. Short and very sweet:


       There  are more than twenty angels in this world.

       Ten  are peacefully sleeping on clouds. Nine are

       playing.  And one is reading her email at this

       moment.

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  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 2,298
    edited August 2008

    Pearl,

    This made me tear up....

           When  you have to walk that lonesome valley and you

           have  to walk it by yourself, the women in your life

           will  be on the valley's rim, cheering you on,

           praying  for you, pulling for you, intervening on

           your  behalf, and waiting with open arms at the

           valley's  end.

     Thanks for posting this.

    Where have you been anyway????????? How are you doing?

    Hugs, Traci

  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited August 2008

    Pearl,

    And I say Amen!!! All so true.

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