First mammo since diagnosis
Hi everybody,
I go in next Wed the 27th for my mammo. I am starting to stress. I spent an oblivious food and drink filled summer on the beach and now I am back to reality. Anyway, I was just hoping I could get my LCIS sisters to send out some good thoughts and prayers for a clean mammo. I am going to ask my surgeon for an MRI - we have new insurance and it will be a year in Nov since my last one. His office called yesterday and he wants to see me after my mammo. I am concerned that the mammo won't pick up anything....
Thanks to all!
Kimber
Comments
-
As we know, stress is so hard to deal with - at least for me.
Keeping my fingers, legs, arms, and eyes crossed for a totally BORING outcome.
Let us know how it goes, OK?
-
Here's sending good vibes your way. And I hope they approve the MRI as well. Best wishes. - Jean
-
Thanks leaf and Jean! I will keep you posted. I hate the stress of this monitoring.
-
Kimber---I'm right there with ya! my mammo is Sept. 18th and I've already been thinking about it way more than I should. (but less than I used to, so I guess I'm getting used to this). Ya know, it took me nearly 3 years to get my oncologist to agree to MRIs--he was very concerned about the high rate of false positives and the resulting biopsies and anxiety that goes along with all that. But I was willing to deal with that possibility and I let him know I felt it was very important since I have a combined high risk from LCIS and family history (mom had ILC) and I wanted to be proactive; now he seems very adamant that I continue with the MRIs. (acts like it was his idea instead of mine!!!! (lol) I haven't had any problem with the insurance covering the MRIs, but they recently said they will not approve payment for genetic testing for me since I "don't fit the ACS criteria". I alternate my mammos and MRIs every 6 months and I'm seen by my oncologist every 6 months on the opposite scedule, so I'm "seen" by some method every 3 months which goes a long way for peace of mind. Praying for good results for both of us--let me know how it goes.
Anne
-
Hi everybody,
My mammogram today was clear! So I am good for another 3 months, I guess, when I have an MRI. I am considering another opinion, however, and I am still not convinced I don't want PBM's. The stress of the monitoring sucks! I thought I could handle it, but my very nervous stomach and overactive mind tell me differently!
Thanks for the good thoughts, and leaf, I hope your eyes didn't stay that way!! (crossed)
Kimber
-
Kimber---that's wonderful news! Is there anyway they can spread your tests out so you're on a 6 month alternating schedule? While the worry never goes completely away, it does get a little easier with the passage of time.... How are you doing with the tamoxifen?
Anne
-
Hi Anne,
I am doing OK on the tamoxifen. My tests are supposed to be every 6 months, but I am going to request an MRI soon since I have new insurance and it will actually be a year in Nov since my last MRI. I don't know if my surgeon will go for it. I have so many doctors in different places, I feel like I need to get to a all-in-one breast center. I am going to look into it. It might ease my mind somehow!
Thanks for checking in with me!
Kimber
-
Great news Kimber,
I think I am going to hate the monitoring as well. May I ask how one convinces an oncologist that a yearly MRI is order. Mine is only reccommending a yearly mammogram. I am not too comfortable with that. It seems to me that so many invasive lobular cancers are missed on mammograms (like my aunt).
Jen
-
Jen---It took me nearly 3 years to convince my oncologist to order an MRI--he was against them initially due to the high rate of false positives and the resulting biopsies and anxiety that goes along with them. I don't know if he had a change in his actual medical beliefs (he may have over time since the ACS has changed their recommendations for MRIs), or if I just wore him down over time bringing up the subject!!!! But now that I've been having them for the past 2 years (alternating with mammos every 6 months and take tamoxifen--high risk from combination of LCIS and family history), he is glad and sometimes acts like it was his idea!!! (LOL). The ACS doesn't recommend them specifically for LCIS, but they do recommend them for women with a lifetime risk of over 20 to 25% and I'm way above that. Sit down and talk with your oncologist about your risk and your feelings regarding MRI. I told him I would rather have them and deal with the possible false positives than miss something. (Actually I have had some "spots" they were watching, but since f/u mammos and US were clear, biopsies were not needed.
Anne
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team