in your 50's what is your experience with Viagra sex???

soccermom

in your 50's what is your experience with Viagra sex???

soccermom

I am curious how many men use this and what do the girsl think?? my current bF used it with awesome results when we first met for a month or two, then stopped after a bad reaction to cialis..talk a bout shifting into low gear..

I have to "work" a little now to get things going..was it false advertising on his part to do this?? but then it's false advertising on my part when he saw my great breasts in clothes vs naked!! I love him like crazy and want to make it work. don't want to talk too much about it, we are only 5 months in to it, don't want to make him self-conscious

Anonymous

OK, I need to think about this one. My current guy doesn't take anything and doesn't need to, but my 3 boyfriends before him needed something, but only one took Viagra with okay results. The only thing I hated about that was the same thing I hated about one who didn't take it, but took antidepressants....they could absolutely get it up, but couldn't get it off. Now don't get me wrong....I adore sex....but GEEZ, after an hour or more of pumping away, I'm ready to turn on Jay Leno! Now the third guy who was older (59), had trouble getting it going, but that was only in the beginning (opposite of false advertising?) because, I guess, he had performance anxiety. Once I made it clear that I could work with whatever he offered, he relaxed and did alright. He wasn't exactly Don Juan though anyway.

I have a final suggestion. Ian Kerner has written 2 fabulous books...She Comes First and He Comes Next. Check out the second one since it gives a great explanation of absolutely everything you ever wanted to know about male genitalia and sexuality and gives good suggestions regarding how to work it!

Oh, one more "final" suggestion....buy a Hitachi Magic Wand (or any vibrator or toy that appeals to you) and introduce it as something you can both derive pleasure from.

Good luck. If you're really crazy about him and he is about you, I'll bet you can find a way to bring you both pleasure and satisfaction!

~Marin

Mary-Lou

Marin you are so on point.....

Another thing is "Work" on him while he stands at the side of the bed till he is to weak to stand , then lay him down and go in for the "KILL" !

The blood flows, cause sometimes the older man just wants to be less active. So this way he has no choice....

Best of luck.....Plus a good guy is something you don't want to give up. And a older man is better, they don't bug ya all the time for SEX! LOL

soccermom

Thank you girls. I hadn't heard of those books and will definitely check them out, and also the other tips. We have a few sex toys but so far have only used a regular vibrator, more on me than him, but I will have to try that. Morning sex is never a problem for him, other than that I feel kind of rushed, and then there is all that daylight to contend with but on the weekends I can relax more about the time factor and sneak in to brush my teeth first!! I like what you said about working with whatever is offered. Its just so different from younger pre bc days, when all you had to do was lie there naked to drive them wild!! I got lazy..time to change that!