feeling sorry/sympathy/pity survey

leaf

Thank you, Madalyn. That does help!



I think that my friend is mostly logical and practical; she's mostly wanting to talk about the logistics of getting things in order, though she does have a 'superstitious' side of her. I personally would be reading every study I could find about this, and she doesn't seem to be that interested. But she's had to spend an inordinate amount of time setting up her trust, and just the logistics of trying to get medical things done is incredible.



Its been 5 weeks since her diagnosis, and still no date to start chemo/rads or any kind of treatment.



I think that you are right-this is just the most comfortable way for her to handle this, and of course I need to honor this.



And thank you for sharing your favorite comment from your brother. You have helped me to try to be more sensitive than I was before. I know I will say the wrong thing sometimes. But all I can work on is to try to be better. Thank you!

femme

Leaf,

you are a love.

femme