Reflexology Refusal?

Karyll

Hi,

I am nearly 4 weeks post mastectomy. My co-workers bought me a beautiful gift certificate for a rather spiffy spa that offers massage and reflexology along with facials and manicures etc. I know I didn't want anyone around my neck and shoulders yet (tender, just had drain out) so I thought perhaps Reflexology might be just the ticket. I have had it before but not by a "pro" just one in training who wanted practice sessions (lovely). However - when I called for the appointment, explained about my surgery and how I needed some relaxation and assistance the Reflexologist refused on the grounds that she would be moving lymphatic fluid around my body. She also stated that she would not do it during chemo for the same reason. ( not to mention skin and nail issues). Is this "normal". Has anyone been refused before basically because of known cancer? I guess I could go "shopping" for another reflexologist but what a shame about the gift certificate that expires in six months which is just before my chemo theoretically ends. (I can give it away but I really appreciated the thought behind it)

Thanks

Karyll