15 year survivor with mets.... wow!
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wallan
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I didn't really know where to post this so here I am.
I was talking to a guy who works in my department yesterday. He knows I am on the town's dragonboat team and he was asking about it. I hardly know this guy, by the way.
Anyways, he told me his mother is a 15 year survivor of breast cancer mets. Her initial cancer spread to her chest wall and lymph nodes and she was classified stage 4 15 years ago. She has had numerous surgeries, chemos and hormone treatments over the years, he said. Her latest surgery was a few months ago. They took out ribs apparently. She is scheduled for chemo again.
She lives alone and works and travels and well, lives a full life. This guy said she only wants true support if she is "really bad".
I thought it was an amazing story that this woman has been living with mets for all these years and carries on. What strength.....
And it gives us hope too....
I just thought I would share...
Wendy A
I was talking to a guy who works in my department yesterday. He knows I am on the town's dragonboat team and he was asking about it. I hardly know this guy, by the way.
Anyways, he told me his mother is a 15 year survivor of breast cancer mets. Her initial cancer spread to her chest wall and lymph nodes and she was classified stage 4 15 years ago. She has had numerous surgeries, chemos and hormone treatments over the years, he said. Her latest surgery was a few months ago. They took out ribs apparently. She is scheduled for chemo again.
She lives alone and works and travels and well, lives a full life. This guy said she only wants true support if she is "really bad".
I thought it was an amazing story that this woman has been living with mets for all these years and carries on. What strength.....
And it gives us hope too....
I just thought I would share...
Wendy A
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Thanks for sharing Wendy! Nothing like positive stories tobrighten my day!
Hugs,
Lexi -
Wendy that is so inspiring, but I feel so inadequate for wimping out the last few days.
God grant that I can deal with things like she does.
Thanks for sharing something so wonderful. -
Wow, thanks for sharing that with us. Always good to hear stories of strong people who go on, even with Stage IV. Sometimes I say to myself "how do these people find the strength"? These people are like the strongest people on this planet. AMAZING!
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Hi Wendy, Yes, this is very positive for me. Since of course, I have been worrying a little to much. This gives us all some hope in this. Thank You.
God Bless You,
Kaloni -
Thanks Wendy -
It's so nice to read posts like yours! Thanks for taking the time to share that with us!
Where there is hope, there are possiblities!
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