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  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited February 2008

    Melia-We have missed you.

    I don't know if I can make a Saturday but you all make plans for it and I will figure something out.

    Well I just got a call from an out of state client that wants me to show her houses on either the 23 or 24th this month. My kids are in a karate tournament on the 23rd in Santa Ana. I am trying my hardest to figure out how to juggle all this and not miss our luncheon.

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  • Linda7411
    Linda7411 Member Posts: 197
    edited February 2008

    Hi Ladies,

    Sylvia, sorry to hear about your cousin.  You will be a great support.

    You all say, who is this?  I had lunch with Lisa while I was in SD.  New grandaughter born there 1/8 and I was there 5 weeks.  I have a 3 year old granddaughter there too.  I was busy, but in Heaven!  Sorry I missed your lunch, but it was day after they came home from hospital.  I'm hoping next time I visit that I can come.  I had a nice visit with Lisa and heard about you.  You sound like a strong support for each other.  That is wonderful.  My son just called and said it is 74 there in PQ where he lives.  It rained a fair amount when I was there but a lot better than all this snow and cold here.  Supposed to only get up to 9 F tomorrow!  Brrrrrr.  I became a wimp in 5 weeks!

    Well, I hit my one year mark this month since dx.  So all of the tests are coming up.  Trying to stay positive but a bit nervous.

    Hope to see you all next trip!

    Linda

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  • guitarGrl
    guitarGrl Member Posts: 697
    edited February 2008

    Linda -



    Good luck on the tests and congratulations on the new grand daughter - it is incredible beautiful here today - I had to open my windows to warm up my condo - you may have noticed that most homes here have the weirdest insulation. They are very good at keeping the cold in in the winter & the hot in in the warm months.



    susan

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  • LisaSDCA
    LisaSDCA Member Posts: 2,230
    edited February 2008

    Susan - Happy to hear your BRCA test was negative, that can be such a relief for family.

    Linda - hope to see you in March in Little Italy!

    Brenda - good luck with you juggling. We want you there!

    Lisa/Starfish - do let us know (or have someone let us know) ASAP about how your surgery goes on the 22nd. How long will you be in the hospital?

    Lisa

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  • sdstarfish
    sdstarfish Member Posts: 544
    edited February 2008

    LisaSD - I should be in 3-4 days, they  said. Were you scared before you went in? I'm getting nervous now - such a long time to be under...

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  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited February 2008

    Well I think I have worked out the juggling. I should be there by 1:00.

    Starfish-You'll be just fine. I was scared before my tram. I told my anesthesiologist that I was afraid I would wake up in the middle of the surgery. He assured me there was no way he was going to let me wake up. He was right. I sleep right through it and so will you.

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  • sdstarfish
    sdstarfish Member Posts: 544
    edited February 2008

    Thanks, Brenda. How long was it before you drove? And how many drains did you have? I will have 6 drains. Yikes!

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  • sylviag
    sylviag Member Posts: 266
    edited February 2008

    Hello all---hope you are doing ok starfish---we will miss you --Linda 7411 are you able to come on 2/24--I think I missed where you live? Brenda --do you want to drive together or are you on the fly from an open house? So---I think I will tell Milton's approximately 10 at 1 o'clock and it may be more or less depending on anyone who is going to join us--maybe I'll see you in Big Bear- 3boys for me! Sylvia

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  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia-I am still hoping to get there on time. I may be coming from Escondido instead of Vista. I think you should probably drive yourself just in case.

    Starfish-I had 5 drains and I did not drive myself for about 4 weeks. I think it was exactly 4 weeks because I went to a support group meeting that night. Never went back. My boys were on summer break so I wasn't having to get them to school and back or anything. I was still taking some pain meds too so I did not want to drive.

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  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2008

    Hi there Linda..so good to see you here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Starfish..holding your hand as the date is close now...

    for all of us..

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  • sylviag
    sylviag Member Posts: 266
    edited February 2008
    Ok ladies---this is the deal---I've been going along--gladly sitting in the group ---but smugly on the sidelines---saying---OH I'm SO GLAD I'M DONE WITH THIS and BAM---got a BAD MRI today---so going for surgery again on 3/3---  fibroid  in the left breast that has been there at least 10 yrs and two suspicious things in the rt breast where the CA was B-4 and where they removed some tissue last yr that they didn't like---3 times in 3 yrs---if it is at all funky--I will be talking to the surgeon about further surgery to remove it all.....needing your hugs tonight...thanks, SylviaCry
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  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited February 2008

    (((((Sylvia)))) So sorry my dear lady. We will be here for you. 

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  • meliaanne
    meliaanne Member Posts: 682
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia, we will all be thinking of you and praying for good results. I am so sorry you have to deal with all this uncertainty and fear again.

    Melia

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  • guitarGrl
    guitarGrl Member Posts: 697
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia -



    there is no nice way to say it - that sucks big time. Many many many big virtual hugs being sent your way.



    susan

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  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2008

    Well shucks Sylvia..I was hoping it could all be cleared up..

    Sending giant hugs to you,

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  • sdstarfish
    sdstarfish Member Posts: 544
    edited February 2008

    Hang in there Sylvia. Sorry to hear that Frown

    As for me, I was told that I need to have a PET Scan on WED before my surgery (FRI). Why? Onc is concerned that I haven't gained back the 20 lbs.  I lost during chemo. He wants to make sure it's not another cancer that's causing my skinnyness.

    Nervous!

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  • sylviag
    sylviag Member Posts: 266
    edited February 2008
    Thanks guys--I have calmed down a bit since I heard and just keep saying to myself---"It Is- What It Is"..and I will deal with it...sdstarfish, Liz, Brenda, Susan and Melia--I appreciate your thoughts... I keep telling myself that it was CA in 06, not CA in 07 and it will not be CA in 08 but the brain goes around and around! I'm so glad that I don't have to wait this time for a biopsy, MRI --results---it is just go in and get it done and waiting on the surgeons schedule.  There was a girl in the office ahead of me that was 31 and had inflammatory BC--so sad--I told the surgeon---SO much cancer---so little time and she agreed....going to big bear tommorrow to relax---HAH!!! hugs,SUndecided
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  • guitarGrl
    guitarGrl Member Posts: 697
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia - just don't get lost in a snow drift ...



    sdstarfish - here's hoping that maybe it was just your turn to lose weight!



    susan

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  • Linda7411
    Linda7411 Member Posts: 197
    edited February 2008

    Silvia, Big Hugs and prayers.  Lots of positive vibes heading your way!

    Starfish, you take care and big hugs and prayers for you too!

    I have my one year mamm Monday.  I'm sure all of you remember when you hit the one year mark.  You begin noticing every little spot on your body all over again.

    My heart is still out there in San Diego.  We have a foot of snow here, but some rain tomorrow.  So maybe some of it will melt.  I miss my two little girls.  I may need to make a quick trip there in March for some snuggles.  If I do, I'll let ya'll know.

    Love and prayers to all of you, Linda

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  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2008

    Hi ladies

    Good to see you Linda..we would LOVE to have you join us in March..I wish you good luck with your Mammo on Monday..

    I went to Trader Joe's yesterday and these flowers were in front for sale..I just had to take pictures (you know me)

    Starfish..I am sure your PET will be Ok and we will be holding your hand next Friday..

    Sylvia..was it cold up in Big Bear?? Hope you did get relaxed up there.

     Big decsions are always stessful..breath that good mountain air...

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  • LisaSDCA
    LisaSDCA Member Posts: 2,230
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia = Big {{{HUGS}}} for you, girl. I'm so sorry you are dealing with these stresses again. I know you are up in Big Bear now, but I was up in W. LA getting cut on myself when your news came through, and I'm only just now getting back online to catch up. I'll be thinking good thoughts that it's all just fibrous tissue and you/they're being wise to get it out of the way now.

    Starfish/Lisa - Yes, I had some nerves before my big surgery, mostly because I had never had anything except minor, ambulatory surgeries before (well, my C-sect., but I was awake for that!). And there was some anxiety about never having my own breasts again. But I was excited that I was getting the recon. I had fought for all along.The biggest thing I remember about my surgery day was not the 9.5 hours I was out, but the incredible sense of relief when I woke up. I had my bilat. mastectomies at the same time - so at that moment I felt like I was finally truly cancer-free. I did not have any scans before my recon. I think it would have been smart to do so before undergoing such a huge procedure, esp. given the aggressive nature of my grade 3, triple neg., BRCA positive tumor. But Kaiser doesn't scan. I feel certain that your doctor is just being very cautious - mine would run tumor markers at the most due to $$$. Yours does not have those constraints at that institution. Your petite, tiny self is just not something they are used to seeing. Maybe you could put some fishing weights in your pockets next time you are having a weigh-in and avoid the whole thing? Tongue outSealed

    Liz - thanks for the pix - dont'cha just love Springtime?!?

    Lisa

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  • nash
    nash Member Posts: 2,600
    edited February 2008

    Hello, ladies. I have some sad news--my Stage IV bc mom passed away on Friday, after five and a half years of active treatment for her cancer. It was finally time for her to go. I was able to arrange for hospice last Monday, and by early Friday morning, she was gone.

    It's ironic, because my radiation will be done next week. Actually, she told the chemo nurses that part of the reason she was ready to go was because I was almost done with treatment and feeling stronger. So I take some comfort in that. It's just going to be a major life change now, as both our lives have revolved around cancer for so long. She lived with us, and I know when I get back into the daily routine, it's going to be very difficult not having her there.

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  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited February 2008

    Oh, Nash...I am so sorry to hear this news...I hope you know that we are all holding your hand...and sending warm hugs...

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  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited February 2008

    Nash-I am so sorry. She really faught hard. Your children got to know their grandma. You got to spend time with her. She helped you fight your cancer aggresively with knowledge from her. The Lord made sure she was here for that. Hugs to you my friend.

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  • LisaSDCA
    LisaSDCA Member Posts: 2,230
    edited February 2008

    Please accept my sympathies, too, Nash. I am glad you were able to get some hospice help for your mom to ease her passing. I hope they were of some help to you in beginning this transition period, too. I am sure you will miss her very much. {{{hugs}}}

    Lisa

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  • guitarGrl
    guitarGrl Member Posts: 697
    edited February 2008

    nash -



    to lose your mother at the same time you are fighting the disease that got her - how devastating. But she was lucky to have you. So sorry for your loss.



    susan

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  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited February 2008

    Hi all my friends, I have missed you so much.

    First, to Nash, please accept my sorrow at the loss of your mom, this is one of life's hardest things to suffer.  I still miss my mom, every day.

    Then, when is the next luncheon?  I am so out of it, Walt has had a set of "tipping over" incidents, and we have been running around like idiots trying to see what it is.

    He had a CT scan and it showed no tumors and no strokes.  So that is good.  He does not whirl, so out goes Menieres, but he feels like the horizon is tipping.  Weird.  But he is better.

    Hugs, Shirlann 

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  • meliaanne
    meliaanne Member Posts: 682
    edited February 2008

    Hi Nash,

    I am so sorry that you have lost your Mom. That is an incredibly difficult thing to have to deal with, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Melia

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  • sylviag
    sylviag Member Posts: 266
    edited February 2008

    Hi all--Nash I'm so sorry for your loss--I do believe she stayed till she knew you were OK--

    The lunch is set for this Sunday-- February 24th at 1 o'clock at Milton's Deli
    2660 Via De La Valle
    Del Mar, CA 92014
    (858) 792-2225

    I told them 10-12 people so if you can join us and have not previously planned on it--please just come--I'm sure it will not be a problem...see you all on sunday.

    Sylvia

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  • 3boys4me
    3boys4me Member Posts: 319
    edited February 2008

    Sylvia - I'm sorry to hear about you bad MRI.  You're in my prayers.

    Nash - I'm also so sorry to hear about your mom.  My mom had Parkinsons.  She has a fall last January and her health deteriorated from there just as I was diagnosed with BC.  She passed in June.  My heart goes out to you.

    Starfish - hope your CAT scan goes okay and they will be able to proceed with surgery as planned.  Keep us updated.  I can't wait 'til my reconstruction, but I figure I'm 6 month to a year out from having it done.

    As for me, I started rads with week.  So far so good Tongue out

    Looking forward to Sunday!

    Lisa #3

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