TIME TO CIRCLE THE WAGONS GIRLS

DFW

Good Morning Everyone

It is a "Glorious Morning", we are alive, I hope happy (that is our choice you know,) and it is a beautiful, crisp, sunshine filled day.

I will be off to the nursing home later, sister is coming over around noon to pick me up, still unable to drive, lap belt hurts the incision so as a passenger I can hold it away from myself with my hands.

Need 2 new tires, they have to be ordered, so stopping by to prepay ($300.00 ouch) for them on the way.

My sister is leaving on Saturday for Florida for 3 months; I am sure going to miss her that leaves little ole me here in Indiana all by my lonesome.

Peter, that was a nice post. Thanks for reminding us that friends are indeed a blessing. We get irritated, have little spats with family and later forgive and go on. Many here have never met except via cyber, but they need to remember we are all here for the same reason. Support and most of all LOVE. It is more difficult to forgive someone you haven't met but if remember to be forgiven, you must forgive also. This wasn't directed at you Peter, you just got me thinking.

As for circling the wagons, duh, it never sunk in before, the circle is not only for protecting, but is a circle of love also. How comforting.

Pam, you have such a sweet way with words, I can tell they come from the heart. Isn't the ocean comforting, I could sit by it for hours; my thoughts and heartaches are carried far out to sea.

Brenda, maybe you and I can sit in the medical tent together tonight since we both are recovering from surgery. At least we won't be alone. I will be alone tonight, so I will pretend you are there with me.

Liz, looks like Gina has located a heliport, but she won't be able to sneak up on you because you will hear her coming in. he he

Nicki, don't get confused on "the meal"; it is for New Years Day, not eve. A gentle reminder so you will have "plenty" in 2008

Did any of you notice that there is a get-together being planned by pink from chat in Mississippi? Looks like several are going.

Joyce, just touch your friend for me. There are no words.

Margaret, yes, grandchildren seem to be even more special than children. My daughter said to her children, "Mom, never treated me like she treats you guys when I was growing up, I think she is trying to get into Heaven now."

Neesie, I will share some "heart groanings" with you. I am sure you understand.

Brenda/Naniam, your words said it so well.

As I close, I am looking out the patio door at the lovely sunshine and the words to a song come to mind. "Look what the Lord has done". I marvel every day at his wonder. Cancer opened my eyes to so much.

Doris

slonedeb

Hi all Doris have you had surgey again you are so sweet doris glad ypu joined this room well turned out my fever is from strep throat and they think my throat cancer is back from a few years ago i sure hope not i cant even say a word my voice has completely left me like it did in 2006 when i had vocal cord cancer i cant stand another cancer right now so please girls pray my throat cancer is not back i have to see the throat doctor next week so he can run that light down my throat to see if the cancer is back   doris you take care girl sherloc where are you i loved your card you sent me  come back and talk to us  well take care everyone and remember god loves you      deb from ky

Anonymous

Hi {{slonedeb}} so good to see you back.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  You have been through so much already you surely don't need anymore.  I hope they get this strep under control.  Will you still be able to do your chemo?

slonedeb

Idont know jas I see my onc wed so i will find out then  love deb from ky

PuppyFive

{{DEB}} I just know in my heart It is just a bad sore throat!

Praying so hard for You Dear Sister, Love You so much!

Doris, How very Sad, and You are so right, Life goes on, But

Thank God, we have good memories! Praying for You!

Happy New Year, and may God Bless You All with Healthy New

"2008"

xoxoxo to all

Puppy

nowheregirl

Just dropped by to wish each and everyone of you a very happy & healthy new year. It's officially 2008 where I live!

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!

Hugs,

TheShopMama

(((((slonedeb))))) Here's a prayer that all is well in your throat.  My goodness, strep throat hurts so bad it is like throat is on fire.  Hope you feel better really soon.  Rest and liquids!  I am quite certain you know the routine by now...lol.  Hugs to you.

((Madison))... It seems I have missed your birthday!  I am sorry I became so self centered while on vacation.  Can't believe I didn't say Happy Birthday to one of the sweetest!  Belated wishes dear one, and hoping the new year brings wonderful things to you.

Doris.. you reminded me of one of my favorite verses:  "This is the day that the Lord has made, we WILL rejoice and be glad in it!!!!"

We all have our sorrows but I know I look around and see so much suffering so much worse than the heartache I bear.  This new year I plan to be a better person.  To look at God instead of myself.  And to try to do what I can to make me a healthier, happier person.

I have only told a few of you that my Miles has bought a ring for his Lori.  (He went to Jared).  They are a wonderful couple and I am excited about having a daughter.  The only thing I have a problem with is that he hasn't given it to her yet and the suspense is killing me.  Tomorrow is her birthday.  But as far as I know, the plans are to give it to her on the 10th, when he has an exciting evening planned.  At any rate, I have sent Miles to purchase me a bicycle.  I intend, one way or another, to be healthier this coming year.  And I am starting today.  No need in waiting til tomorrow.  Wouldn't it be nice if, when my son gets married, people can say... "Wow, she really looks great" instead of "You think she'd lose some weight before trying to fit in that dress...."  I keep thinking about the line in Steel Magnolias  "It looks like two pigs, fighting under a blanket."

Well sisters, I have taken way too long to get this written, but did pretty good considering it is my first day back at work after vacation.  Vickie... I love that sunshine, sister!!!  And I love all of you.  Puppy, I want to see a picture that shows YOU, not just your silhouette!  (((our angel))) is with us.......

God Bless, Pam

PuppyFive

{{{FUMI}}}

Did You get my card!!

Happy New Year, and I am LMAO about the toilet paper!!!

Pammy, someday you will see me in person, and as You know

Steel Magnoilas is one of My favorite movies!

But I did have to laugh at thinking of You, thinking that LOL,LOL

Puppy

newvickie

outside playing in the snow...woohoo...bbl...

Liz...got your hand...all will be well...

love and hugs all around

Mizsissy

Here Pups... no sooner said than done!!!!

 

Here is Puppy with Rocky....a few Christmasses ago....

Mizsissy 

Anonymous

OMG...that is adorable!  A little soldier from The Nutcracker.

newvickie

What a beautiful picture!!

PuppyFive

{{{MIZSISSY}}}

OH MY I HOPE ROCK SEES THIS

pup

Anonymous

Thanks for sharing that Miz.

Mizsissy

Well heck...you should see the one of Puppy and Ed too!!!  This is much more recent (how recent Puppy)?

 

Ain't she beuuootifulll!!!   

PuppyFive

VERKLEMPT HERE!!

{{MIZSISSY}}

Peter

This is the future speaking,well we are a year in front of you at the moment for a few more hours at least

Have to tell you I looked outside and there are still motor cars instead of space vehicles, had to cook breakfast and make my own coffee wished they had invented a button to push, but no 2008 has not changed the world, it is still the same but we all can change ourselves and pull together.

Doris thank you for your post and you are so right, this year gives us another chance to forgive and forget what we did not agree with,  what has happened in days gone bye...that is now history. You may not have directed your post to me but it made me think, and I know I need to change and move on.

Gina thank you for your New Year wishes for us Aussies down under, Nicki glad you liked the email I received and posted you were not the only one that needed a tissue after reading it.

Fumi, A very Happy new year to you, that picture brought a smile to me, glad you have joined us in the future.

(((Puppy))) .......WOW

I am sorry I do not have it in me at the moment to post to everyone, still suffering a bit, must have been that chicken I ate.

Wishing all in the Circle from Amy to Z a great NEW YEAR from down under and may 2008 be so much better than 2007.

Peter 

bluedahlia

Happy New Year to all.  It feels so good to see harmony.  May 2008 be a year for cures and good health.

My beau is taking me to the Mandarin tonight........the greatest Chinese buffet on this earth.

Mizsissy

Have a great time with your Beau, Blue...tell us all about it later!!!

I'm just cooling it in front of the fireplace here with my beau, the snow is outside, it's cozy here..

Mizsissy

CherrylH

Peter,

Sorry you got some "bad" food, Mate. Get better fast -- we still have lots of partying to do before it's 2008 everywhere.

Cherryl

lizws

Hi everyone,

I just heard from the oncologist.  PET scan was clear!  NED!!!!!!!!!!!!  Thank you all so much for all your support.

Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Anonymous

Fumi and Peter:   Happy New Year.  It feels weird for the both of you to be in the future, even if its for a bit.  Sending great big hugs to both of you. 

I have to tell you its a beautiful New Years Eve here in the Chicago end of this worldwide circle.  Its snowing, the big flakes that you can see different designs on.  I heard once no 2 snowflakes are alike.

I have a log in the fire and the Christmas tree and lights are on.  Its really a beaufiful site.

Ummm! Peter, I looked at the party thread early this morning and Im thinking maybe just maybe its more than Chicken.

Vickie:  Hahaha I love the Panda Bear.

Puppy:  Those are great pictures.  

Blue:  Hello, Im waving at you.

Slonedeb:  Enough is enough I say!  Sorry about the strept throat and thats all I hope it is.  I will be saying a big prayer for you and hoping antibiotic will take care of this.

If I missed anyone, Im sorry.  But this is the 1st New Year my DH has had off in years and he is looking at me saying ok girl - time to get off that computer.

Well this is my 3rd New Year here at bc.org!  The first was I was loaded with chemo and bald.  The second one I was celebrating one year after chemo - and still almost bald.  Hair took along time to grow back for me.  This year, I actually set my hair with real curlers!

I think about all of the support and friendships I have made and its all so special to me.  Because you are all so special.  Thanks for making my life brighter - my heart warmer - and my spirit glowing.

This is a really special place and has become part of my life.  Heres hoping 2008 is the best year yet for all of us.

Love you all

Nicki 

Anonymous

Liz:  That is the best New Years Eve present anyone could receive.  Im doing a happy dance for you.

Nicki

DFW

Wonderful news Liz, I truly felt confident that all was well with you. Now you can go into 2008 without worries and be the sweet, compassionate, uplifting sister you have always been to each of us.

Pam....I remember the first time I saw that movie, I was crying and the next second laughing with tears still streaming down my face. This is the second belly laugh I have had today. The other one was (magnifying glass for the remote) Imagine!!!!

I have certainly laughed out the last day of 2007, it has felt good.

Thought I was going to be home alone tonight, neighbor across the street came over a bit ago and insisted I come over around 8 for some snacks and fun. It is just quiet time with their family and his Dad..............................Did I tell you his Dad is widowed also, his wife died in January after Bob died in December 05. I think he likes me and that is why son has invited me over. Hmmmmmmmmmm

Doris 

CherrylH

Doris,

Get yourself across the street and have a Wonderful time. Happy New Year to you!!!!!

Cherryl

PS where in IN are you. I have some friends in Fishers.

Bren-2007

Liz - Yippeeee!!!

newvickie

woohoo...doing the happy dance for Liz...I told you so sweetie!!!  I am so happy I am crying!!!  Have been wondering and waiting all day to hear good news.  What a wonderful way to start the new year! 

Puppy...you are just beautiful...thanks to Linda for posting them.

Hello to Madison.

Hey to Gina.

Fumi...

Sweet sunshine sister Nicki...thank you for being so kind to my DD.  Thank you for all your kindness to me.

Deb...I read somewhere that you are having a party...oh I am sooo looking for a rocket ship to get there in time.  What fun!  For us it will be a quiet night...me and Nate watching movies and eating junk food...drinking wine (just me...not Nate LOL)

Doris IN...your story simply breaks my heart. There are no words to even come close to explaining how very sorry I am for such a terrible loss.

Pam...as you know...you too are always in my thoughts and prayers as you too have lost so much.

Neesie...you don't say too much about your loss but I know its there...I love ya and I'm sorry. 

I am sorry to anyone that has lost anyone precious to them.  It leaves such a void in you life that is impossible to fill.  Hugs to you all.

CY...hugs, love and praying for miracles in the New Year for you. 

Bren...I finally undecorated today and got it all done...the house is back to normal...whew.  Feels good actually.

(((Joyce)))and a hug for your dear friend. 

Naniam...hugs and love to you tonight...hope you are enjoying yourself. 

BMD Brenda...hope you are comfortable and feeling ok.  Gentle hugs to you.

Peter...I will never get the day ahead of us thing figured out...just can't wrap my mind around it. LOL

Less than five hours and the New Year will be upon us all.  I hope that it brings health, joy, peace, happiness, love, and everything you need to each and every one of you from A to Z and I hope we all celebrate many many more.

Love and hugs to all

Vickie

lizws

Thanks everyone!!!!!!!!! Happy New Year and here's to a new start in 2008 for us. Yep I'm drinkin! LOL  

Big Hugs!

Madison

Liz, I am so happy

Madison

PARTY TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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