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Maybe I should put this one in moving beyond, as yea i have moved beyond and overall, its just not humorous its so true!
BITCHOLOGY 101 When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts, or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means: I won't compromise what's foremost in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I will no longer allow any one to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch. I have earned the right, and usually the hard way, to want what I want, and there is nothing wrong with that! The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I appear to act somewhat selfish. It means I have the courage and the strength to allow myself to be who I truly am, and I will not become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. So go ahead. Try to stomp on me Try to douse my inner flame Try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You will not succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it. B - Babe I - In T - Total C - Control of H - Herself B = Beautiful I = Intelligent T = Talented C = Charming H = Hell of a Woman B = Beautiful I = Individual T = That C = Can H = Handle anything Send this to 5 women to put a smile on their face!! "If you can't do something right, get a woman to do it." God will have the first fruits of my life, the first part of my money, my time, my talent, my energy.
megi
BITCHOLOGY 101 When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts, or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means: I won't compromise what's foremost in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I will no longer allow any one to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch. I have earned the right, and usually the hard way, to want what I want, and there is nothing wrong with that! The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I appear to act somewhat selfish. It means I have the courage and the strength to allow myself to be who I truly am, and I will not become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. So go ahead. Try to stomp on me Try to douse my inner flame Try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You will not succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it. B - Babe I - In T - Total C - Control of H - Herself B = Beautiful I = Intelligent T = Talented C = Charming H = Hell of a Woman B = Beautiful I = Individual T = That C = Can H = Handle anything Send this to 5 women to put a smile on their face!! "If you can't do something right, get a woman to do it." God will have the first fruits of my life, the first part of my money, my time, my talent, my energy.
megi
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There used to be a website called heartless bitches.com I'm assuming that it's still up. You'd probably get a real giggle from it. I know I did.
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