Jan 2008--Ain't it Great?

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  • Jenn51
    Jenn51 Member Posts: 94
    edited July 2008

    Hello JJs,

    I hope you all weren't too chatty since I haven't been back since Sun.  Came home & slept for 3 hours Mon & worked 3 hours OT on Tues.  Tonight I made a run to the vet for flea Meds & cat food but am home in time to check in.

    D1, I can totally sympathize with the toenails.  I was terrible as a child, picking at my toenails.  I would literally tear them off the bed.  As a result I have very damaged & very strange toenail beds.  The nail will grow so far I them start to separate from the bed.  If I let it do its thing & disconnect it's OK but if I help it along.....OUCH!  If you get another painful one you might try a big glob of Micitracin or Neosporin, something like that with a pain killer in it & put on a bandage before you go to bed.  By the morning it will feel lots better.

    Bummer on the insurance co. & their hardheaded ways.  Don't they understand we want to live a normal life again?

    Kimberly, nothing like an ambulance run to add some excitement to a BBQ.  I'm glad she is OK.

    OOOOOOLALA!  I like the Morning Magic as opposed to Afternoon Delight.  I hope my desire returns soon.  I'll watch him at work & remember how sexy he is & maybe get some ideas, then we come home & I'm too pooped to party.  Of course the night he decides to drink sends all ideas down the drain.  (That's where the beer should go!)

    I'm noticing more of those aches & pains than I did in chemo.  Or is it that the rest of me feels so much better that I notice the aches more.  I don't want to say anything to anyone because they might make me go to another doc or take more tests.  This knee is enough.

    Wow, if our mortgage pmt went up over $300 I'd have to do more than suck it up.  Of course, with all of the personal bennies it's hard to complain, but we haven't had a raise in 7 years.

    Congrats on the office furniture.  I love to rearrange things & get organized anew.

    Paula, glad to hear you liked Mama Mia.  I want to see it.  From the previews I can't imagine how you could walk anyway but happy.  I'm glad your dh was doing well enough for you to have some ‘me' time.  We all need that.

    Kathy, I'm sorry you had the health scare.  I think we all are going to have things lurking in the back of our brains after this.  Is this OK?  Should I tell someone?  I know my onc is light on testing, believing you get too many false negatives.  But he says we just keep our eyes open for symptoms.  What symp?  Where do we draw the line between being a worry wart & ignoring something important.  I see him in 3 weeks & I'm going to try to pin him down a little more.

    Carol, Oh no!  Our resident ray of sunshine is cloudy.  I'm so sorry.  I'm hoping that since your post was Mon. & it is now Wed. that you are feeling better.

    My gf cruise last fall got diverted to Cozamel by Hurricane Noel.  The only thing I consumed on shore was Tequilla.  Yum!  And no Montezuma's Revenge from alcohol. 

    All of this talk of Mexican drinks sent me to the fridge.  Found a Corona & a lime.  I'm a happy camper.

    Topless, heh?  I haven't been that brave.  But we have a ranch.  I did cut the shoulder on one of my wife beaters.  Since my burn area was around the collarbone that worked just as well.

    I didn't get any rad burns on my back, but they kept checking back there.  The ones on the front were bad enough, I'd hate to have some on the back.  If your skin really gets raw ask about Silvadene (sp?).  It has silver in it, but it works miracles on the pain.

    Yes, go for the color on the head.  I did feel so much more like me.  And I actually am ready for a touch up.  In fact today I got it to spike on top.  I really like it & got lots of compliments on it.  I have a hair style!  Funny the little things that make us feel ‘normal' again.

    Julie, I'm so jealous of your boating time.  I have to cross one of our reservoirs going up to the clinic.  It's not the big mansions that line it that trip my fancy, it's the people our on the boats.  For Pete's Sake, it's a week day.  Why aren't these people working?  I love the water.  My best place is on a sandy beach looking for seashells, walking in the surf.  But I'll take a day on my bil's pontoon with the rest of the family.  Too bad he lives 6 hours away.

    PALady, you were in Indy?!?!?!  I must have missed that post.  I would have loved to meet up with you.  If you are ever this way again be sure to let me know.

    I have degenerative disc disease.  They fused 3 vertebrae in my lower back, L3, L4 & L5.  They went in from the front & the back.  That was the worst thing, I couldn't get comfortable on my tummy or my back.  It really helped the back pain & sciatica.

    Cathy, I'm so glad your ds is doing well with the teeth.  I remember when I had my cut out.  The roots came out in pieces.  I wasn't very brave.

    The knee doc said the x-rays looked good, nothing broken.  So let's do a MRI.  Of course, another test.  He doesn't think the hardware in my back will present a problem.  He better be right.  I don't think he will be the one flying across the room toward those magnets if it isn't.  He said there might be something in there that will become worse by ignoring.  And if there isn't he has some things for me to do to try to reduce the swelling.  I'm pretty concerned because I can feel the popping & shifting going on under the knee cap & know that is not good.  Test is Fri., follow up is Wed.

    I talked to the vet yesty & today.  Thumper is doing good, post-op health is good & she is adjusting to hospital life.  The optic nerve looks good, she just can't see.  They are not discouraged yet though so I won't be either.  I did tell the vet of our plan to take her if her sight doesn't return.  Justin can be a bit rash & I didn't want him putting her down in a ‘moment'.  Doc said she wouldn't let him.  She lost her eye sight in the 1st eye rather quickly too.  She has glaucoma & the vet says it can go that quickly.  Scary.  But our Casey was fine when we left for work one day & totally blind when we got home.

    The burns have gotten better each day.  Now just the center of the worse one is still tender.  Then it will itch & I have to stop myself from scratching this new skin.

    Well my fav delivery man just brought a sandwich for dh & a salad for me.  It's calling my name.

    Stay well my friends.  Here's wishes for good sleep, infrequent tears & sweet dreams.

  • JulieK_11_30_07
    JulieK_11_30_07 Member Posts: 260
    edited July 2008

    Hello Gems!! Hope everyone has had a good Wednesday. Ds and I went over to my school today and worked in my classroom for about 3 hours. We got tons done and I feel a lot better now that my room is not total chaos - when they clean the floors in the summer, they never put things back where they're supposed to go - it drives me crazy! Now I just need to get moving on my curriculum stuff and I'll be in good shape! I actually did some last night and hope to get even more done tonight - dh is working late at school tonight so he can pick up ds from football camp around 9:30.

    Okay - D1 and Kimberly - I feel so completely inept when you two mention things you cook in your kitchens!! I have no clue what béchamel or kuchen is and I'm not sure I'd even know where to find salmon in my grocery store! I've actually never had salmon - is it real "fishy"? I cook what I can when we're all home, but I'm definitely no gourmet!

    D1 - I hope that pinkie nail keeps holding on! What a bummer you've lost so many - my toe nails seem to be okay - my fingernails are growing out the dark spots and seem to be doing okay so far. Hope you got your plumbing issue resolved!

    Cathy - so glad ds made it through his surgery okay - wow! I can't believe he's back at work already after all that work he had done!! I missed a week of work when I had mine out - I ended up with dry socket in two of them - not fun at all!!

    Kimberly - hope you have a super time in Tahoe! Glad you got some of your organizing done for school - yep - I'm good at "sidetracking" too! (Like right now!!) I need to call my surgeon's office again about the insurance - I called last week and the girl I needed to talk to was not there that day. The puppies are doing well - getting so big already! They're 12 wks old now so we're starting to work with them more on training. They seem to be catching on pretty well so far. We've had both of them in the pool and they love swimming in the pond too.

    Norma - I'll have to check out Cedar Point! Yes - we do start school early, but we're usually out before Memorial Day in May, so that's nice.

    Carol - Holy cow! I can't believe your rads are burning your back too. Hope your "lubing" helps - you may need to get some help with that job, though! Ha ha ha - although maybe that'd help heat some things up!

    Well, Jewels - I think I'm caught up for now. Better actually get some work done now - I hope to get my yard sale stuff done tomorrow and Friday.

    Night all!

    Julie

  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited July 2008

    Only 2 toenails left.  Both the middle ones.  Guess they're flipping the rest of the nails off...

    CathyCA-It is awkward to go topless at first, but pretty soon you won't even think twice.  I've gotten to the point that I forget that I don't really have much hair (till I saw our family pix from the anniversary celebration-I was shocked to realize I still don't have much hair.  Not sure what I'm thinking when I look in the mirror every morning...)

    Hooray that the dental ordeal went okay.  I think the anticipation is always much worse than the actual thing in those cases.  Ouch on the non-insured tooth.  Sounds like we're all having $$ issues right now.  Perhaps it's the economy, stupid.

    SIS Kimberly, you make me smile.  You know how I got started cleaning the house so much?  When I moved into my first apartment, I was a student and found that I could justify procrastinating on my studies if I was putting it off to clean.  Then I realized that I got a buzz off of looking around my pristine digs and an obsession was borne!  Maybe you can turn your procrastination into some new and groovy obsession!

    Peach kuchen is a peach cobbler thingy.  There's a cobbler crust on the bottom, peaches, sour cream, sugar-all the good stuff.  The kids like it served warm with a scoop of ice cream.  I like mine warm with some milk.  Bad for the diet, but hey, it has peaches in it...

    Dh makes a mean vegetarian zucchini lasagna.  What's not to like with veggies and cheese?

    Plumber snaked the drain in the girls' tub and found a wad of hair about 5 feet down the pipes.  It looked reminiscent of the rodents I was leaving in the drain back in January, but I didn't say anything to the plumber-didn't want to make him uncomfortable with the whole balditude thing.  Besides, he sports a long pony tail and likely has never had a bald day in his life.  He also checked out the sump pump to make sure it didn't need to be cleaned out, since we're having these torrential rains these hot summer days.  It was good and he charged me-get this--$249!!!  Can one get insurance for the plumbing bills???

    So you had fun at your pinup calendar shoot, eh, PALady?  Any whipped cream involved???  (Where is my mind?)

    The cancer cell machine sounds amazing.  It would be great if it works.  And you must be feeling pretty good to be a part of the research as a source of funding.

    Carol, no, I did not have exit burning on my back, although I've heard it's not uncommon.  How lucky for you.  Not.  Been thinking about you a lot today, hope it's cause you're having a good day.  How'd the hair come out?

    Ah, so the angels are singing for the cats, LJ?

    Jenn, I'm sitting here lol at the thought of you rummaging thru your fridge till you find a Corona and a lime...

    I hope Thumper continues to recover.  I had no idea that glaucoma could blind one so quickly.  Isn't glaucoma the condition that is helped by smoking a joint??  Now there's an idea.  (I am just sick.  Would someone please take me away?)

    Julie-you need to know that I am relatively new to cooking (about 10 years).  I dodged the main-cook-for-the-family bullet when I first started dating my dh and he asked me to fry a burger for him while he showered.  He emerged from the bathroom to find his apartment filled with smoke and me merrily "cooking" for him.  Right then and there he said he would do the cooking.  Fine with me.  He's actually a gourmet cook.  When he gets to cooking on the weekends, Katie Bar the Door!  I mostly cook day to day, (read that to say I can grill), but in the past couple of years I've gotten more adventurous.  It's kinda fun, actually.  Particularly when everyone likes what I make.  The best part is, if I put everything I need on the grocery list, dh will do the shopping!

    Tomorrow on the menu is a chicken quesadilla, salad and fresh fruit.  I grilled the chicken tonight while I was grilling tonight's dinner, so tomorrow will be just assembly.  Sounds good to me.  Hey, I think a Corona and lime would go great with that meal-Jenn, where are you?

    Have a great time in Tahoe, Kimberly.

    D1

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited July 2008

    So much for getting home tonight and making my shout outs ... while actually sitting and relaxing after work at my gf''s salon, the sleepy bug hit me pretty hard.  I couldn't stop yawning while my hair was changing color!  I won't dare complain about my "thin do" to you all, I will have to say that its nice to look in the mirror and not see the gray!  Back to an all around much lighter brown with about 10 foils added to really lighten it up. 

    Got home, didn't feel like cooking (imagine that) so we ate sushi the dh bought.  Sprawled out in the recliner with the sunshine beaming in, still couldn't keep my eyes open, so needless to say I'm hitting the hay (yep and its not even 7:30), off to grease myself up!!!

    Pleasant dreams, Carol

  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited July 2008

    Cathy and Palady, yes they gave me antidepressants but it made me cry all day, and I dont like crying. 

    I go to the Dr again on Friday for more tamoxifen and the shot and I will ask for something else to help with the tamoxifen. I cant imagine going thru all this again and its not working; but I leave it all to God because he is the master planner of my life - cause what is going to be will be..  I am going to insist that we do blood work on my estrogen and see if that part is working, and then hopefully do a MRI next month and I pray that its in Gods Will that I am healed. 

    Update on the Dr he was re-arrested this monday for 19 counts of felony.  He was doing rape, sexually assault, medical and medicare fraud and over prescribing prescription drugs.  He is in for a long time and he has a 4 million dollar bail and guess what his father is in charge of the government of bermuda so that is why his bail is so high.  They are not using me in the case so far the DA said I guess because I went back to him after the first assault, but I had too I had disabitilty with him,  I dont know if they believe me or not but the Detective called me again today to ask me more questions so I will have to call her back tomorrow when I am done with school and other stuff.  I am going to sue he civil and see how that goes.  Is this crazy or what???? God will do all the jugding now!

    I will keep you all updated.

     Love ya and please keep me in your prayers as I do the same for ya.

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited July 2008

    Happy Thursday Morning,

    9 hours of sleep can do a lot for a pooped out gal, woke this morning well before my alarm. I should have plenty of time this morning to stop at the local bakery and pick up some goodies for the rad office. I have not had to use them for bribing purposes yet, my standing 7:30 appt is working out great.

    Thanks for the responses to the "exit" burn, seems as if I may be one of the lucky ones, using a "bolus" and getting torched on my back as well. I was told from the beginning of this adventure that rads will be giving me the most "bang for my buck". My margin at the chest wall is right at the ink deep marking, so I hope like heck that if anything was left in me its been blasted by now.

    Lil Warrior, so what kind of shot are you receiving? I just hear the word "shot" and get the willy's. I've gotten more confused on the uses of Tamoxifan/AI's the more I read about them.

    D1, great idea scorching the burger for the dh all those years ago!!! I wouldn't mind at all having a gourmet cook in the house, I'm atleast fortunate enough to have a guy who can/will cook when "needed". I'll take it that he does the dishes nightly when I do cook. Chicken quesadilla, hmmmm, sounds like a plan for us as well. I had defrosted some chicken "boobs" for last nights dinner and then didn't feel like cooking, hopefully tonight I'll feel a bit more energetic.

    Chex mix and a G&T ... totally gourmet to me!!!

    Leave it to you to have kept your middle toe nails!

    Don't be surprised if I call for a pick me up soon!!!!

    Julie, I take it the dh is feeling better as of today. I don't know about you, but I really enjoy being able to go out in our boat with just my dh at times. This summer has been kinda weird as our kids are now able to take the boat out by themselves. They had to take a boaters safety course (on-line) which the dh thoroughly went over with them. The dh's job is a maritime safety officer so our parting words to the kids are always "Safety First". The kids have done a good job at making sure the boat is put away just the way they found it. There's nothing worse than the wrath of mom when she gets down to the boat and finds garbage in it!

    Good luck with your yard sale!

    Jennifer, sorry had to chuckle at the thought of the MRI machine whipping you around! Lets hope for an "easy" fix to your knee problem.

    I'm all over that Corona (light) with lime!!!

    Cathy, YIKES on the ds's teeth, my he really has recovered quickly considering he didn't appear to have an easy pull.

    Hope you had a good time at the fair, I have not been to the local fair in about 25 years, seems we're usually out of town. Come to think of it, we'll be in CA this year as well.

    Norma, took note of your ds playing video games on the puter ... we have a MySpace junkie here. My son's dad (a computer wizard), has been able to monitor my son's actions on the site. He chooses not to check (snoop) too often, and I told him that I don't even want to know what he's writing about unless its unsafe. I think more than anything he likes to share pictures of skating and wakeboarding with his group of on-line friends.

    Kimberly, now you should not be reading this as your "working on your curriculum"! I know you will have a story to share from your Tahoe outing, atleast about a good restaurant or two.

    I'm getting in countdown mode for "cation". Its been a long haul since our trip to AZ in March.

    So yesterday I made an appointment to meet with my onc next week. Between now and then I need to get my ducks in a row with questions about taking Femera. He also had wanted me to think about taking Zometa as well. I know I want to question having more blood tests done to re-check my hormone levels. I still don't understand if having ovaries removed if your in menopause makes any since. I'm with you Norma trying to figure all this crap out. I'm certainly not complaining that there are some options being ER+, but lately I'm feeling challenged in trying to get a grasp of what it all means.

    Refresh my memory ... is anyone else on Femera? I've poked into a posting with others taking it, and don't necessarily like what I'm reading about weight gain and bone pain. Then again, maybe those who are posting are doing so because they are the ones having issues, where they may be many others taking it that have not looked for a resource to vent.

    All for this morning ... off to the shower, bakery, rads, and work ... let the fun begin!!!

    Carol

  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited July 2008

    So, I'm in the grocery store today and the checker looks at me and says, "I really like how you've cut your hair so short.  It really suits you."  I said, "thanks."

    You wonder why you're tired, Carol?  Hello?  You worked all day and then went to have your hair done (yippee!).  That's enough right there.  Those rads literally zap your energy.  I'll say it again, give yourself some space.

    Wow, LWDana, that doc sounds like quite the piece of work.  Hang in there.  Sounds to me like he's going to get what's coming.  Good luck tomorrow.

    Carol, as I was reading your post, you came to the same conclusion as I about the Femara thread.  Those who have something about which to complain will be posting away diligently, while those cruising along will just cruise on with their lives.  Word to the wise, I got all bent out of shape reading about the horrors of Tamox on the threads and in all honesty, my experience has been okay.   I'm kinda excited as I stop taking Tamox tomorrow till the day after I return from cation.  That'll be just over a 3 week break.  I'm really interested to see how my body feels being off the drug.  (You'll remember I have to stop taking it because it can cause blood clots and my onc doesn't want me on long flights and to be taking Tamox, just in case.)  Anyway, enough about me, back to you.  I know we've had discussions about doing whatever we can to avoid recurrence, so talk to your docs about your reservations, get a full physical from your gp and tell him/her you're about to start on an AI and you want them to watch your body for se's and take it. You know, you can always stop taking the Femara if it's not floating your boat-this isn't the end of the line. 

    Hmmm.  I just talked to my mom for 2 hours (!) and I'm feeling wiped out.  Think I'll go mix up the spices with the chicken, grate the cheese, and make the salad so I'm ready to roll whenever my girls say they're hungry.

    Onward.

    D1

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited July 2008

    D1, see you gave me my pick me up and I didn't even need to call.   I'll give your ear a break after your marathon chat with your mom !!!  Hope all is well with her.

    So much for using my three defrosted chicken boobies tonight ... looks like I will be having a housefull tonight, 8 kids out on the boat as I sit here typing away.   It will be pizza delivered later on, ahh, maybe the chicken quesadilla's for an appetizer  ... in the mean time I'm taking some time to myself, mellowing out with a cold one, I'll even try to sit out on the deck and veg ... although I know myself to well, once I see a pot that needs deadheading I'll be up to my elbows in dirt!

    Later, Carol

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited July 2008

    Jenn -- glad your burns are getting better.  What's up with your doc thinking the hardware won't cause a problem with the MRI.  There should be someway to make sure before you get in that machine.

    Julie -- glad you were able to start getting things ready for going back to school.  I know teachers put in a tremendous amount of preparation and I'm sure it feels good to get started on it.

    D1 -- I'm not sure how I'd feel about dh cooking.  He handles the grilling in our house (in fact, he needs to get the salmon for tonight started soon), but pretty much stays out of my kitchen.  Even with the cooking classes we've had together I'm still pretty possessive about my territory.  LOL!  We're taking a Regional American cooking class this fall that starts next month.  We'll do a little bit of New England, Southern, Cajun, and Southwest.

    Dana -- I am sure it is frustrating watching how slowly the wheels of justice turn. Keep focusing on the good in your life like being almost done with school.  Sounds like they have a very strong case against him.

    Carol -- I had to laugh at your ex's monitoring your son.  Our kids were doomed from birth since dh and I are both in the industry.  We have our house setup where the boys are on wireless and we are hard-wired into the network.  That way we can shut off the wireless if they are staying up too late playing on-line games or not getting work done. I've told ds he will need to make friends with the computer nerds in his dorm since he won't have us to fix everything for him. 

    Not much going on with me today.  I have a Herceptin infusion tomorrow, so am gathering up paperwork to do while I'm in the chair.  I have several thank yous, get well cards and notes, plus bills to do.

    Have a good evening.

  • KathyL
    KathyL Member Posts: 534
    edited July 2008

    Feel like I've missed so much this week.  No way I can comment on everything.  Just want to say, D1... the nail situation just blows.  And Dana, I hope justice is served.  And to all the teachers, I'm thinking of you as the summer goes by so quickly.

    After Monday's escapade I think I did just have a virus starting.  I had a hoarse voice, cough, thing that developed.  Was pretty tired, but my work schedule doesn't help.  Today I finally started to feel a little better.  Tuesday was another long day.  Wednesday I worked again in the morning and had my herceptin in the afternoon.  Ran into one of my BC buddies.  She's stage 4 and doing great on herceptin and zometa.  Her tumors have shrunk.  I am thrilled for her.  Took a quick rest afterwards, then had to get the kids.  During dinner our dog had what the vet thinks may have been a seizure... poor doggie.  The muscles around his eyes and eyebrows were twitching, and his eyes rolled back.  Seemed to only be his eyes... weird.  His eyelids were drooping, too.  I've never seen an animal have a seizure, but have witnessed plenty of humans' and it did look like that, just with only the eye muscles.  Anyway, dh took him tonight to get checked out.  Sam (our dog) is 9.  The vet doesn't want to start any meds unless he starts having more seizures.  His labs looked OK, they'll check 'em again in a month.  He also has a "fatty tumor" that's developed on his side.  We didn't know it was there (I still can barely feel it), the vet found it tonight.  Of course, I wonder if the poor dog has cancer.  It's always something.  Today I had an all day class to become a CPR instructor, something I need for my new job but also something I've always wanted to do.  It was actually kinda fun.  Tomorrow night we want to take the kids to a carnival one of the local churches has.  Whew!  I'll try to catch up this weekend.  Life's getting in the way of my social life here!  Thinking of you all...

  • sheshe48
    sheshe48 Member Posts: 338
    edited July 2008

    Hi JJ's

    I have spent 2 hrs reading post and having a great time reading them, you all are so funny. I wish I could eat sun chips or any chips, I have a bad gall bladder (oh well). I was listening to my win amp player while reading post and it was on a rain storm and guess what it's storming outside, so I guess I'll just listen to the real storm. I'm going to do a couple shout out tonight and the rest tomorrow because my eye sight is going now.

    D1  I'm so sorry about your toe nails, you are losing like one a day. My big toe nails looked horrible after chemo, but they did not fall off and my fingernails did not look so hot. I only lost my nail enamel. I can't complain. It is such a bummer for you and it's sand-el weather. Just remember they will grow back. Sorry about your insurance problems, I can't believe they let you buy the stuff and then told you later they don't take that insurance. That really sucks. Since you were friends were so many years, i'm glad you were able to keep in touch as much as you did. It's hard to stay in touch when your friends live in a different state. I feel for his wife and kids.

    SIS Kimberly  Sorry that the little girl got hurt at the B-B-Q, thank God she is ok. Thanks for your honest opinion, I was also afraid that I looked washed out. I want to match the color of the wedding as best as I can. I do have a dark brown shark teeth necklace I could wear, I could check it out. No I don't think it would work. The colors of the bridesmaids dresses is chocolate brown and the sashes are beige. Brandy my daughter her dress is Ivory, her flowers will be white calla lilies and ivory roses. The bridesmaids flowers will be mango calla lillies and pink and yellow roses. Those are pretty much the colors of the wedding.  Enjoy your cation in Tahoe with your friend. My small bouquet of flowers will probably ivory roses. Not sure yet. I'm just going to have to make this outfit work I guess, Thanks for being honest. I did not want to wear dark brown, I did not want to blend in that much with the brides maids dresses. So I went lighter in color.

    Jenn  I'm sorry about the office dog, losing her sight that is too bad. I hope your boss will give her TLC.

    Carol  That is awesome you are going to CA to visit Kimberly. Pretty cool!

    Julie  The boat rides sound really nice and fun, you need to get out and get some R and R. Good luck on the up coming surgery.

    Paula  I'm so glad your husband is doing better, i'm sorry I have not been there for you. Do they know why he is having seizures?  You might have said and I forgot. Thanks for your compliments on my dress.

    LiL Warrior  I'm also having trouble on Tamox, I have to take it at night because it makes me foggy and drowsy. It also makes me shut down, I will be talking to people and I get tired and don't want to talk anymore and I don't know what to do about it. I want to talk I just don't have the energy or my mind won't let me. I don't know if anyone else is having this problem. I can't think straight on it. I differently hate Tamox and I really believe it messes with your mood swings. i'm sorry that you are having the hot flashes so bad, sometimes I get them bad. Not every night.

    Take care, i'm blurry eyed, will finish shout outs tomorrow. Good night friends.

  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited July 2008

    SHESHE,  I dont have the talking and shutting down, I know the people around me probably wish I had that problem.  He ha.  I just have mood swings and hot flashes all day and worse at night. 

    Ladies, I have a question I am going on a cruise to Mexico in November and I want to do a canopy thing where you hang on this rope and glide from one mountain to the next - do you think I will need a sleeve for that?  I dont want to get edema while I am out there on my vacation.  I am so excited!  My Dad is paying for the trip for my graduation present to me - he is so sweet. I love him so much.

    I found out the reason they are not using me in the case right now, because they said when he put me on disability he put me on disability for fibroid tumors and that is a fraud.  I dont get it because the fibroid tumors were really hurting my lower back, but they dont want to bring that into court and make it look bad.  I dont know how that would make me look bad in court, because I am not the Dr, he is.and he knows what he can put me on disabiltity for or not.  I dont know!  I just hope they dont try to turn that around on me because I really had problems..  Anyways like you all said - focus on the positive and not the negative.  God is good!  First James 1 is great.  I read that this morning regarding trials and tribulations - I recommend you read it too.


    God is love, and I love you all.  

    Thanks for being wonderful sisters to me.  Dont forget to let me know about the sleeve and if its only real high altitudes.  Okay.


    Love u....

  • PAlady
    PAlady Member Posts: 176
    edited July 2008

    Hi Ladies!

    Jenn - Hope your MRI goes well today.

    D1 - I can totally relate on the not realizing we don't have much hair. I do the same thing. When I wore my wig, I always wondered what I was seeing in the mirror too, as I didn't think it looked to bad, but man when I saw pictures, I thought they were horrid! That's why I gave it up and just wore scarves.

    No whipped cream involved...you gotta get your mind out of the gutter!

    In my next life I will have a dh who cooks. Mine doesn't even grill! If dinner is on him, its time for pizza or grilled cheese. He has so many other fine qualities that I just overlook it!

    Carol - So is your hair the same length it was, just shorter? If so, lucky you! When you mentioned foils, I drooled! My beautician is hoping mine will be long enough to pull through a cap next week when I go. My fingers are crossed.

    I agree with D1, you will be tired from the rads. Luckily mine never hit till about 2 weeks after - didn't last too long thankfully. You will probably recover quickly, too with all the exercise you do.

    Dana - I have no answer for you on the sleeve. Nice of your dad to send you on a trip!

    Sun is shining here! Have a great day all.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2008

    D1, I've seen your photo with short hair. Girl, you look almost as good as I do with short hair ! Embrace it. The complements just don't stop.

    2 full weeks of Rads down. 4+ more to go. When I look in the mirror I don't see any reaction ... if I look down at the skin there is the faintest hint of the beginning of some pinkness. The skin seems a little sensitive, but nothing I even notice most of the time. Energy level is fine ... I started my exercising again this week ... treadmill and free weights. I reset my weight to 3 lb on the right (surgery) side ... trying to build that back up to 15. Don't want to aggravate the arm. Lymphedema guides say weightlifting is ok and there is no restriction on weight but you have to build up slowly.

    Cording is almost totally gone, though I feel it a little bit in ... of all places ... my wrist area. That must be the last part of it to disintegrate. Shoulder is a little weak still, and ROM is about 90%+ I'd guesstimate.

    I've also noticed my joints feeling creaky since I started Rads. Talked to the RadOnc about it yesterday, he says it's not likely from the Rads nor from switching from Centrum Silver to Flintstones vitamins. (I'm not so sure about that ....) He thinks it's from the Taxol/Herceptin. I dunno. I had the last Taxol at the beginning of May ... the joint pains started when Rads started. Ahhhh, who knows. It's not bad, but they ache for a few minutes whenever I get up, even if I've been sitting only a short while.

    Speaking of Herceptin, I have an infusion this afternoon. All I'm noticing from that is a slight GI sensitivity. Mostly the first week after.

    Hope all have a great weekend. I plan a big kitchen cleanup. 

  • RN2teach
    RN2teach Member Posts: 312
    edited July 2008

    Good morning!

    Still working on cleaning and organizing at home. Amazing how quickly things accumulate, isn't it? Our dishwasher bit the dust Tuesday evening. Boy, was I miffed to have to unload that baby and wash everything by hand! So... as if the $2,000 worth of medical bills that just came in wasn't enough strain on the budget, we added a new dishwasher to the mix. I know it is a luxury, but I replaced it anyway.

    We're also dealing with a debt collection agency for an $820 medical bill that was never billed to our insurance AND for which we NEVER received a bill prior to it being turned over to the agency. We were first contacted in April and I gave the company my insurance info. Received a second phone call in May verifying insurance info AND another phone call in June checking our insurance information. Got a credit report Monday and learned that this bill is listed. So, I contacted NCO... spent over an hour on the phone, calling 3 different numbers and speaking with 7+ people... none of whom could verify that our insurance had been billed. (I know from my EOBs that no claim has been filed). Did a little research on the company and learned that there is already a $1.5 million judgment against them for violations. Also found out that I should have gotten a written notification of this account prior to any phone contact. So, I filled a complaint with the FTC and fired off a certified letter to NCO requesting the full details of this account. We have always paid our bills and had excellent credit, so this has got me fired up!

    On a positive note, dh is feeling so good. Thank God! He is doing a few handyman jobs around the house (he loves that kind of thing) and installed the new dishwasher Wednesday. He's even thrown a few compliments my way-something he was faithful about doing all the years of our marriage until the brain tumor 2 years ago. Since then I've had a long dry spell without those warm fuzzies. It is so nice to see the romantic side of him again!

    So, how are things in the Jewel world?

    Looks like SISKimberly is off to Tahoe. How nice!

    Carol- got your message Wednesday. I got a couple of salmon fillets with my king. Thank you again for the treat!

    YIKES! Burning on the back, eh? Wonder if having the mastectomy is the reason you're experiencing that and the rest of us didn't... I think you're the only Jewel in rads with a pancake. I hope the grease is keeping it under control! So, you should be down to 10 rads to go, right? 2 more weeks and you're finished!

    So, you're sporting a fresh new hair color! That's got to feel good. I'm still waiting to see what color mine is going to be. I see lots of my original brown, but I'm sure there's lots of silver in there. The longest strands have no color at all, making it difficult to tell the exact color...

    Julie- getting geared up for school, huh? I have been to my classroom and dropped a few things off, but haven't worked on anything yet. We go to our career and tech ed conference next week and get our new curriculum, so I'll be getting started after that. I go back to work Aug. 14th. I'll probably spend a lot of afternoons at school after conference. I am moving classrooms and I'd like to get that done before I start back to work. I'm the lead health occupations teacher and I'm getting the best classroom-I'll have my own bathroom, a laundry room, and a closet! Yeehaw!

    WTG getting ds to help you organize your classroom. I plan to get ds and dd to help me move. As an added bonus, dd's boyfriend is something of a computer guru and I'll be taking him along to get my ‘puters cleaned up and ready for school.

    Hope your dh is feeling better!

    D1- LOL at the middle toes flipping off the rest! I know it's been a while since the first ones bailed ship. Are they growing back yet? I think I might keep mine. I trimmed them last week and most of the dark is gone. My fingernails are still weak and ugly, but most of the discolored areas have been trimmed away on them, too.

    Ditto on the shock of looking in the mirror. I haven't worn a topper since mid-June and I forget how bald I look until I see myself. I had one of those compliments on the short ‘do this week. Nice to finally have enough hair that someone might think I intended to have this style!

    I have to thank you and our other cooks here for inspiring me to get back in the kitchen. I've been totally NOT interested in cooking and have been just doing the basics for months now. I'm ready to have some fun in the kitchen again!

    Norma- hey, I've noticed the same thing-my legs don't hurt as much. My doc started me on Mirapex for Restless Leg Syndrome back in June and I don't have to take it every night now.

    Add my son to the video game junkies list. His biggest obsession right now is Guitar Hero, but he also loves to play Halo. I'm feeling a little guilty for letting him spend too much time on the games this summer... I know there are worse things he could be doing, but it just seems like such a waste of time...

    We are having the same problem with visiting schools-the summer is passing too quickly! Good luck with your college searches. I know my ds will stay in state. He has the grades and ACT scores for our state Promise scholarship, which pays full tuition.  

    Make sure to let us know when we can order the calendar. I definitely want one! How exciting to know someone who is involved in cancer research. His invention sounds promising!

    LJ- glad you're enjoying the new DR. LOL-my cats have an affinity for the DR table also. We have an island in our kitchen where we usually eat. It took a good week squirting them with water to train them to stay off the counters. It worked. Wasn't up to the fight for the DR-figured I could wash the table down easily enough!

    CathyCA- Wow! Sounds like your ds did VERY well, considering he had impacted teeth...

    We are wireless here, too, and with the push of a button I can turn off the kids' internet access. Comes in very handy during the school months, but I have been letting it go this summer. Maybe I shouldn't have...

    Hope your Herceptin infusion goes smoothly today.

    Jenn- I'll be thinking of you today as you have the MRI. Hope that goes well... sharing D1's image of you bouncing around the MRI table...

    Dana- you're in my thoughts and prayers, too. I'm pleased that the doctor is getting his just rewards for his terrible behavior. I'm also relieved that you won't have to be involved in the criminal case-you have enough irons in the fire right now! If they don't need your testimony to convict him, so be it. You will be able to concentrate on school and your health. It seems to me that your chances of winning your civil case would increase with his criminal conviction. Could you hold off on the civil suit until after you graduate? It would surely be a lot less stressful for you.

    A cruise?! What a fabulous graduation gift!

    Kathy- so sorry that you've got a bug, but good to know there's an explanation for the symptoms you had earlier this week. I know you're looking forward to being off this weekend. Rest well and feel better soon!

    I teach CPR to my students, so did the AHA and ARC classes to certify as an instructor. It is one of my favorite things to teach in the classroom.

    Sherry- my friend, you have nothing to feel guilty about. The great thing about the Jewels is that each of us has our own life to live, even though we are connected by BC. I get so much joy reading about what everyone is doing. By reading about the ways that our Gems enrich their lives, I find new ways to add joy to mine. I'm getting so much pleasure sharing the wedding plans and anticipation with you. Thank you!

    Oh my! Look at the time... gotta run-I have a lunch date with some friends...

    See ya, Paula

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited July 2008

    Dana -- What a great graduation present.  I'm sure you'll love your cruise.  I was told by the lymphedema specialist that I only needed to wear a sleeve when I'm over 3,000 feet in elevation.  Which port has the canopy excursion?  I did that in Costa Rica a couple years ago and it was a lot of fun.

  • kris60
    kris60 Member Posts: 91
    edited July 2008

    the youngest 'chia pet' signing in to say hiyas.  That's what the top of my head looks like.  Took my first tamoxifin this morning. only 1,825 to go (give or take a few).  I'm also taking a st josephs baby aspirin a day. The blood clot thing scares the hell out of me.  I called to get an annual PAP set up yesterday, and the soonest I can get in is 2 months from now. :(  I don't have to go bck to see the ONC until November, but will have my mam and chest xray done a week prior. 

    If I keep my port in, it will need to be flushed once a month, still undecided on what to do about it.  One hand I want it out, deductible is paid etc... but I'm just so tired of surgeries, meds, feeling like dookie etc... that I don't want to deal with yet another surgery to get it taken out, I'm just tired of all this (sorry, a little vent).  I really am in good spirits though.  I just don't want to deal with anymore atm.  Maybe when I get over the muscle aches and get my lil piggies back I'll be able to make a decision.  Other than that, it's hotter than hell here, only 104 ish, that makes for hibernation.  Time to go start dinner

    Hang in there everyone and take care

    Kris

  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited July 2008

    Did you use those chicken boobies for some Friday night epicurean delight, Carol?  We ordered pizza.

    The mom is good.  I'm supposed to be reading the next draft of the book she's writing and she calls me in the afternoons (and I love chatting away with her), but that's the time I'd read.   So I guess I'll be lugging the manuscript on the plane with me.  It's heavy.

    You keep mentioning your cooking classes, CathyCA.  There's a part of me that wonders if that would be something in which I'd be interested.  I used to hate cooking, but in recent years I find I actually like it-as long as I have a lot of time and don't have to do the shopping.  Otherwise, I think my dh feels the way you do about the kitchen-it's his territory!  Our cupboards extend to the ceiling in our house, which is okay for him, he's 6'5", but I have to use a stool to get the stuff down and I'm 5'9"!

    Thanks, KathyL, the nail thing totally blows.  I'm trying to decide if I should go without polish on cation (I haven't been without polish on my toes for probably 15 years), or if I should brush up on my Vietnamese and try to talk to my nail gal about some sort of acrylic for the big toes till they grow out so I can polish them.  (I don't know why, buy I really like the toenail polish.)  The other toes are fine.  They're short (read that to say slivers of nail), but my toes aren't much anyway, so a short nail isn't the end of the world.  But the big toes, now that's my statement.  And I like the way the polish looks with my toe ring-it's all plain without the polish...  What a dilemma...

    So how's your dog?  Sam is the same age as Kippy and I don't think of that as old.  I hope the seizures have abated and that he's back to his old self.

    Sherry-I can see what Kimberly means about the color, but I really like your dress and like what you're trying to do with the color scheme of the wedding.  Perhaps her idea of a scarf or (was it Paula?) the idea of experimenting with a little more makeup would keep you from washing out.  Frankly, I think your gigantic smile will brighten up everything.

    It sucks that you're experiencing energy problems with the Tamox.  I stopped taking it today for 3 weeks and am interested to watch my body and see what, if any, changes I notice.  You better believe I'll be telling you all what I experience.

    LWDana-I think I'm the resident le expert (although if anyone wants the mantle, I'm more than happy to pass it on).  To be safe, I'd wear a sleeve when you zip line.  I wear one when I exercise or do something strenuous-like clean house (I haven't had sex, yet, so I don't know if I need the sleeve for that-ooops, TMI).  A zip line requires you to use strength and hold your arm in a position for a period of time-those are le no-no's.   If you have a sleeve, wear it.  You can wash it out in the sink in your hotel to keep it fresh.  Use the hotel shampoo bottles for soap and then roll your sleeve up in a towel to "wring" out the excess water.  It should dry overnight.  You do not want to aggravate anything.  My sleeves are from a company called Juzo and even though they can make me sweat, I find I can wear them at the gym and be fine (I've adjusted-so give yourself a chance).  There are apparently different thicknesses of sleeve, but I've never specified anything and have gotten the same sleeve 4 times already.  If you need more info, let me know and I'll go upstairs and check on the style number to pass along.  I'm feeling lazy right now.

    Oh, and a zip line is a most exhilarating experience!  I absolutely love doing that!

    PALady, you make me smile with your stories of your reflection.  Haven't we all been there???

    Well, LJ.  Since you have not posted a pic of yourself with your very cool ‘do, I think I can claim the prize.  Perhaps you look almost as good as I do....

    Take it easy on the weights during rads.  I think my overzealousness contributed to my rotator cuff issue.  Rads will kinda tighten everything up (it will go away, so don't panic), but in the meantime, you don't want to do any damage.  Slow going on the weights and keep up the cardio-I think that's the ticket.  Oh, and stretching is muy importante.  But I think you're in to that already, if I remember correctly.  And the "old person" joints are too familiar.  I think mine was from the Taxotere (a cousin of Taxol), and it took much longer to dissipate than I expected, so don't be surprised.  Our oncs are in denial most of the time when it comes to se's (who wants to think they're responsible for so many aches and pains?), so  believe in yourself-you're in tune with your body and you know what's up.

    Example:  my dh and I were just chuckling last week over the fact that I no longer seem to have urinary leakage when I exercise.  At the end of chemo I mentioned to my onc that I was having to wear a pad in my panties to combat leakage at the gym and wondered if that was a chemo se.  He said no, I should see a urologist.  Well, here I am 5 months out from chemo and suddenly realizing that the leakage is no longer a problem.  Coincidence???  I think not.

    Paula-amazing amazon post!  So fun to hear you weighing in-I really appreciate your point of view.  I lol at you having to unload your dishwasher and wash by hand-we've gone through 3 dishwashers in 14 years here and I know all too well the frustration of realizing that all that crap in the dw has to be washed by hand.  Ugh.  Personally, I think the dishwasher is a necessity, not a luxury.

    And then more insurance issues...

    So happy to hear that Ed is installing the dishwasher.  That's a great sign.  I hope things continue to go well for him.  I'll continue to send good vibes.

    I think you're right about Carol's back burner.  Since she's zapping a pancake, she doesn't have all the fatty tissue the rest of us have to absorb the rays, so it's passing right through her.  What a trooper she is.

    Oh, and you all are talking about your sons as video junkies.  May I say we did not get an x-box for a very long time, even though my dh asserted that the girls would "love" it as a Christmas present.  When we finally got one, it was very apparent that the x-box was for him!  He likes Halo, Guitar Hero (but only when one of us is around to "challenge"-read that to say lose to him), and Call of Duty.  He used to love the NBA game, but dd created an uber team that crushed him every time, so they stopped playing.  He really is just a boy.

    Kris-I'm taking St. Joe's every day, too.  Funny the blood clots scare me, too.  I think they scare my onc because he's having me take a break while I'm on cation since there's so much flying involved in my trip.  I can't believe I'll be on a plane in a week and on my way!!!

    You know what?  Fuck you cancer.  I'm getting on with life.

    Well now, that's a good place to stop, isn't it?

    D1

  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited July 2008

    Hey CathyCA, where did you zip line in Costa Rica?  We did it, too, in Guanacaste, Costa Rica (the Nicoya Peninsula).  We stayed at Punta Islita--heaven, imo.  I keep saying we need to return, but I keep getting outvoted (they say there are so many places in the world...).  It was an interesting drive there--we had to cross a river bed in our 4 wheeler!  I think they'll need to figure out a better way to get their guests in, not everyone wants to drive through a river...   (I screamed the whole way, but I didn't want to double back as we'd passed some nasty looking indigenous male cow-like animals on the way that were in the road and we had to "herd" them out of the way.  I figured whatever was ahead was not going to be worse than what was behind...)  Gotta love adventure.

    D1

  • kris60
    kris60 Member Posts: 91
    edited July 2008

    lol you rock D1 

    I'll even 2nd it for you... Fuck you cancer.  I'm getting on with life too.

  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited July 2008

    D1 - thanks for all the information.  I weight lift all the time, run and use the arm as normal and havent had any problems with it. I  asked the Nurse and Dr today and they said unless I am above a very high altitude I shouldnt be concerned. I will see once I get there what its like.  Thanks again for all your help.  I greatly appreciate it.

    Cathy, the canopy is Puerto Vallarta and Cabo San Lucas.  I will see if I really want to do it, because I am scared of heights a little bit. But I always like to conquer my fears, and if Cancer hasnt killed me yet I dont think that will - he ha.

    Paula, I agree allow the others to go to court and testify and I will wait for Civil. I dont know what is going to happen with the Civil, but it looks a lot better when you have guilty verdict but u cant sue someone really when he is doing big time in prison - well I dont think you can.  That is why I am going now for it.  I leave it all to God and allow his will to be done.

    I went to the Dr today and he said no chemo still he and other Drs agree since I am so strong er and pr positive that tamoxifen is the way to go.  So i will be on this for another 4 months or so. I lost 9 pounds since last month and I plan on losing another 20 to 30 pounds.  Eating lower calories and lots of protein has been helping me.  My BP is really high from the zoladex shot and I have to get on high bp pills now which is fine because I have been getting migraines lately.  I am going next week to get blood work on my estrogen, and liver so I pray all shows good results.

    I am thrilled to be on tamoxifen for a awhile cause I dont want to be on chemo while I try to go on this vacation because it sometimes zaps you. 

    Thanks again Ladies for lovely me.

    Love ya!!

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited July 2008

    Hi Ladies, finally got a chance to go on-line tonight on my dh's laptop with an air-card.  My lovely ds decided last night to unplug our wireless/router and anything else he saw plugged in down in our spare bedroom where a couple of buddies we're spending the night.  Zach informed me he didn't want the guys going on-line ... needless to say, he has totally screwed up our connections.  I was seeing red when I got home from work (early today), wanting to do some bookwork and of course see what was up with the Jewels and I have no connection.  The dh is trying to figure out what the heck he did as I type here.

    Had my simulation for my boost area today, I have 3 more regular sessions before doing 7 boosts.  I was given some gel pads to stick on my most sensitive areas yesterday.  They work pretty good to relieve some of the burning along with my aloe, saline compresses and Aquaphor.  This has become quite the process, and that light at the end of this particular tunnel is getting a bit brighter. 

    So off to Seattle tomorrow, walking a 18 miler which is the only walking that I have done all week. 

    Being its almost 10 tonight and I'm not even close to being the night owl of Paula or Sis Kimberly, I will just read the days postings and call it good for tonight, hope you all have a pleasant weekend, Carol

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited July 2008

    Dh got up early to go fishing with our oldest son, so I figured I could get my shutouts done.  Other than going to a used book sale at the library and a few errands, I have a pretty boring day planned. 

    Kathy -- congratulations on becoming a CPR instructor.  I was certified years ago and enjoyed eaching the classes.  I know a lot of hospitals require CPR of the family before they will discharge a cardiac patient.  Hope you and your family had a wonderful time at the church carnival.

    SheShe -- make sure you talk with your onc about your problems with Tamox.  I'm not on it, so don't speak from personal experience, but I know it causes more problems for some than others and you have to weigh if the benefits outweigh the negatives.

    Dana -- if you are only going to do one zip line adventure, I'd vote for Cabo.  There's not much else to do there, but Puerta Vallarta has a lot of other options including just wandering around a very pretty town.

    PALady -- I'm going topless more and more.  I still wear caps if I'm running errands or something just so I don't get funny looks, but at places where most people know my story, I figure why not.

    LJ -- that's great that you are back to exercising.  I think that really helps combat the rads fatigue.  Make sure you lubricate everywhere.  I didn't do under my arm because I didn't think it was really gettting zapped and that's the place that got red first. 

    Paula -- sorry to hear that you are dealing with insurance issues.  We had the same thing happen to us many years ago.  Dh dislocated his shoulder and went to the ER.  We received several of the "this is not a bill" correspondences from the hospital, but never a bill.  We assumed the insurance had covered everything and didn't find out it had gone to collection until we were refinancing our house and it was on the credit report.  We had never even received a bill from the collection people.

    Kris -- I still have my port because I'm receiving Herceptin until January, but I've read elsewhere on this site that port removal is a very easy, painless procedure.  I know how you feel about just wanting to be left alone, but it sounds like it's done in office with just steri strips for a few days -- no stiches. 

    D1 -- We were on a Panama Canal cruise when we went to Costa Rica, so it was a shore excursion and I didn't pay a lot of attention to where we were other than I know it was on the Pacific side.  Have you ever tried cave tubing?  The cruise we're doing in December stops in Belize and I've had several people tell me cave tubing there is a blast.

    I love taking cooking class, but don't make very complicated dishes at home.  Class is four hours, so there's lots of time for prep, cooking, eating and cleanup, but I never feel like taking that much time at home.  You show up and the ingredients are already there, so no shopping involved.

    Carol -- Once you get to boosts it is definitely the downhill side.  I see the rads onc on Monday for what I hope is my final visit.  Just never clicked with those people.  Take care on your 18 miler.  We're only up to 7, which I'm doing tomorrow.

  • JulieK_11_30_07
    JulieK_11_30_07 Member Posts: 260
    edited July 2008

    Happy Saturday, Jewels!! It's been BUSY here the last couple days. Ds and I spent most of yesterday organizing and pricing junk for the yard sale --- it's been rescheduled for next Saturday so ds and dh are just getting ready to drive down our contributions! My sil is hosting it - with my surgery on Tuesday, I'm not sure if I'll be up to overseeing it, but we'll see. I didn't think we were going to have too much, but was I ever wrong!! My dh's extended Tahoe is filled to the brim and we also have a trailer with some furniture on it. Hope it all sells b/c I don't want any of it back!

    Things are a little busy around here this weekend - just trying to get all the yard work, laundry, etc. done and caught up before my surgery. I've read all of the posts, but don't have time for much more. Please know I'm thinking about each of you --- D1 -- I ditto your sentiments!! BTW - have you said where you're going for 'cation?? I can't recall.

    Be well, Jewels!!

    Love, Julie

  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited July 2008

    Good Morning Jewels,
    I am back. It was a productive two days. We got my Study Skills class outlined pretty specifically and my Language Arts class outlined in a way that will make my life a bit easier down the line. Now, I just need to get the first few units put together so I’m ahead of the game when school starts, and then put future units together once the school years begins.

    Tahoe was beautiful. It was in the mid 80’s, which is hot for Tahoe, but there was blue sky and no smoke. We are still dealing with smokey haze here in Lincoln, although it isn’t nearly as bad as it has been.  It should be clear by midweek according to the weather folk.

    I hit some balls at the golf course. Putting, chipping (if you can call what I did chipping ugh), and I even hit some balls at the driving range. I think I can go back to my instructor now. WhooHoo.

    Other than that, we cooked dinner in each night. I cooked one meal: poached salmon and butternut squash. My friend made chicken in marinara sauce, ravioli, and salad.

     OK, funny story. We were attempting to open a bottle of Viognier when the wine opener broke inside the cork leaving the screw part sticking out of the cork. We couldn't budge the cork, so went to Raleys to get a new wine opener and a wrench to pry the old cork out...HaHa not happening. So, we gave up on that and opened a different bottle. My friend will have her son work on that bottle for her later.

    HOA vs our Fence update. The committee still does not agree. They want us to replace the fence with the original fencing and design. We’ll be attending the next meeting August 12th to discuss with them what exactly they are objecting to other than the materials we used…we used two of the OK’d three materials and the guidelines say only one can be used. Greg thinks they are pissed that we didn’t get their blessing from the start. We submitted our plans, Greg went to the meeting, and all they said was they wanted more details whatever that means. We did not provide them with more details as most everyone on our street did their work, took pics, then submitted plans.  During the meeting, there was NO mention of anything in the plans being out of compliance at that point. Wouldn’t that have been a good time to say, ‘we notice your fence plan is made of two materials instead of one, and that can’t be done’?  So, we’ll go to the meeting and see what we can do to soothe their ruffled feathers.

    I’ve read all the posts, but am getting ready to spend the day with my honey, so don’t have time to do shout outs.

    Have a great Saturday.  SIS Kimberly 

  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited July 2008

    Cathy - so you have gone  on the crusie that I am about to go on? Did you have a nice time?  It states that you have canopy in Cabo and Puerto.  I am going to snorkel, dolphin swim, and canopy but I just have to figure which one I want to do on what island.  I am so excited, I cant wait...  God has truly blessed me!

  • LilWarrior
    LilWarrior Member Posts: 268
    edited July 2008

    Have a blessed weekend my Lovely Jewels!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited July 2008

    Hi Dana -- I've been on various cruises along the Pacific side of Mexico.  Through the years I"ve been to Ensenada, Cabo, Puerta Vallarta, Mazatlan, Acapulco, Zihuatenejo, Manzanillo, and Huatulco.  Which cruise line are you going to be on and which ports are you seeing?

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited July 2008

    Happy Saturday Eve,

    Whew, it was a long one today, left the house at 5:45am and got home at 6:00 this eve.  Today's walk was another 18+ miler, with a lunch break at mile 12.  I was a bit concerned about the tightness in my chest and arm for today's walk, but between a gel patch and a wet bandana which I layed over my shoulder and let hang inside my shirt, all was good. 

    I will be missing the team's training walk tomorrow, will have to hit the pavement here at home for atleast a few miles.  Off in the early afternoon for a family barb'que, at my "ex" sil's.  It is pretty cool that Kent and I have been included in many of my ex's family get-to-gethers.  We're just one big happy family which is how it should be when there are kids in the mix!!!

    So Kimberly, We're planning on having our golf clubs with us, I'm not sure if my skin will loosen up enough to swing them (chipping and putting will work!!!), but just in case I'll be equipped.  We're planning to meet our friends on weekend two back up in Portland to golf and watch the Lady Pros.  So does the hubby golf?

    Cathy, sorry to hear that your rad office personnel we're not "your cup of tea", I can honestly say that the office I go to they are ALL fantastic.  Although I won't miss the txt, I do enjoy chatting with the staff. 

    Paula, you got it right gal, 10 more to go and counting.  So I'm wondering who's salmon you received?????   Hoping that Ed's tummy will continue to feel better, great news gal! 

    I'm pooping out as I sit here tonight, will be checking back in tomorrow, here's to a great Sunday for all ...

    Carol

  • texrn
    texrn Member Posts: 99
    edited July 2008

    Hi All!

    Sorry to have been gone so long - between playing "cruise ship director" to my children this summer, occasional small get-a-aways as a family, working, & studying, w/ a few computer problems thrown in, I ended up being out-of-pocket longer than I had planned.

    My, you all have been busy!!! Since I'm posting from work I don't have time for individual shout-outs, but, overall, everyone sounds like they're moving right along!

    I had my first follow-up appt w/ my onc last Thursday...and all is well. Only had a physical exam & labwork done - but it all looks great & I feel great!! - so I'm good to go for another 4 months/40,000miles until my next follow-up! Next visit he's going to throw in a chest xray ( will have one annually ) with the labwork. I was somewhat anxious about this appt for a few days prior to the actual appt -  but now that I've made it through yet another "first" hurdle, I'm feeling like I'm finally on my way to making it to the "other" side of all this. Yes, I know I have many follow-ups ahead of me, but making through my "first" one feels like a small accomplishment. Like they say, 'it's the little things that matter'.

    I'd better get back to work - you all are continually in my thoughts & prayers.

    Take care,

    Therese

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