What to do?
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I posted on another site but it was suggested that I post here because I am triple neg.
I really have two questions. I have mets to my liver, bones (including spine), and lungs. My onc once mentioned getting a biopsy but we decided that the mets are most likely from the bc. Should I reconsider a biopsy?
They also want me to get MRI for possible brain mets. I just can't seem to do that. I just couldn't handle have brain mets. what to do?
chris
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Hi Chris,
I just had an MRI to check to rule out brain mets or MS. It wasn't a pleasant experience, but the time went by pretty fast. It only took less than an hour.
If I listen carefully as I read your message, it sounds more like you don't want anymore negative information right now. You have already been given news that is difficult to process.
As I prepared for my MRI, I read a little bit about brain cancer. In my little bit of research, I read some articles that stated the prognosis is better if they catch it early. I don't think this means you have to decide tonight or tomorrow. Take a few days and catch your breath. Your fight will come back. Until is does lean on us.
I will keep you in my thoughts,
Warmly,
Sadie
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Thank you Sadie, you are exactly right...enough bad news for right now. I hate MRIs - but I also understand the need for early detection. I sound like I know what I am doing
Thanks again
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Some people get a biopsy of the new mets to recheck the er/pr and her2 status. There have been cases when these have changed and it can make a difference in choice of treatments.
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Chris,
One thing you might want to consider is that sometimes the pathology of the cancer can change over time. If it has been a long time since your first diagnosis and pathology, a biopsy might be a good idea. You want to be sure to take advantage of all the treatments available for your particular cancer. I believe I read that as much as 25% of cancers are found to have a different pathology over time.
I understand your feelings about an MRI. Having stage IV means we are met with a steady flow of treatment choices and scans. It can produce a lot of anxiety (as I am sure you know!). One thing that might help you with the MRI is to request something like XANAX to help relax you for the scan. I wish I had more advice for you--MRIs are hard for me too and waiting for the results is even harder.
(((HUGS)))
Diane
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