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  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    Ran......good luck with the house......and let me know how Narnia compares to the first......son wants to see it but daughter could care less......I will check back for your review......and that way we'll all know that the house got cleaned.....lol

    Jax

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 6,099
    edited May 2008

    Dawn, I'm jumping over here from the Taxotere/Cytoxan board.  I wondered why you were getting TC x 6 dose-dense, too, but now that I've read what your tumor looked like, it makes more sense.

    I'll bet these are the reasons your onco wants to approach this thing aggressively:

    1) your tumor was nearly 2 cm. One cm and 2 cm are sort of magic cutoffs oncos use when thinking about recurrence risk.  My IDC was also 1.8 cm, and that was one factor my onco used in recommending chemo at all.

    2) your tumor was grade 3.  That means its growth patterns were aggressive, and that can pose a greater risk of spread--one more reason to mount a strong attack.

    3) you had 2 positive nodes.  That is probably the main reason why your onco wanted to use a stronger chemo regimen.  The tumor cells had already escaped from the breast tissue.  You probably know the significance of the positive nodes.

    The only other factor my onco used in deciding what I would get was my Oncotype score, which was 26. That pushed him (my first onco) farther toward recommending chemo. Yes, Oncotype testing is currently approved just for node-negative BC; but that might change some day.

    otter

    [Note added in edit: I forgot.  One more factor my onco used was age--older patients tend to benefit less from chemo, and have less aggressive tumors (and have fewer years to preserve). He said I was still "young".  :)     Apparently, a few more years under my belt and he would have leaned the other way.] 

  • deecsw
    deecsw Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2008

    Thanks for your input, Otter. What you are saying makes sense. I assume the Grade 3 is what really pushed my onco towards TC x6 along with the tumor size. Oh, and I also just turned 41 in March.

    I will, however, discuss this further with my nurse and my onco when I go into the office next week. Again, he did say it could be x4 but that I should "count on x 6." Maybe he doesn't want me to get my hopes up for 4...

  • SanDeeLou
    SanDeeLou Member Posts: 96
    edited May 2008

    Tina,

    She is wonderful, I had seen her before when I had breast cancer on the right side  in 2001.  the cancer was caught so early that I didn't need chemo or radiation.

    My appointment is 10:30, I believe, but I'll probably be a few minutes early.  Maybe we'll run ito each other,  BTW, I'm still reading the purple folder.  I live in Hardee County, a very small town called Ona.  I work in Arcadia at the sheriff's office, so most of the time I'll be in my uniform, green shirt and tan pants, once I start chemo.  I hope to get on the Thursday afternoon schedule.

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    Hey KKing.....just notice that you were from Brampton.....That's where I grew up.....Professor's Lake......small world......wonder if you would be willing to share your age.......maybe we know each other.....

    JAX

  • KKing
    KKing Member Posts: 425
    edited May 2008

    Hey scaredmomof2,

    Actually right now I live across Bramalea Rd from Professor's lake.  I will be 46 in July... what about you??

  • StaceyR
    StaceyR Member Posts: 136
    edited May 2008

    LibraGirl, that's awesome that we get to do that fitness study, I think!  I haven't been given my category yet, but I'm like you, pretty active, so I was happy to say yes to getting involved.

    I'm totally scared to lose my hair, but I managed to drag myself to a wig shop for a consultation the other day where they specialize in situations like this, and although I teared up at one point, the lady was *totally* professional and excellent at her job.  She selected a great wig for me right away (although I insisted on trying on a few others to get a comparison).  So I'm feeling better about that, at least.

  • hunkydory
    hunkydory Member Posts: 1,241
    edited May 2011

    I will be starting my chemo in June too I am assuming.  I had a mastectomy May 14 and a port put in this last Friday.  I have appt with onc this Wednesday to schedule scans and all the rest.  Had a lot of postitive nodes and know I am a stage 3, as well as an emotional wreck.  I am expecting very aggressive txs.  I have been reading all these board topics inside out and decided to log in.   I am very glad to have a place like this to educate myself as to what's around the corner.  deecsw, my "poop hit the fan" too and I can't seem to get the speed turned down! 

  • rmpoulsen
    rmpoulsen Member Posts: 7
    edited May 2008

    I am starting Chemo on June 4th. I am ready to get this started since I had a bilateral masectomy 3 weeks ago but and very concerned what my life will become. I am still very tired all the time and since fatigue is one of the most commons side effects of chemo I can't imagine how I will feel. I can easily let me house cleaning go but I have a 19 year old with a disability that needs alot of attention with daily life skills. She is my inspiration. She has had a tough life and if she can get through her trials and tribulations so can I. Best of luck to all and I am so thankful to have found this community for support.

    Renee, mother to Becca 19 special needs-my hero, my inspiration

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    KKing.....36....37 in July....so we probably didn't hang in the same circles........but neat that we've met here.....hows that great big new hospital....we moved away just before they started building it...

    Renee....good luck to you....I have young kids....8 and 6.......and being a mom is demanding at the best of times....I imagine you have had to be a very hands on mom for longer than most of us......and that makes you a very special person......you will get through this for you and Becca......but don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.....remember to take care of you too......

    Sad that the list keeps on growing.....but glad to have a place to call home on this board......really enjoyed keeping up with the "May surgery gals"......looked forward to logging on to check how everyone was doing?.....kinda weird....I know.....but kinda where my heads at right now.....

    Jax

  • KKing
    KKing Member Posts: 425
    edited May 2008

    Yes, our group does seem to be growingCry...  but at least we do have one another to tag a long with.

    Jax,  it is kinda funny... the new hospital is great.. since I am a regular there now... the care has been amazing.

    It is so hard for all us mom's to think we have to deal with this problem and still want to keep life so normal at home.  I have two,  my daughter is 20 and my son is 17. They are self sufficient but it was so hard to tell them about this.  Like you said Renee that she is your inspiration... I think our children are what make us strong to fight this.

    I figure I will start drinking a lot more water over the next week to get ready for the beginning of June.  I keep reading that lots of water should help. 

    Keeping you all in my prayers.

    Karen 

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    It is hard to tell the kids.....I am putting that off.........they know I had surgery........but I told them it was just like daughters tonsil surgery from a couple of years ago.......when I got home they wanted to look down my throat and pump me full of ice cream.....lol....they do realize now that the surgery was under my arm.....and that's where we are........I know I will have to tell them before my hair falls out......but figure I have more than a month....till that happens.......and there is no sense in worrying them yet......I am quite sure my daughter will be very upset about the bald......she is very vain.....I think it's her age.....but she does think of herself as quite a Diva.....and all her little friends think I'm the "cool" mom......woops........don't know how I can keep up that image tired and bald......but it's amazing what we can do for our children......my son probably won't even notice......he is a truely male.......lol

    Jax

  • hunkydory
    hunkydory Member Posts: 1,241
    edited May 2011

    I agree with you Karen about mom's trying to keep life normal at home and with friends.  I certainly have tried my whole life for a "miss congeniality" award with friends.  I am too scared now for that.  I have a wonderful husband and a 29 year old son whom are both scared to death right now as well as I am.  I still am trying to put my fear on the back burner for them.  Guess that's part of what moms/wives do.  Renee...you just have a little more heat on your back burner I'm guessing.  You will be better than anyone on keeping it controlled I have a feeling .  God bless you all. 

  • deecsw
    deecsw Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2008

    hunkydory and rmpoulson--quoting those wacky high school musical kids, "we're all in this together" (can you tell I have a 7-year-old?). It sounds like we'll be starting tx at the same time. I am happy to have found this site and this thread and hope that we all can be helpful to each other over the next few months. I hope it's not as bad as I'm anticipating. Think positive..think positive...

  • Westie
    Westie Member Posts: 89
    edited May 2008

    Well, I'll be joining you.  I'm starting 16 weeks of dose dense chemo in about 3 weeks.  This board is such a good source of info.  Thanks, all!

  • Mar04
    Mar04 Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2008

    Hi Ladies,

    I am a June girl too.  I am set to start chemo on June 4th.  I am starting to get pretty scared and am wondering if I am even going to be taking the right chemo.  I am supposed to start on AC followed by T for 8 cycles.  I am triple negative and now am hearing that Adriamycin may not really work for triple negative cancer.  There is so much information out there - how do we know what is best. 

    I have ordered my wig and it's being custom colored now.  I will have it cut to my regular hairstyle on the day I go in to have my head shaved.  I really can't even believe that I am talking about myself when I say this.  Even though I have had my lumpectomy, tons of dr. appts, etc.... I still can't believe this is happening to ME!

  • Bonnie02
    Bonnie02 Member Posts: 193
    edited May 2008

    Hi from Canada,

    I will be starting chemo either at the end of the week or the first week in June, would love to have some freinds to go through this with as I am not looking forward to chemo at all. I had a breast mastectomy first (right breast) now chemo and a follow up of some sort total of 15 months at the 6 month time I will be staring radiation for 16 days. Sure hoping to get lots of freinds on here.

    Bonnie

  • texasmom
    texasmom Member Posts: 121
    edited May 2008

    LibraGirl, looks like our diagnosis was about the same except I had negative hormone receptors. I am getting my cath put in this Friday. I start chemo on June 6th but am getting TC + Herceptin. We may be the only people in this group getting Herceptin. Do you have to take it for one year?

    I went to Walmart and bought a couple of hats. They were brightly colored patchwork hats with narrow brims all around. The are soft and look washable. These are multicolor but they had a couple of solid colors too. They were $7 each. I haven't found any inexpensive cotton scarves and bandanas don't seem to be big enough. Any ideas anyone?

    I also thought the wigs looked too puffy and looked like a birdsnest sitting on top of my head. I found an inexpensive one I thought was cute but my husband doesn't like it. My daughter and I overruled him. It is a kind of bright color (kind of reddish, highlited alot) for me but it didn't make me look as pale as the others and I thought it would be fun to wear sometimes. I am going next weekend to look at more wigs and get something neared the color of my hair. I cut it a little shorter this past weekend so I wouldn't have so much to buzz later.

    I have been wondering if my eyebrow hair will fall out. Anyone had any experience with this? I found eyebrow tattos, wigs and kits to draw them one. The temporary waterproof tatoos were the cheapest but sound weird. I have no idea if this will happen or what to do if it does. Maybe I can just get wigs with long bangs that will hide the eyebrow area and not worry about it.

    I started a 'chemo box' and put everything in one area so it would be easy to find. I went shopping and got some of the items others have recommended we have on hand. I made a good start but I still need a couple of things. I don't know how I will feel and my husband is not a good shopper so don't want to leave it for him to do. Undecided 

    Glad to see we have a group going but sad we had to meet under these circumstances.  

  • familyroks
    familyroks Member Posts: 575
    edited May 2008

    Texas - have you tried this website?

    http://www.sparklingearth.com/products.asp?category=100044

    I ordered 3 of these on a Friday and had them by Monday.  They are also having a sale right now that I think cuts 10% off of your price (which are reasonable to begin with).  I think you can go to their homepage to get their coupon code, for the discount.

  • kiya123
    kiya123 Member Posts: 24
    edited May 2008

    Looks like chemo is luxury for me....I had bone scan and my oncologist  is not happy about it. I will have a biopsy now....every thing is uncertain at this point....

  • wondering7
    wondering7 Member Posts: 108
    edited May 2008

    Round two june 10/08. Am getting through the neulasta, no fever just low energy, eating light, packing a bag to go out with me. Found I would have some flu like symptons but not enough to take a tylenol. Have a better focus for round two as soon as I sober up!!W

  • Bonnie02
    Bonnie02 Member Posts: 193
    edited May 2008

    Hi Everyone,

    Welll looks like the chemo starts for sure on Thursday May 29, so I will be joining in here for sure. Can't make up my mind as to a wig or scarf or maybe both. This is the one thing that is bothering me. Hope I have time to get a wig before I need it. Talk to you all later

    Bonnie

    BC Canada

  • deecsw
    deecsw Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2008

    Hi all,

    I met with the nurse practitioner at my oncologist's office today and we have made some changes to my treatment plan. Instead of them saying I will be having 4-6 infusions/treatments, the decision has been made for a DEFINITE 4!  Plus, they will take place every THREE weeks, not every two weeks (now I get a bit of a break!). The nurse and doctor discussed the "dense dose" and felt that every 2 weeks was just too much. Apparently, they know of women who have developed pulmonary problems (!) from the 2-week regimen, so it's OUT!

    I will now finish chemo EARLIER than I first thought (barring no difficulties), finishing on August 5th. However, there was a glitch today-I had blood drawn at the doc's office last week and for some reason my creatinine (sp?) number was high (kidney related) and so was my liver enzyme. This is VERY puzzling as I have never had a problem before this and even the doc says that it would have been odd for MSKCC to have agreed to do the surgery at all if there was a problem. I don't remember them taking blood from me the entire time I was hospitalized, however, I vaguely remember them taking some just before the surgery (same day). Is it possible that all they checked was my CBC and did not do panels?

    Blood was drawn again today and hopefully this was a lab error. Doc and I cannot imagine how I could have developed a kidney problem "all of a sudden." Just what I need! If the numbers come back high again, he will have to send me to a nephrologist first before administering any chemo. So this wonderful new schedule could be KAPUT and chemo could end up being delayed!!!

    I ask for your positive thoughts for the test to come back within normal range!!!!!! At least I'll find out by tomorrow afternoon.

    Dawn

  • hunkydory
    hunkydory Member Posts: 1,241
    edited May 2011

    Good luck to you Bonnie.  I see my onco tomorrow so will know more then about my treatments too.  I have a strange feeling my txs are going to be aggressive so I am scared sh*&less right now, thus no need for stool softners yet.  You should have time for wig or scarf from what I have read.  Anyway...hope all is going well for everyone starting in this nightmare we have just begun. 

  • Vinogal
    Vinogal Member Posts: 439
    edited May 2008

    Dawn....sending out positive thoughts.......((hugs))

    Westie.....see that your almost my neighboor.......do alot of my shopping and all our movie in Ancaster.......are you having your chemo at the Jerivinski Centre in Hamilton?......have you met with your oncologist yet?......maybe we'll end up on a similar schedule......what a small scary world.....

    Bonnie......I see that you're a Canuck also........where do you call home?

    Familyrocks......thanks for the link......I ordered some skull caps yesterday from a different place.....but there are some really nice ones there.....I think I will order a cople more....

    Texas......have you considered going to a fabric store.....can get some great fabrics.....very inexpensively.....and make scarves in any size you want.....larger ones......leave room to mess around with different tieing(sp?) styles.....you can hem the edge........but you can also leave it raw........it will fray over time......but.......I actually like the way they look frayed......I have done this .....often........spend a lot of time at the beach and have always experimented........with different head coverings.....just a thought...chemo box sounds like a good idea.....thanks

    As for me.....had my post-op today.......of course....as this whole process has gone for me.....there was both good and bad news.......good news.......the sentinal node was the only involved node......phew.......er +....pr+.......don't know how I feel about that......I'm not sure why.......but I wrongfully assumed that I would be negative......so haven't done a lot of reading about Tamoxifen.....but surgeon made it sound like good news........bad news........margins are "muddy"........she wants to move on to chemo first and then do new mamms in 3 months.....to decide what additional surgery, re-excision....or mastectomy....is necessary before moving onto radiation.......so..... an even longer road ahead.......should be getting the call from the onco tomorrow......Did buy a wig today.....not sure if I love it.....but the colour was great.....and I didn't hate it.......so atleast I have one so far......which feels better.....and then I can take some more time to look around and order some online and stuff.....

    Jax

  • Bonnie02
    Bonnie02 Member Posts: 193
    edited May 2008

    Well here I am at 4 AM not able to sleep so came here to see you all.  My home town is Crofton, which I doubt anyone knows where it is. Well it is on Vancouver Island in BC Canada. I am taking chemo in Duncan but my main Cancer hospital is in Victoria, I am lucky enough to be able to take chemo much closer to home. Take care everyone and good luck with treatments.

    Bonnie

  • Bonnie02
    Bonnie02 Member Posts: 193
    edited May 2008

    Well here I am at 4 AM not able to sleep so came here to see you all.  My home town is Crofton, which I doubt anyone knows where it is. Well it is on Vancouver Island in BC Canada. I am taking chemo in Duncan but my main Cancer hospital is in Victoria, I am lucky enough to be able to take chemo much closer to home. Take care everyone and good luck with treatments.

    Bonnie

  • deecsw
    deecsw Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2008

    Got a call about 10 minutes ago regarding the blood test--all is NORMAL, there was a definite lab error. The tests from 5/19 were run twice and the first set was normal, second set was not. The nurse thinks they may have retested someone else's vial. Nice, huh? In any case, my Creatinine level is 0.7, not 2.3 as they reported from last week. Big difference, eh?

    Chemo will start as planned on 6/3.

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 6,099
    edited May 2008

    Oh, my goodness.  That was NOT a trivial error.  I am so glad that your test results turned out to be normal, but having the lab (or the person who labeled the tubes) make that type of error is really scary.  I hate to think what would have happened if your doc had believed those first results.

    So, now you're getting TC x 4, right?

    otter 

  • deecsw
    deecsw Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2008

    Yes, not trivial. I guess I will have to stay on top of test results if they continue to use that lab. They said they knew something must be off and so they took another sample yesterday to be certain. They have placed a call to the lab to discuss what happened. What's even more disturbing is that some other patient in that office has some serious issues (including a very high blood sugar level) and they probably have no idea who that is.

    Yes, I will receive TC x4, every three weeks, starting 6/3.

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