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rels77a
rels77a Member Posts: 9
edited June 2014 in Young With Breast Cancer

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  • rels77a
    rels77a Member Posts: 9
    edited May 2008

    hey guys... i don't post here all that often, but the chat room was a lifeline to me when i was going throught treatment.  just thought i'd give some of you something to look forward to, hope for, whatever.

    i was diagnosed a little over 2 years ago just after my 29th birthday.  i did surgery, chemo, rads and was on the SOFT trial for over a year.  a few months ago, i was given the okay to take a break from the drugs and try to get pregnant.  i actually had frozen embryos from when i was diagnosed and all my docs agreed that i should just use them, as then maybe we could control how quickly i got pregnant, etc.  a couple of months ago, i had an oophorectomy since i wouldn't need my ovaries and it made me feel better in the time i'd be off tamoxifen.

    well a week ago i was implanted with 2 embryos and today i got confirmation that i am in fact, pregnant... after breast cancer, even being er/pr positive and without any ovaries.

    it's about time my body stops betraying me. 

    i know when i was diagnosed all i could think about was having a family and i never got someone to share a story like this.  hopefully it will make someone realize it can happen. 

  • Little-G
    Little-G Member Posts: 647
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I wish you a very healthy pregnancy, a healthy baby and a very LONG and happy life!!!!! 

    Stay well!!

    g

  • KLynn
    KLynn Member Posts: 1,407
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations Rels----

        That is wonderful news..Take the time to relax and pamper yourself.....Rest rest , rest.....Don't push yourself too much..Okay now I sound like an old  lady...Sorry. Just want to see you enjoy your pregnancy... Best wishes to you and your family.. Keep us posted ..Hugs KLynn

  • Yogi70
    Yogi70 Member Posts: 654
    edited May 2008
    CONGRATULATIONS!!!  I JUST KNOW YOU WILL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY.  GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
  • Jani_
    Jani_ Member Posts: 90
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations! That is just the most wonderful news!

    God bless you and your family.

  • MelbMum
    MelbMum Member Posts: 31
    edited May 2008

    That is absolutely fabulous news!!Smile

    It is absolutely amazing what can be done these days (ie freezing embryos).

    Hope all goes well!!

  • ozzie2
    ozzie2 Member Posts: 1,271
    edited May 2008

    WOW what fantastic news Congrats... to you an hubby...keeping it all crossed for u...

    hugs

    oz

  • celia088
    celia088 Member Posts: 2,570
    edited May 2008

    hey rels!!!

    totally great news!!!!

    congrats to you and hubby!!!!

    it is so nice to see a post of yours!

    hugs,

    celia 

  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Member Posts: 3,793
    edited May 2008

    What an inspiring story for you yound ladies who've gone through this fight!  WTG!  All the best for you and your family dear! :D

  • jezza
    jezza Member Posts: 698
    edited May 2008

    Rels...Thankyou for sharing your news. Your story will give hope to so many!

    Oh and Congratulations!!

    jezza

  • Dejaboo
    Dejaboo Member Posts: 2,916
    edited May 2008
    Congratulations!   Thats is Such Wonderful News, You  made me Smile & Cry-Happy Tears  Smile
  • Pharmmom
    Pharmmom Member Posts: 300
    edited May 2008

    What wonderful happy happy news! 

  • BethNY
    BethNY Member Posts: 2,710
    edited May 2008

    court, I love you somuch and I'm sooo happy for you!!!  I can't wait to see this little life in you, and then after the baby comes, we can all laugh in cancer's face together.

    This is such a great way to start my day.  Sending you a huge hug across the states.  I love you!! And you best be emailing me with belly pictures, and the like.

    congratulations!!!  With no ovaries to boot!

    I love you girl!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

    CONGRATS! We just love hearing this kind of happy news!

  • Jiwawa
    Jiwawa Member Posts: 1
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations! I am a young breast cancer survivor too. I was diagnosised and treated when I was 32 and now am on tamoxifen for four years and I have been struggling so much to figure our whether I should have a baby plan. My husband loves baby so much!! No doctor can firmly  give me a green light. It seems that it is really my decision whether I want to take this risk. Could you please share with me what is your doctor's advice on whether preganency increases risk of cancer re-occurence?Many thanks! God bless you!

  • LUVmy2girlZ
    LUVmy2girlZ Member Posts: 2,394
    edited May 2008

    rels77a ~

    Thank you so much for your post...there are woman that are in your same situation and hearing such wonderful news as you said, will give them hope.  Its amazing what your body can do and help bring a beautiful blessing in this world...I wish for the both of you the best ..you deserve every bit of it and sound elated in your post! Congratulations !!!!!

    Much LUV

  • spar2
    spar2 Member Posts: 6,827
    edited May 2008

    What a wonderful blessing

  • smithlme
    smithlme Member Posts: 1,322
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations on this miracle! I wish you a world of love and laughter that comes with the blessings of a new baby...

    Linda

  • magsandmattsmom
    magsandmattsmom Member Posts: 424
    edited May 2008

    CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  My post BC miracle will be one in exactly one week.  He brings me and my whole family sooooo much joy.  I'm sure this little one will for you too!!!!!  So very happy for you.

  • wackyjackie
    wackyjackie Member Posts: 669
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations to you. 

     That is such wonderful, uplifting news.  I pray for a happy, healthy pregnancy and a happy, healthy baby.  God Bless You.

    Hugs, Jackie

  • samon
    samon Member Posts: 100
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations.  What exciting news. 

  • wetcoast
    wetcoast Member Posts: 193
    edited May 2008

    Congrats my dear, thrilling wonderful news.

  • SandyAust
    SandyAust Member Posts: 393
    edited May 2008

    That is fabulous news!!!  Truly wonderful.

  • rockwell_girl
    rockwell_girl Member Posts: 1,710
    edited May 2008

    WOW what great news...I hope other young ladies read this and realize there is hope.  Thanks for sharing your awesome news : - )

  • jdash
    jdash Member Posts: 754
    edited May 2008

    rels  that is the best news!!!  i had my first daughter thru artificial insemination after my husband was dx with cancer  ( she is 21 now)

     i know what a miracle that can be!  i am soooooo happy for you!!! 

    enjoy every second of this miracle! 

    BIG HUGS XOXOXO

    julia

  • marla13
    marla13 Member Posts: 128
    edited June 2008

    Hey ladies - I've been gone awhile, but I had a beautiful baby girl March 5th, after treatments for stage 3 BC.  I was dx at 32, and am 34 yrs old now.

    I actually read an article that said that having a baby may actually improve our survival rate.  It also said that being pregnant wouldn't cause it to come back.  That the pregnancy really wouldn't affect that.  So, being the positive thinker I am (or try to be), we decided to go for it.  Got pregnant the first try.  We have our son (7) and now our daugher (3 mos), after losing the twins in my fifth month, just before being dx w/the "c" word.

    So, I say, do what you feel!  For me, it gave me something to look forward to, and helped me kind of forget about the past 3 years.  I did, however, have a placenta accretia, and had to have a hysterectomy - and they also removed my cervix.  So, this was our last.  But, being ever the positive thinker...that's 2 places that the "c" word can't camp out!  LOL  Wink

     Good luck & GO FOR IT!  (If you want...)

     Marla

  • mary6204
    mary6204 Member Posts: 373
    edited June 2008

    What happy news!!!  I love reading wonderful stories like this in the morning.  You deserve all the best and I will pray for you and your little one.  I'm a grandma and it's the best feeling in the world.  Take care of yourself and have a healthy, happy baby.  Mary

  • lilith
    lilith Member Posts: 543
    edited June 2008

    HUGE hugs to you. It is great to read that such happiness can happen. I love reading positive news!!!!

    May you have a happy, easy, healthy pregnancy, a wonderful healthy baby and a long life to enjoy him/her!!! I just KNOW that this is going to happen.

  • kay12
    kay12 Member Posts: 77
    edited August 2008
    Whooooooooohoooooooooo !!!!  Congratulations !  More women like you need to make this type of announcement so this subject can be recognized, researched and supported !!  I hope to be there as well within a year or two.  Smile
  • bermudagem
    bermudagem Member Posts: 337
    edited September 2008

    CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...I hope to be right behind you. I am so happy for you.

    Shelly

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