MOJO Without Matrimony!
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Indeed, JP!
It's lifted both our spirits significantly.
<still grinning like an idiot>
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Rose Im glad....its about time something nice happens in our worlds!!!!
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Well, Happy Earth Day!!! I'm going to celebrate by (hopefully) getting some!!! My young man is coming over and I do believe we have the same 'thing' on our minds!!!
I'll report back.....
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Oooh, good luck, Jaybird!
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You go JB......can't wait to hear all about it...
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Reporting back after last night.....
Well, it wasn't exactly hot monkey sex but it was nice. Does that sound bland??? It wasn't. He's a nice young man and it was, well, nice! We spent too much time chatting in the kitchen before I finally pulled him into the bedroom so we didn't have all that much time nekkid before he left at Midnight but we do plan on getting together again and hopefully time won't get away from us as quickly.
I had plans to see my 'friend' (the one my age with the potbelly and moobs) this Sunday but he cxld and now I'm thinking of inviting this young man over so that we can get all sweaty cutting down my tree, then showering, and then.....
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WAY TO GO JAY!!!!!!!!!!
I vote that you cut down your tree this weekend, well, at least play like your cutting it down
My "friend" is coming over to help me paint......now mind you I NEVER in our convesation said "what" we will be painting.....
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Oooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......Body Paints!!!!!!
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Jay-you just HAD to start it didnt ya
Guess he will be gettin a surprise this weekend......never played with body paints but can definately see where/how it would be fun......
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uhm, Jay - did your young fella have a pumpkin coach? Why'd he have to leave at midnight and give you such an abbreviated amount of time doing the important stuff? Anyway, the chores and mutual soaping up in the shower sounds promising for this weekend. Maybe if he's a little bit taller than you are, standing right up close behind you, something like this might work
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Well, I have to admit, I've never really played with body paints either it sure does sould like fun and the bath/shower afterwards definitely sounds good to me!!!
I think I need to set 'something' up for this weekend.....
(too bad I'm heading to work (NY) today)
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Because your headed to work today you can't play this weekend??? I missed something here!!!!!
Im thinking Pepper and Marin are holding out on us here.....we cant be the only two in this group getting any cant we???
Jule
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Well, you all saw my wig thread, didn't you?
So add me to the list.
Lauren
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Welcome Lorena....
I saw the heading to your wig thread but didnt have time to read it....I will have to go see what you are talking about now...
So how are things going for you?
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You gals are so bad....sorry to disappoint you but I haven't had the time to get in the "sack" with anyone male or female. I have been working on a HUGE case and it is taking all my time...
Told you that I was going to live vicariously through you women for the next few weeks or month until this case is finished.
Paintbrushes are way fun especially around the thigh right on the inside where it curves up to the adbomen....YUMMY....
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Pepper!!!!!!!!!!AND YOU CALLED WHO BAD???????????
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You are so bad Jules.....have fun "painting" and tell me all about it when you get done making your master"piece"......
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Oh Pepper your soooooo funny!!!!!!
Like I would know what to do with body paints!!!!!!! Only in my imagination!!!!!!!
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Your imagination is all you need.....
Enjoy being a woman who is discovering her freedom to let go.....and the rewards will be yours
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Im learning Pepper....guess Im still in training on the BE BAD part of things but training is better than nothin!!!!!!!
Its easy to BE BAD here but I find its a little tougher to really do it so need to try to figure that part out still....
So see Ive thought alot about this and I do have a plan to continue our motto here of BE BAD, BE BAD.
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Like any thing else - it just takes practice.
and now:
BE BAD..... BE BAD......WOMAN!!
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Jule, well, those of us who are in a "dry spell" sexually will just have to enjoy things vicariously through you. My SO -- who is not afraid he'll break me and is not concerned about being sexually turned off by my mastectomy or bald head -- is several states away (yeah, it's a long-term LDR, but he's sweet and I think I'll keep him). But I might be passing through his state in August and plan to spend several days with him. We're both looking forward to that!!!
He's funny. He has a female sphinx cat. He said to me that bald and an atypical number of boobs are not issues with him. LOL
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Well, y'all, I thought I heard my name here somewhere....something about not getting any? Alas, my chicas, it is true. It is menage a mois these days as I await my knight-in-skintight-jeans-with-nothing-underneath-but-a-gorgeous-package
Seriously though, I've been communicating non-stop with this amazing man on chemistry.com and today we spoke on the phone for the first time and I have a dinner date with him tomorrow night. But here's the oddity, girls (hold onto your wigs now)....I absolutely don't want to sleep with him right away! Whaaaaa? I don't though, I really don't because then it will be too much like all of my recent relationships that almost immediately became all about sex. I really, really like this guy (so far) and want to know everything about him....including how he makes love. So it will come (and so will we!), but I want to know him better first.
Of course, I could come back here tomorrow night after our date and tell you I had had the best sex of my life with him, but its unlikely since I'm planning to put on my most secure chastity belt and leave the key home. Why does that sound hot to me? Geez, I need to get laid, ya'll
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Anyway, I'm proud of my chicas here for pursuing what you each deserve....hot MOJO!!!!! Keep on being BAD!!!!!!!
~Marin
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Almost forgot...about the body paints. I never got around to using them with J and actually left them at his house when I flew outta there at the end....BUT....Beth had warned me/us about watching out if you have good sheets and plan to use real food (like honey or chocolate, I guess), so be sure to buy the edible paint intended for just that use. And if you need ideas, why not check out the male lingerie in my first post here and try to "paint" some of the cute undies on your guy......and then lick it off? I think that sounds absolutely yummy, don't you????
~Marin
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marin
i havent been on all week and i was just thinking of you and wondering what was up with your dating life
hope you have a fantastic date with this guy and keep that chastity belt on dont forget hahaha everything good is worth waiting for
tell us all about him
xoxox
julia
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Marin....I KNEW you couldnt do it.....I read your first post and thought "WOW, she's not even going there, but then the next post".....hmmmm, food play sounds like it might be fun to!!!!!!!!!!
Im kind of surprised Beth hasnt chimed in on this thread too...
Its the weekend and Im chanting away
Gotta date tomarrow night and he's kind of like your guy Marin.....almost too good to be true...Im not jumping in the sack with him just yet, but its definately not that I dont want too...he's really hot...
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OOOOPPPPSSSS forgot my chant!!!!!
BE BAD, BE BAD, BE BAD....and one extra just cause its the weekend BE BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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checking on your dates girls....marin ....jpann cant wait to hear how they went
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Well, my girls, I just got in a little while ago and I'm so psyched that I can't sleep. I'll say at the outset that this date was the most angelic I've behaved since freakin' high school, so if you're looking for something steamy, let's wait for Jule or Jaybird to come back with their reports. My evening was all about talking incessantly and feeling super-connected on so many levels. It was seriously amazing! I got to the restaurant first and took a table. He came along in a few minutes and I had the advantage of checking him out from a distance as he approached the restaurant. Hot....the 56 year old man is hot! He's 5'11" and soooooooo cut! Though fully dressed in a nice shirt and slacks, I could see the outline of a hard, sculpted chest and arms. Gorgeous hands , beautiful blue eyes, a full head of hair and a VanDyke beard. Couldn't get a good glimpse of the....ahem....nether regions, but I have high hopes based on what I could see. Anyway, we got there at 7pm and closed the place. We never stopped talking and there still wasn't enough time! He's leaving on 5/8 for a trip to Russia, so we agreed that we need to take advantage of what little time we'll have before then. And I don't care what we do as long as I get to see him again. Oh and btw, my chicas, I'd definitely swear that this guy isn't even close to psycho or abusive like some of my guys in the not-so-distant past. I hope.....
Now where are you BAD GIRLS? I need some hot stories!
~Marin
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marin thats awesome! what a great feeling to connect with someone like that - my guy just turned 57 and he has the body of a 25 yr old - love a man that stays in shape!
i hate to sound like a kill joy lol but my advice this time is to take it a bit slow and see if that pays off this time let him go away without being intimate with him and make him think about all the while he is away ! just my advice and sometimes i am right
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