Where Are The "Oldbies"?
Comments
-
The Yvonne from South Africa turned out to be very weird and got into a lot of aggro with various members.......and was banned......
It seemed in 'those days' we got rather a lot of trolls and funny people coming on the boards.Thank goodness it doesn't really happen now. Thank you BC.Org!
-
Hi Sam:
I see and now that you mention
do recall some members back at that time
Anyway, nice we are all here
to touch base with each other
Love your kitty kat
Hugs,
Sierra -
Hey all, I'm still dancing with "NED"!!!!!!!!! Thank F'ing God! I have to take 800 mg./Advil the day before I start the Actonel again, and then for the first week, every 8 hrs. If that doesn't keep the bone pain at bay, on to Vicodin!
Yvonne Jones was from the states....I remember the first or second year I was on this site, we had a Xmas card exchange, so I know she was from here. Must've been another Yvonne.
I'm going to see the derm doc for my "psoriasis" toe nail! Then, if my manicurist can't give me a fake one, fuck them, I'll find another nail salon.
Later all.
-
I am an oldie too. I was diagnosed in 2002. I am on and off here. Glad to see so many familiar names!
Barb
-
Ok, thought of a few more I haven't seen around: Flashdif, Lee Lee, and where the heck's Patti (BeachCottages?). Anyone remember Ginger? She was dx'd. the summer I was in '02 and we met twice in Vegas (where she lives, and my hubby had business trips there).
God, I'm sure there are sooo many others, and I seem to recall all of you once you show up here, but damned if I can remember the names beforehand.
-
Hi girls, I'm checking in - I was dx in 04 and had my surgery in 05. I remember a lot of you.
Laura, I thought I was the only one whose nail turns some gross color and falls off. I have to get my skin painted too until the nail grows back. It's doing good right now.
-
Hi,
Guess I got confused
re the Yvonnes, sorry
Really nice to see everyone here
Where is PATS and all the ladies who are
from New England, that uses to post
N H.. and so on??? And Iris, a v. special lady
so many, I forget the names now. .(chemofog))
Sierra -
Laura,
Congrats on dancing with NED! Always great news and what a relief. Sorry about the toenail!
I remember when we all exchanged Xmas cards. I still have them and it was so amazing getting cards from all over the world. I remember Yvonne and Flashdiff and BeachCottage Patti and Ginger.
I think they need a new section called Oldbies just so we can post updates!
-
Sierra:
I definitely remember the Yvonne from South Africa too - you realy weren't confused - guess there were just two Yvonnes, that's all. The Yvonne from South Africa started collecting teddy bears for sick kids, do you remember that?? I do b/c I send her a couple of teddy bears, back then, to distribute.
Take care,
Pat
-
Sometimes, I wonder where everyone has "moved on" to! You hope if you haven't heard from someone, that they are okay, and just"moving beyond cancer"....then again, you worry if something has happened to them.
My reasons for staying away was that it got too depressing to see all my bc sisters that had been given angel wings. I would lurk just to read posts and catch up, and get so down, I swore I'd never come back again.
But, I miss the cameraderie, the cursing, the jokes, the humor, anything to take my mind off this cancer shit.
I hope everyone that's going for tests gets flying colors like I recently did.
Later, guys.
-
Good news, indeed, Laura. Now, take a deep breath and go have fun! Get that gross toenail fixed, okay? A girl deserves pretty feet!
Anne
-
Hi there Pat:
Yes, that is right
and a few other things
Best to you tonight
Laura: Yes, so true, you do wonder whatever
happened to people, that is why I tend to pop in
when possible)
Hugs)
I think there used to be parties
and all kinds of .. activities here then
LOL -
That's right, Sierra. We all went to Australia one Christmas, remember? Great fun!
Awhile back I asked the moderators for a forum for us oldies, but I never heard back from them. It wasn't just about catching up with friends, but I wanted to have a place to talk and ask questions about long-term side effects from treatment. Some of us have completed AI therapy, others are charging on to a second AI for another 5 years. Some have developed heart problems or delayed lymphedema or...???? There are just plain questions about "moving on" and how we all really feel about our lives 3 or 5 or 15 years out. There's not a forum that's quite right for that, y'know? Just a thought,
Binney
-
Another "oldbie" checking in. Have been gone for a bit and just found this thread. Great to see some old names pop up--glad all are doing well.
My board participation is sporadic. Too many topics now and, way too many people to try and keep up with. I do read often, and try to follow certain posters. Have kept up with a few of the oldbies, and have been to a couple of get-togethers.
I try to "move on" but cannot completely sever myself from the boards and the people who helped get me through a really dark time in my life.
There are so many names I miss seeing post! They are thought of often with much love. Sunshine sent me my very first PM and Sprite kicked my butt out of a pity party gutter I'd fallen into.
Big hugggsssss to you "oldbies"! May we continute to partner with NED and cherish the memories of our sisters who continue to surround us with love.
junie
-
Well, if they won't give us our own "oldie" thread, I guess we'll just have to keep this one going. I'm glad my thread seems to be getting a lot of responses.
Ya know, there are sooo many more forums here, and so many newbies....what about moving wayyy beyond cancer, what with long term side effects, as another poster mentioned? As long as we're in an "oldbie" thread, why not discuss it here?
My main gripe right now is that even after almost six years after dx and tx, I am STILL losing my damned big toe nails. One year, it's one toe, the next year the other toe. I also somehow started to experience psoriasis symptoms post chemo. First it was on my scalp, then my arms and legs, and it seems to have settled in my toenails. Thank God my nails on my hands are still okay. I blame chemo for the initial loss of my toenails, but now, I've also got psoriasis to blame. I call the condition "sorry asses"...LOL.
What are some of your complaints after tx are long gone? I'm not even going to bring up chemo pause and hot flashes, I'll leave that to someone else to mention!
Later all.
-
Laura...did you get one of the taxanes? It was taxotere that messed up all my nails; my fingernails recovered but my big toenails are still very weird,nearly 6 years after treatment. They are very thick, almost like double nails, and as a result are in-growing. I saw a podiatrist for years but now I 'manage' them on my own, digging into the sides and cutting where I shouldn't cut. If I don't, I can hardly walk for the pain.....
I still have muscle issues too......my upper leg muscles seem to have disappeared and I have a dx of fibromyalgia which mainly affects my upper back and neck.
Thanks to chemo and aromasin, I also have a dx of osteoporosis now.
Apart from that....so far,so good!
Sam
-
Another "oldbie" checking in with some memories. What happened to Biscotti? She was from Pittsburgh and last I heard had developed leukemia as a side effect of chemo, but was expected to recover. Biscotti--if you read this, please check in.
Also, remember the marine biologist? I think she called herself Seawolf or something similar.
Laura--I just lost my big toenail for the third time and I finished chemo in Jan. 2002. Went to the dermatologist when it grew in funky and fell off the second time and it isn't fungus or "sorry ass" but probably just a long term effect of the chemo (taxotere).
Other complaints. Developed lymphedema in 2005. (Binney was particularly helpful.) My hair is thinning since I switched to femara (from tamoxifen) a year ago. Eyebrows never really returned to normal. Before chemo they were perfect, my best feature (no kidding!). Now they are sparse, blond and scraggly. I have to use an eyebrow pencil, god forbid. (This may be my punishment for making fun of a woman at church when I was a kid. She plucked out all of her eyebrows and drew on exaggerated dark 1940's arched brows.)
Glad to hear that your tests were normal. I try to minimize time here, but find myself lurking more when faced with any tests even routine mammograms. I've had 3 benign biopsies since finishing treatment in April 2002 and am scheduled for another biopsy on Friday. Wish me luck. Here's hoping it is nothing. It didn't show up on an MRI, but has been visible (and stable) on u.s. for the past couple of years. Radiologist A was convinced that it was probably fibroelastic tissue (or something like that) but radiologist B and C want it out. Sigh.
Shouldn't really complain. All in all, I have been pretty healthy.
Sue
-
LOL.. I sure as heck
should not be complaining
as .. it is great to be here..
I am so lucky
but....
CHEMOFOG..
LOL
Sierra -
It's great to see all you oldbies checking in.
I guess you could call me a "middlebie" (2005).
I remember reading your posts when this was all new to me and I want to thank those of you who answered my questions, either directly or in conversations with others.
I was around for the Christmas party in Australia -a pleasant diversion right in the middle of my treatment. It was Saskia who got that started. She was so lively, I hope she's okay.
I hope we'll all be checking in in 5, 10, 20 years.
Stay well, ladies.
Peggy -
Hi Peg..
good to see you.. I remember you,
if it is the same Peg. you had a different
px.. wish I could see, it to be sure
anyway,
best to you
Sierra
so nice to see all here
Yes, there was a party at N Y
with a N Z theme.. I have chemofog
but.. love all of your reminders here
Hi Binney))) be well
Tks for the thread Laura))
-
Well, I guess I'm a "middlebie", too (2005). You ladies were the ones offering me support when I first came to this board. You were all life savers for me.
The Christmas party Saskia hosted for us in Australia is one I will never forget. It was the first time that I really started to laugh and have fun after my diagnosis.
I do miss the "old days" when there were less topics and it was easier to keep in touch with each other. I miss seeing the "birthday cakes" when it's someone's birthday, too.
I don't come by here very much anymore....but, glad I came by and found this post.
hugs to all,
vicki
-
Hello,
Just thought I would check in here as an "oldbie" too, although I hesitated because I used to call myself a professional thread killer!
Somebody please prove me wrong.
I do lurk quite often and am glad to see so many people still around. And like others, I'm very sad to see how many have gotten their wings. I'm 6+ years out and doing pretty well... I have a beautiful daughter who was born on 07/07/07, and I just got married a few months ago. I like to say that life began (again) at 40 for me! I hope to be dancing with NED for a looooooong time.
hugs to everyone,
LeeAnn
p.s. edited to add, here's Franny!
"
-
LeeAnn,
No way to kill a thread with news of a new baby!! Congrats! Life has truly moved beyond breast cancer for you. I'm thrilled beyond words for this news!
It is so nice seeing everyone here, and bringing back the memories of those who have left us. Bittersweet.
Anne
-
LeeAnn:
What wonderful, wonderful news!! a BABY . . . I just love babies!!! Thanks for sharing your miracle with us.
Love,
Pat
-
Hi everyone, I'm an oldbie now, too. I remember when we all hung out in the first thread "just diagnosed" and Flash referred to "Moving Beyond Cancer" as where the big kids play! Now, I guess, we're the big kids!
I'm doing well. Just had my 5 year anniversary.
LeeAnn, I laughed at your comment about being a thread killer. I've often thought that about myself - but I didn't have a term for it. It would seem I'd finally post and then the thread would fade away.....
Let's hope this thread stays around for awhile. Thanks for starting it Laura.
Barb
-
Hi you guys! It is nice to be back 5 years later happy and healthy! I quit coming to the boards for many reasons... I had so many complications, had a new knee (completely elective, my equivalent to a face lift! LOL) and am now focused on a rebirth, a happy, healthy life!
Laura, I also have a toenail that comes off--not the big one, but the one next to it-annoying in the summer. And, I have lymphadema, but it is mild. Sometimes I wear a sleeve and it goes right back down to size. But, I guess I am lucky because it never gets too bad. The physical therapist says that she can rid of most cases of lymphadema, and for now mine does not get too bad, so I do not think about it much.
Sachi, I think of you so often! How are you! Just think girl-5 years ago we were so scared. I remember how bold and beautiful you were when I met you in NYC without your wig. Didn't we have fun! I hope some newbies read this and know there is light at the end of the tunnel. I used to read the posts of those before us and pray that we would be one of them and now we are!!!
Sierra, your posts were always so welcomed. You write like a poet and you are inspiring.Lee Ann, your baby is beautiful--what a beautiful gift of life!
I would love to hear from some of our other sisters--Flash, Beach Cottage, Gloria, Leelee, Wendy, Big Jims Wife, there were so many!
Stacy (Sunshine) and Tinkerbell, Sprite, Fighter lu, I think of you often. I know you look upon us from time to time! Tinkerbell, I cherish the tinkerbell wind chime I won in NYC. Everytime it rings I think of you! Mr Tinkerbell I hope you have found happiness. It meant so much to us when you came to our reunion. I remember how lovely your daughter is. Stacy, it was fun shopping with you in the Hamptons. I have the picture I bought hanging in my office! I am glad I met you! I will always remember your positive attitude and your brave fight.
Hope I have not been a thread killer! Hugs to you all!
Rosebudd
-
Lee Ann,
I remember the professional thread killer. I am still laughing about it. Does anyone remember me? I may have been the original thread killer.
I was dx in April 2004. Anniversary of that date is coming soon.
-
I'm September '04, don't know if I qualify. A middlebie? I went through treatment around the same time as BethNY and Fitztwins and Kimmytoo's second round. I remember FighterLu and Theresa and all our old friends who are gone.
-
Oh, I just have to tell you. I just listened to the ME song "I Run For Life" on youtube with a slide show and I'm seeing all these familiar names who have meant so much to me over the past few years and I am just overwhelmed with love for you all.
It is so wonderful to see you all well and having LIVES!!!!! We are watched over by some outstanding angels and we are living for them as well.
Blessings to all.
-
Ladies..I'm a middlebie (2005) but I remember most of you being here to get me through the chemo and rads and whatevers.
It's sooo good to read your posts here and..LeeAnn...your baby is adorable..can't get better than that!
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team