Roll Call - 2005, how are ya?
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Hello. Its getting close to my 3 year anniversary. It will be official in April. Had a bilateral mastectomy, removal of ovaries, and reconstruction with expanders/implants on June 2, 2005. Im Stage 2B, er/pr negative. Her2+ although failed herceptin after 12 rounds r/t heart issues. One positive lymph node and brca2 positive. 8 rounds of chemo dose dense. 4 rounds of A/C, 1 round of Taxol, and 3 rounds of Taxotere.
Im finding my 3 year anniversary to be much easier than my 2 year anniversary for some reason.
Up until now things have been a struggle. This or that. Fagtigue, depression you name it. Still have chemo brain, but I noticed this past week I have a skip back in my walk. Something I didnt ever think would return.
I know some of you were diagnosed with mets from the onset, others have had reoccurances, and others are doing good at remaining NED.
So I just wanted to say hello and hear about how you all are doing. I dont know how I would have survived without bc.org and your friendships.
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Hey NNN! I'm here and surviving. No hormonal tx, just Evista. I crossed my 3-year anniversary on March 3rd. I still think about (my) BC daily but I don't dwell on it. I'm glad you're doing well/better. We definitely need a Chicago get-together!
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Hi Nicki
I'm sherryw, we used to chat a lot in 05.
I was dx 3 years ago on 2/14/05, lumpectomy and axillary node dissection 3/3/05. I had a 2 cm IDC & 3+ nodes out of 17.
I had 4 A/C, 12 Taxol, 52 herceptin & 36 radiation tx. I was er/pr+ her2+.
During my treatments I ended up with pancreatitis & had my gallbladder removed. I spent 56 days in the hospital on and off for 3 months, for the pain from my gallbladder and the pancreatitis. They didn't want to remove my gallbladder until I was done with chemo, however, I got a fever and so they had to remove it. I was on the pain killers for 3 months so I ended up getting addicted to them and had to be weaned off of them.
I started out on Tamoxifin but then I had a full hysterectomy, so then I was able to start on Arimidex. But I had a lot of body and bone pain from that so about a month and a half ago I started on Femara, so far it is more tolerable. I still cannot sleep so I take sleeping pills every night.
I still have not been able to go back to work because I cannot focus hardly at all. As of last oncologist visit in January,
I am still dancing with NED.
So I guess we can say I am a 3 year survivorwomen.
sherry
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I found my lump 12/7/04. Had my mammo and US. Went to the surgeon. Surgeon was 90% sure it was bc. Had my biopsy right after Christmas. I think I heard from Duke at the very end of Dec '04. So, I'm three years three months out from dx. I had 4.5 cm IDC, ER+ 100%/PR+ 90%, neoadjuvant chemo -- dose dense AC/Taxol, right mast 6/05, rads, six months Xeloda, and now I've been on Arimidex 2 years May 19 (my b'day...LOL).
I'm still here abeit sometimes my head's in the clouds.
Shirley
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Hi'diagnosed in Sept,2005. So coming up to three years.
So far so good for me. Mastectomy, 4FAC,4TH then 1 year oh H alone. Recon, Nov,2007. Oh and 25 rads!
BC is still very much in my thoughts but I do my best to not let it dominate. Nice to hear from you all.
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hi 2005ers... i was dx'd on july 19th 2005, so 3 years will be coming up soon... i was doing great until this past oct. when i developed an infection w/ my left implant and it had to be removed. feb 2008 was really just a blur... i went in on the 13th to have an expander put in, was home a week and got a fever, so back i went to have it removed and was in the hospital for 5 days having intravenous antibiotics... so, now i'm back to a uni-boob... but i feel good, and that is what matters. i don't know what the future holds for my reconstruction, my ps says to wait at least a year, if not more... at this point i don't want to see another operating room ever!! i had a hysterectomy at the time of my original surgery, so dealing w/ menopause is what really irks me now... the aches, the pains, the memory loss, the lack of sex drive... i could go on... lol! the only real thing that matters is that i too am dancing w/ NED... what a guy
barbara
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Cool! Looks like we have known each other awhile, cause I recognize all of you.
Janis: Whats so silly is that we live about 5 minutes from each other and have never met. We definitely need to get together. A group is gonna meet at Maggianos by Woodfield. Maybe you could go?
Sherry: Of course I remember you from the chat. It was around this time I first found bco and I spent hours upon hours on the chat everyday. Now because of work - I stick with the discussion boards. Cant imagine having pancreatitis in addition to going through this whole journey and chemo. Yuck.
Shirley: Its always good to see you
Maryann: I love your boxing gloves and I sort of even remember the story behind you getting them. I too think of breast cancer almost everyday, the thoughts are just getting easier to deal with.
Barbara: Gosh darn, what a bummer. So 3 years later and your still dealing with sugeries and stuff. Im sending a big hug to you. Glad for the dancing though.
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Hi Nicki and my other 2005 Sisters!!
I was diagnosed 2005, stage IIIb IBC, and I am doing pretty well. Tx was fairly long, and I am so very grateful that the drug herceptin was available.
Life isn't the same as before bc, but it is better in some ways. Definitely don't sweat the small stuff quite as much. I too think about bc every day, but it isn't as disabling as before. It truly gets better each day.
Haven't had recon yet, so have the reminder every day that I am missing a boobie because of bc. But, life is good!!
Lexi
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Hi Nicki and my other 2005 Sisters!!
I was diagnosed 2005, stage IIIb IBC, and I am doing pretty well. Tx was fairly long, and I am so very grateful that the drug herceptin was available.
Life isn't the same as before bc, but it is better in some ways. Definitely don't sweat the small stuff quite as much. I too think about bc every day, but it isn't as disabling as before. It truly gets better each day.
Haven't had recon yet, so have the reminder every day that I am missing a boobie because of bc. But, life is good!!
Lexi
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Hi Ladies, Another 2005'er here. I won't hit my 3 years until September. Diagnosed stage IIb, 2 cm 1 pos node, bi-lateral w/tissue expanders, dd AC/T, then rads, final implants last year. Took Tamoxifen for 3 mos, then ooph then Arimidex and now Femara. So far so good.
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Hi ladies,
Dx'd in June so a few months away from 3 years - feeling pretty good (especially since onc told me avg with mets was 2 yrs - figure this is all gravy!)
Glad to hear everyone seems to be doing well - you've all made this much easier to go through.
Take care,
Kari
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Hey Girls,
I was diagnosed and operated on (bilat. mast with tissue expander recon.) in late December 04, but consider myself an 05 gal because I started treatment in Jan 05. I had a total hyst in August of 05 and finished the recon later that year.
I just celebrated 3 yrs this past Dec 2/07 and hopefully will have many more cancer free years as I hope all my girl friends here will too!
I'm not here much these days, busy with work and life but always check in to see how my friends are doing. This place was my support and lifeline for so long, like NNN, I don't think I would be sane now if not for BC.org.
love you guys, Tina
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KariLyn, were you a metster from the start?
I personally knew an er pos lady who had mets to her lung and bones for 15 years, she died in her mid 80's. She had many good years.
Defy the stats! Live on gravy!
I love my gloves too. They were a gift from LauraGTO ,she is one thoughtful, special lady.I have passed them to Chumfry when she went through round 2 last year. my hair is much longer now but that Avatar pretty much defines me.LOL.
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I don't go to the chat much at all these days. They are to hard to follow, remember when we could choose our own color and smilies. It was so much easier to chat before they changed the format. I think its either the Femara, Menopause or chemo brain (pick your poison) that makes my mind so slow its hard to keep up. But, after what we have been through we can choose anyone one of them for an excuse whenever we need to.LOL
. I mostly come and read the boards.
sherry
Nicki and Janis You are really only 5 minutes from each other and have never met, that is hilarious. Oh, I know gas is to high LOL
How did everyones hair come back? Mine came back mostly gray, mind you I was 40 so a little premature, but I did get some wave which I never had before. Now, it is down past my shoulders and I have had several hair cuts. It is pretty much back to pre-bc
but now I have to color every month.
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Greetings to the Class of 2005
I was diagnosed right before Memorial Day weekend, had my surgery in July (left mast and recon) and began the Sept 05 chemo thread (although my first chemo was Aug 30 as the water was coming over the levees in New Orleans-remember that?)
I attended Camp Nukemboobies in Jan and Feb 06.
I am currently on Arimidex with only minor side effects and in spite of all the usual anxieties when I go for a check up, I'm doing great.
By the way, my hair went from mostly blond to brown so I often put a red rinse in to make it more interesting. One thing I discovered is that I have no patience with the blow drying thing anymore, so I've kept it fairly short.
Happy Anniversary to each of you as you cross your 3 year milestones.
May there be many, many more.
Thank you all for sharing your stories and for your continued encouragement!
Peggy
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Hi all,
I just passed my 3 year mark. Diagnosed 2/3/05, lumpectomy 2/14/05 (great Vday present), and started chemo 3/10/05. It is amazing how I remember those dates. Had complete hysterectomy 7/23/07 due to large ovarian cysts. Staying on Tamoxifen for the time being. Just can't bring myself to make the switch to Arimidex. Having no major problems on Tamoxifen so decided to stick with what I know.
Doing great and staying busy! I've gone back to school full time to complete my teaching certificate. Something I always thought I wanted but after cancer, decided the time was now. My baby left for college this past fall so it was time for ME!
Peg - I've kept my hair short too! I always had short hair but never this short - I love it - takes me less than 5 minutes in the morning
I like it when we do these roll calls. That first year - I feel like I lived on bc.org. You guys were my lifeline and it is nice to see the same names again. I was part of the March 2005 chemo buddies and then summer of 2005 Camp Nukemboobies.
Carol -
dx in 04 but started chemo in january 05...so kinda feel like an 05 girl til it comes to counting years out...:)
just got my haircut yesterday any length i wanted because i grew it as long as i wanted cause i could...
went for a snappy little katie holmes bob...love it...
remember my first cut after i got a couple inches, cried the whole time...
yesterday, i walked in like i owned the place and told my stylist what i wanted, got the cut and walked out just like nothing ever happened...
but in my heart, i know "it" did...
i love ned...no doubt about it...
sure hope he sticks around...
if he doesn't, i will deal with it with the profound knowledge my sisters here have given me...
but dang, i love that ned
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Count me in - dx in Dec. 04 but today marks my 3 year anniversary of my bilateral surgery so I'm an 05er. Chemo was two months later. I'm doing well with Ned and have learned not to sweat the small stuff. Recognize many of you - it's good to see you.
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NNN, aka Chemosabi, aka Nickki,
Sure, Maggiano's would be great - just need to know the date!
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Count me in too....you know me, Nicki..just have to say hi
Dx..2000
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Well, I must say Im touched cause I feel like I know so many of you so well.
Lexi: Yes, I recognize you. Your so pretty. Reconstruction or not, we are still here with each other. Didnt think that 3 years ago.
LizM: We are so close in diagnosis. Im about 2 months ahead of you if I count my 3 year survivorship the day I had surgery.
Kari: Its so good to see you. I remember you when your avatar was Mickey Mouse. I really thought you were something. And as a matter of fact, I still do.
Tina: Youve come along way baby!
Mary: Figures that LauraGTO would fit in somewhere with something so cute as those gloves.
Monkey:
Yes I remember the colors and the smileys. It was so much fun. Pajama and pillow fight parties. No more time for the chat - but others there, really know each other and are newbies and bonding just like we did.
Peggy: I just realized that I was one month ahead of you in chemo. When you started, I was ready to quit. Hair is still not the same. I color it so I dont get senior discounts. And Im be darned. Im growing it. Maybe long hair isnt good for this old lady - but I want my old style back.
Carol: That first year? I did live on bco! I was on more hours than I was sleeping. OK waiti a minute. Maybe I have changed alot, but I still am here once a day lol.
lauraap: Just smiled. Good to see you and what a sweet post.
Margo: So we have been around along time. Good to see you. Although I would prefer a different kind of camp.
SoCal: Hahahaha I might have know you the very longest! So if your in need of help well then so cal lisa.
Janet: Hahaha changing names isnt unusual. For my first 12 years I spelled my name Nicky. When I was in 8th grade I realized hey! my parents named me after a boy. So I changed it to Nicki! Alot more feminine. My real name is Nicolette.
Wonderful seeing all of you. Hope to see more. Lova ya all.
Nicki
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Hey - how'd I miss this thread ??? My 3 year anniversay is coming up in April ... doing great ... every now and then I have fears of a recurrance but those are getting fewer and further between ... I've been seeing a neurologist for neuropathy ... and after lots of testing he's said its' of unknown cause - but asked what my oncologist thought - and just had to put out there that neuropathy is sometimes caused by cancer - GEE ... that's exactly what I needed to hear ... If I need to keep seeing a neurologist I think I need to find another one - this one has no clue what mentioning the word cancer does to someone who's previously had cancer ... I can't believe that it's been 3 years!!!
I treasure each of you ... and recognize so many of you ...
Praying for health and happiness for each of you - and hope that you continue to thrive!!!
Doreen
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Hi there ladies! Unoccustomed as I am to the boards, I've spent a couple of hours here the last two nights. I just came upon this thread, and I have to say I'm delighted to hear from some of the ol' gang.
I still go into the chat room regularly, at least for a few minutes. There are always newbies, but some more veteran chatters still show up regularly. I'm still in remission from lung mets, and I have a gut feeling that the BC will be in remission for a long time. Unfortunately, I was found to have a liver tumor on my "routine" CT scan in late August. I had a liver biopsy and radio frequency ablation of the tumor in Nov. It was a totally new kind of cancer...neuroendocrine cancer, that had spread to my liver. To date, the primary site hasn't show up, and it may never do so. The good news is that this is a very indolent form of cancer, and not life threatening. No treatment is needed unless I become symptomatic.
The other big news is that I'm moving to North Carolina in a week. I'll be moving into my mothers' condo near Asheville, and looking after her. She just turned 84 this week, and needs to have someone with her.
Nikki....thanks for checking in on us. Hugs.
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Just checking in. Something special about the Class of 2005.
I was diagnosed Sept 2005.
Nicki..I do believe I also know all of those checking in!!!! (that's cuz I'm a BCO addict cuz that's what bc did to ME!)
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Hi Nutty Nurse Nicki!
Diagnosed August 15th 2005--Surgery Sept 27 2005--Rads (Camp nukem boobie) November 2005. Arimidex ever since. In fact, NNN, I think it was the camp where I first saw your tee pee. Did anyone ever find the words to the camp song? That song helped me to past many an ugly day.
These boards have always been the lighthouse beam in the storm--what a crew--each and everyone.
I'm NED so far. Last week my breast surgeon gave me 7 months between visits! Today the onc gave me one YEAR! I felt like I graduated! What a good feeling
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Still dealing with the SE of Arimidex, but that is what it is. Magnesium considerably reduced the joint pain and lifted much of the cognitive fog. Memory is still a problem...comes with the age and menopause I think. Scheduled for an MRI to check. I'm fairly certain that that will be OK.
After much thought, I started back on Zoloft to take the edge off of chemical menopause...it was too much angry energy exerted.
There aren't words to describe how I feel about all of the ladies here. I'd have been lost without you.
Best wishes to all....as always
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Just popping in to say I am so happy to "see" all of you awesome ladies! You helped me,literally, get through the darkest days of my life. I feel a kinship w/ all of you and just wanted you to know that!!
Lexi
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Hi All
Found my tumor on a routine mammogram in April 2005 (4 months after my Dad died suddenly at 68, 2005 WAS a rotten year). I had my biopsy a few weeks later, and was diagnosed right after Memorial Day 05 at 43. Had my lumpectomy a week later because I wanted it done before my daughter's high school graduation.
Didn't find this site till July, when I got my pathology report. It had a pamphlet of "how to read your pathology report" by Breastcancer.org. I would have loved to have found this site when I was first diagnosed!
Had radiation August through Sept. Dec 05, I chose to have a complete hysterectomy (everything but the vagina). Er and Pr+ plus to get rid of those awful heavy periods (I was still like clockwork, very premenopausal). 2 weeks after the "instant menopause" I was put on Arimidex. Within a month I was having 30 hot flashes a day. I was put on Effexor. After upping the dose a couple of times, the hot flashes went down to 10 a day. I stayed on it till a couple of months ago. I took me a month to come off it. I wanted to try something else. I'm now on Neurontin. I switched to Femara after a year and a half on Arimidex because of all the side effects. Femara was worse. My feet and achille's tendons were so bad I could barely walk. I'm now back on Arimidex, and am seriously thinking of coming off altogether. I'm seeing my oncologist in a couple of weeks, and will see what she thinks. I can't take the aches, the fuzzy memory, the hot flashes, and especially, the loss of all my libido (my poor husband of 25yrs!).
I have been ok, other than those side effects. I still think about the cancer returning, but not as much as I used to. My 2 mammograms since my surgery have come back fine. Thank God!
I do remember Camp Nukemboobee and the song. It was very funny. I remember telling my nurse at my radiation treatments about this website and the name of our rad support page. He thought it was great!
I remember most of you, and am glad to hear you are all doing pretty good. I remember going to this site at least once a day for the first year. Lately it's been about once a month. The support I get from this site is wonderful! I never did join a support group. This was all I needed.
Nicki, I've been to a Maggiano's in Boston. If it's the same chain, it's the best! We took my Mom there for 70th birthday in Dec when we went to see "Mama Mia" (great show if you like Abba). We had 3 bags of leftovers! We go there whenever someone needs to get picked up at Logan Airport. Usually, we fly out of Manchester unless we are flying out of the country. It's only an hour away to Boston, but the traffic is horrible and it could take you 2hrs some days.
Happy 3 year anniversary everyone!
Lynne
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Just had to join the '05 club
Dx 3 years ago this month - 2 days before my birthday - some b/day present huh?
That was my 2nd dx, first one 7/98. Had lumpectomy and rads in '98 and bilateral mastectomy with expanders in 05. On tamoxifen for 2 1/2 years then switched to aromisan. Recon is complete - silicone implants/nipples/tattoos, the works
No bra for me (except when I wear white) The "girls" don't look too bad if I do say so myself. The new normal I guess......
I don't get on the board much anymore but do check in from time to time. This was my lifeline 3 years ago; I was here all the time. Read more than I posted but when I had a question, problem, concern, you ladies were here for me. This is the best resource for any one going through this.
My thanks and appreciation to all of you!
Pam
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Hey Nicki,
Thanks for starting this thread, look at all us 05 gals motoring along!!!!
I am another 05 girl, diagnosed Oct 05 with IDC, 4 cm tumour and 3 positive nodes. Had lumpectomy, chemo, rads, on Armidex and Zoladex. Gearing up to get my ovaries removed in May...so no more Zoladex..woo hoo!
I am doing well, havent got all my energy back yet but have started working out again. I do enjoy my weekend naps. The best part is having hair back and it is wild and curly, trying to grow it out but it is trying to say the least. I look like I have 80's hair every morning that I wake up!!!
Much love to all my 05 sisters, especially to the dear ones that I have met personally Ravdeb and Maryanne....
Michele
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Hi everyone. I don't post very often anymore, but I always read! I haven't been to chat for ages because frankly I don't know anybody anymore.
I'm doing fairly well. I was dx Dec. 13/04 with Stage 1 Gr. 3 IDC 1.4 cm tumor. Had 6 rounds of FAC and 16 rads and am still on tamoxifen.
BAck to work and busy..still worry about every little symptom and imagine cancer back at times. I think this is normal. Overall, I feel fairly decent most days...the mental toil is the hardest to bear!
Take care of all of you!
Wendy
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