Ferne is in the Hospital

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TripleNeg
TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
edited June 2014 in Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
Ferne is in the Hospital
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  • TripleNeg
    TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
    edited March 2008

    I noticed on another page that Ferne FD411 is in the hospital. Her brain mets returned. Please keep Ferne in your prayers. God is able, Stephanie

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  • cneal318
    cneal318 Member Posts: 212
    edited March 2008

    Ferne, I am saying a prayer for you.

    Crystal

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  • Yogi70
    Yogi70 Member Posts: 654
    edited March 2008

    Your in my prayers Ferne.  God is able.

    Yogi

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  • TripleNeg
    TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
    edited March 2008

    Wanted you all to know that I spoke to Ferne today. She's doing better and the pain meds are working. She ate her first meal today without feeling nausated. She send's her love and is working towards getting better. She says that the hospital doesn't have wi-fi so she can't log on but will be online soon! God is able, Stephanie.

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  • sparker38
    sparker38 Member Posts: 140
    edited March 2008

    Prayers and hugs go out to you Fern.

    May God bless you

    Sabrina

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  • Lcharmie
    Lcharmie Member Posts: 430
    edited March 2008

    Hello Fern,

    My prayers are with you!! 

    Take care of yourself real good and get your rest as needed right now.

    Sincerely

    Linda C

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Thinking of you, my dear. Now hurry up and get out of that hospital!

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Ferne has been moved to hospice. Please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayers...

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  • halika
    halika Member Posts: 16
    edited March 2008

    Ferne,

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    May God bless and keep you.

    Cheryl

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  • Sachi
    Sachi Member Posts: 351
    edited March 2008

    Peace be with you, Ferne, on this next stage of your journey.

    Barb 

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  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 2,019
    edited March 2008
    Hello girls,
    Our Ferne is still in the hospital, they moved her to a private room to help make her more comfortable.
    Unfortunately, her pain has not been eased and that is the ONE THING she wishes for.
    Apparently the mets in her spine are making the pain worse.
    Once they can figure out something that works, she can go home and hospice will treat her there. I know she does not want to do hospital based hospice. And the food is really awful - what she can eat of it without getting sick.
    She found out there is wi-fi in the hospital so her roomate brought her laptop to her. I don't know if she will be feeling up to  going on line, because everything makes her so uncomfortable. But in case she does, these posts will sure make her happy.

    She is being Ferne... meaning sweet, caring and worried about others around her. She is unlike anyone I have ever met in my life.

    Please pray for pain relief. That is what she needs the most.

    Thank you, everyone.
    Love,
    g
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  • DWS43
    DWS43 Member Posts: 56
    edited March 2008

    Ferne,

    Prayers and ((hugs)) to you.


    Dawn

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  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Member Posts: 4,484
    edited March 2008

    Ferne,

    Prayers for you, and gentle hugs, and a special wish that pain will go away.

    Love,

    Ann

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  • sparker38
    sparker38 Member Posts: 140
    edited March 2008

    Fern you are in my prayers and know that God is with you.

    Hugs, flowers and balloons across the highways and by ways.

    Sabrina

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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited March 2008

    Ferne... dear sweet lady... so sorry you are having difficult days.  I am especially praying for God to give  you relief from the pain.  Hugs to you!  Pam

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  • janineloveya38
    janineloveya38 Member Posts: 4
    edited March 2008

    fern you are in my prayres get weel soon

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  • sharont68
    sharont68 Member Posts: 124
    edited March 2008

    Fern you are in my prayers!!!

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  • NaughtybyNature
    NaughtybyNature Member Posts: 1,448
    edited March 2008

    Hi Ferne: just a little note to let you know that I am thinking of you.

    Luv,

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  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 2,019
    edited March 2008
    Ferne is  out of the hospital and at home in her own room now. Her wonderful best friend and roomate, Lori, is taking good care of her.

    She is having lucid moments and some confused moments. Lori is able to keep her pain managed better than the hospital because she is on top of it, rather than Ferne having to ask for it.

    It is absolutely heartbreaking.

    I ask that you all please keep Lori in your prayers too. She lost her SO to cancer a little over a year ago and this is really hitting her hard.


    Thank you everyone.

    Love to you,
    g
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  • Deborahann
    Deborahann Member Posts: 37
    edited March 2008

    Dearest Fern & Lori

       

        My thoughts and prayers are with you both are you travel this

    horrendous journey together...

     Fern, may you continue to be embraced by the loving arms of your

    cyber-sisters and remain pain free!

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  • Sachi
    Sachi Member Posts: 351
    edited March 2008

    Lori and Ferne,  I will be thinking of you both and wishing you peace and strength as you travel this road together.

    Barb 

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  • TripleNeg
    TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
    edited March 2008

    I spoke to Lori, Ferne's roommate today and Ferne is resting thanks to the meds. Gina, you're such a wonderful friend to Ferne and she has given us all so much hope and inspiration over the past months. She is truly an Angel and will brighten heaven with her warmth and compassion. My sister Ferne I will miss you dearly.  God is able, Stephanie

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  • HeatherBLocklear
    HeatherBLocklear Member Posts: 1,370
    edited March 2008

    Ferne is in my prayers. God holds her close. I pray for strength for her and Lori both. Let things be easy, dear God.

    Annie

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2008

    Ferne and Lori ,

    You are in my prayers. I pray for a mighty healing. I pray for mercy and no pain. I pray for grace and peace. Stay strong my sister. The battle is not yours, it is the Lord's , hand it over to Him. I pray for your Victory ! I know you are a mighty warrior. God be with you. Peace and  strength be with you Lori.

    Love ,

    Benita     

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  • cmb35
    cmb35 Member Posts: 1,106
    edited March 2008

    Stephanie, thanks for the update. I wish I could talk to Ferne or Lori by phone at least, but I know there is no way I could do that without breaking down, so I'm satisifed with knowing the Ferne knows I'm thinking about her every day.

    I know Gina was going to try to make it up there, I hope she did.

    I don't know how to post a picture, but Gina has the most beautiful picture of Ferne, she is absolutely radiant - maybe you can post it here G?

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  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited March 2008

    Ferne, You are in my prayers, as is Lori.

    hugs and prayers,

    Candie

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  • TripleNeg
    TripleNeg Member Posts: 836
    edited March 2008

    Here's post from Lori (Ferne's Room-mate) that was on the Met's thread. Please continue to pray. God is able, Stephanie

    My name is Lori, I am Ferne's roommate, First I want to say thank you  to all of you for the love, support and prayers that you all have expressed here for our dear friend Ferne.  Ferne is continuing on her journey to her next life, I am trying to keep her as  comfortable and painfree as possible as the last thing I want for my best friend is to suffer.  Please continue to pray for peace and contentment as Ferne embarks on her next journey.  I or Gina will keep you posted.  Gina:  thank you for being such a good friend to her, she loves you dearly.. :)  Lori

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  • mailman
    mailman Member Posts: 81
    edited March 2008

    Hi,

    I am praying for  all of you.  Ferne and her support network.  I am saddened by all the pain I have seen on this board since signing up.  It's a humbling experience to say the least.

    Peace to all of you

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  • mailman
    mailman Member Posts: 81
    edited March 2008

    Hi,

    I am praying for  all of you.  Ferne and her support network.  I am saddened by all the pain I have seen on this board since signing up.  It's a humbling experience to say the least.

    Peace to all of you

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  • cneal318
    cneal318 Member Posts: 212
    edited March 2008

    Ferne, You continue to be in thoughts and prayers.

    Thinking of you

    Crystal

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