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Hey Deb -
I am giving you a big hug right back

I hope your new treatment kicks some cancer butt.
Saying prayers for you today.
Deb C
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deb: here's to the hope that the new treatment is just the right concoction for your situation. praying continually for your healing. soooooooo glad to hear from you. thanks so much for taking the time to post.
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Deb,my hugs and prayers to you girl.We do miss you in chat.I love you and thank you for being a great support to me.........Dawn
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Dear Debbie,
Thinking of you everyday and keeping you in my prayers.
Lots of love to you,
Bren
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Dear Deb-
I am sending you the biggest hug I can muster up. You are in my prayers.
Deb C
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deb: i'm so glad to get back here and express my encouragement for your journey. i'm so glad that your team has a plan. breathe deeply into the opportunity that this new treatment has to offer. i'll pray that your fears evaporate into thin air and that you're left with a will to hold onto what is dear.... for as long as you want.
i was listening to a recording of Pema Chodrin as i drove home from Chicago last night, after a HUGE and exhausting day. she said:
"death is certain."
"the timing of death is uncertain."
"what needs to be done in this moment?"
i took great comfort in that thought. slonedeb: death is indeed certain. it's the length of the living that we have no control over... and where we begin to question the 'fairness-of-life' questions.
may this day bring you peace, comfort and a hope of the certainty of a restoration to wholeness ahead. what is important for this moment? may you ask important questions.
know that i treasure your friendship, your example, your encouragement and your trust. may this day be filled with mercy for you and your family.
i prayed prayers for you at church this morning and was given the gift of tears -- in response to my concern for you.
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I Love Ya, Sweety!!
xoxoxoxoxo
Puppy
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So glad to see your recent posts, Deb, suggesting at least enough energy to post.
Sorry you're changing chemo and wishing your body acceptance of the doctor's new choice.
Wishing you a good week, and hoping the healing sun finds it's way to your home, warming you with it's light.
All the best to you,
Tender -
slonedeb: delightful news today regarding these twins-to-be of ours!! just learned from 3D ultrasound that all is progressing well. the kiddos are not as far apart as once thought (in their weights) -- so i'm doing the grandma giddy-dance.
what if everything does unfold the way it's 'supposed' to? isn't that a comforting thought. i don't have a snippet of an idea why there's illness or suffering on this planet of ours, but what if there's a plan bigger than our meager understanding?
maybe the suffering is to see what we are capable of, when we're faced with hell-on-earth. getting to know other woman here has been such a source of strength for me -- and you, too, i know.
keep your heart fixed on mercy and grace. keep your mind free from fear and worry. let go and let God..... and all the other bumper stickers you can think of.
thanks so much for finding the energy needed to post here.
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oh faith that is great i love being a grandma faith they had to postpone my chemo because i have the flu ive had a fever for three days of 103 to 104 she said we needed to get me better so i can start my new chemo because my tumor markers were 1550 last week so please keep your prayers going because you are my strength all of you are i love all of you love deb from kyy
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Goodness Deb, so sorry you've got the flu on top of it all. Are they giving you any anti-viral drug to try to help bring those viruses under control?
What did they tell you to take for your fever? Tylenol isn't recommended if your liver is inflammed. Did your doctor suggest something else?
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I just came to write, and now I see you're sick with the flu.
I'll keepy you in a special place in my thoughts, Deb, wishing for healing.
Tender -
{{{{{DEB}}}}}
This little light of mine
I'M gonna let it shine
this little light of mine
I'm gonna lt it shine
Let It Shine
Let It Shine
LET IT SHINE
I Love You Sister! never feel alone!
for God is never away from You!
Puppy
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slonedeb: are you screaming, "Enough already!!?!!??"
it seems there really should be a limit to what we can ask our spirits to go through. after i finished my rads i developed a case of the shingles and then after that cleared up i had a case of 'frozen shoulder' (which i'd never even heard of before.)
i know i was getting so 'down' from attempting to get thru each of these various episodes. it is so tough to stay up-beat in the face of all that you are enduring. thanks for letting us know of your flu bug. we'll all now start sending very specific prayers -- begging for those symptoms to relent.
as puppylovey says: "let it shine, let it shine, let it shine!"
shine on sister..... we're all pulling for you in the face of this latest unfairness. it makes me think that they send heaping big loads of crap to some of the best of us -- just so that we can show the rest of the world how to behave when our backs are up against the wall.
i wish i had a funny story to cheer you with..... my best news is of course the news of the twins being on target..... just goes to show you that the doctor can get you all alarmed for no apparent good reason. we've just got to hang on to each other and TRUST in the goodness of our creator.
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thinking of you Slonedeb................ wonder wonder wonder how you're feeling in the flu department? hope this batch of weather passes you right on by. stay warm, wrap yourself up in pleasant memories and happy times.
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Hugs and Prayers Deb! You keep fighting girl.........
Liz
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Deb,thinking of you..........
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Hugs Deb.........I really don't know what else to say.......
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prayers for relief from the flu and any other frustrations that eat at you tonight. know how many of your friends are sending you healing energy for the midst of this flu. so many are holding you up for strength in the face of all that you've been up against.
i wish you wholeness of heart and spirit
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slipping and sliding thru the snow today....... thinking of you as i sang to my little 'pips'
watching children with special needs respond to my antics is like recharging my battery. having them swarm me with their hugs and affection rekindles my hope for the future.
tried to figure out how to bottle up some of their energy for you, slonedeb. know that i think of you all the while.
fix your mind on pleasant memories and tell stories of the bright days that you remember. keep your heart filled with the love of the friends that you have made at this site.
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blessings for whatever today brings to your door
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thanks faith faith i am asking you to please pray for neice she was dx with bc yesterday she has 2 small boys and is only 38 i am so upset by this i have had a back set on this flu and my onc says she needs to start my tx soon so that ha me worried but i know you are on my side fait as well are all on this board i love each and everyone of you i hang on to reading your thoughts and wishes for me faith you have helped with dealling with end of my life so much and so has puppy but i am not through fighting yet love to all of you deb from ky
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Dear Deb,
Of course I'll add you dear neice to my thoughts and hope her new breast cancer is well treated.
How are you with your flu Deb? Are you improving with no or low fever and less muscle aches ete?
I know you've had this double wammy and so we've doubled up on prayers, well wishes and hugs to you.
Faith and Puppy are true supporters, and I'm glad to hear you derive strength from all.
We're pulling for you Deb.
Tender -
Slone Deb my friend you are in my prayers as well as your niece. I think of you often and miss you in chat. Keep fighting dear lady...GOD BLESS.......
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Slone Deb.... know we love you. You are, as always, in my heart and prayers. Hello to leigh ann....and prayers for your niece.
Remember... when you can't see God's hand...... trust His Heart....
pam
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{{{{{{{{{{{DEB}}}}}}}}}}}
Remember Hon, "when Your down to nothing; Gods up to something
I think of You always, and will now add Your Precious Niece!
Where two or more gather; there I shall be also! {{{Jesus}}}
Jesus take the wheel!!
xoxoxoxoxo
Puppy
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slonedeb: what's your niece's name? we'll want to know that to make our prayers very specific -- of course our creator already knows her name and has wrapped her in his loving arms. i think the maker of the universe must cry when more of his children are stricken with this nonsense before there's a cure. you will be such an inspiration for her!! you are knowledgable and will share your experience to help her thru the initial frustration, fear and confusion.
i'm so glad that so many of your friends are popping in and out with encouragement. it must warm your heart to realize how many people are sending you prayers, energy, inspiration and friendship.
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love you sis............ falling asleep as i type, but wanted to wish you well
did you realize that today was Leap Year day? i know it's been a while since your body's allowed you to do any leaping, but here's to imagining: cartwheels and back hand springs, somersaults, skipping, hop scotch, double dutch and jumping-jacks! let's all be kids again.
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Hoping your day is warm, the sun is out, and healing rays fall on you.
Praying the flu is resolving, your white counts are mounting, and your eating to gain strength.
Will think of you today as I go about my work.
Tender
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slonedeb... wishing you peace today. Pam
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Gentle hugs to you this evening, slonedeb. Know that I have you in my heart and prayers -- asking that you have a sense of peace and calm as you think back over your life. Appreciate all that you have done thru the years. Consider the special things you've done -- places that you've gone.
I'm soooooooo thrilled!! My daughter's getting more pregnant by the day. Today is the final day of week number 30!! Tomorrow starts week #31!!
I'm finally allowing myself to get excited. Thanks for keeping her in your prayers. How's your niece doing this weekend? Best to her, too.
I love to hear from you when your are able.
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{{{Sweet Deb}}}

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