MOJO Without Matrimony!

OMG, OMG, OMG BETH....THAT WAS SOOOOOOO HOT!!!! I'm gonna need to see J. right away...well asap anyway...he lives an hour away. Sigh. NEWAYZ, I'm so glad I could help trigger your inner porn star. That's part of our mission here on the MOJO boards, right? As I was reading your account of the vacation, I thought about how life's little bits of crap always get in the way and, so, it's all about enjoying what you can glean out of those moments and hanging on for the more joyful times which are usually unplanned and spontaneous. Your story, Beth, is a perfect example of that! The bubble scene sounds hilarious and I can imagine myself running around trying to contain it too. Good for Matt for making you take a moment and surrender to it all.

And about V Day....I think that red slash of an outfit would be perfect for your non-celebration! And ya wanna know why I am SO looking forward to V Day? Because every effing year of my heretofore life, I've wanted a starry, romantic, sweet Valentine's Day, replete with chocolates and flowers and NEVER....NOT ONCE in my life has this wish come true! So, this year I'm sending myself goodies, if necessary! No, not really....but i would really love to be in love on V Day for once...or at least "in infatuation"

Jaybird....What happened to your once-a-week guy who cooks? Did you kick him to the curb or what?

~Marin

OHHHHH MYYYYY GAWWWWD, WHAT A FREAKIN' WEEKEND (as they say)!!!

I went to J's and barely got in the door before we were all over each other on the floor. Came up a little later to cook dinner and watch a movie (sort of). Then the night really got started and went on & on & on....I have no idea when we fell asleep. Then again several times in the morning after he got up to feed the fire and make us coffee. Then we took a backroads drive in a little Triumph he just re-furbished (or whatever you call it) and then tried to play a little pool but ended up, once again, on the floor. Holy crap, it was awesome....and the most intense sex I've EVER had! In fact, it left me wondering if I'm actually have G-spot orgasms instead of the "regular" clitoral ones? These "new" ones are more total, more all-of-me-engaged and they're so deep, whereas my "usual" ones rise up in waves from my pelvis, through my center and spread across my chest into my shoulders....all shuddery and like having the chills. Some are stronger than others, of course, but they tend to have a definite beginning and a definite end and when they're done, I feel relaxed and relieved, but not all intense and moony. Does anyone know what I'm talking about or have any thoughts on the issue????

Oh, and here's what I really wanted to say....I am so happy, y'all!!!!!

~Marin

Wow Marin...you go girl!!!!!

Sounds like a very very hot weekend!!!!!!!!

and on the calmer side of things.....glad to hear you are happy

Jule....What do you have to lose by contacting this guy? Really nothing and that's the absolute beauty of internet relationships. You can hide behind your computer, come out for a little look-see, and then disappear again. Of course, one always hopes that it will turn into a real life thing, but at least when it doesn't, you can chalk it up to internet freakiness. I say either email me and tell him that you were hoping to check him out in person, or just move on. As the people over on my internet dating message board say, just "next" him! I will say that I'm sorry though. Disappointment is never welcome.

~Marin

Marin, You are having the fun, romantic times you deserve! I have so happy for you!

Um, actually Beth, I do have a tattoo almost on my ass (lower back), but my face will not be in view.

Speaking of guys not knowing where and how, I'm really amazed at their need for very explicit directions in that regard. Maybe it's because our bodies are a bit more complicated, although it does seem to me that each guy also has his own preferred method for being handled. No saliva/lotsa saliva, light & easy/rough & tough, twisting/up & down, etc. It's a science in itself, isn't it? And in my mind, a lot more enjoyable than I recall science ever being !

~Marin

So, speaking of MOJO, I'm getting ready to head to J's house tomorrow after work and will be sporting the red corset get-up. What's so wonderful is that I don't think he'd care if I showed up in ratty sweats...he'd just remove them as enthusiasstically as I expect he'll do the hot stuff! I'm so psyched...just got an email from him calling me "sweetheart" (no one has ever called me that in my whole freakin' life!) and talking about being in love for Valentine's Day and how he can't wait to touch me and there's only one more sleep" until he can. I'm just melting...............

Is this how I was supposed to feel as a teenager? Somehow, I missed it, but am awfully glad it's caught up with me!

~Marin

Ugh, Beth, that sux! Keep soaking them and maybe it will come out. If not, I guess you'll just need new bedding !

I'm excited about this evening and going to J's! I'm sure I didn't mention here that we talked about cock rings and especially the ones with the mini-vibrators attached. During the conversation, J said he'd like to try one. Sooooooooooooo, I just happened to be driving away from Target last night and I glance up, only to see Adam & Eve's inviting lights winking at me. Well, you know I just had to go in and, of course, found just the thing! The salesgirl put the batteries in and had me feel the vibration....wow! For a little bullet, it sure packs a punch! So, in addition to the satin & silk & chocolate & candles & oils, we'll have a new toy to play with too. Nice .....

~Marin