I am starting chemo in July 07. Anyone else?

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  • 1973vwbus
    1973vwbus Member Posts: 16
    edited February 2008

    Hello everyone I have not been on for awhile and thought I would add some info.

    I finished with chemo in Dec '07 (taxol, carbo and herceptin) had lumpectomy and sentinel nodes surgery on 1/9 "NO CANCER" found all was clean. Having the chemo first shrunk the cancer from 3.5 cm to 1.25 cm and then no cancer. Surgery was allot easier than I thought except for the ache in my breast Doctor said it was partially due to the size of my breasts 34 DD, but the ache has gotten better every day.

    I go on 1/4 for CAT Scan to set up rads then start on the 11th, also start the 16 weeks of Herception.

    I start Tamoxifin soon always open to any suggestions from you all.

    Keep smiling and dreaming.

  • LottaQuilts
    LottaQuilts Member Posts: 212
    edited February 2008

    Well, I thought I was lucky to get through the 12 weeks of Taxol and never have any nails lost. 

    Friday night, we're playing a card game with the kids called "Slamwich".  DH and I "Slammed" at the same time and his hand sheered off my right hand middle finger nail halfway down the nail.

    Blood..... Pain.....

    I'm all bandaged up and today the throbbing has stopped but it's a warning that the effects of chemo stay with us long after the treatment ends and my nails are still very brittle.

    I won't be playing Slamwich again any time soon!

    Abbi

  • figsgirls
    figsgirls Member Posts: 253
    edited February 2008

    OUCH, Abbi! I'm always afraid that will happen to me, as I'm losing the first 3 nails on each hand. I guess I will stay away from that game you were playing!

    Margie, to me it didn't feel any different running with the expanders in. My PS just said to make sure I wore an exercise bra. Some of them had straps that rubbed against my port and that was annoying. And Abbey is right - your hair will be in soon! Mine was growing in just like you say - bald man style. On Christmas Eve, my niece came into the room and commented that when she saw me she thought it was my father sitting there. I have to say that hurt. But now it is all filled in and I'm just waiting for the hairline to get a little longer. Happy birthday to your little one.

    Glad to hear everyone is doing well and getting back to having some fun.

    Donna

  • mmcp
    mmcp Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2008

    Not much new here. I start rads on the 18th, and I have a consultation on Wednesday with a gynocologist to talk about ovarian suppression/removal.  I'm thinking I want to go for it & take an AI rather than tamoxifin, research is showing it can be a more effective combo than just tamoxifin.  Being er/pr+ and stage 3, I don't want to take any chances.  I need to feel I've done everything in my power to fight this.  Ah cancer, the gift that keeps on giving!

    How are you all doing?  Anything new & exciting?

  • LottaQuilts
    LottaQuilts Member Posts: 212
    edited February 2008

    Hey, girls.  Same old, same old here.  Still chugging away at rads.  I've yet to have a full 5-day week.  There's been MLK birthday (closed), 2 separate power outages and 1 machine-down cancellation.  Very frustrating as I am really tired of doing the cancer dance.  I want DONE and on with my life.

    My finger that DH smashed is doing all right.  Will probably take a few months for the nail to actually grow enough to cover the quick.  So a band-aid is a constant.  But most of the pain is gone until I bump the quick area (which I seem to do a lot).

    My car was given the death sentence over the weekend.  It needs more work than it is worth to pass state inspection.  So I'm getting a new (used) car this week.  Looks like it'll be a 2003 BMW 325i.  DH has a 2002 525i and I really like it.  The 325 drives very similar, just a bit smaller car.  While it's exciting to have a new car, I wasn't counting on a car payment quite yet.  I was hoping to wait until I went back to work.

    We go to Florida for a vacation 3-14.  My birthday is 3-16 and my one year anniversary of "gee.... I don't like this lump" is 3-15.  Assuming that rads doesn't get cancelled too many more times, I'll be done with treatment by then, so I'm ready to really celebrate.  Then I'm going to come home and start job hunting.  I'm ready to get the heck out of the house!

    How's everybody's hair coming.  Mine is maybe an inch now and crazy curly.... sticks out strange all over the place.  It's quite a look.....but at least it's HAIR!!!

    Just this week, I've noticed my eyebrows starting to come back.  THAT I can't wait for.  I'm not very good at drawing them on!

    Hope everyone's well and on the mend....

    Abbi

  • figsgirls
    figsgirls Member Posts: 253
    edited February 2008

    Abbi, you made me laugh about your eyebrows. Mine are pretty  much back in now, but when they weren't and I was drawing them in, I couldn't seem to get them level! One always ended up a little higher than the other. I'm also ultra-excited about having a full set of lashes again. I never realized how the lack of brows and lashes changes the look of your face. I tried explaining this to DH but of course it was lost on a man.......

    And speaking of job hunting, I am off this afternoon to a 2nd interview for a position at a high school in a district I used to work for a few years ago. It would be nice to get back to work, and really nice to be in that district again.

    I'm off to Florida soon too! Key West with DH 2/21-26. We are counting the days! I have to get a new bathing suit because my pre-BC suits don't fit due to  my new perky silicone implants! (The one small thing that's good from this whole ordeal). And my departure on the 21st will mark the day I go au natural with my hair. No more wigs or scarves or hats. Mine is still really short in the very front - I've been kind of waiting for it to grow there a little more. Not a single curl though!!! Darn.

    Margie, good luck at the doctor's. My onc suggested ovarian supression if my period comes back within the year. I'll do it if I need to - I agree with not wanting to take chances.

    Abbi, have fun car shopping. And have a good week everyone.

    Donna

  • brst26
    brst26 Member Posts: 155
    edited February 2008

    Hi ladies.  Just had my ALND on Wednesday...my drain is really uncomfortable.  I feel like I can't put my arm down when I stand up...and sleeping is not fun since I can only lie on my back.  I cannot wait to get my drain pulled on Thursday morning...it is not coming fast enough!  The muscles in my shoulder blade are going to be sore from holding my arm out to not rest on my drain tube.  My surgeon called me Thursday night to let me know that 8 out of 8 lymph nodes all came back normal!  I guess I had a really low number of nodes in that area.

    Donna and Abbie...I'm jealous that you are both going to Florida!  Enjoy your vacations.  Hope your 2nd interview went well, Donna.

    Hope everybody had a nice Valentine's Day...enjoy the long weekend (I know most districts have Monday off for President's Day).

  • mmcp
    mmcp Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2008

    Ugh, the dreaded drains.  Hate them!  It will be out soon though Abbey, remember that!  Woohoo for the negative nodes though! 

    I'm so jealous of you girls going to Florida.  I hope you have a wonderful time though, after this bc crap you really deserve it!

    I had my meeting with the surgeon about the ovary removal & he says it will further reduce my risk of reoccurance by 10%, so I'm doing it after rads, sometime in April.  It's not something I want to do but I didn't want to have my breasts removed, have chemo, do rads, etc... either but I did it all to fight this.  I don't want to skip that 10%!  On a brighter note my hair is starting to fill in, it almost looks normal!

  • figsgirls
    figsgirls Member Posts: 253
    edited February 2008

     Hi Ladies.

    Abbey, I can't think of anything I hated more than the drains. It creeped me out how they were just hanging there, at the end of tubes that ran into my body, held in place by a few stitches. I was always afraid I'd accidentally yank them out!

    So very glad to hear that your nodes were clear!!!Smile

    My interviews went well, because....I got the job!! They need me to start in March, so the timing couldn't be better since we return from Key West on the 26th. I'm really excited to be working in a school again. I really missed it.

    Margie, a 10% risk reduction sounds good. I wish you the best with that.

    I'm getting my hair cut tomorrow! There's not much to cut but it does need a trim. My hairdresser is going to try to color it also, but she says she doesn't know if the color will take because my hair is "new" and very gray. I'll report back on how it turns out. On Saturday I went out in public for the first time with a bare head. I put some mousse in my hair so it was sort of toussled/sticking out. My girlfriends said it looked very chic (and they are good friends and would never lie). My husband said I looked like the Cold Miser in "The Year without a Santa Claus". He lost major points for that statement. Lucky for him he was able to make up for it by vacuuming the whole house for me..................

  • brst26
    brst26 Member Posts: 155
    edited February 2008

    Hey Donna...congrats on getting the job!

    I got my drain out on Thursday...oh how much better I felt the minute they took that thing out!  I could actually put my arm down again.  It didn't hurt at all when they pulled it out...the part the hurt was when they were trying to get at the stitch to clip it.  A scab had formed all the way around, covering up my stitch, so she had to basically pick the scab off all the way around.  I started my at home PT exercises on Friday morning...I was very happy to be able to stretch my arm all the way up above my head...it feels so good when I do those stretches.  My ALND incision is healing up quite nicely...my surgeon did a double take when I was in to get my drain pulled.  She looked at it and was like "that looks good"...she shut my gown and then opened it back up again and was like "that looks REALLY good!".  I'll be the happiest girl alive when I can start lifting weights again with my upper body.  I went to the gym today and did some cardio and lifted legs.  I can't wait to get myself back in shape!

    Hope everybody is doing well!

  • LottaQuilts
    LottaQuilts Member Posts: 212
    edited February 2008

    Well, ladies..... today is the day.  My last radiation treatment!!!

    That means that (other than the 5 years of Tamoxifin) I AM DONE!!

    What a year it has been.  I'm sure I'd never have made it without all the support and information from these boards.  I'm soooo glad we've had each other.

    Champagne is in the fridge!!

    Abbi

  • mmcp
    mmcp Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2008

    Congrats Abbi!  I'm SO happy for you, enjoy that champagne!!!

  • figsgirls
    figsgirls Member Posts: 253
    edited March 2008

    Hooray Abbi! Isn't it great to be done?? I bet that champagne was good!

    Abbey, speaking of upper body weight lifting, we went charter fishing in Key West last week and my husband had to help me finish reeling in my fish because I just didn't have the arm strength to do it. At least it was a big fish. I still get frustrated with how far my fitness has declined, and what a long road back it will be. But I guess I must remind myself I'm alive and well and the rest will come.

    Stopped wearing my wig, too. Yippee!!

  • goldenpony
    goldenpony Member Posts: 13
    edited June 2008

    I was just wondering how the July girls are doing? I'm 1 year out tomorrow from my dx. Still feeling the effects of chemo and now on femara...killer bone pain and fatigue at the end of the day! Still trying to get used to nerves being cut in surgery and the endless hyper sensitive feeling when I touch an area that's numb or crazy feeling. Anyone else feeling like this?

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