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sweetest_riley Member Posts: 2
edited June 2014 in Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
giving long distance help
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  • sweetest_riley
    sweetest_riley Member Posts: 2
    edited January 2008

    I wanted to send a basket to my friend who has been diagnosed with Stage III.  She starts chemo today, and was wondering if anyone knew things that she might be needing.

    Thanks,

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  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited January 2008

    Oh what would be best, since food won't be big on her list, might be bubble bath type things, soft floral colognes, soaps, maybe a pretty set of wash rags, if you get a basket, go into one of these bath and body shops, ask the girls to fix you up.  They have so many new and wonderful creams and lotions, soaps and lip gloss. 

    I think that might be better than food.  Just because the old appetite is a little off.

    I think I would have liked that.

    Gentle hugs Shirlann

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  • lewisfamily503
    lewisfamily503 Member Posts: 621
    edited January 2008

    I didn't have to go through chemo, but the things I appreciated receiving before my surgery were: A really soft squishy robe as well as soft squishy socks, and a set of various scented body lotions (from Victoria's Secret). Books and magazines might be nice! I am a game boy freak and I got SOO many game boy games it isn't even funny! Maybe a gift card for video rentals at a national chain like Hollywood?? Mostly, though I just appreciated things that made me feel comfortable and feminine after my surgery!

    You are so thoughtful to send your friend a basket--what a wonderful pal you are!

    Anne

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  • LAphoenix
    LAphoenix Member Posts: 452
    edited January 2008

    If she's a reader, then books and magazines will be welcome.  Many of my friends sent me books, which I greatly appreciated.  One thing I enjoyed about chemo (if one can enjoy anything about chemo) was having a chance to catch up on my reading.  DVDs of her favorite shows might be good, too, as there will be days when she'll be stuck in bed.  If she likes crosswords or sudoku, those would work too.  Comfy slipper socks and lotions are also good.  Button-up PJs, or a soft, loose-fitting, button-up shirt for lounging would also be good, as she'll have trouble pulling anything over her head after surgery. 

    Good luck on your selection and the best of luck to your friend.  You're a great friend! 

    Amy  

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  • LoriFL
    LoriFL Member Posts: 1,557
    edited January 2008

    magazines!! Books are too heavy and long to read during chemo. How about little notes every week instead of a basket one time? This way she will know you are thinking of her often.

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  • ravdeb
    ravdeb Member Posts: 3,116
    edited January 2008

    phone calls! I live overseas and especially appreciated the phone calls over the gifts.

    However..I loved getting a warm fuzzy animal cushion that you put in the microwave. I was always cold! And I got funny slippers. But the best gift was comfy sweat pants from my daughter because I had terrible pains in my hands and couldn't manage buttons on pants.

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  • LoriFL
    LoriFL Member Posts: 1,557
    edited January 2008

    deb- is it snowing?

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  • LoriFL
    LoriFL Member Posts: 1,557
    edited January 2008

    I agree- sweat suits. They are so comfortable.

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  • wackyjackie
    wackyjackie Member Posts: 669
    edited January 2008

    one of my favorite gifts was a soft blanket, which i took to chemo with me and still use all the time.  i think of my friends who gave it to me every time i use it. oh, and i got a gift certificate for merry maids housecleaning and that was the best!!!!!

    hugs, jackie

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