Jan 2008--Ain't it Great?

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  • wvgirl
    wvgirl Member Posts: 196
    edited January 2008

    Good evening Jewls,

           I have a co worker I would guess he is in his early 30's. He has leukemia. I was talking to him during lunch. I as him about his experience with chemo. He said I don't to it anymore. I decided to let it take me. It was so sad I did not know what to say to him.The only thing I sid was I was sorry.

    Kimberly that was GREAT you should make a book

    Deb I think you and I are on the same day's for treament My next one should also be on the 25th. 

    Julie K  I got both my wigs from the ACS on is a Raquel Welch  I looked on line a found it on clearance for $230.00.

    I am on day 10 my hair is starting to feel like wire any my head is itching. I am happy that your better

    I am going to go the the health store and look for the tea. I had to have hemmoriod surgery in October. Prior to this BC thing going on . So I still have some problems sometime with constipationCry

    sista2- The chemo room I was in was small there were several along both sides of the wall just enough room for the  lovely lounge chair and a small sitting chair for your sidekick. There was a curtain and a small TV you could pull out and watch. If you pull the curtain then you would really fell squeezed in.

    D1 Good luck on the shaving. I love your post. You always give me a smile.Laughing

    A co worker told me when her mom had chemo(for lung  Cancer) her nails fell off. Has anyone had this problem ?

    Take Care Sister Jewels Cool

  • Donna1955
    Donna1955 Member Posts: 24
    edited January 2008

    Jenn 51

    check your private messages

    Azdonna

  • jkiss75
    jkiss75 Member Posts: 20
    edited January 2008

    Ladies thanks for the advice.

    Sista2- Can't wait to hear how your port procedure goes, come and post pretty please! Are you doing local or general, I must have all the details. Smile

    KathyL- Of course you also must tell how the first treatment goes, I will be living through you vicariously until next Wednesday. Good Luck! 

    Jenny 

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    Kimberley, I love the SE Circus! What a hoot! You're such a talented writer - you have to know that, right?

    I love the sense of humor that most of us on here seem to have. Everyone I've told about my being a member of the January Jewels seem almost envious. LOL

    Julie, I'll be anxious to hear about what you think of the free wigs from the American Cancer Society?

    Like Sista2, I'm curious to hear about what different chemo rooms are like. Guess I'll be seeing my first one soon enough. I  hope I don't cry when they lead me in. My treatment doesn't  start til 2 pm Central, that means I don't take my first steroid til 2 am and then at 8 am - does that seem normal?  - what am i thinking? there is *nothing* normal about cancer!!

    D1 - I keep thinking of you looking like Chucky!

    You're a great role model on how to handle losing one's hair with dignity...

    Carol .. will you be telling us where to send our checks for our FUBC shirts soon? I don't want to forget once I get chemo brain.

    Seriously tho, I'm so glad to be here during this strange journey we're sharing.

    KathyL and Maz - well here we go girls...   let's buckle our straps and hold onto our hats!

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited January 2008

    To All the January Jewels with treatment tomorrow, keep your chin up, your going into your treatment armed and dangerous with all the suggestions and ideas from this site. 

    Had to go to my doc office for a med refill today, this would be the doc office that my whole journey started at in October.  While I was there I thought I'd see if my doc was available to see for just a minute.  Asked the receptionist, who went back to see if she was free.  I was invited to come on back, spent quite some time in her personal office, it felt so good to be able to thank her for that breast exam she had performed back in Oct, although that day scared the hell out of me, it was the beginning of a trip I'll never forget.  It was so nice to get a big genuine hug from her.  Anyway, it was my feel good moment of the day, and hopefully now I won't be back to see her until Oct 08 unless its to say thanks again!!!!

    Probably should put out a last call for T-shirts, if anyone else is interested in a January Jewels shirt, send me a note.  I'm hoping to place the order after my next infusion on Thursday.

    Sleep tight ... Carol

  • PAlady
    PAlady Member Posts: 176
    edited January 2008

    Wow, lots of activity on here!

    I had a bad mental day yesterday in anticipation of losing the hair. I have felt so ready for it mentally up until yesterday and I just had a melt down. My head started tingling and that was it. I hope when it happens it isn't as bad as I think it will be cause I can't change a darn thing about it. D1 can't wait to hear how the shave went, cause I think that is what I will end up doing.

    KathyL and D1 - thanks so much for the tips on qtips and vaseline. My nose is so grateful! As you said D1 I must be getting to the end of that, but I will be ready for next time for sure.

    Vettegal- I see you are in Pgh. I had my surgery done at Magee's. Was almost going to do my chemo there too, but opted to not have to deal with the 2 hour ride in winter! I am on the same chemo as you but will have my second when you are having your first round.

    Good luck to everyone with treatments tomorrow (or today since it is after midnight)!  Stay strong

  • RN2teach
    RN2teach Member Posts: 312
    edited January 2008

    Good morning Jewels,

    Welcome PALady to the gem world!  

    Well, I got the port in Monday. I am sore, but I was able to work yesterday. I see the rad. onco. today and have my MUGA scan. I start chemo Friday (dose dense AC x 4 followed by Taxol x 4).

    I am an RN but I haven't worked in the hospital for 12 years now (except for summers and holidays). I am blessed with the perfect job (with the best boss and coworkers in the universe). I teach a program called Health Occupations in the public school system. My students are juniors and seniors in high school who will be our future health care providers. I train them to enter the healthcare system at the entry level and help them prepare for entrance exams and get ready for college. On the down side, I was to start taking my nursing assistant students to the hospital for clinicals at the end of January. On the plus side, there are two of us RNs doing clinicals and we have other specialty areas that work with preceptors. So, I will take all the students who are training in the other specialties (dental, vet, radiology, p.t., etc) and the other nurse will take the nursing assistant students to the hospital and nursing home for training.

    My coworkers came into my room at the end of the day yesterday and gave me a card with $250 that they collected for me to use for wigs, gas, whatever. What a boost that was!

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    What timing! Did anyone see Robin's celebration of her last chemo treatment on GMA. I am sitting here watching it with tears running down my face before leaving for the UNMC chemo department.

    If you haven't seen it - go to the Good Morning America website where the story is told. Her oncologist gave a great analogy of why we need to go through this..

    To my sister warriors....have a good day and take good care of yourselves.

  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited January 2008

    Good Morning Jewels-

    Good luck to all of you starting chemo today...once the first one is over...it really is a relief since you kind of know what to expect. I'm a week out as of yesterday, and the SE's were not too bad the first few days, days 3 and 4 were worse-with 4 being the worst, and then it's just been getting better each day.

    Of course, not everyone will have the same experience, so all you can do is belly up to the bar...ask for a chemotini at Club Survival and then buy your ticket to The Side Effects Circus and anticipate what acts will featured.



    OK, has anyone experience pain opening their mouth? There are no sores, but it feels like the soft pallet tissue is just being stretched all to heck...I could barely get my mouth around my sandwich yesterday. Also, my ears feel full...probably drainage...blowing my nose a lot... I don't think it's a cold- clear mucus- or anything as I don't feel sick like that.



    I'm getting my labs done today. I'm hoping my numbers are good so I can go to school on Friday. My short term sub is leaving...and my long term sub takes over after the three day weekend...so I wanted to thank her for taking care of my kids...say hey to my kids...and pack up a few things in my classroom,so Nick can make it more his own since he'll be there the rest of the year.



    Have a great day all,

    Kimberly

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited January 2008

    It is so nice to see you ladies helping and supporting one another!! I didn't come here to the threads when I was going through tx.

    Kimberly..your reactions are just like mine. Day's 3 and 4..the worst..then got better. By day 8 or 9...feeling like myself again.  Mine were 3 weeks apart.

    Answer to your q about the mouth...I had just that, no sores..but hard to open. Too the point, I did not want to talk, because it hurt!  It was not as bad after the  2nd tx.

    All the best to everyone here!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • vettegal
    vettegal Member Posts: 287
    edited January 2008

    Ladies!!! Boy did i miss this message board!

    Back to work today..coughing a lung or two up every once in a while...i need to spend more time reading the posts tonight to catch up. I am at work and it has been crazy. One of my bosses called and wantd to know if i had a laptop. I said no, you gonna buy me one? i have access at home for work, BUT, i didn't log on to check anything. I said i was in bed for a week..gimme a break! I am trying to get better for chemo next week and he is worried about our sales....I was gone for a week and i still have thehighest showroom sales!!the other people where actually working and i still beat them.......LOL! Ladies, i have to go back to work...

    hugs to the jewels.......xxxoo

  • KathyL
    KathyL Member Posts: 534
    edited January 2008

    Hi Jewels!  Glad to hear everyone is faring well today.  Paula I am so envious of your awesome co-workers. What a treat!

    OK, so I'll get right to it... today was no sweat thanks to all of you who went before me. So all you girls still waiting or round one, relax!  I didn't sleep well last night but more b/c I can't get comfortable b/c my port's on the side I like to sleep on and it's still tender.  But I was up, showered, ate oatmeal and AJ (to help the surgery constipation), dropped the kids off to preschool and the dh and I headed to chemo!  Our infusion room is huge and open, but you can pick your recliner and get settled in.  I got a little teary just thinking of the port access-- but it was painless!!!  My nurse used lidocaine spray and I felt nothing at all.  I intend on doing this each time as I don't have to pay for EMLA then and the spray is not messy.  Next I did my Aloxi (anti-nausea), saline flush, Taxotere (had no reaction, yay!), cytoxan (had a very mild "dirt" taste on my mouth but I just sucked on ice the whole time and it wasn't bad), herceptin (this was the longest infusion 1 1/2 hrs.), flushed, deaccessed my port and 5 hrs. later I'm done with round one.  Went to lunch and had a little chicken ceasar salad.  Picked up some Zantac on the way home (the decadron is not making my belly happy and I'd rather head it off now vs. later when it hurts).  So I made it girls!

    My plan for the next few days is to be cautiously optimistic.  I doubt I'll get through it unscathed but I plan on mind over matter-- if I think I'll be ok, then I will be. And I've got my arsenal here in case I'm wrong.  Tonight I'm taking decadron, Zantac, and my poop medicine.  I'd like to walk some on the treadmill, too. I'll be back on tomorrow to report in again.  One down, 3 to go!!  (I don't count the year of herceptin until I'm on to just that alone... puts it in a better perspective I think).

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    KathyL! Great news! I'm actually sitting here getting my infusion right now with my laptop. It's Taxotere instead of the Taxol which I was initially prescribed. That's all I'm getting here and then go home to take 14 days of oral Xeloda - 1 week off and then back for my 2nd Taxotere.

    You're right - it's not so bad. Maz, hope it's going well for you as well.

    Will write more later.

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited January 2008

    CarolC, what a hoot, live updates during your txt.  I Love It!!!  Looks like we'll be the pill taking gals, I too do oral pills but (cytoxan) is my drug of choice, for 14 days. 

    Hang in there gal, Carol

  • sista2
    sista2 Member Posts: 53
    edited January 2008

    congratulations to everyone who has their first tx under their belts. great to hear it seemed to all go well.  wishing you a side effects free or at least minimal, next few days.

    jkiss75 - my port placement went fine.  never been in an operating room awake, that was kind of wierd.  they kept me very comfortable for the whole thing.  i just felt a lot of pushing and tugging but nothing to complain about.  i'm sore now and taking it easy (as easy as you can with three kids!).  it's sticking out WAY more than i thought it would be but maybe it will sink in as time passes? they used glue to seal up the incisions so i don't have to worry about bandages and such. still knowing it's for the best but still not happy about it. i'm sure i will get used to it.  don't sweat the procedure.  it wasn't bad at all.

    CarolC - i asked my onc if i'd be able to plug in my laptop in the chemo room.  he said sure, bring your laptop, get some work done if you'd like.  ha!  told him my husband and i just want to get caught up on the Lost episodes....won't be thinking about work AT ALL.  gotta love the laptop!

    best to all this evening! 

      

  • Jenn51
    Jenn51 Member Posts: 94
    edited January 2008

    Hello Jewels,

    Julie, it's good to hear you are feeling better.  With my 1st one tomorrow I'm anxious to see how long I am down.  Good thing/Bad thing I'm doing it on Thurs.  I can be down on the weekend & maybe not miss as much work/I can be down on the weekend & maybe not miss as much work.  Sounded like a good idea when I made the 1st appt.  Now I'm not so sure.

    Hey Sista, hang on to those Diet Cokes.  I mean gee whiz, I've stopped smoking, guess I won't be tanning next summer, I'm going to lose some weight & exercise more & you want me to give up caffeine too?  No Way!!!

    Kimberly, Sorry you did too much.  I guess we all have to try to see how much is too much.  Just take it easy, you deserve it.

    Cathy, Glad you are more comfortable with your new chemotini.  I get the results of the MUGA tomorrow b4 chemo.  I'm letting the onc decide what combo is best for me.

    I thought I was caught up but see now there is another page.  I'll end this one & see what's up next.  Hugs to you all!  Together we will get through this.

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    Hey Jenn51. I'm almost finished with my first tx.

    Wanted to tell you that I'll be sending positive energy your way tomorrow. Your grandson is a cutie!!

    And I really love your signature line!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2008

    Got the HER2/NEU results finally.

    Positive.

    KathyL, it looks like we're a match. 

  • Jenn51
    Jenn51 Member Posts: 94
    edited January 2008

    Kathy, Congrats on the 1st txt.  Hope mine goes as smoothly tomorrow.  It really helps to hear what yours was like.  I didn't expect there to be so many steps, just thought it would all go in at once.  Glad to learn that in advance.

    I get my treatments at a Cancer Center.  The treatment room has lots of windows looking onto the parking lot & recliners and some private rooms.  We get a pr tomorrow so we can watch the 'movie' and get nursing instructions.  Everyone out in the main room seemed to be chatting or reading, a friendly atmosphere.  Now where my aunt goes in Fla. each chair is partitioned off but they look out the window to a wildlife preserve.  Bird feeders & flowers etc.  Much nicer view than a parking lot.

    Vettegal, I can't believe your boss.  I am so blessed to work where I do.  No pressure, just come in when you feel like it - work all day 1/2 day whatever.  I can also work from home if I feel like that too.  And throughout all of this I will still get paid!

    Paula, you have some great co-workers.

    I best get busy.  Want to pm Carol about the shirt.  Have to change clothes to go out to eat.  I have cocker spaniel paw prints on my white shirt.  They were so glad to see me!Undecided  I didn't realize how wet the back yard was.  But I wouldn't trade them for anything.  Jake, my oldest one, has known something was wrong since before my biopsy.  And when I came home from the lumpectomy, he was so gentle getting up on my lap and completely stayed away from my right side.  These animals are a lot smater than we give them credit for.  Now my goofy Shaun, the young one, is a wild man.  Doesn't have a clue.  Oh well, they are a big comfort.

    Good luck to everyone having something done tomorrow.

  • vettegal
    vettegal Member Posts: 287
    edited January 2008

    PAlady-i had the surgery at the same hospital..did you have dr ron johnson? He was mine, and he is FABULOUS!

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited January 2008

    KathyL--Thanks for your report.  I start a similar treatment on Monday except its carboplatin instead of cytoxan.  The center I am using has a treatment room with recliners that overlook a small lake.  I'm planning on taking lots of books to read.

    LJ13--if you are also ER- and PR-, it's actually a good thing to be HER2/neu+.  The statistics on Herceptin are incredibly positive.  My onc and surgeon were both thrilled when the final testing on the HER2 came back positive and I "moved up" from triple neg.

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited January 2008

    Just checking in on our fearless leader "D1" ... hoping round two went smoothly today.

    Happy to hear that Kathy and CarolC had everything go well today.  I think the fear of the unknown is scarier then the actual txt time. 

    Cazamur, hoping your first txt was tolerable as well.

    I think somebody mentioned the clip on Good Morning America with Robyn Roberts, its also online to view, I had the guys at work surrounding the puter I was on to view the clip, its worth viewing.

    Carol

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited January 2008

    Jennifer, I'll be sending you positive vibes from my recliner to yours tomorrow.  Remember those ice chips, and "bottoms up"!!!!

    Carol

  • camazur
    camazur Member Posts: 70
    edited January 2008

    Hi to all you gems!

    I got my first dose today, and can't believe how easy it went. Except they put nothing on my port site first. That was cruel, I thought. I was told I could get a script for the EMLA cream for next time. It only hurt going in and coming out, didn't hurt during, but why feel that pain if you don't have to. It took over 4 hours to dose me up, but I think I'll be able to drive myself from now on.

    Afterwards I went to the drugstore and stocked up on all the OTC remedies for the various anticipated se's, and then picked up some Chinese food for dinner.

    Tomorrow I go for my Neulasta shot. I'm hoping that since I take a Zyrtec every day for allergies anyway, that might help with the bone pain, or so I've read here. I also may be one of the lucky gals who don't get it. But if I do get the pain, does it last long?



    Kimberly--I know the se's will be kicking in soon, but I'm carefully following your posts as you are a week ahead of me on the same chemotini. So thanks for the share. Keep us posted!



    Maz



  • sista2
    sista2 Member Posts: 53
    edited January 2008

    i watched the robin roberts thing and she looks good with no hair!  i know my head will not look that good bald.

    can all of you ladies with ports please tell me if the area was initially swollen? did it level out after a few days because mine is REALLY poking out.  yikes! 

  • golfer779
    golfer779 Member Posts: 1,378
    edited January 2008

    sista2, sorry to say but my port definitely "pokes" out too.  I don't have alot of meat on my bones in that spot so I think it may be a little more "pokey" looking/feeling.  I've gotten where I don't really pay much attention to it, can sleep on that side and my seatbelt doesn't even bother it any more.  It just looks a little goofy!!!

    Carol

  • Cathy-CA
    Cathy-CA Member Posts: 686
    edited January 2008

    My port sticks out a bit.  I still need to wear a band over the straps of my bra when I exercise to pull the straps away from the port or it gets rubbed sore.  Also, by the end of the day, I change into a soft exercise bra that has wider straps, which helps some, too.  I've had mine in for two weeks today and most of the time I don't even realize it's there.  On Monday I had put EMLA on it in anticipation of having it used for the PET and CT scans.  Turned out that they couldn't use it because the injections are higher volume than intended for the slow drip of a port.  However, I noticed that I didn't notice it at all that day, so maybe a bit of EMLA for the first few weeks would help.

  • wvgirl
    wvgirl Member Posts: 196
    edited January 2008

    About your port. Mine also sticks out a little. Make sure when they use the needle they use the right size. Last Friday was really bad for me because the right needle was not used.

    I explained what happened to my good friend who is a Hospice Nurse she told be because of the wrong size needle when they put in the saline it burned real bad because it was not going in and caused the port to swell.

    Paula  WOW you do have a great group of co workers.

    I have one who had knitted me several hats.

    I just went on GMA and watched Robin Roberts clip she does look good with no hair. If I only could look that good.

    Today at work I scratched my itching head and the hair stuck to my fingers,,,wont be long now until I'm thereFrown It going on day 12 from 1st chemo cocktail

  • sista2
    sista2 Member Posts: 53
    edited January 2008

    ok, been reading the material sent home and my port is a "new kind" called a PowerPort for power-injected CECT scans that "may not be familiar to all clinicians involved your care".  great. do i need things "delivered at a high rate into my bloodstream"?  maybe it's thicker than the usual port.  great.  sorry, i'm getting grouchy.

  • JulieK_11_30_07
    JulieK_11_30_07 Member Posts: 260
    edited January 2008

    Hi girls! So glad to hear all of you having txs today did well! Hopefully those se's won't be too bad for you. Take the meds regardless of whether or not you think you need them -- everyone says if you stay on your regimen, things go much smoother!

    I went out of my house today for the first time since my treatment on January 3!! It was quite an adventure. My sister drove over (she lives about an hour 1/2 away) and we went to the cancer center for "Wig Wednesday" and I picked out my free wig from the ACS. They actually had a lot of different ones to choose from - I got one from the Raquel Welch line. It needs to be trimmed a bit b/c it's a little "top" heavy for me, but my sister and I really liked it.

    When my dh and son got home, I put it on for them and they immediately "poo-pooed" it and said I look like Pat Benetar!!!! I was NOT happy with them and I don't really like either one of them very much right now! Yell

    My sister and I had a fun time, though, and I actually felt human for the first time in a week. I also got my hair cut SHORT so I won't have to deal with long hair falling out.

    Well, time to watch "Idol". I hope you all have nice evenings and great days tomorrow -- good luck Jenn51 and Donna - hope things go well for you.

    Julie

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