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  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    Hi Gals,

    I've used the online version of TurboTax for the past 6 or 7 years and have not had a problem, although I wasn't aware of anything they put on my hard drive.

    As far as dogs - I've had Cavaliers (King Charles Spaniels) for years. I currently have 3 and 2 cats and they all get along. I've had a couple of shy ones but most of them are absolutely friendly to anyone and everyone, but they are really attached to their owners.

    I'm divorced and live alone and I'm not sure that I could get through this battle without my little loving furfaces.

    This is a great thread because it's keeping my mind off of my start of chemo next week.

    By the way, how are you getting your photos attached? I tried to attach one to this and wasn't able to figure out how to do it.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

     Carol

    Welcome and good luck with your chemo.

    To attach photos:

    1) Set up a free account on www.photobucket.com

    2) upload the pics to your photbucket account

    3) Copy the 'direct' link underneath the pic on photobucket

    4) On the BCO site message window, click the green thing in the message window toolbar that looks like a tree (right beside the happy face)

    5) Paste in the link you copied from photobucket

    6) Click 'insert'

  • ravdeb
    ravdeb Member Posts: 3,116
    edited January 2008

    I love your poem Kimberly! You are great!

    Carol..nice to know about the dogs since I have several cats, too!

    Good luck with the chemo!!!!

  • TerryNY
    TerryNY Member Posts: 603
    edited January 2008

    I've been lurking on this thread and have enjoyed it immensely.

    I wanted to jump in and say 'thanks' to Always Hope for posting instructions on how to insert photos..thank you!  

    As for the dog topic, I have a site on my favs called the American Temperament Test that has dogs they've tested listed by breed and how those dogs fared on this test.  If anyone is interested,I can post the link.   It is, however, only indicative of the actual dogs tested and shouldn't be misconstrued to include all dogs in a particular breed, because there are always exceptions. 

    Also, the AKC (American Kennel Club) site is a wonderful tool to help decide on a pet with breed stats and what to expect personality wise.   We have a 7 y/o dal/lab mix adopted from the SPCA, she's been my buddy all during treatment and I swear she knew I had cancer before I did!  But she's certainly not a lap dog although she thinks she is....she's the type who takes ME for a walk. 

    Kimberly, good luck with your chemo, I hope the plan you signed up for works, the no SE one...didn't know about that one or I would've surely picked it.  LOL   Your poems are amazing, you are really talented!

  • TerryNY
    TerryNY Member Posts: 603
    edited January 2008

    Hijack alert! 

    I went to my first exercise class last night for the local dragon boat team.  After laying around for close to a year, it was not a pretty sight...and the big dance mirror front and center didn't help.  But, amazingly, I'm not very sore this morning, just a bit in my legs. 

    The dragon boat teams are comprised of breast cancer survivors.   Our local chapter is called "Hope Chest".  The boat holds 20 women and they enter races all over the country and in Canada.  I can't wait to begin! 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2008

    Terry...You are so lucky to have a dragon boat team in your area! I've read up on some of the teams and it's enticing. Unfortunately, that's not something that my area would be too amenable to. I hope that you have lotsa fun with it, get in great shape, and make many new friendships with the other women survivors!

    Hope you're doing okay, Kimberly....?

    ~Marin

  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited January 2008

    Good Morning Ladies,

    Hey Carol C from the Jan. Jewels- Thanks for asking about how to upload photos...I've wanted to know how to do that as well.



    And thank you RavDeb and Terry NY for your compliments on my poem...and support on my first chemo day. So, signing up for the NO SE's must have had some sort of just kidding clause...but so far it isn't too bad at all.



    So, I had a little nausea last night...the minestroni I had with Kath at lunch...being a little spicey...didn't end up setting well. Greg made dinner, salmon and vegies with bread and butter, and I ate very little except the bread and butter went down well...too much seasoning...I told him I need more bland for awhile...he was so sweet about it. I took my Decadron, a Compozine, and my Valium knowing that would knock me out for the night. Got up to pee several times, but went back to sleep. Up at 6am, drank my fiber and took my probiotics, emptied dishwasher, put laundry away, and cleaned the coffee pot with filter cleaner while my Ginger tea brewed. So far, slight nausea...not bad at all...just know I'll be eating small meals...slowly...and with very little seasoning. I think I'll try a little oatmeal for breakfast.



    What a cool name for an bc survivor group...Dragon Boat team. Are you all training for marathon type races? I don't think my poor knees could run a race. Good luck to you...I had a gal friend you trained for some sort of Charity run last year and has run/walked two half marathons so far. She's pretty proud of herself... and she's raised money for a good cause.



    SIS KImberly

  • TerryNY
    TerryNY Member Posts: 603
    edited January 2008

    Kimberly, my knees couldn't take the constant pounding of running either.  This is a boat racing team....I've heard the races take only about three minutes but you're paddling with all your might during those short, or long?, minutes.  The term dragon boat is used to describe the type of boat used, it holds 20 women, two abreast...sorry, couldn't help myself....10 on either side of the boat.  Just picture a very long canoe with a dragon at the front. 

    I've been reading past comments on this thread and I see you're a twin!  I am too, identical and 5 minutes younger than my sister.  She had bc too, it'll be 15 years ago next month. She was dx when we were 33.  I always felt like I was a timebomb.   We've both been tested for the BRCA 1 and 2 and we are negative. 

    Hope your neulasta shot goes well today!  

  • TerryNY
    TerryNY Member Posts: 603
    edited January 2008

    Thanks, Marin, for the encouragement...goodness knows I need a lot of it.   I've always admired your motivation and enthusiasm for exercise. 

    I want to be trim and fit the easy way!  LOL

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2008

    Oh, Terry, I don't think it will be very easy, but I guess you know that....the good news is that it'll be incredible fun!

    Thought I'd show others what a dragon boat team looks like. This is from one of the Team Survivor groups....

    ~Marin

  • lewisfamily503
    lewisfamily503 Member Posts: 621
    edited January 2008

    Okay--MAJOR HIJACK HERE!! I just got my first period after this bilateral mastectomy and have been SO sick. Throbbing headache and then throwing up. Has anyone else had a reaction like that? Could it be hormones with no where to go since the boobs are history? Do I need to brace myself for monthly hell, now? Be honest, girls. I can take it!



    Anne

  • Jaybird627
    Jaybird627 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited January 2008

    Okay, I'm at work and a BIG pet peeve of mine is noisy eaters! One of our maintenance guys always eats a sandwich with lettuce on it and it bugs the crap out of me to hear him munch and masticate! It seems I'm always taking a break when he is! :-/

    At this very moment there's this guy eating corn chips and he's really making a lot of noise. Guess I need to get off the computer and finish my break outside of the breakroom.....   :(

  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited January 2008

    I've shopped at that Concord TJ Maxx more times than I can count... lived about 10 minutes away until 2 years ago.  It's so nice to hear that your sisters can be with you during your chemo binge Kimberly.  Mine are 3000 miles away and I miss them.

  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited January 2008

    Jaybird, I absolutely loathe noisy eaters.  I loathe them and they make me nauseous.  I've been known to tell them to pipe down...

    Yeah, they look at me like I have a problem but I'm cool with that.  They quiet right down.

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008
  • lewisfamily503
    lewisfamily503 Member Posts: 621
    edited January 2008

    Oh my goodness those dogs are SOOO cute!  I would love to dress them up for Halloween!!Wink

    Anne

  • CarolC
    CarolC Member Posts: 179
    edited January 2008

    Oh my goodness! it worked. Thank you AlwaysHope! I couldn't figure out  a way to type my message however, after I uploaded the pic of my 3 Cavaliers. But here they are- the little one on the left is my new 9 month old puppy Jasper.

    Oh, and the drawer that is missing is fixed! it was out being reglued the day I took the photo. Wink Just in case you noticed...

    This is a great thread and I know I'll have plenty to post. By the way, I hate noisy eaters as well. I bet it'll really bother me once I start chemo.

  • ravdeb
    ravdeb Member Posts: 3,116
    edited January 2008

    Melting over here at the photo of the gorgeous dogs. Thanks Carol for learning to post and then actually posting them!!!! Congrats! Oh they are soooooooooooooooooooooooo CUTE!

    Kimberly..how are you doing???

    I suggest the noisy eaters stay away from Kimberly for a while as she eases into "how to eat while on chemo". You have to just try things and see what you have the appetite for. I had cravings for Burger King..something that I NEVER eat during my normal times. Of course, I had the cravings for it but couldn't actually EAT it! Weird stuff!

    I am one of the oldies so Anne, I can't help you. I've been liberated from those since chemo. "No, they never returned, no they never returned..."Laughing

    Bush is in Jerusalem now and I'm on my way there. My son will be sworn in (he's in basic training in the paratroopers unit) there at The Wall.

  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited January 2008

    Since we're sharing pet pics... here's my baby (one of them, at least):

    And his sister (not the blonde girl):

  • JapanLynn
    JapanLynn Member Posts: 471
    edited January 2008

    Precious dogs, Carol!  Thanks for the pic.  I hope to learn how to post a picture in the near future...no time or patience right now.

    Anne, sorry you're suffering so, but I can't help either in that dept.--my period makes an appearance oh so rarely these days.  Had one last January, and then nothing until September...wishing it would just go away for good.  I can't complain, though, reading your post.  Hope you're able to get some help.

    How interesting, ravdeb...your son sworn into the Israeli army at The Wall!  I haven't made it to Israel yet, and it's high on my list of places to see before I die. 

    I should be practicing my Japanese on Rosetta Stone, but I'm pooped...a little reading in bed and then lights out.  I'm so glad tomorrow is Friday--these five-day weeks after vacation are killers.

    Take care, everybody...

    Lynn

  • TerryNY
    TerryNY Member Posts: 603
    edited January 2008

    Ravdeb, OMG, I craved McDonald's cheeseburgers while on chemo, how totally disgusting is that??!!  LOL  

    ....could be a lesson in there somewhere...like having no tastebuds improves McDonald's products...?

    Congrats to your son! 

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited January 2008

    Talking about dogs, when we got Penelope (my basset hound) my dh wanted either a basset hound or a St. Bernard. I am not even 5 ft tall and I put my foot down for a dog that was bigger than I was and ate more than me. We then found Penelope as a rescue in 2003 and she has been a life saver for me now since my dh is home on weekends only. I have to take her to a groomer to get her baths because I cannot lift her 55 lbs into the tub by myself. As it is, I have to assist her into the car (small achieva), she can get her front feet in but has trouble getting her hind feet in, she gets stuck in the middle. the bad thing about her is she sheds constantly! I just bought a new vacuum because I could not find filters for my old one.

    Sheila

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2008

    Oh, I want to kiss these dogs!!! But, Twink, what is in your first dogs mouth....it looks like a lime green tennis ball? Or maybe it's just the photo (or my mind?)? The little blond girl is also adorable and looks quite contemplative.

    Speaking of chemo cravings, I ate tons of pickles, olives and tomatoes, not to mention having intense cravings for Mexican & Thai food! And this was with pretty bad mouth sores, mind you! I remember taking a bite of a super-spicy Thai dish and running around my dining room until the stinging subsided....then taking another bite and repeating the dance. How sick is that???!

    ~Marin

  • SISKimberly
    SISKimberly Member Posts: 762
    edited January 2008

    Good Morning Ladies

    Anne-Oh, I am so sorry you're experiencing the period from hell right after your bilat. I don't know what to say about the hormone issue...it could be so many things...pain meds you're taking for example can have headache side effects. Mine arrived about two weeks after my bilat done 12/6, and I had no problems. Good luck and hope you find relief.



    TerryNY- Thanks for explaining the Dragon Boats thing..and for the Pic Marin...it looks like fun. And what a small world you having a twin. Sorry to hear about her diagnosis at 33..but 15 year survival rate should be very comforting to you as you travel this road now with all the advances that have occured since your sis blazed the trail ahead of you.



    My twin is feeling a bit like a target too. She's experiencing the same sudden low blood levels I did this summer before my diagnosis in Oct. She's had two blood tests and both show low counts...she's been put on iron for two months...same routine as me, which raised them oh so slightly...and will get another test in two months...right about the time her BRCA test results come back...I'm praying it isn't cancer related as her mammo came back normal...but so did mine last year '06. I told her she needed to press for a PET once her tests come back and if they are positive -anemia still and BRCA positive. Once my tumors were removed....a week after surgery my blood work showed I was totally normal again...and I hadn't been allowed to take my iron for two weeks before surgery.



    Jaybird-I am so right there with you on noisy eaters...it's eating with their mouth open that causes that lovely dining serenade. My husband eats noisily when he's having sinus issues...and with allergies...that's a lot. He can't get enough air through his nose and chew at the same time he says....he's always apologetic when he's eating loudly...and I know he's not doing it because he was raised to be an inconsiderate eater.



    Twink-Hey what a small world you living in Concord and shopping at one of my sister's regional stores.

    Yes, I am lucky to have my sisters close...what a bummer to be so far away from yours...3000 miles is a big distance. Hopefully you talk a lot and/or email often to keep in touch. And how adorable are your big sweet dogs...I love the blonde as well using your little girl as her writing desk..writing poetry maybe?



    Carol C-OMG are those puppies just the cutest things... it's like they're smiling.



    RavDeb- I'm doing OK so far. So far, only slight nausea...not even bad...a weird taste in my mouth, but not metalic like...just swish with Biotene wash after meals and that seems to help. Drinking lots of water and tea. Had 4 small meals yesterday, not a lot but I have no real appetite...just eating cause I know I need to eat. I'm supposed to experience a potential Decadron crash...but I'm saying I don't want to do that, so I won't. I could also experience achiness and flu like syptoms due to the C chemo drug I'm on and the Neulasta in the next day or so, but again, I'm saying don't want to...and so far nothing like that has occured...as far as 9:47am that is. ;-)



    How exciting and a bit scary to have a son in the military at this juncture...I'm glad he made it through boot camp. My son joined the Navy at 22, but a knee and back injury from roller hockey days were so aggrevated by the training that he was unable to function...and he so wanted to make us proud...ended up getting really depressed about it all and was medically discharged before even finishing boot camp. Can't say I'm sorry about that... So, how was Bush's visit- he's not my favorite person on the planet right now, I have to admit.



    I am soooo looking forward to no more periods. I do think..don't know why that I'll have at least one more during chemo and maybe two. But the nurse was pretty postitive that I'd be in chemopause permanently. WhooHoo!!!



    TerryNY- LOL about your McDonald's comment...just the thought of fast food made me say 'yucko bucko'.



    All for now, I should probably eat something.

    Your SIS

    Kimberly

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited January 2008

    My son is 22 and in the US Navy on the USS Port Royal. He sent me a txt msg Sunday morning "I love you mom, don't worry, I'm OK. We had a 'sticky situation' this morning with some Iranian gun boats but everything is OK now." Then watching the news on Monday I see where the Iranian gun boats threatened to blow up three ships in the straight of Hormus and then I saw his ship on the video. Then I started worrying. We never stop worrying about our children but some of us have more cause to worry than others.

    Sheila

  • BMD
    BMD Member Posts: 1,492
    edited January 2008

    Sheila-Thank you for raising a son that is trying to keep our country safe. I have 2 little boys and I just can't image how I will deal with them going into the military. Thank your son for me too.

  • Jaybird627
    Jaybird627 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited January 2008

    Hijack ~

    My neighbor died of a heart attack last night - how sad! Now, would you rather go suddenly and leave your loved ones shocked (and possibly regretting things unsaid), or die slowly knowing that their (possible) caretaking would take its own toll on them but there would be time to say things and do things together?  Just thought I'd ask.

    I avoided the noisy eater today.....

    While on chemo I craved steak (was a vegetarian at the time) and egg foo young. That was pretty much my diet while on A/C. I had to forego my beloved tomatoes as I lost all taste for them!  :(  I do remember eating McDonald's double cheeseburgers, too.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2008

    I would rather go fast.  I don't want a long drawn out painful death.  If anyone has anything to say to me they should go ahead and say it now.  Don't wait until I can't chase em down and beat the living daylights out of them.  Just kidding! 

    Seriously, its not the dying part that worries me.  Its the suffering.  That's why I guess all this stuff about the adriamycin doesn't bother me so much.  I would rather die fast of a heart attack than go through what some of the ladies here have gone through.  Some of the graphic posting, while I understand why they do it and I'm not criticizing it at all, it has freaked me out a bit.  Especially, when some were posting one chat lady's last few weeks.  I had to stop reading. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2008

    I'd absolutely rather check out suddenly and cleanly! Though I'm a pathetic romantic over just about everything, and before cancer thought it would be lovely to linger and finally perish with consumption (looking stunning with my feverish, flushed cheeks and skin oh-so-delicate), cancer straightened me out quickly. Screw the suffering....I want the express outta here! My family and friends will just have to deal. And I don't plan on having left anything unsaid to loved ones because I now tell it like it is and no longer hold back.

    ~Marin

  • Jaybird627
    Jaybird627 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited January 2008

    I don't know.....

    My mom's mom died from BC (47 years ago) and my mom gave her morphine injections.....  Definitely not a pleasant way to die, for sure, but would a care-taker rather take care of you or have you just 'go', without that final "good-bye?" Perhaps I should ask my mother, but she was only 23 at the time of my grandmother's death so maybe she can't give me a 'good' answer.

    Sorry, I guess my neighbor's sudden death, along with my own thoughts of leaving my daughter motherless, have made me contemplative.....

    I'm thinking (selfishly?) that I want to be here for as long as possible. Death is not pretty but it is a fact of all of our lives so why shy away from its unprettyness? If my loved ones love me then they will tolerate my dying. If not then hopefully they'll give me some pills or something to expedite the process. JMO...

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