HOT CHOCOLATE
HOT CHOCOLATE
A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit,
the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives.
Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups -porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite -
telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.
When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said:
"Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken,
leaving behind the plain and cheap ones.
While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves,
that is the source of your problems and stress.
The cup that you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup;
but you consciously went for the best cups...
And then you began eyeing each others cups.
Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job,
money and position in society are the cups.
They are just tools to hold and contain life.
The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup,
we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate The Creator has provided us.
The Creator makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the cups.
The happiest people don't have the best of everything.
They just make the best of everything that they have.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.
And enjoy your hot chocolate.
peace
V
Comments
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I LOVE this! And it's so true. Unfortunately, I've had to learn this lesson the hard way.
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Wow! This is a powerful statement. I think I'll pass this on to my gripey co-workers.....see if they get the message.
Jennifer
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That was the message in the last Indiana Jones movie, the holy grail one.
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I love this... especially: 'Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. ' I think I'll adopt that as my motto.
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Twink, I like the one you have already: Why limit happy to an hour?
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Vera what a wonderful tale this is!Very true, very thought-provoking.
Thank you, Happy, Healthy 2008, and enjoy your chocolate too!!
hugs, Joan
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That's great! I'm passing it on!
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