Quitting Chemo
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just catching up again.
Almost feeling better. I feel like my bowels will never be the same, and the thrush is still burning my tongue, but compared to even a few days ago, it's definately better. I still haven't changed my mind about continuing.
But, i will try to openly see what the dr. has to say. I've never heard about colitis from chemo but I truly do not much about chemo anymore. I thought I had some info. but I see how I really don't.
well, HOUSE is on.. (wink wink!)
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Are you being treated for the trush. There's a mouth wash that should help clear it up.
Shirley
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That's right Shirley! It's called "Swish and Swallow" and you need a prescription. There are also things you suck on that area by prescription.
Also, Methusala, if you get live cultured yogurt or probiotics (1/4 teaspoon in water in between food) that helps restore the good guys. You're probably already on this, right?
Hope you do better and better each day. Thanks for posting.
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Isn't the mouth wash called Nistatin or Nystatin. My ENT prescribed that for me when I had laryngitis during chemo. Also, my onc prescribed "Magic Mouth Wash" that I'd swish and spit out. I believe that could be swallowed also.
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I did 4 TAC.........reacted on the first day on Taxotere.......and then had to go back the following day for my treatment with nurses giving me more premeds and them dripping the Taxotere over a 3 hour period rather than 1 hour period. After my 4th TAC treatment......I got severely sick throwing up one week later. I ended up in the hospital with a bowel obstruction and fluid around my heart. I was released after a week and then 3 days later back in the hospital due to hospital induced pnuemonia. I was scheduled for 6 TAC treatments.......................I DID NOT GO BACK FOR THE LAST 2. My research had shown 4 TAC treatments was the norm..........and that the 6 TAC treatments was just the latest...greatest to see how we could tolerate that. If one is going to have a reaction to Taxotere.....it usually happens after their 5th treatment....mine came 1 treatment early.
So.....yes.....I did not complete my CHEMO.........but the doctor thought it would be good enough. So it is your choice. I was doing pretty good until I finished that 4th chemo.........but I blame them for making me sick because they decided to just pour in the Taxotere in 1 hour rather then drip it in over 3 hours. Still makes me piss to think about my oncologist and the nurses just keeping it a BIG SECRET that they were pouring that SH#T into my veins without consulting me before they did. I WOULD HAVE TOLD THEM NO......3 HOURS LIKE BEFORE. Who knows if I would have made it......and maybe could have finished the entire 6 TAC treatments. But I do take Tomoxifen and it is suppose to be better than chemo for us ER+ PR+ women.
Sorry for writing so long.......but I am still mad! I am with you on what ever your choice might be.
Love,
Terry -
Hey, Methusala--I've been thinking about you. How are you doing?
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I was diagnosed in April, stage I ILC, single mastectomy (waiting for prophylatic surgery). 2 small tumors were removed and the oncologist said they were extremely low risk (less than 5%). The third tumor biopsied was never found in the resulting tissues so it could not be confirmed. I did not require radiation but chemo was recommended (just in case), along with Tomaxifin. I refused both drugs, the negativity of the proven side effects far outweighed the potential benefits. I read a minimum of 3 hours a day on the web and have learned that the body is designed to successfully fight negative influences - it all depends on what you put into it. Drugs like chemo break down your natural defenses. Do your research - there are other ways to fight this disease. "I did not tell you that it would be easy, only that it would be worth it in the end....Art Williams"
Good luck. Joy
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The negative side effects may outweigh the risks in your specific case but not in most, especially when it comes to hormone therapy. There are few cases with invasive breast cancer where the use of hormone therapy would not be the way to go. Diet has been shown to likely have no effect on this type of breast cancer. Exercise has been shown to have some effect because it can reduce the amount of estrogen in the body. Anti-estrogen drugs like Tamoxifen and the new generation aromatase inhibitors have been proven to provide a substantial benefit in the risk of recurrence and if your breast cancer was invasive it CAN recur. Ovarian suppression has also been shown to be effective but some find it to be more extreme. I completely agree that chemo may not be recommended for low risk hormone receptor positive breast cancer but turning down hormone therapy is not a risk I would be willing to take.
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I too wanted to quit chemo. I went to see my family doctor twice and he encouraged me to continue. (I watched my mother die of breast cancer and he reminded me of this). It is you decision. I just wanted to tell you that my first two chemos landed me in the hospital for several days. My onc decided to try something and it WORKED---he kept me for three hours after chemo at his office. He kept me there with IV fluids dripping. I cannot believe the difference. Not perfect-still alot of symptoms, BUT there were so much more bearable. Good luck.
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My journey with bc began this August. I am finding the more I read, the more helpful it is and at the same time the more confused I become. I am beginning to realize that the decisions I need to make regarding my treatment are the most difficult I have ever had and that ultimately I am alone in making them based on what I feel is best for me. I do feel that my only other source for comfort and peace is my faith.
Methulusa, I would say to you trust in yourself, pray for comfort in your decision and be at peace.
I too am not going to do chemo. I am right on the border with my Oncotype test. I have decided that for me the risks and detriment from chemo outweigh its benefit for me. I can tell you this had been a very difficult decision.
None of this is easy - I am so grateful all of you are here and share so much.
I also feel we all need to remember that medicine is a science (and not exact), that doctors are people (who make mistakes) and that our bodies only belong to us.
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Hi, you sound so much like me. I reluctantly,to say the least had a "reduced" dose of Taxotere. Just one. The side effects were numerous and worse than I ever imagined. Headache, nausea and backache the first night, followed by days of nausea, weight loss, extreme fatigue,inability to eat despite meds,unrelenting thirst,stomach cramps,gas,other unmentionables,mouth and throat sores,racing heart,nightmares,hair shedding,etc,etcI believe pople metabolize drugs differently and I am a slow metabolizer. It took a good 10 days to feel a bit normal again. i have not gone back for another round. Despite what everyone tells me, they think I will die if I dont do chemo, I think I will die if I do.
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It's your choice but for me, with a young daughter, she was 4, I had to give it all the ammunition in the stockade ... even if it was an 8% chance of working. Actually, I think it was more than that. I think without chemo, I had 70% of being just fine. With it it was up to 80 something and then with Herceptin it was better than that .... not an easy time but I did it and its over.
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Oh, my chemo buddy made sure that she had fluids after all her chemos ... a saline solution, did wonders for her but I didn't need it, I drank lots of water afterwards and took the meds.
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Dear Methusala,
My mother has refused chemo. You should consider the alternative board. The cancer must be defeated somehow, someway. If you don't do drug therapy, consider nutritional therapy. There are many natural substances that act as "chemo agents". Good luck to you.
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Hi Methusala,
Please go to the Natural Healing conversation on this board......there is hope, there is help and it is a real......It speaks of my stageIV bc dx and my decision not to go traditional medicine (no surgery, chemo, or radiation) and some other wonderful contributions from others on this board........
My prayers are sooo with you.
Genesis
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I did 5 of my 6 rounds. I didn't "have to" do chemo, but was encouraged based on alot of factors to do it. I was randomized into a group and the computer picked 6 rounds. I stopped at 5 because I learned (whether by accident or not) about the effects it was having on my liver & kidneys and said 'enough.'
While this decision is a hard one to make for anyone, I know when I was deciding whether or not to do it I was scared, and reading through all the materials about side effects, etc didn't help ease my fears any. But, knowing all that I know now, I do not regret my choice to not only do the chemo, but to stop as well. There are so many factors that play into a successful battle against cancer, and my goal was to make sure I had as many as possible in my favor.
Good luck.
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I have had 2 treatments, and I cant do anymore, I am finished, havent told family yet or doc, but will later in the week, makes me too sick.
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Welcome to our forum. Hopefully you'll get some helpful and friendly advice.
What stage and grade are you? er+or -? Lobular or Ductal? Oncotype score? Did you ask for a change to your meds to help with side effects? We need more information. This makes a difference to the answers.
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seeing that you do have a son, I personally would talk to the onc. about med switching. Alternative therapy could work but who knows what to take to address your particular cancer. There is a prescription (the name totally escapes me) for 'crap running down the leg that really helped me when imodium didn't. There is a diet I'd link you to this site but the ads assault you. I think the gastro intestinal issues are the worse. I really am sorry you are so sick.. I hope you feel better soon. stage IIIb is pretty serious.. I advanced from IIIC pretty quickly.
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- Begin eating bland, easy-to-digest foods after the first 24 hours of diarrhea.
- Slowly progress to other foods as you can tolerate them.
- Avoid food and drink that cause discomfort, cramping or gas for the first few days. Examples of food to avoid may include: spicy foods (black pepper, chili powder), caffeine, chocolate, carbonated drinks and cola drinks, alcohol, fried foods and greasy foods, acidic fruit juices (orange, grapefruit), gaseous vegetables (broccoli, cabbage, corn, cauliflower, onions).
- Initially, eat smaller meals evenly spaced throughout the day to reduce stomach acidity.
- Eat slowly and chew food well.
- A progressive bland diet may propose the following eating plan:
- Day 1: Drinking clear liquids at room temperature such as sports drinks (Powerade/Gatorade), weak tea (decaffeinated), non-caffeinated sodas;
- Day 2: Slowly adding bland foods in small amounts as can be tolerated during the day. Examples are: oatmeal or cream of wheat made with water, dry cereal (without milk), plain rice or pasta (no butter, oil, or sauces), crackers or pretzels, gingersnaps, plain toast (no butter or jelly), mashed potatoes (no skins), ripe bananas (ripe), applesauce, chicken noodle soup.
- Day 3: Gradually adding more variety of foods in small, more frequent meals evenly spaced throughout the day. Examples are: soft boiled eggs or scrambled eggs, plain baked potato, fish or chicken (no skin) well-cooked, baked or grilled (not fried), plain yogurt, cottage cheese, cooked carrots or green beans, milk (skim or low-fat after diarrhea has stopped).
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Apple, I think you're replying to the OP from 2007 but our new member has posted right above our posts.
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You have a fairly advanced cancer and a son so I would gently suggest some alternative approaches that would allow you to keep pursuing chemo:
1. Talk to your onc about treating the side effects. Your side effects are unacceptable and there may be ways to reduce them. I have a friend who had terrible, terrible vomiting. She ended up doing an IV treatment for the nausea that totally eliminated it and she was able to finish chemo. it meant a night in the hospital, but she was comfortable and finished. Only at the end did she discover the culprit -- she was allergic to the pre-chemo, the drugs they give you in the IV before the chemo drugs. You may be experiencing something as simple as that, or you may be a candidate for treatments that would make the process a whole lot easier.
2. Talk to your onc about different drugs. There are a bazillion chemo drugs and you have other options.
Bottom line- talk to your oncologist. You are not limited to the choice of chemo or no chemo. There are many other choices and you should be able to take advantage of this life saving treatment without the terrible side effects.
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Note to all, the OP is from 2007.
It's terryheinemeyer who is now enquiring above.
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Terry _ I seriously hope you feel much better very soon.
sorry to respond to a 4 year old post.
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Hi Terry,
I am so sad to hear that you feel so badly. I am glad that you managed to get through 2 - you are very brave. Chemo is notorious for a reason - it is terrible and more terrible for some of us. Please talk to your onc and if you feel that you cannot talk to him/her, consider another onc. There are other options to consider than quitting altogether: 1) reduce the does by 10% or more 2) switch chemo regimens. If you are on AC, you can try TC and vice versa.
My own experience is that my first one was absolutely my worst, #2 was better, #3 whopped me and #4 did me in. I was on TC. The first one, I gained 10 lbs overnight, my blood pressure sky rockete, the steroids made me paramoid. The neulasta shot was a living hell, but they cut the dose in half the second time which really helped. They also cut the steroids down to just 3 pills on the day of infusion instead of 12 total and upped the benedryl to compensate. They reduced the overall chemo by 5% and extended the drip time to 3 hours.
I definitely considered and even said to my husband that I could not go through with all of the treatments. That said, I had a very fine onc who re-jiggered my meds and dose so that I could get through it. It really matters that the onc is listening to you. Please tell us more about your side effects, what chemo regimen you are on, what your stage is, etc. We all want to help.
I wish you peace. Best, Beau
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I had the same feeling last night my first chemo was on the 10th of March .Her2 positive stage 1 hercepcin plus 2 more . I've had first five days after just resting,mouth & throat is covered with sores ,my head is full of sores the bone & body ache is terrible then went for blood work , white count about as low as u could go. . Running a 104.4 fever yesterday. I feel done. Maybe just mastectomy & radiation ? Hope for the best. Just 10 days til my next treatment & the Dr said since my white count went so low it will ever time .
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