what did you do with your hair during chemo?

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  • Kara
    Kara Member Posts: 296
    edited December 2007

    I bought one good wig at a wig store.  Then I ordered some inexpensive ones in different styles and even one in a different color.  By all means have FUN with it!!

  • Sunshine99
    Sunshine99 Member Posts: 1,680
    edited December 2007

    Vettegal, I actually LOVE my "epilady" or whatever the one I have is called.  It hardly hurts anymore and I can threaten my husband with it!  Laughing

    I don't know yet if I'll have chemo but if I do, my girlfriend has offered to buzz my head and she has some contacts for wigs, etc.  I did buy a cute cap at the mall yesterday.  It's weird looking at myself with all my hair tucked inside (I usually wear bangs), but then it's also weird looking down and not seeing a breast!

    Sunshine

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2007

    I cut my hair short just before I started chemo - this did help.

    When it started falling out (day 14) I had my DH buzz it as short as he could.

    If you want to wear a wig I suggest starting out with just one inexpensive one. Then when you've worn it for awhile you'll have a better idea of what you like and don't like and might want to pick out something else. The wig I bought before chemo looked totally different after I lost my hair - and I never wore it. 

    Also - find someone who knows how to cut wigs. Ask around at your doctor's office or a local support group. Get your wig(s) trimmed by someone that knows what they are doing. This will make an enourmous difference in how natural it looks while you are wearing it! 

  • vettegal
    vettegal Member Posts: 287
    edited December 2007

    love all the info I get from this message board...

  • snowyday
    snowyday Member Posts: 1,478
    edited December 2007

    My hair started falling out about week three. I did of cutting it short but was so glad I didn't because picking up the long hair was easier than picking up short stubby pieces.  I finally cut my hair in blobs one day because it actually hurt my head. Sort of like when you wear a ponytail to high and to tight, but it hurt all the time.  I thought I was nuts but another women in chemo with me had the same thing.  After I chopped at it in frustration a couple of days later my son came over and we used a hair clipper/shaver to get the rest off. It felt so good that I never complained. The worst part for me wasn't losing my hair but losing my eyelbrows really bugs me. Now of course I'm finished my chemo and have the white fuzz and wonder when it's going to grow back. The grow back will bug me because I'm impatient.  I have one sister who is a hairdresser and she's already planning how to shape it and colour and style it for me. And my other sister does sugaring so between the two of them I'll have hair where I want it and where I won't.  I just wish it would hurry up and grow back, mostly my eyebrows and lashes I look so blank with out the dark around my eyes. Oh well small price to pay for living. Pearl

  • vettegal
    vettegal Member Posts: 287
    edited December 2007
    going to look at wigs tonight..my hubby is coming with me..he is sooo supportive of everything i do. he wants like 4 wigs for me....LOLWink
  • Laurita60091
    Laurita60091 Member Posts: 140
    edited December 2007

    I just shaved mine off yesterday.  See this:

    http://community.breastcancer.org/topic/69/conversation/696113?page=5#idx_147

    The hair is in a box.  I found an organization here in Canada that will take hair that has not been treated with Permanent colour (which mine hasn't) and up to 5% grey.  Well, mine (under the colour) is probably more than 5% grey, so I am not sure.  For now it is safe in the box and if it doesn't get donated maybe I'll use it creatively with scarves or hats.  We'll see.  I am wearing wigs in public.  Bald is COLD!!!!!!!!

  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited December 2007
    I cut mine very short (it was long) just after my 1st chemo treatment.  I was very upset at the prospect of it falling out.  I too work in an office and didn't want to look sick.  I wore it short for about two weeks.  I bought a nice (overpriced wig) around the same time.  When I was able to easily pull hair out with my fingers, I shaved my head and started wearing the wig.  I then bought several more wigs (much more reasonably priced) and would alternate, just for the heck of it.  I had a hot blond wig for the weekends, a conservative shoulder length brunette and longer brunette for work, a short red one for when I was feeling completely not myself...etc.  You get the drift.  I never went without the wig to work -- no scarves, no hats in the office.  My hair started coming back while I was on Taxotere and three months after the end of chemo I started going in to work without the wig.  I haven't worn a wig since (3 months ago).  My hair came back much grayer and very very curly. I dyed it as soon as it was an inch long.  The thought of losing my hair was sooo much worse than the actual experience.  Of course, eyebrows, eyelashes, legs, underarms and ahem.... it all went.  In a way, it was a nice respite from shaving and trimming and coloring etc.  Gotta look on the bright side, right?
  • Determined1
    Determined1 Member Posts: 806
    edited December 2007

    Laurita--you are absolutely stunning!

    D1

  • AnnB
    AnnB Member Posts: 4
    edited December 2007

    I am finding life with little hair and a wig to be liberating. What woman doesn't want to come home from work, put her feet up, and take her hair off? I have a great human hair wig that looks so much like my real hair that people think I just got it cut, which was an extravagance worth every penny. At home, I wear caps covered with bandanas that I got at the wig store. I told the kids if I have the white one on, I'm approachable, but if I have the black one on, they need to leave me alone. Just kidding, but I may actually do that. Their fears of having a bald mother evaportated pretty quickly (probably because I just have very very short hair) and my son even goofed off a bit with the wig on. Frankly our society makes too much out of women's hair. I also have a lot more time in the a.m. now--just "put my hair on" and go to work.

  • vettegal
    vettegal Member Posts: 287
    edited December 2007

    laurita you are so beautiful!

    You have so much strength to do that. My is getting cut short (not buzzed yet) beginning of jan. I start chemo mid jan. Wanted everyone to get used to me in a shorter style then when the hair falls out i will go into the wig. Love the idea of the black and white bandana for the "mood swings"my guys at work would love that!Surprised

  • abbadoodles
    abbadoodles Member Posts: 2,618
    edited December 2007

    Laurita, you are adorable in your new "do." 

    Nobody noticed that my wig was not my hair (synthetic, monofilament, styled professionally by my wig lady) but now that it is growing back I've had two people insist on messing it up because they say it looks like a wig!

    Tina

  • Laurita60091
    Laurita60091 Member Posts: 140
    edited December 2007

    Ladies, thanks so much for your compliments.

    AnnB, I am on exactly the same page as you.  I LOVE coming home and taking my hair off, and then just putting my hair on when I am ready to go out.  It feels very liberating.  Your idea of the "mood caps" is hilarious.  I'm glad your kids are ok with it all.  That is important.

    Pearl, as far as the brows and lashes - I have always had to colour in my eyebrows as they are naturally almost invisible.  I suppose I will just colour them in even when they are no longer there.  When the eyelashes fall out I am going to experiment with false lashes.  It will be interesting to see how that works out. 

    Keep on keeping on, ladies!!!

  • clsd
    clsd Member Posts: 101
    edited December 2007

    Fellow Sisters of Baltitude ( Thanks A ).....

    I got a few laughs, and ordered a couple shirts from this site. Enjoy !

    xo Cindy

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