Jan 2008--Ain't it Great?
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LOL, I felt the same way in 2006....I wanted to have a wonderful day on January 12th of that year. I was turning 50 and was looking forward to all the black balloons and friends and family gathering to celebrate with me....
But it didn't turn out that way at all.....I did have a little celebration with the nurses at the Cancer Center....They had my chair all decorated when I got there for my treatment.
So I really do understand....
Try to hang in there, this to shall pass.
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Wanted also to mention after I shaved my head with a clipper, my scalp got red and very sensitive (a lot of us had the same thing). I read to try shaving my head with a regular razor. I was hesitant, especially because they say not to use razors, but I did and it totally helped.
And someone earlier here mentioned being triple negative and what that means. I'm triple negative. It means you test negative for the cancer being fed by the known hormones er, pr, and her2. Which means they do not know what feeds your cancer and so they don't know what specific treatment is appropriate and usually prescribe a standard treatment like what I had (chemo ACT). If you're triple negative, they can't do that new oncotype testing that tells you the more about your cancer either.
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I am just hoping to be out of the hospital for Christmas. My surgery is 12/18 (bilat with tram flap). I think I have all the presents wrapped and the tree is decorated. My birthday is 1/14.I don't know if I will be starting chemo by then or not.Probably will still be healing!! You all have given me hope and inspiration that this can be done
. Your my angels.
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Hi everyone! D1 I liked your thread about the "chemo orientation". I have mine Wednesday after my MUGA scan is done. We'll have to swap tips. I'm leaving in 5 minutes for my expander surgery!!! This one seems good-- I get a new boob for Xmas. I hope to write more over the weeeknd.
Kathy
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Hi all,
I'll be joining you on the January 2008 chemo train. Not looking forward to the potential side effects of chemo and radiation, but am ready to just get this party started. Had my bilat last Thursday. Will go in next week to see my surgeon for a recheck, my oncologist to get my chemo start date, and my plastic surgeon to get drains removed and to add 100cc's to my expanders. My dx was Oct 10th and within less than two months, I was in surgery and on the road to recovery. It seemed like a long wait, but when reading some of the posts on this site...others have waited months. I can't even imagine the agony that must have been for those gals.
Thanks for starting this thread, Determined1. Together, we can do this thing!
Your SIS (Sister In Survival)
Kimberly -
Wow, our group is really growing. So many people making new year's resolutions to do chemo! Who'da thunk it?
Want to revisit my orientation. We spent a lot of time talking about hair loss--probably the least threatening of the se's, but the one everyone identifies with cancer. Anyway, the nurse is asking me if I'd like a list of wig stores or if I wanted to wear scarves and I realized that I really don't know how I want to handle baldness. I mean, I know it's going to happen, but I think I'm in a bit of denial and not thinking about it. Strange for me--I'm usually so anal-retentive and the one with the to do list. Maybe I'll be ready to deal with this as the time nears, but for right now (as in this minute) I'm content to not plan for it. Too much other stuff swirling in my head (and the holidays don't help that one bit!).
One thing I found interesting last night--no two things. First, I'm not supposed to clean up after my dog while on chemo. So that means either the dog doo just decomposes around my neighborhood (I can still walk her), or I have to find someone to tag along and be my pooper scooper! Hmm. There might be money in that. After my recovery, maybe I should start a business to pick up dog doo. But then what do I tell people I do for a living when I'm at cocktail parties????
Other thing I found interesting. If I get a temp over 100 degrees I'm supposed to head straight to the emergency room. And when I get there, march to the sign in and tell them I'm an oncology patient and they have to give me a private room immediately. I dunno. That sounded so grave to me. And kinda entitling--if I need it.
Okay, I gotta get off to set up the snack bar for my high school basketball game for tonight. I'm the president of our Booster club and unlike a guy president (who would simply direct others), I don't ask anyone to do anything I wouldn't first do myself. So I'm off to demonstrate so that when I'm feeling like doo-doo (my theme for today) I can ask others to step up with a clean conscience. Girls are so strange, aren't we?
D1
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wow are group is getting bigger and bigger everyday! Isn't is great that we can read all this and end up feeling a little bit better about doing this chemo crap? I have learned so much! I feel so much better knowing that i am not the only one starting chemo in january. We need to think of a really cool
name to call this Jan group..please post some names and we will see which one is the best..hugs to everyone!
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I am so glad someone started this thread. I am supposed to be starting by end of year. Have to have bone scan and MUGA scan first and then the fun begins. I must say that eventhough I am apprehensive, I am so ready to be "doing" something and let the waiting stop. Had bilateral Nov 2nd. Healing well and getting strength back. No matter what the side effects turn out to be, at least I will be feeling like I am fighting and not just sitting on the sidelines waiting to get started. I was told I will be doing 4 treatments of AC and then 4 of Taxol depending on what the scans show. Both scans are next week.
It is so great that there is so much support here. Even if just reading the posts, it makes it bearable to know that there are other warriors who led the way.
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Sorry you had to join on jan club Deb..but this is a great group of women here and they are very strong, and have a lot of determination to beat the beast of cancer!! I am happy I found them too!
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Sorry I keep popping in.
It is important to go in to the ER if you have a temp (my onc said 100.3 but ask your's). They want you to go in saying you're an onc patient and ask for a private room because sometimes the ER doesn't really seem to get that a temp for a cancer patient can be a big deal and they'll tell you to wait until your clinic opens, blah blah blah. And the private room is in case your white blood cells come back from lab as really low so you don't catch anything.
This happened to me. I called the ER at 5am and they told me it was up to me whether I came in or waited for my clinic but they recommended the clinic. Well, I went in and when my labs came back, a fuss was made and I was carted off to isolation. Luckily I didn't catch anything. I stayed in the hospital and got those shots that raise the white cells and I went home.
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Wow. My doc said between 100.5 to 101 but will definitely clarify when I see her again next Friday.
Paxton, I see that you were also triple negative. Did it make it harder to treat? Are you still in treatment and if you don't mind me asking, what kind and how long. I really appreciate you "popping in"! Thanks for any info or diversions you can give. I see that you are pretty young. Sorry it happened to you.
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Hi ladies, well I did it!!!! My first treatment of A/C. No problems at all. There was a little burning in my nose when the Cytoxan was started. Nothing I couldn't handle though. The Adriamycin wasn't in a bag like the Cytoxan, they used a syringe to insert it. The nurse said it's given like that so she can monitor any blood being backtracked. Other than that everything was fine. I'm on my way to being finished...yippee!!!
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Hey Sharon, that is great! I haven't started mine yet but it will be soon and it is also supposed to be A/C followed by Taxol or Taxotere. How long did it take to administer the A/C?
So glad to hear the positive. Hope it goes as smoothly for all of your treatments!
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What a stud you are, Sharon!! The first on our '08 thread! Way to go!!!
Are you doing yours through a port? If an IV, do they insert in crook of elbow (seems like a logical place, but not sure I could sit with my arm out for so long)?
Fingers are crossed that the se's are as manageable as the infusion. Keep us posted.
D1
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Deb: Being triple negative just makes it harder for them to chose which chemo is best because they don't know what is feeding your cancer. I am doing dose dense (dd=every 2 weeks) AC x4, then Taxol x4 which is a very common regime. I started in Sept and have one taxol tx left the end of this month. I'm off a month and then start 33 txs of radiation lasting about 6 weeks. Hope that answers your questions.
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Paxton, thanks for the info. They pretty much told me that I would not need radiation. I had a bilateral so maybe that is why?
Glad you are near the end of chemo. Hope radiation goes smoothly for you.
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I love the SIS (Sister in Survival). That's too cool!
And I love the part about not picking up dog poop. Does anybody know why? Maybe I should just not ask and just "milk" that one. My husband and I have a routine when we walk the dog together at night. He picks up the poop and then I carry the bag to the next available trash can. I always thank him for handing me a bag of poop.
A quick funny for all of you. A friend left a message on our answering machine wanting to know how I was after my surgery and wanting us to keep them ABREAST of my condition. ha ha - It just struck me as funny.
Sunshine
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Hi - I'm from the January 2007 chemo group - just stopping in to let you know that this is doable and that you have started a great group here. I still post every day with the group on this board that started chemo last January and I can't tell you how much their posts have helped me. I hope all of you find just as much support and encouragement in this group.
Last Janauary I started 6 rounds of FEC after having 2 surgeries. I'm sitting here tonight with hair, eyebrows, a normal energy level and feeling great.
Best wishes to all of you!
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Hey D1,
I start Dec 27 also! 4 x tc every 3 weeks, no port!. Picked out a wig yesterday, hope to do a Look Good Feel BEtter next year, they said there are no more this year. My med cabinet already stocked up with my chemo meds.
Back to work Jan 2, desk job, hope it works out.
Good luck to us!
yh in NJ
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How cool is that, yuyu?! You're WAY ahead of me. I haven't filled my rx's, yet, nor gotten a wig. I keep meaning to take the rx's to the pharmacy, but somehow forget (is this on purpose???). I was even there today to pick up something for my kid and didn't even think about my own rx's till I was back in the car (sounds like denial to me, but I'm no shrink).
Waiting for my college girl to come home to pick out the wig. Sounds like something I should do with another person so we can laugh. She should be home tomorrow (if the weather holds--she goes to school in PA and we live in the DC area).
Anyway, back to the meds. What did your onc give you? I have one for Decadron (take day before, day of and day after chemo), one for Anzemet (hard to read his writing! I take this the 2nd and 3rd day after chemo), and Compazine (to be taken as needed). They're all anti-nausea. I also will get two anti-nauseas during my tx in the IV. No anti-anxiety or sleep aids--unless that's a se of one of these.
I'm hoping we'll be okay for desk work. I run the basketball boosters for my high school and I'm coordinating a cadre of parents this year to do the physical stuff while I keep track of everything from my computer. In past years I did everything--finances, grocery shopping, setting up/running/clean up of snack bar, collecting dues, running other fundraisers, etc. This year, I've been spending the first 6 weeks of the season showing other parents how to do the physical stuff, so I can just do things like coordinate volunteers. I'll tell you, if these parents don't come through, I'm going to pull the wig-offing stunt as seen on Desperate Housewives!
Hey Paxton/Jan, thanks so much for your perspective. I cannot wait for the day I can help others with the wisdom of having this all behind me.
D1
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Here's something that has been nagging me for several months. My back is KILLING me! My upper back. I think it's cause I was hunching over myself at first to protect my surgeries, but no matter how hard I try to maintain good posture, I can't shake this pain. Anyone else with this? And if so, what on earth are you doing for it. I really need some suggestions!
Hope everyone is happy today. I gotta get my little one (16yo daughter) off her butt and make her go to the gym with me. She needs to shoot around (basketball) and I need to exercise. Already went out to rake up the leaves, (before our ice storm arrives), but I want MORE. Then we gotta get new glasses. I wear some very heavy black plastic frames when I'm not wearing my contacts and they'll look stupid without my hair to balance, so I'm going to look for something that will "disappear" on my face (particularly since when I don't feel well I don't put my contacts in and I suspect I'll be wearing glasses more often for the next few months). Then I want to go to Target (with about 8 million of my closest friends!) and get some more Christmas shopping done. And it's already 2p! At least I've brushed my teeth and walked the dog!
D1
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hey determined...are you waiting for the same ice storm as I? (Pennsylvania) They don't what we are going to get today... My husband said all the women of the Jan chemo start date should be JANUARY- JEWELS because we are such precious stones and we are indestructible.
What do you think?
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We are precious. I'm happy to hear your dh is chiming in. I'll be a jewel anyday (and maybe that means we all get jewels when we're done to commemorate our sisterhood...a thought. I want diamonds! Totally indestructible.)
We're supposed to see the storm, but we always seem to be on the edge of everything around here. South, but not south, north, but not north. I grew up in Flint, MI and we knew how to have winter there. I remember one, when I was a kid (mid 60s, maybe?) when the snow drifted to the roof of our one story house. My dad made a tunnel from the kitchen door to the garage he'd built for his precious car. The tunnel was so cool till it warmed up then my dad was such a spoil-sport and knocked it down. Now that I'm a little more grownupy, I understand he was worried it would cave in on us, but as a kid, that was SUCH a downer.
My back is REALLY sore today. Probably shouldn't have raked leaves...
Oh, got some cool glasses at Lenscrafters. (No I'm not a paid endorser.) Wire frames, but the lenses are just floating. My 16yo helped me pick them out. Totally disappear on my face. WAY different look than I usually get for my specs, so I'm curious to see how they work out. Of course, the place that says "glasses in an hour" said since mine are rimless, it will take 7-10 days to make them. But, I got a discount because I pressed them about not accepting my insurance (I've never tried it before--can't believe it worked. Guess with all this going on, I'm becoming more aware of working the whole insurance angle. My kid was duly impressed.)
Onward through the fog.
D1
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Deb, how long was your first chemo treatment? I am so proud of you , you completed your first one..any side effects yet? Take care!
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Oh you guys, I have to share.
My sister is 4 years younger than I and of the four women in my immediate family, is the only one of us not to have cancer (we've all had different cancers). Well, she's amazingly vibrant. Two master's degrees, two kids, works full time and volunteers in her community. Is also volunteering to start literacy centers in the out-islands in the Bahamas (she's a teacher/librarian). She also went in and donated 13 inches of her hair today to Locks of Love in my name. I cannot put into words how much that moves me. You see, her twin had cancer two years ago, but she donated for me--the odd man out in my family. This is incredible to me. I can barely see to type through my tears. Now her hair is shorter than mine (okay, not for long, but still...).
I am so touched by what other people will do for us. Please help me thank my sister.
D1
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Hey vettegal, I haven't had my first treatment yet but thanks for being proud of me anyway.
You might have been reading Sharon's post. She had her first one and did great! Have you started your treatment yet? And I love the name January Jewels. The group that I walk the "Race for the Cure" is called Jordan's Jewels in memory of a coworker so it really sounds good to me.
Christmas is coming and I am blessed by the comraderie and good thoughts and info from the people on this website.
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i am doing my auxillory node surgeryon friday(21st) first then starting chemo in jan. they need to see what my path report is going to be so they can tell me what my cocktail(chemo) is going to be
You are right about this board I am touched by every response on here. JANUARY JEWELS..i am glad everyone likes the name.. i am going to look at wigs tonights.should be fun...
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Hello Fellow January Jewels (love the name!):
D1-- your sister sounds great. My step sister did the lock of love also. It's pretty amazing. My 5 year old daughter wants to grow her hair now, too.
I am post-op day 2 from my expander exchange and not feeling so hot. I think I have a cold on top of surgery recovery. Makes me nervous thinking about colds since we'll be starting chemo soon and colds aren't good then. I have my MUGA scan and "chemo talk" on Wednesday and it's freaking me out a little. It'll all be a little bit more real after that step. I am just tired of being poked and tested. And I don't wanna be bald in the winter. I know.. waa waa waa! Had to vent. I'll be back to my positive self soon enough
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Hi Kathy! please vent we all need to do it!!!
i had my emotional day yesterday.crying, laughing...the emotions are on a rollercoaster ride. Trying to stay positive till surgery (friday) christmas around the corner yikes
worried about wearing that drain and starting chemo in jan. I am glad you like the January Jewels..it has a nice ring to it.
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I am glad I stumbled on to this website as well. I start chemo on December 27th. Haven't decided yet on the exact treatment. Either TC x4 or CMF for six months. We go in for the "teaching" tonight. I just want to get this started too. The waiting is awful. Those on TC x 4, how has it been?
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