Fake or Real?
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Christmas Trees, I mean!
Mine's fake and we love it. It's our 4th year putting it up. I bought a nice one with the lights already on it and all we have to do is hang the ornaments. Scaredy Cat over here can go to sleep not worrying about a fire (well, I turn out the lights anyway) but I never have to worry about adding water or the tree getting too dry.
I'll add a picture later but what kind of tree do you have?
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Fake prelite. Talk about lazy :0)...
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OK I have 4 fake, I heat with firewood, real trees are a nightmare....
I make a little forest with different sized ones those fiber optic ones and put woodland creatures on it..
MB
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I have to do real. My mom had a fake tree for years and my sister does a fake tree (she put it up the day after Thanksgiving!!!), but I need to smell the pine. We will get ours about 10 days before Christmas (the 15th or 16th) this year. Usually, we get it about two weeks ahead, but the timing doesn't work that well this year. Also, we were warned that they might be a little dry because of the lack of rain. Regardless, I need a real tree. To each their own
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I love real, but it has gotten quite expensive. And I LOVE the smell. I don't like cleaning up the needles.
I have a prelit tree. However, I'm not putting it up this year. We won't be here for Christmas. We will be with our two girls and grandchildren and one son-in-law (one daughter's not married). And my youngest is STILL in Africa.
We received an email from her Thanksgiving and she's homesick! YEA! That was ugly. She's been looking for a cheap flight to come home for a visit...not likely.
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Regarding the smell ... I go and buy a real Christmas wreath and some boughs and place them around the house and even a bough in the tree. You can also buy the candles and even spray now!!!!
I work for 2 weeks straight, starting the day after Christmas and do not have time to take the tree down, so fake it must be unless I want a dead tree in my house. Oh and we always put it up the day after Thanksgiving, too!!
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I have a fake one but I also will probably not be putting it up this year. My son is somewhere in the Pacific/Indian Ocean. I put up the fake one at the office and that did it for me.
Sheila
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I do fake too
...I love the real thing but as with MB I heat with wood and the real ones are just too dangerous....the cost is also a factor and the idea of cutting down a real tree to decorate my living room for a few days does me in....
Jule
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I do real. We had a fake one every year when I was growing up so I like having a real one now. We usually get it around my birthday-which is on Saturday. My favorite day of the year!! And 2 years ago I didn't even think I would make it.
Anyway...I feel slightly guilty that I am cutting a tree down but not guilty enough not to do it.
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After I left my husband, I bought a fake tree that first year and have used it ever since. It's just me and my cats, with my daughter visiting here & there, so no one cares. In fact, I worry less about the cats ingesting every last branch...they seem to prefer real and more or less leave the fake one alone (unless they're trying to really get me annoyed!). I grew up with a real tree every year and had a real one throughout my marriage, so I figure it's time for me to kick back and enjoy other less demanding aspects of the holidays.
I do love that smell though!
~Marin
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Mine is a real Christmas Tree, it's just 'photosynthesis-challenged'.
I grew up with evergreens, though - so I gotta have that smell, too. I go out and gather greens; enough to drape my front door, my wall-to wall length mantlepiece (common in old Craftsman homes) and every horizontal surface in my living and dining rooms. That really adds forest-y fragrance! My holiday decorations are in a simplified "Williamsburg style" (not what they really did back then but what has come to be known as that style) so it's mostly just greens and candles and fruit and so on.
http://www.history.org/christmas/dec_doors.cfm
Ever since she was about 11, it has been my daughter's job to do the tree lights because it gives me a blinding headache (no, really!) and it was my job to keep her supplied with warm spiced cider and/or from-scratch hot chocolate. When she went 3000 mi. away to school and finals lasted until mid-Dec that became problematic.
I bought a pre-lit tree. What took me so long?!?
Oh - another easy cheat? 'Smell of the Tree' refresher oil. I've had a tiny bottle for probably five years and it's still half full. I put a dab on a couple of branch tips or on the trunk maybe once a week. It is available here for $9
and probably on Amazon in candles.
Gee, sorry for the long answer! I love Christmas!
Lisa
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I have two fake but I like the real ones better.
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My sons and I have a fake tree (pre-lit). For the smell, I use pine scented candles to give my home the pine tree scent.
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I usually have one of each. the year I was diagnosed, we put up the real tree and I only hung one ornament--gift from a friend.
Kids got home Christmas Eve and we were all too tired to do more.
The fake one is seen from the street from the dining room--it holds all the fancy ornaments my dh and kids have given me.
The real one is for family ornaments--first one was our cork from our honeymoon champaign--then the silver rattles from the babies. every year I got an ornament for each kid--then when they start their homes they'll have a lot of ornaments for their first tree.
My daughter has her own home but hasn't wanted to take her ornaments since she comes home.
My son has a condo but doesn't do a tree: I send him a small one from one of the garden catalogs. He comes home too.
This year--nada---we're all meeting in Williamsburg, Va and going to enjoy the really OLD fashioned Christmas there.
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This year is my first ever with a fake tree. It was bought more for practical reasons (we're not home enough this month to keep a real one watered properly) but I have to admit that I love it! I wish we could afford to buy one of the really nice ones but we got one at Lowe's for under $300 and it's gorgeous and looks incredibly real. Like Marin, our cats don't seem to care too much about this one compared to the real ones so that's a plus. I bought a Mistletoe candle at Yankee Candle and that helps put some of the missing scent in the air!
I missed the experience of picking out the tree this year, but with the cost of trees, this one will pay for itself in 3 years so that's worth it!
xoxo
Erica -
When I was young my father died, from that year on my mother would never put up a real tree again. When I moved out I decided I only wanted real trees. I put up my first real one in 1985 and my last real one in 2006. I bought a fake one this year, prelit of course and really like it. With the kids not home all the time it is harder to do the real tree thing. We make a huge day of tree decorating day and this is the first year all the kids weren't home. I like my new fake tree and plan to enjoy it as much as a real one!
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New Tradition: Real tree. Pot and all. I get one about 3 or 4 ft tall, set it on a table with tiny white lights. And in the spring I plant it.
The year I was diagnosed, I had surgery a few days before Christmas. I don't have a fake tree and couldn't manage getting a real one from the tree lot. It was all I could do to simply buy a little potted one. Shortly after that, I was spending the time managing drain tubes and pain meds and trying to figure out what to do next.
But that first little tree is doing well and someday I hope to have a forest of them!
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Blinded, that is a fantastic idea! I have seen some real trees in pots so that they can be planted ... maybe one year, we can do one of those and plant the tree over on our slope.
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We always go out into our woods and find a little Charlie Brown tree that is being crowded out by its mother or sisters and bring it in. We, too, heat with wood but keep the tree on the other side of the room from the stove and have never had a problem. We have years worth of ornaments from pre-us (including old pieces of jewelry and junk that I made into ornaments one year with a friend/housemate) and each year we buy an ornament from our neighbor who is a fabulous glass blower (his studio sale is this weekend!). http://www.glassblower.info/Ed-Branson/Ed-Branson.html
Another neighbor is a big x-mas tree grower and this year one of their trees is going to be in the vice-president's palace. http://www.cranstonschristmastreefarm.com/
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What a cute thread this is. We do real a real tree each year. Always buy it on the 15th. Decorate it with ornaments we have saved over the years. Each ornament has its own special meaning. I still string popcorn and cinnamon gel bears. That is when my dog isnt trying to eat it and my cats arnt trying to play with it.
Cats always climb up the tree too.
Nicki
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I like the look and feel of real myself.
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We had real trees up until last year. The only thing I miss about real is the smell. I do not miss vacuuming every day or making sure there is enough water. I really thought I would miss the real tree more.
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I've collected Christmas ornaments since I was a teenager, so my daughter and I make a big deal about putting them on the tree every year. I do like the real tree, though.
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Well! the big day came. 2 days ago my DH went and bought our Christmas tree. It was leaning up against the outside of the house and I had such a sense of disappointment.
There he is with a big smile on his face and Im thinking "its too small, the stump is crooked, its a small needed treeeee!" So I had to figure out a way to tell him I thought it was cool. But in the end still said, why a small needle tree?
Yesterday I came home from work and he had it in the stand.
Today I came home from work to a wonderful smell. This tree has opened up so pretty. Its much bigger than I thought. I do believe this is the best Christmas tree ever. Poor DH has to put up with alot since my diagnosis.
Tomorrow is the big day for us. Decorating the tree is a ritual. All of our saved ornaments - each with different meanings. The year I was getting chemo DH gave me a red dancing shoe ornament. That was 2 years ago. And this year Im dancing in red.
Cant wait to see how it will look all decorated.
BTW - I stringed popcorn this year. Well my goofy dog Mister and my two cats Leslie and Wesley took care of it. The cats played with it and Mister ate it!
Nicki
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