Early Xmas Gift
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By the way- Happy Chanukah! It's the holiday of miracles!
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I was going to stay out of it too but as an atheist; whenever tells me "Merry X-mas" I thank them and tell them "Merry Christmas in return. I don't see anyone giving me any best wishes as shoving Christianity down my throat. I practiced with Jewish doctors at my last office and we still had Christmas parties and gift exchanges.
I mean even the word "holiday" means holy day. So for me as an atheist changing the phrase to "Happy Holidays" would still be incorrect. I can if you use the European meaning, of "going off on a holiday" then maybe. I have to laugh at myself over how seriously I'm taking this!
I really just wanted to tell Shirley and Benita to have a Merry Christmas and not to worry about offending all of we non-believers and to tell Luann that her son really rocks!
Anna
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Shirley, you have misinterpretted what I said to mean I am offended by the word xmas. I am not. I am offended when christians only recognize this season as their season and not a season for everyone. I celebrate the winter season. I give hannukah presents to jewish friends and family, xmas gifts to christian friends and family (yep, i have family who are chistrian) and presents to my atheist and agnostic friends and family who don't celebrate specific holidays. I don't like to see people marginalized or left out. I think too often the majority, whether that be religion, race, political party, social clique etc., overlook the needs and feelings of the majority. I was volunteering at a shelter about 15 years ago and we took the kids to see a black santa, since most of them were black. It was the first time any of them had seen one (including most of the volunteers) and they loved seeing a santa who looked like them.
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LuAnn~
Your son and his heartfelt gift I am sure put a smile on your face....I always liked the short hair myself my nephews w/ the "shag" look covered how handsome they really were. ( I have two daughters )
You son wanted to keep the "style" I am sure but he did it for YOU....to please you and you must be proud !
Merry Christmas to you and may we all have the gift, we soooo want !
Laurie
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Ok ladies, enough of the bickering! I really posted to share my photos, shock and surprise! There is enough problems in this world without some needless bickering over a gift from a son to his mother! We have so many struggles in our lives do you really need to destroy my pleasure at my sons gift to me. I am really sorry I shared!
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I apologize Luann. I won't discuss it any more on this thread.
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LuAnn: OMG! That picture of your son is great.
Nicki
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