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  • bco-admin34667
    bco-admin34667 Member Posts: 46
    edited December 2007

    Sorry badboob67.  The reason we have included public profile information to unregistered users is so Google and other search engines can reach this information.  By allowing search engines to find this public profile information we increase our rankings in the search engines, we increase our reach and (hopefully) can help more women affected by breast cancer.

    Thank you for offering to help patrol the community.  We will add your name to THAT list. Tongue out

  • celia088
    celia088 Member Posts: 2,570
    edited December 2007

    to the bco-admin:

    Thanks again for replying.  You have now posted twice directed to me basically about the lack of funding and employees and you have not even acknowledged my question:

    "Celia088, I'm sorry but I guess that was exactly my point.  We just don't have the people to respond to each and every post.  That is going to make folks feel "unheard" at times and that makes me sad.  I wish it could be different.  We try our best to make this a safe and comfortable place and when it fails in those respects it isn't due to a lack of us caring.  We are all involved in this organization because we care about making a difference and, in many cases, because we are personally affected by breast cancer."

    What my issue and question to the admin was, is this: 

    Once the admin has been alerted to a troll post on the boards, why does the admin remove only the words in the original post and NOT remove the troll poster's name from the database and also remove the entire thread with its inappropriate title, which happens to be the name of the troll's annoying and offensive website?

    I think leaving all that propaganda on the boards is not a good idea and we posters are trying to avoid having newbies clicking the troll websites and getting confused. 

    It also makes it very easy for the troll to continually propagandize us all. They never get entirely deleted, so this is effective for them.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2007

    Please add me to THAT list as well  .... I'd volunteer to be on the list of people helping to patrol the community!!

    Doreen  

  • badboob67
    badboob67 Member Posts: 2,780
    edited December 2007

    Ok, I am VERY APPRECIATIVE of the clear explanation as to why our profiles are viewable to unregistered users. Even though this poor horse is already on the ground and gasping for air, I can't help myself. Why is it necessary for Google to index USERS when it's the MESSAGES and information contained therein that would seem most useful to someone searching for answers to bc questions.

    Somebody get me a shovel so I can give this poor pony a proper burial. :o

  • MtnMama
    MtnMama Member Posts: 133
    edited December 2007

    I arrived here from Googling "breast cancer fourms", but I can't imagine how it would be helpful to find an individual user profile.  There are plenty of breast cancer buzz words in the posts alone to cast a wide net.  If it makes members feel more secure at a time in life that not much does, why not just take that little measure.

    It is all an illusion, as anyone can join and present themselves as someone else, but denial is what keeps us afloat most days!  Cool  Humor us, please!

  • OneBadBoob
    OneBadBoob Member Posts: 1,386
    edited December 2007

    Someone correct me if I am wrong, but to put the code in for the search engines not to pick up any words in particular (like a user name) just cannot be done--I know you can put code in for search engines not to pick up anything at all from a page/site, but I don't think you can pick and choose.  You can promote certain key words with mega tags, etc., but I have never heard of being able to leave a particular field that clearly appears on pages, such as user names, out of search engines and web crawlers.

    I don't think BCO "submits" any user names to search engines--I believe the search engines and "web crawlers" pick up any and all of everything that is written on the pages that are public.  That is how spammers harvest e-mail addresses.

    Even if you have a website and never submit anything to google or any other search engine, they will them up if you don't have the "no search" code written in.

  • badboob67
    badboob67 Member Posts: 2,780
    edited December 2007

    hey there, other "badboob"! We meet again. What did one badboob say to the other badboob?

    Well, it's not a punchline, but here goes:

    I understand that bco is not submitting profiles to google and just kind of assumed that others realize that. The thing is, google CANNOT crawl a password protected page for indexing. If our user profiles were only viewable to registered users once they sign in, google could not index them.

    It is very possible to make this change. The powers that be for some reason feel that our profiles being open to indexing is going to somehow generate more traffic. That doesn't really make sense to me.

    Another note about google:  We have had numerous posts about the name of the boards changing to "community knowledge exchange". I did a special google search and found that the phrase is much less commonly used and therefore google ads are much less expensive. I suspect that has more to do with the apparent affection admins hold for a klunky, pretentious, and ambiguous name.  That's a whole other basket of apples, though... 

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited December 2007

    Okay, I wasn't going to add any more comments to this discussion - I've said what I want to say - but I just can't stay quiet over the comment from the administrators about why our profiles are public:

    "The reason we have included public profile information to unregistered users is so Google and other search engines can reach this information.  By allowing search engines to find this public profile information we increase our rankings in the search engines, we increase our reach and (hopefully) can help more women affected by breast cancer."

    In other words, the more info that BCO allows Google to access, the higher the ranking of BCO and therefore the greater the likelihood that someone will key in some word and this site will pop up near the top of the list.  If someone keys in the word "Grade 5 teacher" and someone has that in their profile, then Bingo!, we have a hit and a potential new viewer to this site.  The more viewers, the more clicks on this site, the greater the perceived popularity of this site, and the greater the ability to get funding.  I think that's how it works.  I think I've got.

    I have to admit that I sure feel violated and used.  I understood that the process I described above was exactly the reason why all our posts are public and so easily searchable on Google, but to realize that our profiles are being intentionally left public so that they can be used in the same way.... it almost has me speechless.

    OneBadBoob, you're right that our profiles aren't "submitted" by BCO, but from their explanation, they are choosing to keep our profiles public in order to get more Google hits, whereas they could make our profiles private.  That's the problem. 

    Having said that, Jerri, I don't think that the spam you are receiving is because of this site.  I have all cookies pop up for approval on my system.  I choose which cookies I allow through, and I let through very few.   BC.org is allowed through, and I receive no spam.  However, when I click on other BC sites, if a cookie notice comes up, I automatically reject it.  So it could be that you've gone to other BC sites, or it could be that if you clicked on links left by some of the trolls - that might be the cause of the spam.  I've gone to some of the troll sites; they definitely send cookies but I always block them.  I could be wrong, but I know that I don't receive BC spam even though BCO is one of the few BC organizations that I do allow to leave cookies on my system.  So I'm thinking it's not them.  I hope I'm right.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2007

    I really don't understand what the hubub is all about.  I belong to quite a few forums and they are all pretty well set up like this one.  If you don't want any of your personal info out on the web then just don't include what you may feel is private and for your eyes only.

    I found this site through google and am glad I did.   

  • Hana
    Hana Member Posts: 48
    edited December 2007

    I am sorry to stirr all this but I still feel betrayed. This site was recommended to me by the book my surgeon gave me before my mastectomy. He pre-warned me about looking for help and information on Internet and told me to trust only handfull sites run by professionals and doctors such as the sites recommended by the book he has given to me.

    So I signed up here. I found  support and information from other members many, many times. I am not shy or prudent person but if I knew that my comments will be seen by anybody outside of this Board, I would think twice about posting them.

    I am terrified that one day my husband will come across my comments about our personal life and they will hurt his feelings. If he won't find them, other members of the family or friends may show them to him. My posts reflected on similar situations in other members families.  

    Just imagine that you would write a very private letter to your sister and then you find it displayed including your photo !! on Supermarket's wall. We are told over and over that nobody can see our private profile. My face is private and yet - there I was - didn't even take two clicks for anybody who googled info on side effects of medication.

    Not all of us are high tech educated.Plain warning  especially for new members should be displayed same as other messages right on the top. And avatars should be part of the private part of our profile. I hate loosing your faces. Only those registered and with pasword should be able to view our faces.

    Thank you for listening.          Hana  

  • corvette
    corvette Member Posts: 41
    edited December 2007

    Everyone has to remember -- there is no such thing as 'private' or 'privacy' on the internet.

  • HeatherBLocklear
    HeatherBLocklear Member Posts: 1,370
    edited December 2007

    This is simply not true. I administer a university board, and have an html tag so Google search engines (and others) can find us. It is absolutely NOT necessary to make names, details of posts, or any other identifying information regarding members available to non-members in order for the site to attract hits.

    Best to all,

    Annie

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited December 2007

    Hi sisters, I guess I am strange, but since we are all anonymous, and I can't imagine anyone dumb enough to put any private info on here, who cares who does what with our stuff?  Am I just dense?  That sure could be, but what earthly harm can be done to us when NO ONE should know who we are, or anything else, unless we want them to.

    What I get from this board, and I really don't give a fig who knows anything, what are they going to do with the details of my cancer? Or anything else about me when they don't know who I am?

    I don't mean to be stupid, but someone needs to give me a scenario of how we can be hurt, financially?, stalking?, what?????  I could be the Queen of England for all anyone knows, right?  Where is the harm?  I truly am asking, as I am not enormously computer smart.  So give a scenario of what "can happen".  I would appreciate this.

    Thanks, Shirlann

  • HeatherBLocklear
    HeatherBLocklear Member Posts: 1,370
    edited December 2007

    What I get from this board, and I really don't give a fig who knows anything, what are they going to do with the details of my cancer? Or anything else about me when they don't know who I am?

    Hi Shirlann,

    I'm out of country, and have discovered a lump. I'm going to travel to another country to have it diagnosed. My children who are at home in the USA don't know I'm struggling with the possibility of BC. They know the pseudonym I often use for forums, or even to sign emails. I do NOT want my children to find out I might have BC (or to find out I do have it, should it be confirmed) from some website that doesn't respect my privacy. I want to be the person to tell them, in my own way, at the right time. My children do surf the web, and I wouldn't be at all surprised if one or both came across my pseudonym and read my posts. 

    Because of that problem, I've had to change my pseudonym and delete one important post that could easily have identified me - not only to my kids, but to others in my community and at my job.

    I want to be in charge of the information about me that ends up in public circulation. It's that easy.

    Best,

    Annie

  • sahalie
    sahalie Member Posts: 2,147
    edited December 2007

    I remember last year when I joined here during my treatment that there was the very same type concerns on a thread.  Some women wanted to feel comfortable enough to come here and post to learn about what we were being told by our oncologists and what to expect regarding our different treatments.  Really just about everything connected to our breast cancer journey.  There were a few that were concerned about the very thing Annie wrote about in the above post.

    I don't personally have those concerns.  I chimed in here because I noticed the thread, began reading it and found out a certain long time poster on this board took one of my posts from here BCO and pasted it on another forum board with no affiliation to BCO.  

    That did upset me.

    Annie, you made excellent points for I'm sure many women / men that use this wonderful forum for help etc.

    Shirlann, I think what you said hits it right on.  We should all be anonymous to a point of our own comfort level. 

    It is difficult though to keep our personal experiences out of our posts when we are trying to help one another.  I guess we take the chance of being used or cyber-abused when we use our hearts and put ourselves out there for each other instead of using our common sense and staying behind the curtain.   I much prefer to help one another without the constraints of holding back some personal info  to help another woman who maybe so frightened in this journey.

    I am the recipient of wonderful caring help with others sharing their experiences.  

    It couldn't be that difficult for a huge forum like this to put some safeguards on here for us.  One could only hope.

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