Long Term ILC Survivors?
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Laura,
It's funny, you started this thread wanting to hear long term lobular survivors' stories. You are one of the reasons I was able to put my big girl panties on deal. You've responded to hundreds of us so you don't remember this, but you were one of the first people to respond to my first post here after I found a dimple in my breast. I remember looking at your picture (different than the one now) and thinking "She is so young, so beautiful and SO alive looking" with that big ole smile on your face. And I thought, after reading your response, OK I can do this. LauraGTO did and look at her now.
You seem like the kind of person who doesn't even realize the impact you are making on others. Much love and affection to you sweet sister.......Marsha -
Marshakb,
I agree 100% with you about LauraGTO...She was the first to respond to my thread. I too saw how alive and full of life she is and her smile..and that has gotten me through some really hard days. -
wallycat---yes, my mom still has her ovaries and she's doing fine. The incidence of ovarian cancer is actually pretty rare with a very low risk for the average women (less than 1%), so even with double the risk because of bc history, it's still very low at less than 2%. But depending on the type of bc and how hormone positive it is, some doctors advise women to have their ovaries removed to give them a better chance of keeping the bc from recurring. PM me if you'd like.
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Marsha & Wallycat -
You brought me to tears! Thank you so much for your kind words! I am so happy to have helped you and so flattered and impressed that you are so appreciative and thoughtful! I have always said that if I was the last woman to have to deal with this disease, it would have atleast had some value/meaning.
I have been so busy that I haven't been checking in regularly - but think about you girls ALL THE TIME.
Thanks so much! Hope you're doing well, I will check in more often...I miss you girls. -
well i just passed my 3rd survivor anniversary - don't know if that's long time but i feel good about it lol
ILC tumor well over 7 cm, micromets in sentinal node, ER+ and PR- and HER2- -
jenni -
Any amount of time longer than 2 years, in my opinion, is considered LONG TERM! Thanks for checking in with us...best wishes to you. So glad you are doing well... -
My great aunt was dignosed with ILC in 1982 at the age of
48. It's her 25 th year cancer free. She was node negative. Had a mastectomy no further treatment. She told me treatment seemed like such a minor thing. Only took her a month to recover vs. my lost year to treatment. -
I have had the surgery (lumpectomy) and radiation with boost. My cancer was small abou 1/3 inch and I had no lymph nodes involved. It was ILC and was ER negative and PR positive. I am unable to find what is the usual hormonal treatment for this type of cancer. I loved my surgeon and all the people at radiation therapy but just do not like the medical oncologist they sent me to..he is big into clinical sudies and when I told him that he could keep the tumor for research but I didn't want to be in his clinical studies, he had his assisant call me 8 times and try to talk me into it..I finally just said NO..Now my surgeon wants me to go back to him, while he has never called me with th result of the other tests nor sent me anything else about just standard treatment. He told me the day I saw him that HE would be the one deciding wahjt treatment I would get and I did not like his attitude. I am trying to get info on what sort of hormonal treatments for ER - and PR +,stage 1, ILC , after the surgery and radaition are now finished, so when I HAVE to see him, I can be informed and not be bullied. Can anyone help me?
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Wanda--I tried to paste a link to a section of this website that has info on ER- PR+, but it didn't work. But it did say that it is treated the same as ER+ PR+ bc with tamoxifen, etc. If you google "ER negative" "PR positive" breast cancer, you'll get some sites with the same info--that it doesn't matter which receptor is positive as long as one is.
Sorry to hear your onc is a pain. I've had similar experiences with docs being very aggressive about clinical trials. Very annoying. Is there anyway you can see a different onc?
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Hi lobular sisters,
Just a word of encouragment for ILC ladies, I'm officially 4 yrs past diagnosis/treatments & have one more year on Arimidex. (I'd like to take it indefinitely, the med has worked quite well to prevent a recurrence & its been 4 years!!)
I'm feeling great & wish all Lobular's a positive outcome, which is quite likely since ILC's, especially the classic type, often carry a very good long term diagnosis.
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Sorry all, somehow I posted under my user name Beth06, but I'm really Elizabeth06...oh well, Beth06 is very recent for postings and Elizabeth06 has been around for years!
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I'm now also 4 yrs from dx, Stage 3 ILC. I'm still on Arimidex...must be working...YEAH!
All the best to everyone,
Trish
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Beth (aka Elizabeth)---my mom had ILC, stage one, lumpectomy, radiation, and tamoxifen, and is now coming up on her 21st anniversary of being a survivor!!!!
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Hi,
I was dxd with ductal cancer, three years ago, and with lobular cancer 9 months ago. 8cm tumor in one breast with 19/19 nodes involved. 2 smaller tumors in other (previously ductal cancer removed) breast no nodes removed as they were already done three years ago.
Im almost ten months out of dxd, no recurrences yet, have had docetaxol chemo, rads to chest wall of left breast, no rads to right as had already been radiated three years ago. Am having Zoladex injections to supress ovaries and take Femara. So far so good.
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Hi,
I am approaching my 2nd year anniversary and so far so good. I had something in my breast 10 months before diagnosis but the mammos and ultrasounds were clean and nothing was done until I noticed nipple retraction and went back to the Doc. Things happened quickly then - mastectomy, TAC x 6, 30 rads, tamoxifen. So far things are fine.
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It is so great to hear your stories. I have recently been diagnised with invasive lobular and I am scared to death. Surgery is set for December 13. I am having a mastectomy with tram flap reconstruction. I had an MRI done to show size and it came back with an 8 cm mass. I was shocked. I had no symptoms at all. Abnormal mammo in March along with my mom who ended up with invasive ductal. Ultrasound for me showed nothing so I went back this October and because now there is history sent for biopsy which showed cancer. Pathology report said a grade 1 so how did this grow so big. How long have I had it? I don't know if I will ever know for sure. I'm scared of spreading with tumor so big. MRI showed no sign but they won't know until surgery. I heard MRI can show a larger tumor than actually is there. I hope. May God bless you all and I'm hoping to be writing as a survivor too someday. Thanks to all for input.
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Bean--my MRI showed my mass at 5 cm, but it turned out to be 2.7 cm, with a lot of LCIS around it. Good luck with your surgery, and keep us posted on how you're doing.
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Bean,
MRI's are very sensitive.. show up Everything. This is why they are not recommended in place of mamography for the general population. However they do give a doctor additional information when dealing with an actual cancer.
My experience has been that mammograms and UltraSound aren't always the most useful. Having had a ductal diagnosis 8 years ago, of course my yearly mammograms & physical checkups were religious.
Thankfully last Feb I had a radiologist with real sharp eyes, who spotted "something hard to see" on a mamogram,which didn't show up on Ultrasound. Did the usual wait 6 month routine and went back.
The "hard to see something" proved to be an invasive lobular second primary...which is stage 1,etc etc. However because of the lobular, an MRI was done of both breasts. Lucky me, a 3rd primary (ductal stage 1) in the other breast that never showed all this time on mammogram, or US.
I think I am getting the hint, and after the chemo will consider the bilateral. (I would appreciate hearing from anyone out there with bilateral experiences)
Indeed Bean, you will be joining the conversation as a survivor, and you will be helpful to those following behind you I am sure.
Keep us posted on how you are doing, we want to know, and help however we can.
DakotaP
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I'm with you Bean! I had a huge tumor that did not show on mamm or US. I had a thickening though. The MRI did show the tumor and estimated it to be 7.5 cm. Turns out it was 10 cm! Scary. I only had one node that had a couple of cancer cells in it and the rest were negative. All my bone and CT scans came out clear. I just finished chemo and am starting rads tomorrow. So far so good. Let me know if you need anything!
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Dakota--when was your MRI that found the 3rd primary? It seems like it must have been really recently, b/c I don't remember anything about it from your other posts. Yikes!
You're on a roll! -
I was recently diagnosed with ILC and I just don't know much about it. They found a 9 mm area and the MRI showed an area of about 7 cm, but in the u/s they think most of that is LCIS. With a ton of FNA's they only found one other ILC of about 4 mm. All very small. Dr.Cristofanilli in Houston is my doctor and wants to do chemo before surgery and my second opinions all say surgery is better first because we can look at the pathology after the surgery. Any of you have this experience? What is pleomorphic?
Any help you can give would be wonderful. Everyone seems much more knowledgable than I am. Thanks
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Hi, Jennifer--welcome. You're lucky to have Dr. Cristofanilli as your onc--he's one of the only ILC specialists in the US.
I went through the neoadjuvant vs. adjuvant chemo debate, also. My surgeon strongly felt that a lot of what was showing on my MRI was LCIS, and she was right (half of the 5 cm on MRI was ILC and half was LCIS). She strongly felt adjuvant chemo was the way to go in my situation for two reasons. The first reason was to get correct staging. My MRI showed muscle involvement, which turned out to be the LCIS, not the ILC, growing into the muscle. The surgeon said that made the difference between being Stage IIA and being Stage IIIB. The second reason was that she didn't want to have to do what could end up being unnecessary radiation. She said that with neoadjuvant chemo, I would've automatically ended up with axillary node radiation and chest wall radiation. My SNB ended up being negative, so the axillary radiation would have been unnecessary. The chest wall radiation is still up in the air until I meet with the rad onc next month.
So, in my case, doing adjuvant chemo was the way to go. However, if your tumor truly is 7 cm, then neoadjuvant is probably wise if you are interested in trying for a lumpectomy. Also, it allows the onc to see if the tumor responds to chemo.
You said they think a lot of the 7 cm that shows on MRI for you may actually be LCIS, which makes your case closer to my situation. If your ILC tumors are really 9 mm and 4 mm, neoadjuvant chemo wouldn't make sense.
Pleomorphic ILC is a subtype of ILC that is considered more aggressive than classical ILC. Not all labs identify the ILC subtypes, but I know that MD Anderson does. In fact, a couple of the pathologists there seem to be the only ones in the country right now with an active clinical interest in pleomorphic ILC. So your subtype should show on your path report when you get it if you have your surgery done at MD Anderson.
Hope that helps a bit.
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For sure Nash, I am on a roll.
The third primary is just a week old. New since I started posting in October when I got the lobular dx Knowing how evasive lobular can be, I insisted on an MRI. With our country's "fine" medical system,
the MRI dept at a "Comprehensive Cancer Center" where I go was so backed up, the first appointment I could get was almost 4 weeks after the lobular dx. All my chemo, etc was held up waiting the biopsy of the areas spotted on the mri.
If there is anything good about any of this, it's that everything is stage 1.... to bilateral or not to bilateral after the chemo, that is my question.
Where are you at with your situation? I see you post with some of the other issue's but nothing says how you are.
Dakota
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Thanks for the update, Dakota! Wow--that's a lot to deal with. Is your new primary triple negative as well?
I'm getting towards the end of chemo--just had my 5th of 6 chemo rounds last week, so it's an official "sitting in the recliner and drooling" weekend. Will start rads after the holidays. My Stage IV BC mom is not doing well, so that's been a big source of concern. Thank goodness for this board, or else I might just lose my mind. -
Hi Girls!
well I was DX 21st Dec 04 and finished rads Nov 05 and how time has passed! I went to my onc today ~ follow up from starting Arimedex a month ago [all OK] anyway I asked about having my ovaries removed and he was very reassuring ~ said he thought the risk was low and that I had been through a lot and should get on with my life! they will keep an eye on things and I am BRACA 1/2 neg. this board has really kept me going ~ thanks
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Well hello there! just saw your other reply! I did ask my onc about spread and he said that with lobular its not as great a risk as other breast cancers ~ he was very reassuring, so like you I would like to see some data, would be interested to see what you find out.
thanks for your reply Sherri.
Rosemary
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Hi Connie,
How bad was chemo for you? I know everyone is different but I am really dreading it. I am hoping to still work my full time job. I am a teachers aide so my days are not extremely long 8:15-3:00. I am having surgery 12/13 so I don't think I will have to take a whole lot of time with surgery. Xmas vacation is 12/21-1/2. I am having a mastectomy with tram flap reconstruction. Does this sound reasonable to you? My Plastic surgeon told me 2 to 3 weeks recovery. I am hoping to go back to work Jan 2. That gives me just about 3 weeks.
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Hi Kathleen -
My chemo was not fun, but certainly not as bad as I thought it would be. I didn't have any days where I couldn't get out of bed or anything. With AC, my biggest complaint was throat sores that made eating difficult. I also had constipation and hemorroids. This all cleared up very quickly after it was over and you quickly forget. With Taxol, I had bad leg pain for about 3 days each cycle. Other than that, I felt great on Taxol.
I had a mastectomy, but was not a candidate for tram flap so I had expanders inserted. I felt back to normal in about 2 weeks and went back to work after 3. I have a friend who had tram flap and she said it was a really long recovery - about 6 weeks. She doesn't work, but she remembers not being able to pick up her toddler and walking around "gingerly" for a long time. You may be ok, since your job is probably not too physical, but if you are on your feet a lot, 3 weeks may be too soon. But, I'm no expert on tram flap. You may want to go to the reconstruction section on the board. I'm sure you will get more feedback from those who have gone through that.
Best of luck to you. Let me know if you need anything.
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Hi Laura,
Rita showed me how to get to this conversation, but I didn't find out the info from my oncologist until I saw him on the 13th of December. I realize most people know all of this about themselves by I either didn't know it or I forgot it (selective memory).
I am a 13 year survivor of ILC. My tumor was 5cm, stage IIb, positive for estrogen and progesterone. I had a mastectomy, followed by simultaneous chemo and radiation, including scar line boost. I was on Evista for osteoporosis for 5 years, which probably helped prevent a bc recurrence. Evista is similar to Tamoxifen, I think. I have lymphedema, but it has caused me no problems other than my right arm is slightly larger than my left.
Who knows what the future holds for any of us, but my oncologist (who I see every six months) says every year past dx makes it more unlikely for a recurrence.
Best of luck to all the ladies on this board.
Mary Jane
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Hi Maryjane!
I am SO HAPPY you shared your ILC story with us! You give us hope...it's great that you've been NED for so long! I'm so happy for you.
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