Triple negative beyond 2 years- What was your treatment?

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  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Nicole,

    My tumor was missed on my mammogram too.  I discovered it six weeks after I had a normal mammogram.  I remember feeling angry that the person who read my mammo didn't find it --because it could be found.  I had one positive node and I wondered if we could have caught the cancer before it spread there which I believed would have given me a better prognosis.

    It seemed to me the screening medical professionals didn't seem alarmed by the miss. They prefered not to discuss it.  One surgeon came into his office stating he could see it on the mammogram. It was there just missed.  

    I spent some time feeling the system had failed me.  Then I just had to focus on moving forward and finding joy in every day.  I decided I got to choose the quality of life I had during this time when I didn't  need any treatment.  Every time a test comes back okay it gets easier.  I don't feel angry anymore.

    I believe anger can be a positive emotion.  It motivates us to take action.  It can protect you from other feelings when they are to intense to feel.  It can make you advocate for yourself.  So have all of your emotions!

    You are in our thoughts.

    Sadie

  • joannnc
    joannnc Member Posts: 119
    edited November 2007

    I was diagnosed on 3/17/03 and I chose lumpectomy.  I had chemo first every other week for eight treatments - four AC and four taxol, then lumpectomy with 22 nodes removed - one microscopically positive.  I don't know how many positive nodes I may have had prior to chemo.  I then had 31 radiation treatments. 

    I was grade III, IDC triple negative.  I believe I may have been staged at 2b. 

    We must remember that statistics change all the time and advances in treatment are always becoming available.  

  • LillyJ
    LillyJ Member Posts: 10
    edited November 2007

    I was diagnosed on 1/31/06 (so am getting close to 2 years), IDC, 5cm, Stage IIB, Grade 3, 0 nodes.  I had chemo first - 4 A/C, 4 Taxotere (the tumor had disappeared by the 2nd A/C), then a lumpectomy and then 35 rads. My follow-up has been mammogram of both breasts April '07 and October '07 and blood tests. Everything pronounced normal. Next year, they will just mammo my bc breast in April and both in October. After that, mammo once a year for both.

    I finished chemo on 8/8/06 and am still wearing a wig because my hair has come back very thin (you can see my scalp in places) and it's fried looking in the front. I think I'd be a lot happier if my hair had come back faster and thicker - that is the only thing bumming me out right now. I'm 59 so maybe that's part of the problem. I just don't feel like I can give up the wig until I feel I look decent! There were several ladies in my support group who never wore a wig. I keep telling myself I'm being too vain, but I always felt my hair was my best feature . . . and now it sucks! 

    But getting the all clear last week was definitely a positive, so Ill just keep wearing my wig. I saw a stylist last Saturday and she said give it 6 more months.

    Jackie

  • ivanna66
    ivanna66 Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2007

    Well, it has been awhile since I have stopped by to say hi! I am just a month shy of my 5th year since diagnosis. I had a 3.5 cm tumor, 2 positive lymph nodes triple negative grade 3. My treatment was a large lumpectomy 4 ac followed by taxol, not dose dense plus radiation. I am 2 weeks from my 41rst birthday-I used to hate birthdays, kept getting older, now I embrace every single birthday, appreciating that I am still here. Has it been easy? No. Have I worried about recurrence? Yep! Do I keep living my life and plan for my future? You betchya! What other choice is there? No one knows what the future holds-all I can do is hope that I will stay healthy and enjoy each day that I am.

  • sahalie
    sahalie Member Posts: 2,147
    edited November 2007

    Hi Sadie-Rose and everyone.

    In four months it will be two years that I felt the lump and was dx.

    I went straight for a bilateral mastectomy and never regretted my decision.  I had IDC. Stage 1. Grade 2.  I am triple negative.

    SNB with clear nodes.  I am BRCA negative. 

    I did two A/C treatments then stopped as it nearly did me in.

    I've been seen by my oncologist every three months with blood testing up to my last appt. in August 2007 when he said I will come every six months now.  So I go again in January.

    My markers were up from the previous times but my oncologist said he doesn't like doing that test.  He assured me my score was in the normal range but it still made me nervous. 

    I'm finally moving a head with my life and just returned from an amazing trip with my children.  My husband passed three weeks after my bilateral mastectomy.   2006 was extremely difficult for my family. This experience as well as caring for my husband has taught me big time to cherish each day to the fullest.   I sure try.

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi CherlynC and Ivanna66.

    I read your posts this morning before I went to work. It was sure a pleasure to read what you said and I thank you for sharing! I think one of the positive outcomes from a challenge like this or losing someone you love is the appreciation and gratitude for everyday. There are so many things I am thankful for especially my family. I love being able to go to work, the trees, the colors in nature., etc I could go on and on, but I know you know what I mean. The thing that struck me when I had the emergency recently with blood clots that moved to my lungs was I could have died without time to say good bye to anyone. That seemed worse than dealing with a return of cancer. It was just another chapter in the book-Live Life Today.

    I want to thank everyone who is sharing their story.

    Warmly, Sadie

  • Maria59069
    Maria59069 Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2007

    What exactly is a triple negative?

  • Negative3Grade3
    Negative3Grade3 Member Posts: 111
    edited November 2007

    Maria,

    Triple negative refers to the three important markers your tumor is tested for to determine what kind of treatment you will receive and what the prognosis is based on the available statistics.

    So a kind of cancer that is termed triple negative is not sensitive to ER (estrogen), PR (Progesterone), and HER2 (oncogene).  That means that you cannot receive some of the treatments that cancer types that are sensitive to any three of the above can.

    I hope that helps. 

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Everyone,

    Has anyone who has reached the two year mark or beyond ever regretted the choice they made in their treatment?

    Sadie

  • Kay7
    Kay7 Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2007

    Hi, This is my first time posting but I've been around for awhile. I just passed the four year anniversary of my diagnosis. I had a 4 cm tumor, no nodes positive. I had a mastectomy. Despite the "no node" issue, I did 4 x AC and 4 X Taxol on a dose dense schedule. So far so good. I would not have changed anything about my treatment. I'm not sure if the medical community is still as hot for the dose dense schedule as they were four years ago, but it was okay for me. Just really tired and felt yucky for four solid months. I do have neurapthy from the Taxol, but it's relatively minor. Today I'm a busy, happy wife, mom, and lawyer. Oh did I mention busy? Best of luck to you and everyone just starting this journey. My wonderful oncologist told me four years ago that this would just be a bump in the road of life.



    Take Care.

  • Godsgirl
    Godsgirl Member Posts: 23
    edited November 2007

    Two years and clear. I just got my results from my PET CT scan. Well ravdeb I did it. I got to amaze my dr's again. My Brac results will be back in about 2 more weeks. Here's to praying they are negative too. Brac 1&2 didn't sound good for my kids either, so I'm praying real hard for them. My insurance did pick up the tab though.Money mouth

    Thanks to all of you for being here!

  • Msklapkin
    Msklapkin Member Posts: 208
    edited November 2007

    I was diagnosed triple negative-August 2005.  Had lumpectomy and found 1 positive sentinel node.  Then found out I was BRCA2+.

    For me-it was the easiest decision I ever made- Double Mastectomy with expanders.  Then had dose dense chemo-AC then Taxol.  I had an oopherectomy after done with chemo

    I am done now- Breasts all done including nipple, see onc every 3 months for 2 years and now every 6 months.

    I have absolutely NO regrets.  Life is good!

    Good luck to you all

    susan

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Again,

    I think it is reassuring that most of the women who are posting here are happy with their treatment choices!

    I had a sentinel node biopsy, chemo therapy 3AC- with no improvement, 6 rounds of T and carboplatin, lumpectomy and radiation. I am a little over three years out from treatment and all of my screenings are coming back clear.

    I feel lucky that we had the tumor to check how the chemo therapy was working or we would not have known to change my cocktail.

    Today life is fun, exciting and mysterious. My daughter is expecting twin little girls. I'm planning on holding those babies and going to their ballet recitals.

    I want to thank everyone who is sharing their story.

    Sadie

  • StefS
    StefS Member Posts: 157
    edited November 2007

    I am 4+ years out from diagnosis. I opted for a mast, basically because when it was described to me the odds of a local recurrance being higher with a lumpectomy, I wanted to lessen the odds as much as possible. I had 6 rounds of TAC plus radiation.

    And as far as shaving, I also shave less frequently now than I did before diagnosis. I griped at my rads onc. I have no hair growing in my armpit where I received radiation. But there is an area at the very top, less than 1/2" where I do have hair. I griped at her that she could have done radiation covering the whole area so I wouldn't have to shave that pit at all.Wink

    I am one of those who frequented these boards several times a day during treatment and then my visits have gotten more infrequent as the time has gone by. Sometimes it has been several weeks, a few times it has been months since my last visit.

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Everyone,

    I just want to keep this thread going. I think making treatment decisions just after diagnosis is difficult and necessary.  I hope reading everyone's experience helps those who have just been diagnosed.

    I hope you all will keep sharing.

    Sadie

  • TracyW
    TracyW Member Posts: 2
    edited November 2007

    I was diagnaosed triple negative in 1998 and had lumpectomy, AC and Taxotere and 30 radiation treatments (1.3 cm tumor with no lymph node involvement).  I got about 8.5 years out before developing a new primary in the identical spot in my other breast  earlier this year (my surgeron says she has a couple of cases like mine and would be the topic for a different conversation).  Treatment this time was lumpectomy, C and T and 30 radiations (could not get A again without risking heart damage).  No family history, but Dr. thinks I would test positive for the gene given the triple negative characteristic and having had the two cancers before age 40.  Insurance doesn't cover cost for genetic testing and my appeal has been denied.  While I've been asked to consider getting my breasts and ovaries removed, I haven't made up my mind just yet. My husband had testical removed last year due to cancer scare.  He says once a body part is gone its gone for good, so think carefully about your decision!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited November 2007

    three years out as of yesterday! seems like a million years. ac/t after bilat mast, immediate recon., infection after chemo, second recon. 

    it feels good to reach this plateau as a trip neg because your reoccurrence odds according to the statistics drop off a bit...

    but as we all know with this beast, one never knows when or if.

    i have come to some terms with it all and for the last year or so, since chemo effects diminished a bit, i absolutely live for each day and am enjoying total peace as i dance with ned.

    i feel as normal as i think i ever will.

    on the other hand, i have lost way to many sisters to ever not be clear on how sneaky and mean the beast really is.

    i pray every day that i live long enough to see a cure that is available to everyone.

    truly, my one wish, that the cure is found in my lifetime.

    the wonderful  people that surround and support me in my life, as much as they love me, will never be able to comprehend life or death by breast cancer.

    after three years, it is in the past and never discussed. i sure hope it stays that way.

    three years for me.

  • Indigoblue
    Indigoblue Member Posts: 274
    edited November 2007

    Happy Thanksgiving.  I am 2 years exactly as Turkey Breast Eve, and Turkey Day, I finally found the painful lump which popped out like a plastic Turkey Thermometer indicating "done", "ready", "time to slice, dice, at gobble, gobble, gobble. 

    It's my "Lumpaversary!", in a way.  The brave new world of cancer, confusion, and unexpected shocks, seaching, and the quick course on "learning all you can about triple what?", in 2 weeks.  Immediately called PCP, no appointments available until 2006.  Called Radiology Woman's clinic where I'd had mammo and ultrasound for a suspicious nodule in another region of the left breast.  There was a blue vein in the area where I had been having pain for over 10 yrs.   I was good about having mammos since my mother passed from Invlammatory BC., Aunt, Grandmother, Greatgranny, all had breast cancers; what kind?  I don't know, there were no tests for hormone receptors, and women rarely discussed "breasts".  It's still a touchy subject for many women.

    The Cancer Nurse told me the tumor I had likely was wrapped up in a bundle of nerves, unusual; and with DENSE BREAST TISSUE, it is extremely difficult to find a lesion, especially when it's less than 1 cm.  Mine was 2 mm from the chest wall; undifferentiated, at the 12 oclock position of the breast.  It did not have smooth edges, it was jagged, dark looking, like a splat of ink, as it showed up clearly on the utrasound.  The Radiologist was 99 percent certain it was malignant; did a mammotome core biopsy, and told me it was 1.2 cm. She sent the report to my family doc, who called and recommended a surgeon who advised taking the breast and all of the lymph nodes. 

    I found 4 more surgeons at different hopitals.  It was winter, snowing, blizzards, long drives.  Found a lovely surgeon who within the week explained sentinal node biopsy, triple negative (sort of) cancers, and Invasive Ductal Cancer.  I had an MRI in the middle of the night; by then, the tumor had grown to 1.7 cm in diameter, and was long, 2.3 cm, with oddball starlike shape.  I talked to the other surgeons, and they all spoke highly of the surgeon who had me set up and into surgery within the following week. 

    I wanted to have a bilateral; he assured me it was not necessary, and that he didn't think radical mastectomies would give me a better prognosis.  I just wanted the thing out.  He said it might have been there for ten or fifteen years.  I asked another obgyn to take them off twenty years ealier, because my mother and the family history was so strong.  They laughed at me; said the insurance company would never pay.  No genetic tests were available 20 years ago.

    I was young; silly...

    I had a large "segmental", partial mastectomy, which is sort of lumpectomy, but not  really.  The margins were clean, and the 4 lymph nodes were negative.  I had surgical problems with a hematoma in the breast, and a seroma in the armpit; infected; cured with antibiotics, started chemotherapy late because it had to reduce the infection.  Went to 4 Oncologists in the meantime, for second opinions.  Didn't follow my little red flag, and went with the surgeon's recommendation. 

    Basically, they all offered the same treatment.  Some were easier to talk to, and I wanted to get it done and overwith.  Had Adriamycin/Cytoxin x 4, 12  weekly Taxol, and 32 Radiation treatments which oddly, radiated the lymph nodes. 

    Always wondered, why mess with the lymph nodes at all, since triple negative cancer is almost always given the same chemo and radiation?  I will never know if I made the right choices.  I will always wonder if I should have gone to the hopital that does clinical trials.  The tumor was growing so aggressively, I was frightened, panic set to the max, and my intelligent dh suddenly turned into a sack of stupid potatoes.  Talk about Turkey! 

    He still doesn't believe I have cancer, and believes I am cured.

    If this is "cured", why all the pain?  Had PET and CAT of body and brain;  no sign of metastasis; but there are some very odd things around the heart, colon, lungs and bones; I will see Blue Eyes next week...figured I'd celebrate this Turkey of a "Lumpeversary".

    ***** 

    Sadies, both of my grandmother's names were Sadie; one's real name was Sarah Marie, but she went by the same Sadie.  I always loved the name, it's so adorable and sweet.  And so are you...

    Didn't want this post to go on, but it is not possible for me to figure out a short version.  There's even more to the boring story, which isn't worth going into.  I wanted to respond to the question, as it's been exactly 2 year Turkey Day since I found the lump; I don't remember the next year; and I am slowly returning to my former self, though I am not convinced I will ever see that woman again.

    She disaapeared, and I took her place.

    Do I regret my decision?  I wish I'd gotten the prophetlactic bilateral mastectomy.  I didn't know anything 2 years ago, and triple negative cancers are a completely different breed;the stealth bomber form of breast cancer...very sneaky, unpredictable, and as yet, little is known.  The treatments are supposed to be gold standard; but there are what?  3 to chose from?

    When it's over, we wait...I don't know about everyone else, but waiting annoys the heck out of me.

    Have a Happy Thanksgiving, enjoy each day, and remember, there are many 20 plus survivors of triple negative cancers.  Every cancer is in a world/universe/galaxy of it's own.

    (hugs) to all

    love

    IndiSmile

  • kris2386
    kris2386 Member Posts: 56
    edited November 2007

    Indi, Loved reading your story.  My mom was triple negative 6 years ago, no lymph node involvement.  Had the lumpectomy for a small tumor in her right breast and radiation.  No chemo.  Now I wish she would have had at least some chemo?  It may have changed things today?  She was diagnosed with stage 4 with mets to lung, liver and bones about 6 weeks ago.  Never would have known this was going on inside her body.   At the time she was 55, still very attatched to her breasts and hair, and wanted to do the minimal treatment to get rid of the problem and not upset her lifestyle too much.  Now when we talk she says she wished she'd have done more, but it may not have changed her story anyway.  At least she lived the past 6 years to the fullest with her kids and grandkids, with her beautiful hair and her breasts!  And she will still have many more years with us, she is a fighter.   Happy Turkey Day and many  prayers go out to you all.

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Indi,

    I don't think any of us tire of reading stories.  I want to say congratulations on your two year anniversary!  You've made it to a huge mile stone.  Things got a lot more peaceful for me over time and especially after I reached three years out from treatment.  I continue to be vigilant, but it isn't so present now. 

     I always think in pictures so the picture I have of cancer now is a character like Chewbaca standing behind me.  He is this big hairy creature with his hand on my shoulder, but he is in the background.  If you are familiar with Star Wars movies Chewy is a big, but fussy creature.  He's large, but not tough.

    What I am really saying is there will be a time when cancer is not so upfront for you and you will find a lot of your old self.  You'll also discover how strong you have been as you look back at your journey.

     I know we all celebrate with you.

    Warmly,

    Sadie

  • Labgal
    Labgal Member Posts: 62
    edited November 2007

    Three years. I had a mas with tram recon and 4 AC.

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Labgal,

    Thank you for sharing.  You've got three years out! Smile Wishing you continued good health.

    Sadie

  • suzy611
    suzy611 Member Posts: 7
    edited November 2007

    HI EVERYONE I WAS DIAGNOSED I NOV 06. HAD LUMPECTOMY DEC 06 HAD MARGINS CLEARED JAN07 HAD MAMMOSITE BALLON INSERTED I JAN HAD BRACHEY THERPY 2XS ADAY FOR FIVE DAYS THEN 2 WEEKS LATER CHEMO 4AC THEN ONC ADDED 4 TAXOL BECAUSE OF TRIPLE NEG STATUS SAID TO TREAT TRIPLE NEG AS NODE POS.1.5CM POORLEY DIFFERENCIATED SLN/NEG IDC STAGE1 FINISHED CHEMO 5/30/07. I'M REALLY FEELING GOOD ENERGY COMING BACK ITSGOOD TO READ THERE IS REASON TO BE OPTIMISTIC EVEN WITH TRI NEG.WRITE ON LADIES SOME DAYS I NEED ALL THE ENCOURAGEMENT I CAN GET .THANKS                                                     

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Suy611,

    I am glad to hear you are doing so well!  I am triple negative and three years out from treatment.  You are in one of the stages that can be difficult emotionally.  During treatment we are running around and just trying to get to the end.  After treatment ends, the realization that this is an on going journey can feel pretty heavy.  I want to assure you it does get better over time.  I feel back to normal and cancer is in the background now.  I just want to have fun and be with my family!

    Congatulations on finishing treatment!

    Warmly,

    Sadie

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited November 2007

    Hi gals, I was Triple Negative, small tumor, lumpectomy and rads.



    I have had trouble with my ribs since treatment, and that was 9 years ago.



    But not unbearable, I just don't twist too far on that side.



    I am happy with my treatment, glad I didn't have a mast, wish I hadn't done rads, but without a crystal ball, we just can't know what might or might not have happened.



    Sighhh, Shirlann

  • tgon
    tgon Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2007

    Well, ladies, I'm new to all of this (stage TBD, type III, ~ 2.5cm, triple neg and node negative) just 2 wks out of the lumpectomy surgery and am waiting for the plan/option revelation tomorrow.  I am just reading to assess what I should expect in the near future.  I was searching for stats to hopefully get out of the whole chemo reg, but now after reading your comments, I need to just kick this in the butt and then enjoy my life!  There is so much I don't know...a whole new language.  What a way to remind us that every day is precious gift!

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited November 2007

    Hi Tgon,

    Welcome, we're so glad you have joined us.  Triple negative breast cancer responds really well to chemo therapy.  There are lots of success stories posted here.  Do you know what your treatment will be?  Do you know how many rounds you will have?  Let's us know how you are doing?

    Warmly,

    Sadie

  • hope1
    hope1 Member Posts: 9
    edited December 2007

    Triple negative here - 6.5 years out.  4 positive nodes.  Had chemo (AC/Taxotere/Xeloda) and radiation and bilateral mast.  Still NED and still living large!

  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited December 2007

    Hope,  I absolutely love hearing about your success.  Thanks for sharing.  I feel so much more encouraged.

  • Sadie-Rose
    Sadie-Rose Member Posts: 222
    edited December 2007

    Hi Hope,

    It's wonderful to hear your story.  I was wondering what kind of screenings you have now that you are this far out?  Have you had any long term side effects from your treatment?

    Thank you for posting.

    Warmly,

    Sadie

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