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Marsha, glad to hear your prayers were answered! Being your own advocate really does work!
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Hey Marsha, I've been wondering how you are doing and have been reading these posts. I'm so sorry you've been having such a difficult time with your surgeon and am so happy for you that a date has been set with a new surgeon. Miss you on the chat. Sending you lots of hugs. Sharon51 (a.k.a. Sharon50)
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Good for you! I took the same path. Don't know what your reconstruction plan is, but if you're considering NOT having reconstruction, be sure to check out breastfree.org, a site created by a breastcancer.org member. It has a lot of personal stories, photos, postsurgical suggestions. It will soon have advice on prostheses, lingerie, exercise, etc.
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Oh Marsha, I'm so happy for you!!!! YAY! I'm so glad you pursued this until you got what you need! Now you can tell that other surgeon to K@#((*!
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Glad to hear the news, Marsha!
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Marshakb ?
Are you in Orlando too ? I just got my bilateral mastectomy with immed reconstruction last friday and am in Orlando too. Would like to pick your brains on oncologist/radiologists that you are working with.
email: triagain2002@yahoo.com
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I live in Orlando and was recently diagnosed with ILC... Who was your surgeon? I need a surgeo
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Kimmypooh, here is a link to a thread that may give you some leads to good breast surgeons in that area. Member IrishEyes39 invites contact through our message system.
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/68/topics/764691?page=1#post_4490498
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Kimmypooh, also see this thread linked here, where SpecialK's post may give you some good leads.
https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/80/topics/764183?page=853#post_4158955
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kimmypooh - the OP of this thread has not been active on this site for a number of years. When you ask a question in an old thread like this one you should click on the member name to double check if they still post here, their member info will show when they last logged in - that way you aren't waiting for an answer from someone who unlikely to see your post.
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Marshakb, I was diagnosed with stage 1 ILC this year after I had a prophylactic mastectomy of my right breast. At the same time, I had a mastectomy to remove what they thought was a 3 cm lesion in my left beast (nipple to chest wall). Images of the left (us, 3D Mammo and MRI were showing a large invasive cancer but 2 biopsies showed high grade DCIS and LCIS, hyperplasia, sclerosis, you name it). So they didn't know what we were dealing with. Final answer would have to come after surgery.
I had had extremely dense breasts with stable calcifications (BiRad 4). The 3D Mammo showed nothing on the right side, but the MRI showed a lesion which the BS was not worried about at all--a fibroadenoma, they said. Because my Mom passed away from recurring, two primary metastatic breast cancers, I opted for prophylactic on the right.
Post surgery, the findings on the left were 6 cm of grade 3 DCIS, LCIS and cancerization of the lobules, embedded in a large sclerotic (benign) lesion, less than 1 mm margin in at least 2 spots, suspicion of micro invasion, isolated tumor cells in 1 of 3 nodes (highly ER positive; PR 10%; HER 2 -ve).
What's more relevant to your question, on the right side they discovered a 0.9 mm Grade 2 ILC, highly ER and PR +ve, HER2 negative. Followed up with axillary dissection on right side: 0/14 nodes. Yay! I was smart (in decision) AND incredibly lucky. I've seen way too many stories of stage 3 and stage 4 ILCs at original diagnosis. Oh I had also had a PET-CT scan no contrast, and there was mild uptake in left side but not on right ILC side.
Because Oncotype scores were in the low spectrum on both sides, no radiation or chemo were recommended (1 RO, 3 MO opinions). My view: I'm not too concerned with what my doctor feels or believesabout a removing a healthy breast. The choice is mine to make, and insurance covers it by federal law (as of 2009). The choice is yours to make. It's your body. Sorry this was so long, but I hope details are helpful to all.
IGood luck. Warm positive thoughts.
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