Poll regarding how us Triple Negs found our tumor

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cheekymonkey
cheekymonkey Member Posts: 86
There is a poll on another website about how triple negative girls discovered their lump/tumor. I found it interesting and would like to repeat it here.

It just seems that many triple negative girls have had tumors that just showed up overnight, after having mammograms and doctor's physicals, which were all normal. (my case). It also seems like they occur close the the chest wall. I hope all of you triple negative girls will take this poll to see if in fact it is true.

thanks!

mitzi

**I'm trying to change the poll so everyone can see it without having to vote (this was my first poll and I messed it up
I can't find a way to do this. Can anyone help me? It bothers me that everyone can't see the results!!!!!
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  • JanClare
    JanClare Member Posts: 305
    edited July 2007

    I found my cancer via a very swollen lymph node in the armpit after shoulder surgery. (I really thought it was from the surgery for several months) My primary tumor was never found, in spite of multiple mammograms, ultrasounds, MRIs. Because of the triple negative status, and the fact that I was grade 3, stage 3, I chose to have both breasts removed. Even after pathology, nothing was ever found in either one of my breasts.

  • ravdeb
    ravdeb Member Posts: 3,116
    edited July 2007

    I found mine while laying in bed watching TV but I had been doing monthly self checks and never found it. Weirder yet is that after I felt it, I looked in the mirror and I could SEE it because it was high up at close to 12:00 and close to the skin. I have no idea how I never noticed that before. It was July and hot and you'd think I would have seen that in my tank tops or bathing suit....

  • slanderson
    slanderson Member Posts: 152
    edited July 2007
    I was bathing and found mine. I found it in early June, and had had a clear mammo in March.

    Shannon
    p.s. mine was NOT near the chest wall.
  • fd411
    fd411 Member Posts: 398
    edited July 2007
    I was working, getting my paper order for the day in Hotel Stores, and my hand brushed against my breast and I felt a lump on the side.

    Ferne
  • twink
    twink Member Posts: 1,574
    edited July 2007

    I was bathing, found mine in October, following a clear mammo in August. 3.5 cms visible just under the skin of my left breast at 2 o'clock. Don't know how I didn't see it first.

  • elf146
    elf146 Member Posts: 30
    edited July 2007

    I found mine last July. I was walking across my back yard and felt an itch, so reached under my blouse to scratch it and felt the lump. Like everyone else, I am surprised I didn't find it before as it was quite large and I could see it in the mirror after that. Mine was about 1:30 high up in my right breast. I was due for yearly in Aug.

  • Boo46
    Boo46 Member Posts: 539
    edited July 2007

    I found mine by self exam 3 weeks after a normal mammogram. It was not near the chest wall

  • gramof4
    gramof4 Member Posts: 66
    edited July 2007

    I had a normal mammo in February of 2006 and found the lump accidently (had an itch also!) in July, 2006. It was also visible and I don't know how I did not know it was there. Mine was not near the chest wall either.

  • Gagal
    Gagal Member Posts: 42
    edited July 2007

    I had be going to a breast specialist for 6 years where they were following a thickening, had ultra sound every 6 mos, and sometimes mamo every 6 mos. After my ultra sound in May 07, they said it felt different and wanted to do a biopsy and sure enough it was invasive cancer 2.1 cm. I thought I was doing everything to protect myself but that sneaky cancer got by ultra sound, mamo, and the doctor for 6 years.

  • LaurieL
    LaurieL Member Posts: 88
    edited July 2007

    I had a normal mammo in November of 2005 and found a 3cm lump on Memorial day of 06. I was getting in the shower and saw it in the mirror. I though I had a big bruise. When I felt it I knew for sure it was BC.

  • NarberthMom
    NarberthMom Member Posts: 615
    edited July 2007

    Hi! Mine showed up out of nowhere about seven months after a normal mammogram. I felt it as I was getting my nightgown off on my way to the shower. It was close to the chest wall and at the outside edge of my breast. When I got it checked, it was hard to see in the normal field of the mammogram. The tech had to reposition me several times before it was visible. I also have very dense breasts.

  • teharring
    teharring Member Posts: 46
    edited April 2011
    I found mine in April 06, after I kept having discomfort when sleeping on my left side/stomach. I actually thought it was a rib that was bothering me, but found a lump at the base of my breast instead. I was lucky that it was close to the skin, or I probably wouldn't have found it. I was only 30, and probably wouldn't have had a mammogram until I was at least 35.

    Theresa
  • MelanieW
    MelanieW Member Posts: 326
    edited July 2007
    Amazing how similar our stories are.

    I found mine in October of 2006 and "knew". I had 2 b9 lumpectomies in 2004 and had been watched closely. My last mammo was Oct. 2005 and it was the first that an ultrasound was not also done. They had been watching a suspicious lump for 2 mammos. This was a different lump and it doubled in size in a matter of weeks. It was close to the chest wall, high and to the outside...2.4 cm. My breasts were also dense.
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2007
    I had a sharp pain in my chest, slightly left of center. I first thought it might be my heart as I had recently had a pacemaker implanted. It was late Friday evening so no way I could reach my Dr until Monday.
    I felt the area of the pain and was horrified. There was a huge mass where there was nothing a day or two prior. The lump was laying right under the bottom band of my bra and totally impossible not to have noticed. Even when showering my hand would have gone right over this area. (And yes, it was visable.)
  • sahalie
    sahalie Member Posts: 2,147
    edited July 2007

    Just out of the shower and towel drying when I felt a soft lumpy area on my upper breast area about the 12 O'Clock area as the doctors wrote it. It wasn't visible.

  • luckymel
    luckymel Member Posts: 643
    edited July 2007

    I felt a mass while showering - not painful, but large enough that I would have felt it if it had been there at that size for very long. I did regular self-exams, and would not have missed this (3 cm). I had also had regular mammograms, which had been negative. It seems that the percentage that came up overnight is staying very constant - wonder if there is something to this?

  • cheekymonkey
    cheekymonkey Member Posts: 86
    edited July 2007
    Thanks everyone! I hope all of the other triple negative ladies will participate because this is so odd. Mine was SO large that no one believed that I hadn't seen it before. Even the doctor who did my biopsy! Even my brother-in-law who is a doctor (until the same thing happened to my sister, his wife). Everyone in the world believes that you find breast cancer on mammograms. I think if this proves to be true, and our form of cancer being the most difficult to treat shows up on self breast exams, this is a point that should be stressed to more women.

    Thanks to everyone who participated, and I hope we can continue to get more women to take part.
    I wonder if you asked this in the ER+/PR+ ladies, would the results be anywhere close to these percentages or completely different? Should I post this on another board?

    mitzi
  • liven42day
    liven42day Member Posts: 76
    edited July 2007
    Hi Ladies,
    I am a triple negative, I did regular self exams also. My tumor (2.4cm) just popped up overnight. It was at the 12 o'clock position, right above the nipple, not near the chest wall. My year before mamogram was completely normal, clean. AC chemo starts July 30, I read a thread from Twink that says AC does not help trip negs? I thought it did help trip negs more so than + tumors.
    Charlene
  • catgirl
    catgirl Member Posts: 19
    edited July 2007

    I was getting undressed one day and saw a huge lump. It was a 5 cm tumor at the 1o'clock postion. I had just had a complete physical 2 months before. My doc didn't detect anything and she state that in 2 yrs she would send me for my first mammo since I was only 38. Weird how it just showed up suddenly and so big!

  • maxgirl
    maxgirl Member Posts: 407
    edited July 2007
    I can't say if mine turned up overnight as I was 4 months overdue for a mammo, and I did self-exams only every 3 or 4 months. But I did find it myself in the shower doing a BSE, 12 o'clock position, turned out to be 1.3 cm, pretty near the surface. It felt pea-shaped the way I had heard BC tumors described, so I wasn't at all surprised to find out it was BC. The triple negative status and 2 positive nodes, however, were something that I wasn't ready for.

    Good idea for this poll.
  • 2curvy
    2curvy Member Posts: 183
    edited July 2007
    Hi! Mitzi, this is really interesting. Thanks for posting. I would like to find out the results of those who are ER/PR+! You should post it over there somewhere!

    I had a mammo in Aug. 06, and my lump just appeared in Nov./Dec. 06. It was positioned at approximately 2:00. Luckily I felt some discomfort in that area and checked it. It then tended to disappear for the next couple of months, and would reappear around my period. I finally checked it in Feb. 07 and the rest is history!
  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 2,019
    edited July 2007

    Mine was found by accident while my docs were following another lump. I went back for the six month mammo to see if there were any changes and the lump they were following was gone. The radiologist did both breasts and on the opposite breast, way up high, she spotted my lump. It wouldn't have been found if I hadn't been going for the other benign lump.

  • jdash
    jdash Member Posts: 754
    edited July 2007
    i found my first one then went for mammo and mammo came back perfectly normal even though they had marked where i felt the lump - sonogram picked it up
    10 yrs later had my yearly mammo and sonogram and right before i went i felt something well i had a tumor in the same breast as before but this one was very large over 5cm and still mammography came back perfect sono showed a little tumor MRI showed the whole thing i also had palable lymph nodes that were malignant - scary to think my breasts were so dense as not to show that
    i should have been taking MRI's to follow up
  • Indigoblue
    Indigoblue Member Posts: 274
    edited July 2007
    Found it 3 months after a 2nd follow-up mammogram and ultrasound confirmed b-9, see you next year...felt like I was crazy. There was an on-going pain in the exact spot the tumor was removed; like 10 years, a naggging, sharp, pain.

    Always had premenstral breast pain and cystic lumpy breasts, but this pain was "different". I knew it was nasty; it felt mean, piercing, and unlike other breast pains. Couldn't run, walk fast, or find a comfortable bra; it was painful. The doctors told me I was suffering from perimenopause, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, or a myalgia of some type, but that cancer never has pain.

    How many times did I hear that line? I am still being told that cancer doesn't cause pain and that it is not a symptom in the beginning stages.

    3 months after the mammogram and ultrasound, 1.7 grade 3 Invasive Ductal Cancer, aggressive, high risk, triple negative; clear sentinal lymph nodes (4 tested); nerves cut, tumor 2 cm from chest wall;

    Triple Negative Hormones never discussed until surgery was over. I didn't really understand what any of it was until I researched chemo and radiation treatments. Would a bi-lateral mastectomy been the better choice? Should I have had genetic testing done first? Should chemotherapy and/or radiation therapy be preformed before surgery?

    With triple negative cancers, should they even bother checking lymph nodes since the treatment is ultimately the same depending on the size of the tumor?

    Just wondering, have been wondering since I first heard the physician say hormone receptor negative tumor. He never actually called it "triple negative" anything.

    Indi
  • Search
    Search Member Posts: 1
    edited July 2009
    I found my lump in October 06. It seem to come out of no where. My mamogram in July was fine but I kept feeling this piercing pain in my breast then all of a sudden I wake up with this 5.2 CM lump! The lump was between the 2:00 and 4:00 position. When I mentioned this to my doctors they literally look at me like I was crazy. It has really been a mind blowing experience this entire year.
    I had neoadjuvant treatment of 4xac, 4Xtaxol,Needle breast biopsy, sentinel node biopsy. Clear margins and negative nodes. I am in the process of scheduling my radiation treatment.
  • slanderson
    slanderson Member Posts: 152
    edited July 2007
    Indi, thank you. I, also, have wondered, "why are we triple neg's so into lymph node status, when we are pretty much always going to do chemo. Nothing will be different with regard to treatment. Plus taking out a bunch of lymph nodes just causes other problems, ie, lymphedema. I mean, I don't think that removal of lymph nodes is therapeutic. It is for determining treatment. Right?

    Shannon
  • RebeccaH
    RebeccaH Member Posts: 72
    edited August 2007
    Great poll!! I checked that mine was found during a mammogram. BUT, I was having pain whenever I had pressure on my breasts. I had been going to Curves, and noticed that I was having pain whenever I did the bicep curl machine which makes you lean into a pad. Also, when I would 'spoon' my husband at bedtime, the pain was also there. I just chalked it up to putting pressure on my chest.

    I had had my pap and a clinical breast exam 10 months prior to my mammo, and the doctor didn't mention feeling anything. She had recommended a baseline mammo, but told me there was no hurry since I was moving in a few weeks. I'm just glad I didn't follow-up immediately upon arriving at my new home because I really doubt that anything would have shown up. And, I probably would have waited 2 years for another pap. You know how some women stretch that yearly exam into two years....

    My tumor was in the 6:00 position, 3.5cm, triple neg, no lymph nodes.

    I do tell anyone who asks that tumors can be painful....because mine was painful, but only when pressure was applied.
  • wombet
    wombet Member Posts: 16
    edited August 2007

    I had been doing breast self exams diligently and found a small change in a lump that had been there the year before....They had ultrsounded it and said it was just a cyst the year before....hmmm not so sure. Nothing showed up on Mammogram as I have dense breasts....everyone should be told that mammograms will not detect anything in people with dense breasts unless you have a calcification. I am not going to reccommend my daughter have mammo's just ultrasound and MRI's......as she is only 28. I don't think the radiation is good for us. My Tumor was at 2:00 O'clock in my right breast.

  • Teresa44
    Teresa44 Member Posts: 56
    edited August 2007
    Mitzi, I had a lot of the same symtoms as you. In Apr. I had a clear mamogram and then 3 months later I had a 6.5cm tumor. I have always had the cystic breasts with density so I knew we were keeping our eyes on a couple of cysts so when this one appeared I just thought this was the cyst that we were watching but it turned out that this one was not even in the area that we were concerned about. It was triple negative in the right breast in the 1 oclock position. Instead of just a lump it felt like an oblong mass which it was. During my surgery they were concerned that there was something on the chest wall but all it showed just some jel like substance.

    I thought this was a very interesting poll.

    God Answers Prayers

    Teresa44
  • sharebear
    sharebear Member Posts: 332
    edited August 2007
    I found mine myself both times. 12 years ago at age 32 and they said let's just watch it. I said no do a biopsy....good thing I did. And again on the other side this time at age 44. Both times I rolled over in the middle of the night and realized something hurt, felt a lump and immediately called my doctor the next morning. Of course this time they didn't try and put me off. Everyone moved quite quickly. I am also BRCA1 positive which they didn't know the first time.

    Do triple negs tend to be diagnosed young?

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