Where is WTH?

Maybe it is because Nicki got a psych analysis online.

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Charlene, now you've gone and done it. You have violated rule #12 (I think) that says you are not supposed to discuss getting in trouble by the moderators. (I got that one once so I remembered it) Sheeshe

oh god, I have to read the rules again. deleting my prior post Cheri!

Maybe we should build our own sandbox

The thread is gone and Im glad. Although we tried to make it light hearted and did have some fun - there were negatives there also. I for one had my feelings hurt a few times - despite trying to keep it light hearted.

I must always remember and try to practice the one thing I have been told over and over again. Use the ignore button. Dont respond to anything I interpret as negative or something that puts me in a defensive mood.

Its a new day, a new thread. Lets just have some fun as we are trying to Move Beyond. Some people can walk away, I love the friendships I have made here - and would have a hard time leaving.

Anne - we love you too much. Maybe lots of stuff went down that you didnt have a chance to read. Either way, I will miss your friendships and some of your posts just put a big smile on my face. So please dont leave.



Charlene: Im sure you didnt do anything wrong so quit your worrying and pull your wagon up to that circle.

Nicki

Hey Nicki- wise words as always, it's so hard not to react, and makes me sad to know your feeling were hurt, and how do you always find the perfect picture?

Anne - "Sheryl Crowe version" I love that! (And I wish I had that version, I think I have the Kylie Minogue (sp?)version!)

Robin, always count me in. hahah


Cheri

Most favoirte picture!



Nicki

Nicki,
I have put the "do one brave thing" picture on my laptop as the desktop background. It is such a funny picture, but every time I look at it the thing that really gets me is the penguin in the background is carrying a handbag!! hahahahahahaha


Vickitn: I would LOVE to have the time, energy, and resources to build my own sandbox. So glad to hear you are now NED!!!! God is good.


I am not yet 40 (coming in September), but I have learned in life that ANYTHING can be misconstrued by someone and people can take offense when none is taken. The internet poses a particular problem because intonation and facial expression is removed from the words being conveyed. Some people are less able to communicate through the written word and misunderstandings can occur.

What I see happening here is a few people with very specific axes to grind spoiling it for the rest of us who can take a joke and know when to ignore something and move on. Breast cancer does not discriminate. It doesn't choose only well-adjusted, kind, and socially apt persons to afflict. We are a cross-section of society and if you put 20 of us in a room together, there would likely be strong dislikes and disagreements. It is a shame that some would choose a forum in which the general theme is information and support to spread negativity. I suppose we need to remember that not everyone has an outlet for the anger/fear/pain caused by living with BC...maybe some just come here to let of steam.

I have a sandbox you can use. PM me if you would like the address.

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OK< so are continuing without any fights, cuss words, fisticuffs and the like? If so, I still want to hear about Lini's pool party even if she can't go in the water. I am so out of the loop I didn't know WTH had poofed!