I am starting chemo in July 07. Anyone else?
i had surgery a couple of weeks ago and have to go back for more next week. have to have more taken from the breast and also the rest of the lymph nodes removed as they were positive. I have been told that I will be having chemo for 8 months, followed by 6 weeks of radiation and then 8 years of hormone therapy.
I'm not looking forward to it of course but at this point I'm more annoyed about having to go for more surgery. I hate going backwards! If I have to go through this then the sooner the better as far as I am concerned. At the same time I am really looking forward to a few 'Normal' weeks in between recovering from surgery and starting chemo. I plan to have a week in a cancer care centre in the UK (I live in Ireland)
My greatest hope for this chemo is that I can keep up my garden and my job. I am due to be promoted in June and my lovely boss is still planning to do this even though I feel I've become a bit of a liability. But I love my job and it's very much in a developmental phase and I just hope that I can maintain my enthuiasm. I'm in a luckier position than some in that my children are about to leave home this September and whilst I don't want them to go it will be a big lift on the domestic front. We live very rurally and most of the time is spent providing a taxi service.
My fears I guess are the same as everyone else's. I plan to have acupuncture throughout the treatment. Anyone else tried this?
Anyone else starting in July?
Asia
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Hi Asia,
I had to have two surgeries as well. They didn't get clear margins the first time so went back a second time and did a mastectomy. The tumor was almost 5cc so the decision to do the mastectomy was a good one. I really can empathize with you about having another surgery. I hated it too. I expect to start chemo around the first of June. Will have 4 months of that followed by 7 weeks of radiation after. Seems like 2007 will be over before I finally get through all of the treatment.
I hope your surgery goes well and recovery is uneventful. July will be here before you know it.
Take care, Debbie -
thanks for that Debbie. It's good to know i'm not the only one who feels that way about going back for more surgery because in one way it feels a bit petty in the big scheme of things! Best wishes and good luck for your chemo. i hope it goes smoothly for you.
Asia -
Hi, I'm bumping this up. I don't think there's another thread going about starting chemo in July? I can't be the only one! Or have i got B.O. or something?!!!
Finished with my second surgery now and back at work although still feeling very sore which makes it difficult to sleep. I don't have an exact date for starting chemo but the surgeon reckoned it would be about a month after surgery.
anyone else out there?
Asia -
Hi Asia,
I just went to the oncologist today and my first chemo is scheduled for 6/22/07. So not quite July but close...didn't want you to think you had BO!! I am going on vacation in mid July and considered waiting so I'd still have hair on vacation but the onc said he didn't want to wait till after vac. and I don't want to have my first time with chemo be right before vac. since I don't know how I will react or feel.
I had a lumpectomy on 5/23 w/sentinal node biopsy. Tumor was 2.1 cm--ultrasound had indicated 1.5cm. Node came back negative. My tumor was er+++ and my her2/neu was positive (although fish test was kind of inconclusive--not sure what that means). Anyway, I feel like I have to fight this with everything available. I have a 9 yr old son and I have to be here for him. I am not crazy about going through chemo but I'm way less crazy about dying!!
This is all a little overwhelming right now and I'm actually up since 4am with stuff just running through my head.
Cyndi -
Hi Cyndi, I hope it goes really well for you. I too am finding myself very familiar with the early morning!
Good luck and thanks for posting!
Asia -
Hi, looks like I'll be having chemo in July. I'm scheduled for lumpectomy and port insertion on June 12th, and if all goes well I'll be joining you in July. Not the way I wanted to spend my summer but I am so ready to get this started.
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Well that makes 2 of us then. Good luck with your op.
Asia -
Hi, I'm new on these boards. I have not had my surgery yet - I'll being having a mastectomy and SNB on June 22, with chemo to start late July. Yep, this summer will sure stink! I have early-stage IDC, grade 3, so chemo will be aggressive. Tumor is a little over 2 cm, and right now I really want to get it out!
I'm a sahm of 2 boys, a 5-yr-old w/autism and a 2-yr-old. I hope the chemo doesn't keep me down too much - they need me!
Good luck everyone!
Karen -
Hi Karen, so sorry you've had to join us with such young children. Keep in touch. there is a thread on this board called 'Tips for getting through chemotherapy'. If you haven't come across it yet it might be good to look for it - I've printed it out. Hopefully you will find it helpful. I'm also trying to build myself up in the meantime - lots of healthy food, fresh juices etc. Don't know if it will help but it makes me feel like I have a little bit of control. Rest as much as you can after your surgery. hopefully you have some good support?
My thoughts are with you.
Asia. -
Hi Asia - thanks, I printed those tips! I do have lots of support. Hubby is great. My mother-in-law had a mastectomy 14 yrs ago, stage 1, but did not have chemo. My next door neighbor's mom did have chemo, and my neighbor, sweet thing she is, is getting things ready for that time...like popsicles, canned fruit, oils, etc. My parents have been driving 50 minutes each way to be here for all my appointments. It really does help. So does being on these boards!
Cyndi, I know what you mean about the thoughts keeping you up...during the day, I try to keep busy and focus on other things, but at night, it's pretty much all I think about.
Karen -
Hi Asia,
I am starting on June 27th, so I consider that July, rounding up of course! I will be over at Dana Farber in Boston and have found an onc that I really like, Hal Bernstein. He was recommended by a number of "Cancer Rock stars" that we have at my place of work:
http://www.broad.mit.edu/index.html
I have had 2 ops for lumpectomy margins as I refuse to get a mastectomy...at least for right now. I have some dcis margins that are not great, but am needing to move on with rads and chemo at this point. I do a lot of yoga and rock climbing and recovered very well from the surgeries. At any rate I expect the chemo to be more challenging and am going to try to get rid of the Adriamycin from my course as I am super Estrogen positive. It is amazing to me how much we do not understand about this disease with it's treatment and like all Science nerds I like to do tons of research. I have been doing acupuncture since before my surgeries and will continue on with them during chemo....Dr Lu also works a Dana Farber and has been doing clinical trials on chemo there for quite a while. Am going to see him today as a matter of fact. We have a British researcher coming to the Broad on Thurs who is going to give a lecture on whole genome associations in Breast Cancer. He was published in Nature a few weeks ago so I will post anything that is interesting.
I too am a gardener and my Mom (who died from Carcinoid Cancer) grew up outside of Longford in Co Cavan so we have some commonalities.
Enjoy~ climbergirl -
Hi Climbergirl and Welcome to the group - if that's the right way of putting it! Your situation sounds very similar to mine in that i too have DCIS margins which is not what I wanted to hear after the second surgery but was still relieved that i wasn't going back for more.
I'm also having acupuncture and finding it really helpful.Plan to continue it through chemo and beyond. There seems to be reasonable evidence that it can help with the side effects and, if nothing else, I always feel empowered after a session.
i'm sorry to hear about your mother - for me I have no family history of cancer and I feel almost as if it is my fault that my sisters' statistical risk of cancer has suddenly shot up!
Whereabouts exactly is your mother from? I live in Co. Leitrim which borders both Co.Cavan and Co.Longford. in my work I travel through both counties.
Looks like you will be the first in this group to have chemo so you will be able to let us know how it goes. Best of luck. Keep in touch.
Asia -
Just thought I'd pop my head in here. I'm done with Chemo on July 3rd and I just want you ladies to know..you all can do it. Check out past threads from our March cruise. There's a lot of useful information in them that the Doc's don't tell you. Godd luck ldaies and my prayers are with you all. rosebud
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thanks Rosebud. Will do that.
Asia -
It looks like I'll be starting in July as well.... My story is ILC, 4cm tumor in left breast. Lumpectomy & lymph nodes on left side removed May 9. I had micrometastesis in the sentinel node. Margins were not clean, however, and my dr. said I had extensive in situ also, so he recommended a left breast mastectomy. I thought about it and having already done research about ILC, decided I wanted a bilateral mastectomy. I had it on Thursday and I have no regrets. In fact, I'm amazed at how relieved I feel that the diseased breasts are gone!!
I had immediate reconstruction with expanders, and so far recovery hasn't been bad at all.
Anyway, I'm not sure exactly when it will start or what it will consist of, but I will begin my chemo in July with you all. Not exactly what I'd envisioned in terms of fun in the summer, but I know I can get through it. I'll be in touch!!
Donna -
Hi Donna and Welcome to this thread. Glad you feel so good and positive after your surgery. i am just running off to work now so this is a short posting. just wanted to say hi.
Asia -
Hi, I hope you don't mind me popping into your thread. I'm a 3 1/2 year survivor of Inflammatory bc and have been on the boards almost as long. Do you mind if I go along on your journey with you?
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Hello
I'm a first timer so I'll keep this short, I'm also at work but finding it v hard to concentrate. I had a lumpectomy 2 weeks ago and i'm going for an assessment in 2 days time. I've been told to expect Chemo which is why I visited this section to find out more. I'm 34 and have two boys aged 9 mths and 3 yrs. I saw Karen's posting and really related to it. I think it's great to have an opportunity to help each other here. I have so many questions about wigs, when to buy etc, can I carry on working thru Chemo?? Reading your emails has helped me already so I plan to come back soon. I feel a bit lost and alone at the moment.
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Tara, working through chemo depends on the individual and how well they tolerate the chemo and also what type of job/work you do. I did fairly well through chemo and have a job that is not physically demanding so I worked but others were not able to. They have some great anti-nausea drugs now so chemo doesn't have to be like what you see in those made-for-TV movies. I never got sick but there are other side effects. Also, you immunity to illness will be low so if you teach or work in nursing or flight attendant where you come into contact with lots of infections like colds, flus, etc., that's probably going to influence the decision to work during treatment.
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My husband and I were also scheduled to go on a week's vacation just after i started chemotherapy, but when I went in to have my white blood count checked about a week after the first chemo treatment, I found that my count was dangerously low. My onc. was concerned about my flying and being around crowds a few days from then, and we decided the smartest thing for us to do was to cancel our vacation plans. I didn't want the chance of landing in an emergency room in a foreign country. He was sorry that we would miss our planned vacation, but felt it was too risky to go away at that time. I'm glad we made that decision. I hope you will think about perhaps postponing your vacation plans as well. My doctor wrote us a letter to present to the airline and we were able to get our entire fare refunded. Good luck to you!
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Hi Alwayshope, Of course it would be great to have to along with us. and Hi to everyone else.
Re the working through chemo thing - that's my big concern at the moment. i've just been promoted (a week ago) and after 2 years of working from home have developed the job enough that we are in the process of getting more staff and opening an office. under normal circumstances I would be SO excited about this but now I'm just praying that I can keep up some kind of enthusiasm and drive to keep the show on the road during treatment. I am very lucky that my bosses are incredibly supportive and have even taken someone on in a sessional basis to 'shadow' me for when i have bad days. this is the best job i've ever had and I just want to do well. I'm having acupuncture and trying to eat really well etc, but there is only so much you can do to help yourself - the rest is down to luck I guess.
I think Climbergirl is the first one of us to go for chemo. Do let us know how you get on and good luck
Asia -
Hi All,
Am on my way for my MUGA test today, wig fitting and some downtime with a chemo therapist I am lucky enough to be on medical leave now and am taking full advantage of it...doing my yoga, gardening, climbing and sleeping in late so I do feel like I have something of a summer already. I may try to work during treatment but I am finding that the lack of low level job stress makes me look healthy.
Despite the 2 operations I am still pretty strong and can do my stuff. When I am tired, I read. I will let you know how the MUGA is, should be very straight forward. Also am very interested in cutting out the Adriamycin part of my treatment...only doing the C and T part as I am super Estrogen/Pro positive. This has been on several threads on this board and in the news so take a look when you get a chance ~ everyone should be aware of the low efficacy of the A in most women and of the possible long term effects. In my humble scientific opinion it ain't worth it.....my Onc had better have some really good stats to talk me into it. News Flash ~ I am one of those science nerd patients that constantly questions everything Standard of Care or not.
BTW....one of the biggest thing that my acupuncturist thinks makes a difference in all this is how important your sleep is,esp after any operations! It is so important that he recommended that if I am not sleeping (which I have been quite well) is to take the ativan that they give you. I thought that was kind of counter the whole acupuncture thing but whatever.
~ Talk t'ya later,
climbergirl -
Hi ladies, me again. All of my pathology results from the mastectomy are back. No cancer in the right breast at all (that was the prophylactic side) and the margins were clean on the left. We were really pleased to have good news, because it had begun to seem that with each procedure the news got just a little worse. (Tumor was bigger than they thought, one positive node, dirty margins, mastectomy....)so I was afraid of what the mastectomy pathology might show. But, it was all good. HOORAY!
My appointment with the chemo doctor is set for July 2, so then I guess I will know specifics of my treatments.
My husband and I had a 2-week trip out west scheduled for the last 2 weeks of August, which after much thought we decided to postpone. We were going to fly into Denver and drive to see my sister in Montana. I was afraid that the heat and the altitude might exacerbate the effects of the chemo, and then if I were to have an issue at the last minute where the doctor wouldn't want me to fly, well that would just be a huge disappointment. So we're putting it off until I am finished with treatment and sure to enjoy it more. BTW, for those of you in a similar situation, Delta gave us one year from date of purchase to use our tickets, with no penalty. My husband just called and explained the situation and there was no problem.
And another thing: If you have the opportunity to attend one of those "Look Good, Feel Better" classes, I highly recommend it! I went the other day and learned how to draw on fake eyebrows and apply false eyelashes, and different ways to use things to cover your head. My 20 year old daughter went with me and we had a great time. She told me it was a huge help to her too, as she was struggling to deal with what was going on with me. So for her to be around women in my situation who were doing OK and having fun, made her a lot more comfortable. Oh, plus they give you TONS of free products, which the daughter has been coveting!
Welcome to all who joined since my last post. Good luck to those who start soon. And thanks to those who are finished or almost finished with treatment, for your offers to ride along with us and cheer us on to victory.
Donna -
And Karen, I can completely relate to what you said about just wanting to get the cancer out! I was OK with the time before the lumpectomy - I chose to wait an extra week, with my surgeon's blessing, so I could run the marathon I'd been training for. That was great because it kept me focused on something else besides my cancer. But then the 5 weeks between the lumpectomy and the mastectomy was hard. That was when I felt like I just couldn't wait for the doctor to get my breasts off! I don't miss them at all and mentally I feel sooooo much better now. Good luck to you. I admire the special strength of you ladies with small children!!!!
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Good news Donna! My appointment about my treatment will be July 6. Maybe we will start together.
Tara, I feel for you. It will be hard to get rest with the little ones. I am being optimistic that it won't be too bad.
June 22 is coming fast now. Talk to you all after the surgery!
Karen -
Hi,
Karen - good luck today. i hope it goes really well for you. Make sure you rest well after it like Climbergirl says.
Climbergirl - that's really interesting that your acupuncturist recommended taking ativan if necessary. I do seem to have fallen into a pattern of getting up really early. In the first week after diagnosis I think it was just my time to process what was happening to me because that's when I had my really bleak moments. Now it's become a habit. I try and go to bed early 'cos I have no trouble getting to sleep - it's just staying in bed longer than 4.00am has got really hard. I've always been wary of sleeping tablets but maybe extreme circumstances call for extreme remedies!
Asia -
Hi Everyone
I have just lost my entire mail how annoying, to be honest it was a bit of a rant so Ill try and summarize and be a bit more positive in this one, so it may not have been such a bad thing!
Well, today was the follow up assessment from the lumpectomy and to be honest Im not sure if it was good or bad news. Theres no cancer in the nodes, I had a SNB so they only took two but there is (although very small) a few cancer cells around the edge of the clean tissue they took with the lump, as its small its good news I suppose but it does mean I have to go back for a second op to remove these cells. On its own this, I think would be good news but the surgeon mentioned Lobular Intraepithelial Neoplasia (LIN) has anyone else heard of or been told they have this? Its apparently a background change that has caused the cancer and if they find further cells in the second op then Ill have to have both breasts removed.
As per my usual behaviour Ive come straight back into work. I just need to take my mind off things. Asia, please let me know how you manage at work through your treatment. Your situation sounds similar to mine and Im determined that whatever happens it wont effect my plans although Im becoming aware that this isnt actually something I have control of. Im also taking on a new member of staff to assist me in my role which was planned before I knew any of this. They start in 2 weeks and I havent told them yet, It's really bad timing and I'm not looking forward to spending so much time with a stranger whilst I'm going through this.
Op 2 is on 9th July and chemo will start in Aug. The surgeon was a reconstruction specialist and the only way you could tell I had the lumpectomy was the small scar that follows the arc of my nipple. Its amazing as I was expecting the worst. The surgery was easy and I felt like Id beaten this and with no physical damage to my body. I felt great, Im back to my pre pregnancy weight, my hair is really long, my confidence is a bit dented but ok but now Im having another op, I may loose both breasts, Im definitely going to lose my hair, I feel its all started again.
I guess this is what its like with the ups and downs. You are all so amazing and seem to know so much. You use lots of abbreviations Im not familiar with but I guess its just a matter of time (Climbergirl MUGA test?)
Karen, good luck for tomorrow.
Great news Donna
Sorry this was so long, I think its just adjusting to the update I received today. Talking to you really helps. Thanks
T x -
I will be starting my chemo in the third week of July. I had heard about putting a port before chemo. My doctor is saying they will insert a tube in the arm instead and I will have that tube sticking out for 6 weeks. I have not heard of this. Has anyone heard this or have used it instead of a port? thanks and good luck to all.
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6 weeks? My chemo lasted 7 months. That just doesn't sound right. I still have my port from chemo and have not had any trouble with it. Its completely under the skin so I can swim, shower, or whatever with it..
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Hi ladies. Tara2, people are always asking me how I'm feeling emotionally. I tell them that each day is a new adventure in emotion! Sometimes each hour! Sometimes I'm feeling A-OK and very positive, and other times I'm really angry and frustrated because I wasn't planning on this cancer thing and it really caught me by surprise. And then there is the waking very early in the morning, when I would lay there and my mind would go to the very dark places, which I learned very quickly I could not allow myself to go, so I would get up and do something or even watch some inane sitcom on TV Land to take my mind away from thinking negatively.
It's so much better mentally now that I've had my surgeries and have good pathology results. Now onto that darn chemo. But I got a great hat last week at an art festival.
I was planning on 4 months for my chemo. That's what the breast surgeon told me it would probably be.
Donna
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