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  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited May 2007
    Okay, so I read a quote that said, "The most fun thing about being forgetful is that every once in a while you make exciting discoveries." Well, that was the case this morning for me. I was changing purses as I do when the mood strikes me and I found in the old purse the 2 checks that I had written in April of 2006 that had never been cashed by the drugstore and the hardware store and had messed up my checkbook for half a year before I decided I must have forgotten to mail them and wrote them over--but they were in a side pocket of my purse with some duplicates of other checks from that time period. I must have pulled them all out of my checkbook and just forgot about them. And I kinda blamed the stores at first, but then thought it was my chemo-brain at work. AND I found my nice watch that I've been looking for for the past year. It was in a little zipper pouch with a bunch of other earrings and stuff that I remember now that I took off for an MRI and just forgot that I put it in the bottom of that purse. Maybe I should clean out my purses on a more regular basis. No telling what I might find!!! Hope everyone had a Super May Day. Spring is here and Life is Good Smiles NancyLee
  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited May 2007
    here's a link to comments regarding the NY Times article:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2007/05/02/opinio...70&emc=eta1
  • Morgin
    Morgin Member Posts: 1
    edited May 2007

    My mom has had breast cancer twice and underwent large amounts of chemo along with a stem cell transplant back in 1998. In the last 5-6 years we have noticed a steady decline in her cognitive function as well as her motor function. She has difficulty finding words, it seems that she has almost no memory and she has difficulty walking and getting up and down. She needs help with almost all aspects of everyday life. We have taken her to numerous doctors without any answers. Has anyone else experienced/heard of anything like this? We are at a complete loss for what to do. We keep being told that it is from the chemo and that there is nothing we can do about it. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    I started chemo just yesterday, so I guess I can only use all the stress as my excuse so far.

    I didn't sleep well last night so when I called my mother to check in with her, I told her I was going to turn my phone off and try to get some rest. As we were speaking, I was walking all around looking for the phone to make sure I turned the ringer off. I was getting pretty frustrated, too - after all I JUST saw the thing! Well, duh, it was pretty easy to find after I finished and hung up the darn thing! lol

    Sheree
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited May 2007
    Sheree, don't feel bad--I did the same thing when I was talking to my sister the other night. I told her that I could tell her a number she was looking for by looking back on the caller ID of the phone if I could just find it. She got really quiet and then I realized she probably was thinking "what an idiot I have for a sister" because of course I was talking on the phone!! Yesterday I was driving home and I forgot to take the exit off the interstate that comes south and I kept going west. I was half way to Glendive when I realized that I meant to take the other turn so I just kept going and had a nice dinner at a restaurant there and then drove home the other way. I added an extra 80 miles to my trip, but nobody but you, my remote buddies, know the reason why!!?? Life is Good Smiles NancyLee
  • learn2live
    learn2live Member Posts: 1
    edited May 2007
    Does this happen to people before they have even begun treatment? (after diagnosis)

    Debbie
  • iodine
    iodine Member Posts: 4,289
    edited May 2007

    Yes, it does. After dx we are using all our brain cells just to wrap our heads around the dx and figure out how to deal with all this.

  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited May 2007
    Okay, so I have this little purple bic Advair pen that I swiped from the doctor's office and I lent it to a mom this morning so she could fill out a form. After she left, I was going to do the jumble in the paper and I couldn't find the pen. I looked on the podium in the hall where she'd used it and in the nursery where she walked. Then all my workers started asking what I was looking for and I said my purple pen. They all started looking too. I gave up and went to teach preschool and 2 hours later when I was arriving back from picking up the kindergarten kids, I went to sign them in on the sheet and automatically reached up to the collar of my smock and guess what was there? I guess she handed it back to me and I put it on the V neck of the smock like I always do. Funny none of my workers noticed, but when I found it we all had a good laugh. I need a keeper!!!! Life is Good Smiles NancyLee
  • ijl
    ijl Member Posts: 897
    edited May 2007
    I happened to me even before I had that suspicious mammo I blamed on my ripe age of 46
    Just like other ladies I was looking for a cell phone when leaving the house while I was talking on it to my friend. I was about to use my land phone to call my cell phone to find out where it is.
    Hey why can't we be like computer : if your memory is getting full , add another gigabyte
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited May 2007
    Ok--I had to share this with you--I was drinking a bottle of Lipton Green Tea with honey (which is addictively good by the way) and I set it down SOMEWHERE--When I went back to find it--I couldn't. After searching the whole house and getting no results, I opened a new bottle and drank it down. Tonight when I was getting ready for bed--I remembered that I had washed a load of towels with a pair of white Keds earlier in the day and I went to toss them in the dryer--Guess what else I washed??? And the bottle was intact and the lid was still on it--HMMMM!! Inna--what a nice thought to add more memory like a computer--whenever my brother learned something new--he'd always say--"Well, there goes 3rd grade!" because he figured you had to empty something out to put in something new. Maybe he was right!! Nite Ladies!!! Life is Good Smiles NancyLee
  • lisaelder1972
    lisaelder1972 Member Posts: 171
    edited June 2007
    I know this is gross but my nose is constantly dried out and I keep antibiotic ointment in nostrils because of the scabs I worry about infection.Wednesday I was in a hurry as I had an appointment.I have several tubes of the antibiotic.I keep one on the nightstand and one in the bathroom.After I put on my make-up and fixed my hair,I put some in my nose.I was on fire!!!!!!!! And it's usually soothing.And it would have been but I had filled my nosrils full of Vagisil!!!It was so gross.Oh well,I haven't had any feminine itching in my nose lol.

    Hugs,
    Lisa
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited June 2007

    OUCH, Lisa--I've been on vacation and just saw your post. Someone posted a joke on the humor site once about how people should learn to read English when they move to America and it was a picture of a guy getting ready to brush his teeth with Preparation-H. Yucky, huh? Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLee

  • fireba
    fireba Member Posts: 59
    edited June 2007

    I'm participating in a study of chemo brain, and I did several tests of memory and coordination before I started chemo. Now that I'm almost done with treatment, I'll need to go back in and repeat the tests, then again another six months later. Although I don't have hilarious stories to contribute to this thread yet (just give me time), I am a little apprehensive about the test because I can tell that my mind is not quite what it used to be. I must write absolutely everything down, and I often struggle for the right word (very irritating when you're a crossword puzzle fan like me!).

  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited June 2007
    You are SO right about the crossword thing. I sat in the nursing home with my mother who has Alzheimer's today and we worked on the Sunday crossword in the paper. Some of the time I just couldn't think of the right word and Mom could!! That's not good at all!!! It's good for her, but it doesn't say much for my memory, does it??? You will have to keep us posted on how your retest compares to your pretest. It will be very interesting. Life is good--Smiles NancyLee
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited July 2007

    Okay--so I've been away from home visiting relatives most of the month of June and I came home to find my Dish Network remote missing. I can turn on the TV, but I have to push that little Select button on that remote to get a picture. It doesn't work any other way. I have the remote for the bedroom TV, but they come in on different channels and it is programmed differently. It doesn't work on this TV. Now my question is--Did I perhaps pack that remote into one of my bags and take it on vacation with me? Did I put it somewhere SAFE where I'd be sure to find it when I got home? Where IS my remote?????? So I'm cleaning my entire house for the umteenth time and I'll probably make all kinds of interesting discoveries--Let's hope one of them is this stupid one of a kind remote. Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLee

  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited July 2007

    STILL haven't found it. I've been watching DVD's on that tv because that's all it's good for until I find that dang remote. I might have to call Dish Network and have them reprogram me a new one. THEN I'd find the other one for sure. I actually moved furniture today in hopes of gaining sight of it. Well, the good part of all this is that my house is getting really clean!!!! Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLee

  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited August 2007

    So last Tuesday, I was riding in the car with a friend on my way to the hospital for surgery. We are going along the road and I took my rings off and put them on the chain of my necklace. I was holding them in my hand and then I lost thought of what I did with them. So I got out of the hospital last Thursday and then ended up back on Saturday and I don't remember much about Friday so I had forgotten all about my jewelry. So I got back sorta to myself on Monday and found my earrings and replaced all of them. Then I found my watch and bracelets and rescued them. Then I started to look for my rings and I looked in every single nook and corner of every bag that I had taken with me to the hospital. It peeped into my mind that I had them all in my hand on that chain when we were about 20 miles away from the hospital and I just couldn't remember what I did with them. So I called my friend and she searched her entire car looking for my rings. She thought that she remembered me holding them and then she said that I put them in a small bag that I was holding????? I didn't think I had anything in the front of the car because all my bags were in the back, but I checked everything out again and drove myself crazy for a few more hours. End of story, yesterday my friend drove out to give me a ride back to the hospital for a checkup and I had barely gotten seated when I looked down and saw this small green camera pouch sitting on her console. I just blurted out--"That's where my rings are!!!" AND they were in the little zipper pocket on the front of the pouch. We both busted out laughing because it was at that moment that we remembered that she turned to me when we were driving and said, "Why don't you put your rings in here because I never take this out of the car and I'll remember to make you get them when you get out of the hospital and that way you won't lose them!!!" I think it was kinda nice to know that I'm not the only feather-brain because we BOTH forgot. It's nice to get my rings back--I felt naked without them! Hope everyone is having a nice week. Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLee

  • shrink
    shrink Member Posts: 936
    edited August 2007
    Chemo brain surprise. I thouht my checking account balance was lower than it should be. Sure enough, I got a notice from American Express that I paid the same bill for $2500 twice. Now they're sending me a check for $2500!

    "I try to take one day at a time - but sometimes several days attack me at once." ashleighbrilliant.com
  • LaurieL
    LaurieL Member Posts: 88
    edited August 2007
    I pulled a chemo brainer yesterday. I put the bank deposits in the mailbox and brought my mail to the bank to "deposit". Duh. Glad I figured out what I did in time before the mailman picked up the mail.
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited August 2007

    OK--so last night I was talking to a friend on the phone and she said that she had called me on both my house phone and my cell phone and left a message on the cell phone. So while I was talking to her I started to search for the cell phone. I couldn't find it anywhere. I looked on my one portable phone and saw her number on caller ID so I told her that her call had come through on the land line, but not the cell because I didn't hear it beeping to tell me I had a message. I told her that it must be out in my car or something because I couldn't seem to find it in the house. We chatted and then said goodbye and you're right--I took the cell phone away from my ear. I just sat there and looked at it and looked at myself in the mirror and laughed because I still keep doing all this goofy stuff--At least I'm here by myself and nobody sees me running around in circles looking for something that I'm holding in my hand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Life is Good--Smile--NancyLee

  • pnut2
    pnut2 Member Posts: 86
    edited August 2007

    chemo moment, one story out of many. my friend drove me to work during one of my treatments. after work i went to the employee garage to get into my car. i went through all five floors looking for that dang car!! i called secruity freaking out. they started looking for the car. by then i needed a serious xantax. i finally decided to call my friend to let her know. she is laughing hysterically because she is parked outside my job waiting for me. that was two months ago, and i am still teased constantly.

  • bearlysane111
    bearlysane111 Member Posts: 735
    edited August 2007
    NancyLee,I so love your stories and you,my Glittertush relative. I have so many moments. I got me an early birthday cake and forgot that my reflexes are worse. So,I get out of the Jeep and that thing slides out of bakery box decorated side down on pavement. I said a few words that my schl children taught me! LOL Then,I salvaged that cake and washed it off-threw away some. Talk abt no head! Still had some cake that was good.

    So,yesterday I am at the bank to cash a check. Have to scan debit cd that won't work-expired in July! So,find ID pic and then,I can't find driver's license as I am all rattled. Find that and the girl tells me the date and I say I know it as tomorr is my birthday. So,what does she do but tell me rthe date,again! They must have been letting my nuttiness rub off. I just tell them,again,that I know the date as Sat is b'day.Got the money and now,to work on getting a new debit cd! At least I was at the bank instead of groc store!


    Thinking of you,NancyLee and thanks for the good wishes!
    Iris aka Lola Glittertush
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited September 2007
    Today in my preschool class I had a pencil in my hand one minute and lost it the next.  I kinda looked all around the room while I was talking and working with the kids.  I never did find it until I went to the washroom to wash some paste off my fingers and looked at myself in the mirror.  Yup, it was stuck by my ear.  I NEVER do that with pencils, but today I did.  Who knows?????  Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLee
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited September 2007
    I need help!!!  I can't find the 21st.....I'm doing September bills to hand out on Monday at the daycare and I can't find the sign-in sheet for the 21st.  So that was Friday and the day I went to the doctor and when I came back I stopped at the daycare and got the sheet and put it ......where......if I can just find it, maybe I'll find my watch, my bottle of pink nail polish with the diamond on it, my muffin pan, my silicone baking sheet, my skate key.....oh, no probably not the last one...it's been lost for way too long, but I WOULD like to find Friday the 21st.  I'm watching CD of Princess Bride--It's the poison scene--Iocain Powder--Makes me thirsty--Think I'll post this and go make some Iced Tea sans Iocain powder...Never go against a Sicilian when death is on the line!!!!  Love that movie-----Hope everyone is having a good weekend....Life is Good--Smiles--NancyLeeSmileSmile
  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited October 2007
    CoolSo NOBODY has chemo brain anymore but ME???  I think that I am getting worse rather than better, but I take it all with a grin--cuz there seems to be nothing else to do....I found the 21st by the way in the bottom of my purse and my muffin pan was buried in the way back of the cupboard--the rest of the stuff is still AWOLI guess I'd best get back to work--Life is GoodSmilesNancyLee
  • myrenewal
    myrenewal Member Posts: 203
    edited November 2007

    Bumping this up!

  • Morgan
    Morgan Member Posts: 1
    edited November 2007

    Did you see the NY Time article, where they saythat chemo brain can be caused by many things, including but not limited to chemo?  I had first breast cancer in 1995, with a lumpectomy followed by radiation--no chemo.  I felt fine, but noticed my post-menopausetype symptoms of memory loss and ADD-like inability to focus got much worse.

    Then I began having weird, body-traveling symptoms in the Fall of 2005--went from specialist to specialist but I wasn't in anybody's special category, so no one could diagnose...in the meantime, in December 2005, I had to write a complex govt RFP contract proposal, and I COULD NOT DO IT--couldn't multi-task (used to be my mainstay) at all.  E.g., if I stopped typing to let the dog out, I could be found in the yard triming bushes...  I also could no longer synthesize, boil things down to their essence--e.g., this rambling email. The more I wrote, the longer and more disconnected the proposal became. I missed 3 deadlines--a total government No No for proposals, and finally had to drive to another state to hand-deliver the darn thing at 3 a.m.--Though we won the contract anyway, because we're the best at what we do (she said modestly).

    Six months after that disaster I went to the ER for the 2nd time in 10 days;  CT scans  diagnosed Stage IV metastatic.

    Now can anyone tell me this wasn't chemo brain?  It can be caused by post-traumatic stress syndrome, and pre-traumatic stress, and

    stress-traumatic posts, if you ask me.

  • gsg
    gsg Member Posts: 3,386
    edited January 2008

    it's one thing to not remember where you parked your car, but last thursday i came out of the market and couldn't remember what kind of a car i drive...and as it turned out i was standing right in front of it when i was trying to figure it out.

    i wonder if i should even be driving. lol. 

  • NancyLee13
    NancyLee13 Member Posts: 496
    edited April 2008
    • Nice to see that this is still here....still looking for my little brain and laughing daily at my forgetfulness...BTW...Has anyone seen my remote???
  • lv2cmp
    lv2cmp Member Posts: 1,363
    edited April 2008

    NancyLee great to see you!  Surely you have not lost the hugeastic remote you got for Christmas,,,have you?

    Amy

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