Starting Chemo in May 07

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  • cinrae123
    cinrae123 Member Posts: 419
    edited May 2007
    O good lord,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it posted twice?? Sowy bout that girls. lol I deleted the second one so I didnt look so stupid,,,,,but I thought it would remove it all together,,,,but now I really do look dumb, with a deleted post,,,,,,,,,o yikes
    Cindy againnnnnnnnnn
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Good morning everyone. I'm alive!

    Amy and those of you starting soon, good luck! As I said yesterday the actual treatment was very easy. However, the Emend gave me a pretty bad headache and I had terrible heartburn through most of the night. I might suggest making sure you take something to help you sleep in case you react the same. And if your husband or S.O. took all the antacids - get some more before the end of the day! So far I haven't taken anything that helped the headache, but it's subsiding on it's own - still, I have to take another dose this morning! Yikes! I've built up a pretty high tolerance for simple pain meds because of my back problems, but Tylenol or Ibuprofen might work great for some of you without that "little" issue. No nausea what-so-ever and I stayed fairly active and awake most of the day yesterday. I don't mean to imply MY house is anywhere near clean or neat - it's a disaster!

    Oh - I get a shot of Neulasta later today. I figure I could be a candidate for being one of the 30% that experience bone pain (my spine is fairly riddled with arthritis now). So I mentioned that to the nurse and she's having me take Celebrex for a couple of days as a precaution against that.

    Sisters, good luck again! And I still feel pretty good and still amazed at how darn healthy I seem in general even though I'm battling this beast. Sending you all love and prayers.

    Sheree
  • Linda7411
    Linda7411 Member Posts: 197
    edited May 2007
    Hello Sisters,
    I am in the March-April group and thought I'd check in. Please feel free to review some of our postings. You'll definitely get some answers. Please feel free to ask us and maybe we can help. Don't ever be afraid to call your onc's office for anything. I had my first chemo April 13, yes Friday the 13th. It truly was not as horrible as I feared. If you feel any pain or burning during treatment, make sure you tell the RN. I chose not to have a port and am hoping I can make it through without one. Just couldn't face a third surgery. You may feel a bit weird the day of chemo and then the next day. That's from the steroids and you may feel a bit jittery. But it keeps you from having an allergic reaction to the chemo. Seems for most of us the symptoms appeared around Day 3-5. You will probably feel achy kind of like the flu, but no fever. The You may find your heart racing a bit when you walk around and you'll feel tired. Pace yourself for a few days. Also the Neulasta injection may give you joint pain. I had lower back and neck pain. Took Alleve and it helped a lot, better than Tylenol. I took Emend for 3 days and had no nausea or vomiting. Was expecting diarrhea but have had constipation. Once I felt up to it I began walking laps around the yard and now walk a mile a day. I began Yoga and also a Pranayama class. I have been having problems sleeping; wake up after 4 hours. This has helped. I had a very sore throat. The onc and nutritionist suggested L-Glutamine powder 30 grams a day and also Probiotics to protect my gut. I also developed a yeast infection, so watch out for patches of white and call in right away.
    My hair began shedding on Day 13 and got worse each day. By yesterday I couldn't take it anymore - Day 18. So I got it shaved this morning. Left a few bangs to ease me into it.
    Anyway, thought I'd check in with all of you. This discussion board will be your stronghold. Sorry this is so long.
    Wish all of you well with your journey. You WILL get through this. I go for second treatment tomorrow. Most of all DRINK LOTS OF WATER the day before, the day of, and the day after. Very important. At least 2 quarts. You'll pee a lot, but way worth it.
    Sending my prayers you way,
    Linda
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2007
    Linda,

    Thanks so much for all the great info...it's nice to have a "veteran" check in with us as we all fumble through this experience. I will go in and read the other posts (in the March or April starters) for that reason but like everything in this journey so far - it can sometimes be overwhelming! So thank you for the tips/ advice...hope you continue to do well with your treatments!
  • Bernadine
    Bernadine Member Posts: 49
    edited May 2007
    Hi again, this is day 3 for me it's better I'm not as nauseaded as I was, finshed my pills so I won't be so dizzy tommorow.I'm getting back up and it's going to be fine. Yes Mandy I'm canadian I'm from New Brunswick small place call Cap-Pele where the sandy beach are!!!! Won't be able to go this summer but we'll see. It's suppose to be a hot one this year.That's why we're kicking some cancer butt first and then go to the beach. Hope for those going this week it will go well. Every person is not the same so you're not going to be sick like me because I'm going to speak to my onco before my next treatment to be sure.

    Good luck and !!!!!!! I'll be thinking of you all..

    IDC,19nodes-,3.2cm,ER/PR+,Her2/-,stage1,grade2,margin-
  • azwillow
    azwillow Member Posts: 2
    edited May 2007
    Hi everyone, I had my first chemo on May 1. Today I feel more like myself, i.e. no more nausea and vomiting (even with the anti-nausea meds) and was able to eat food, not just drink liquids. I have zero energy, is this normal? my spiritual advisor told me to stay in my little cocoon and let myself be loved, so that is what I am doing. I had the neulasta shot yesterday, so far no side effects, but maybe it's too soon. since I'm an optimist I plan to be in the 76% who do not have side effects!
    Blessings on everyone who is starting this life-changing journey this month. we will survive!
  • katymom
    katymom Member Posts: 141
    edited May 2007

    I was unable to start chemo again....my infection is much worse. It came back even stronger after I took the decadron. I am getting scheduled for an ultrasound and am back on antibiotics....hope to get started in about 2 weeks if we can get this cleared. If it doesn't get much better I'm off to infectious disease....ugh!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2007
    Nadola, I am glad to hear you're feeling better and by all means - take good care of yourself and cocoon as much as you need to! If we can't justify pampering oursleves now than when can we??? (Not that I've ever had a problem or needed an excuse to pamper myself!!) I'm on the other side of the country in Alberta - so I have to drive to get to the sandy beaches...we have a cottage in the vineyard rented for the first 2 weeks of August in the Okanogan in BC...keeping my fingers crossed for no delays to keep this holiday booked!!

    AzWillow - I hope you're feeling better soon - I am so sorry that the anti-nausea meds aren't working very well. Our chemo nurse told us that we should never have to vomit...she said there are many different anti-nausea meds and if some don't work for you they'll give you others next time. I also read (or heard) that nausea is the worst in the first 24 hours and then up to the next 3 days after treatment so hopefully you are out of the woods now!

    Katymom - I am so very sorry to hear about your delays in getting started. We get so worked up over this treatment - we finally get our dates then wait to get going...I can only imagine your frustration at having to wait - and having to deal with this nasty infection. I am sending you lots of positive energy and healing thoughts so you can get over this and move on to treatment. Take care of yourself.

    Hope everyone else is having a good night...hugs to you all (we can all use more hugs!)
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    I'll start with lots of hugs this time!

    My headache from last night may have been from the steroids or the Zofran the nurse told me this morning - not necessarily the Emend so I took the second one this morning and it didn't intensify. It had eased a lot by mid-morning and was almost completely gone in the afternoon. Then I took tonights Zofran and have only felt it mildly so far. So with any luck it was a one night affair!

    I got the Neulast shot today - quick and painless in the arm. Started to feel a little tiny bit of bone pain in my legs later in the evening but that could be just because I'm so tired. I actually went to the store for a quick grocery run, loaded and ran the dishwasher, made a melted sandwich for dinner and washed a load of clothes! And drank and drank water all day. (I also laid around in bed quite a bit today, so don't get the wrong impression!)

    The point is we can do this!

    Hugs again,

    Sheree
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Amy - how did it go? Keep us posted.

    Hugs,

    Sheree
  • allgone
    allgone Member Posts: 16
    edited May 2007
    Hi, everyone!! I hope I am doing this correctly, I have never posted on a board before.
    March 19th 2007 was the day I received my pathology report. I have Breast Cancer. I NEVER expected to hear those words, nevertheless it is just something I have to deal with. I had a partial masc, and some sentinole nodes removed. Clear margins, and no node involment. Lump was 4.5 cm. So I am stage 2, er+, her-. In 2 weeks I will be having a partial masc, on the other side (right) as 2 small lumps were found on an ultrasound that I requested, one is 3mm and the other is 7mm. Surgery is taking place in 2 weeks. I should of been starting chemo by now but they need to know if I have bilaterial bc before they start the chemo. Then I will be doing radiation and tomxifin. All my scans, x-rays and ultrasounds are clear. I am anxious to get on with the treatments ( how wrong does that sound??)I feel sooooo healthy yet I have a horrible disease!! I don't know how I feel about starting chemo, mixed feelings I guess. I don't want it yet I can't wait for it to start. Thanks for listening and I will chat with you all later!!
  • Myrajuc
    Myrajuc Member Posts: 117
    edited May 2007
    Sheree,

    Are you getting DD AC? You can ask the nurse to slow down the infusion for you. The adriamycin the nurse pushes for 30 minutes, ask for it to be 45 minutes. The Cytoxan which is a drip, ask to extend 30 more minutes. It worked for me, no more headaches.

    I had 3 DD AC, and 12 weekly Taxol. Even if it was longer, as long as I didn't get headache, I didn't mind the wait.

    Try it. Hope it helps,
    Myra
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Thanks, Myra.

    That sure was a deadly headache so I'd be willing to spend a little more time if I don't have to get it! I am getting DD AC. I'll have four of those (every other week) and then 4 Taxotere (every other week as well). Followed by Tamoxifin, of course. When I spoke to the nurse she thought is could be the steroids though. What do you think of that - slowing the drip really made a difference? I didn't really get the headache until later on that night.

    Thanks and power to you,

    Sheree
  • chemo072
    chemo072 Member Posts: 682
    edited June 2008
    The emmends was fine, the Adriamycin was fine, the Cytoxan gave me a wicked headache on the pre-migraine side of things even though the nurse slowed the drip down twice. Have been taking compazne every 4 hours (expept for one period through the night when I slept ) and took the dexamethazone as prescribed, thought it would wake me up but amy very sleepy.

    Point is, so far, so good. But a lttile constripated depsite taking senna and ducosolate after main meals...not worried yet, but getting there. It's been 24 hours.

    Off to get the neulasta shot, quite scared of the bone pain.
    Sherree, what is Celebrex? And how does it help with pain??
    and sorry about your headache!!

    My headache came right on with the Cytoxan, so the cause and effect were pretty clear for me.

    Off to nap for 5 minutes while mom makes me lunch

    best wishes all, tell it like it is...
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Amy,

    I'm so glad to hear you're doing ok. I was a little worried when we didn't hear from you sooner. Good for you!

    Celebrex is a medicine used to treat people with chronic pain like arthritis. It's in the same class as ibuprofen - an non-steroid anti-inflamatory, but seems more effective in the short run for me. I use 800mg Ibuprofen normally but I'd been on Celebrex before and the nurse thought it might help head off the bone pain at the pass. So far, so good!

    Linda - thanks for the heart-racing warning! I started feeling that way just trying to get ready to shower this morning and I remembered what you said. It calmed me to know this was not entirely unexpected.

    We can do this!

    Sheree
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Hey allgone,

    Welcome to a great group none of us wanted to join!

    I think so many of us have felt the same way you do. I know I certainly did! I discovered my lump right before Christmas, had a dx mammo in Jan, then in Feb the ultrasound and biopsy. The surgeon's staff messed up and I had to wait an extra two weeks for that! Then I had a lumpectomy on Feb 27 w node+ and too close of margins and had a re-excisional on Mar 13th - margins still too close and may have DCIS left so now I need a full mast. Then got a second opinion on removing one or both as well - whew! I finally got it all together along with the rest of my team but it was taking so long my onc decided it was best to go on and have chemo and get the mast afterwards. I kept feeling like I was taking two steps back when all I wanted to do was keep putting one foot in front of the other and get moving on this fight! Everyone agreed so I started my chemo this week.

    It's such an anxiety ridden experience to begin with and having to wait is overwhelming to me and many others women who post here.

    You are definately not alone here! Hugs and strength to you,

    Sheree
  • sherry35
    sherry35 Member Posts: 409
    edited May 2007
    Hello ladies,
    I hope i'm not too late too join the May group. My name is Sherry, I'm 35 and had my first meeting with the onc. today. I will be starting chemo within the next 2-3 weeks. I've been using the chat room alot and found this board today. I've read through it and it is all so overwhelming, especially with all of the info. I was given today.
    I found my lump 2 days before my 35th birthday. My family doc thought it was nothing, but sent me for a mammo and ultrasound to soothe my nerves. My biopsy was March 7, and diagnosis was confirmed on March 14. IDC. Had right mastectomy on April 9.
    I'm glad to have your experience and support here. At the moment I'm overwhelmed and scared. I had a larger tumour than originally thought, 4.5x4x3cm, 23 nodes positive, er pos., her2 pos, and possible mets to other lymph nodes and as if that wasn't enough, a spot on one lung that could or could not be related.
    I've had alot of time to deal with this and knew i would be having chemo, but I never thought it was this extreme. I will do everything in my power to kick this cancer's butt.
    So in advance I thank you, and I hope that I can be of some use to all of you as well. I hate that we have all had to join this group, but at least now we aren't going it alone.
    When I can remember more details, without babbling, I will post again.
    Hugs and Prayers,
    Sherry
    PS As a canadian girl, it's nice to have some other canucks here to chat with.
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Welcome Sherry! I'm sure I can speak for everyone when I say of course you're not too late.

    Sorry to see you had to join us but like we all know, at least we're not alone. I just came on to check a quick symptom and am pretty tired. But I saw your post and had to take a moment to say hello. I wish you the best in this battle and will pray for you to have strength.

    Big hugs,

    Sheree
  • cinrae123
    cinrae123 Member Posts: 419
    edited May 2007
    Hey girls,,,,,,,,,sounds like everyone is doing ok except a few headaches,,,,,,,which must suck,,,,sorry to hear that. Starting on Monday the 7th,,,,,,,,ooooooo the joy. Have a good weekend girls,,,,,,,,,
    Cindy
  • katymom
    katymom Member Posts: 141
    edited May 2007

    Thanks....Today I turned 50! At least I still felt like eating since my chemo was post-poned!

  • katymom
    katymom Member Posts: 141
    edited May 2007

    I didn't get to start chemo yesterday....white cells tripled after I had the decadron....seems to be an underlying infection. I had an ultrasound today....it was fine....we'll see what the next step is...

  • chemo072
    chemo072 Member Posts: 682
    edited June 2008
    Quote:

    Hello ladies,
    I hope i'm not too late too join the May group. My name is Sherry, I'm 35 and had my first meeting with the onc. today. I will be starting chemo within the next 2-3 weeks. I've been using the chat room alot and found this board today. I've read through it and it is all so overwhelming, especially with all of the info. I was given today.
    I found my lump 2 days before my 35th birthday. My family doc thought it was nothing, but sent me for a mammo and ultrasound to soothe my nerves. My biopsy was March 7, and diagnosis was confirmed on March 14. IDC. Had right mastectomy on April 9.
    I'm glad to have your experience and support here. At the moment I'm overwhelmed and scared. I had a larger tumour than originally thought, 4.5x4x3cm, 23 nodes positive, er pos., her2 pos, and possible mets to other lymph nodes and as if that wasn't enough, a spot on one lung that could or could not be related.
    I've had alot of time to deal with this and knew i would be having chemo, but I never thought it was this extreme. I will do everything in my power to kick this cancer's butt.
    So in advance I thank you, and I hope that I can be of some use to all of you as well. I hate that we have all had to join this group, but at least now we aren't going it alone.
    When I can remember more details, without babbling, I will post again.
    Hugs and Prayers,
    Sherry
    PS As a canadian girl, it's nice to have some other canucks here to chat with.




    Sheesh, some way to soothe your nerves. I'm so sorry to hear about all the node involvement. You're about 10 days after me in mastectomy, I assume that your drains are out by now? That's when things started to get much better for me.

    All those nodes....wow. On the positive side, I do have a cousin who is a pathologist and she got to look at a tumor taken out after chemo and she said the chemo had really, really worked - those cancer cells were dead, dead, dead.

    So, hope your chemo starts soon and kicks all those little cancer cells far far away from you!

    Welcome! From a very sleepy me - day 2 of DD AC, first day of neulasta and zoladex shots.
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2007
    Welcome Sherry35 (sorry you had to join us but glad you found us!) We are a good group here in the May starters!

    Cindy, Wedbiz and Iwy - thinking of you this weekend as you prepare for Monday (it really won't be as bad as you think :-) Sending you positive energy!

    Katymom HAPPY 50TH BIRTHDAY!!! Eat lots of birthday cake, make lots of wishes and have some FUN - you SOOOOO deserve it! Hope you're feeling well and can get that darned infection under control!

    I'd love to "get to know you" all a little better...

    Where is everyone from and what are your occupations, interests, favourite activities, passions etc.??? (I am a naturally curious person so would love to put some "personalitlies" to our names!

    I guess I should start:

    Age 42
    Alberta, Canada
    Married w/ 2 kids - girl 13, boy 10
    2 cats (used to also have 2 dogs and 2 rabbits and 2 other cats but sadly they are gone now - all lived long lives)
    Occupation: Coordinator of Volunteer Services and Special Events in a non profit organization - FUN job! (I used to have a different career in my previous life (before kids) and I had my own design business - I designed trade fair booths, fashion show stages, window displays, company logos, etc.) Fun job too but I felt I was meant to do something more with my life that involved helping others.
    Passions: Animals, Running, Volleyball, pretty much all sports, music (listening - not playing), my family, my hubby,entertaining, hiking, friends, art, sushi and chocolate.

    When you're feeling up to it - I'd love to hear more about all of you!

    Have a great weekend everyone!
    Mandy
  • jlg55
    jlg55 Member Posts: 8
    edited May 2007

    I'm seeing a medical onc on Monday and I will be joining the May group I am sure. I had a lumpectomy on March 5, reexision on March 15 and then mammosite rads. I have put off the chemo long enough and know I have to do it. I am scared witless. I have been reading this post and it already helping to have sisters going through this.

  • sunshine123
    sunshine123 Member Posts: 31
    edited May 2007
    Hey, guys. I was glad to read about the people starting chemo in May...I'd like to have 'chemo buddies' to help get through this. I was diagnosed with DCIS last year and had bilateral mast, and a few weeks ago had surgery to put in saline implants, and my p/s sent biopsies of abnormal tissue. The biopsies came back positive for a 1.1 cm. invasive ductal carcinoma tumor.

    This week I'm having my MUGA/bone scan/port placement, and I'll be starting chemo a week or two after that.

    I'm only 28, no kids, but my onc told me that egg freezing isn't an option for me because they have to give you hormones to make you ovulate, and my tumor is ER/PR +. So that's something I'll just have to worry about down the road (after I finish 5 years of Tamoxifen).

    I'll check in with you guys in a few days to see where we all are in treatment.
  • sherry35
    sherry35 Member Posts: 409
    edited May 2007
    Sunshine,
    nice to see you, we talked in the chat room last night.
    I will be getting a port in the next couple of weeks, have a MUGA and ecg, see my dentist, and see another onc. for further consult.
    Sorry for all the whining yesterday, I was quite overwhelmed. I woke up sad this morning, and then thought why be sad, I woke up. Too many things to live for and being positive can only help.
    I went and got the biotene mouthwash and a soft toothbrush, thanks louloubelle. I've also asked a friend to do some wig fittings. I love the idea of naming your wig, thanks nosurrender.
    You have already helped me, thanks.
    Good luck to all starting Monday, my thoughts and prayers will be with you.
    Sherry
  • QueenSansaStark
    QueenSansaStark Member Posts: 207
    edited May 2007
    Welcome to all the newbies, and, Linda, thank you for checking in with a veteran's perspective!

    I had my first TAC on Wednesday. I'm in a clinical trial, and my arm is TAC (taxotere/adriamycin/cytoxan) every 3 weeks. So far I'm doing well. The very worst part has been the FRINKIN' DECADRON which I HATE with the fury of a thousand white-hot suns. It makes me psychotic. So I got permission to only take it day before and day of the Taxotere. Otherwise I feel like a speed freak!

    I'm downing soup and popsicles and having a pretty good time. I hope all my treatments go well!
  • sylayne
    sylayne Member Posts: 26
    edited May 2007
    Good morning May sisters,

    Thought I'd post a quick update. This is day five after my first DD AC on Wed 5/3.

    Just to let you know what I've experienced, definately NOT to whine: After the first night's headache from h*ll and the stupid heartburn (arrghhhh) it hasn't been bad at all. Oops - on previewing, I guess I whined a little bit . I've had a hard time with appetitie but no nausea. I do get hiccups which is kinda funny - they don't last long. I started feeling a little achy on Friday, mostly in my neck. As the day went on all the little muscles in my chest, upper back, and upper arms became sore. Eventually the stomach muscles became a little sore (is this the "flu like" deal I've heard about?). Wasn't too bad after the neck cooled out but it was noticeable. All the soreness started dying down pretty quickly and I woke up this morning feeling rather normal. Yippee! Other than seeming to tire pretty easy (that could be depression) and not sleeping well (that's not new to me, either) it hasn't been bad at all, really.

    Not sure if I posted it, but I got my hair cut pretty short on Friday - everybody loves it! Says I should have done it sooner (I'm 48 and have had long hair most of my life).

    All in all, this first course of chemo doesn't seem too bad. Good luck to everyone else. I'm so glad to be able to come here.

    Hugs,

    Sheree
  • sunshine123
    sunshine123 Member Posts: 31
    edited May 2007
    Hi, Sherry. I don't think you EVER need to apologize for any venting you do on this site! That's what we're all here for. I hope your appointments go well...I have my port placement in a few days, but thankfully they're knocking me out for that, so hopefully it's not a big deal.

    Let me know how you're doing...I'm glad today's a better day for you.
  • allgone
    allgone Member Posts: 16
    edited May 2007
    Hi all,

    Katymom - HAPPY BIRTHDAY ( I know it is belated, I haven't been on the site since you posted)

    Sunshine - Extra thoughts will be with you when you get your port in.

    I have a quick question....
    Does anyone know how long it takes for the swelling to go down after a partial masectomy?? the fluid is gone now (at least I don't hear it) and it is begining to feel alot more normal like. The breast is still larger then my other side even though my onc said he took out alot of breast tissue.... (sorry about so much detail)
    anyway, my thoughts and prayers will be with everyone on Monday....

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