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First, congratulations on completing chemo! I hope you celebrated by doing something special! Our dx look almost identical and the tx is pretty similar as well. I completed my 4 cycles of AC in the middle of January...ummm that was brutal. I had my first Taxol + Carbo + Keytruda on January 25, however my last two weeks of Taxol had to be skipped due to my counts being too low. My MO sent in a prior auth for Neuprogen in order to stimulate my bone marrow so I can continue on my current regimen, however my insurance company denied the request. I was a complete wreck this past Tuesday. I had to allow myself to be in my emotions for that day and then with the help of positive quotes and devotionals, I found the strength to dust myself off and find my positivity and fight again.
I feel exactly how you do....how does missing two treatments affect my chance of PCR? Will we have to go to a less aggressive tx regimen if she cannot convince insurance to approve the Neuprogen? Will she recommend tacking those two doses on or just drop them? The questions go on and on...
In love,
PRbonita45
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Hi everyone. It has been a while since I have been on these boards. Nice to see some familiar names. To the new people on here, I'm sorry that you joined the club no one wants to be a part of. Thankfully/gratefully, I have been doing well. I just had my 3 year check up with my oncologist and all seems well. My mammogram is scheduled in a couple of weeks. Of course I'm not officially at the 3 year mark until my surgery anniversary in August. Praying that we all heal or continue to stay healthy. I will never forget how these boards saved me from feeling alone. Anyway, just wanted to chime in to say hello.
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notdefined - that's so great that your 3 year check up went well! Praying that everything looks good on the mammogram in August. Thanks for coming back to share. Wishing you all the best.
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hi all;
I wanted to check in to say that my three year check in February was all clear! This community is such a great support and I don't post often but wanted to let you all know!
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Notdefined and Farfalla6:
So glad to hear that you guys are doing well and that you hit year 3. Thanks for sharing the good news.
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Making it three for three in the triple neg group, I'll chime in and say I made it safely to the end of my third year, too. Surgery was in December 2018 and March 7, just three (another three!) days ago marked the last chemo. Thank you to everyone here for just being there and knowing what it's been like.
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Great news Piperkay. Thanks for sharing.
On a completely different topic,I noticed that some use Dx dates to calculate the 3 and 5 year marks and some use surgery dates. For those that have surgery before chemo, it doesn’t seem to be that different in time, but for those of us that have had neoadjuvent chemo before surgery, the calculation is extended by at least 6 months. Most of the articles I’ve read use Dx dates to calculate the time, but I’ve met with several doctors (MO, RO, BS, second and third MO) and they do not have a consensus on what date to use when you have neoadjuvent chemo. I thought most of the statistics on recurrence used Dx dates. Is there new data which explains why surgery dates are used?
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I think that is a very valid point, norcals. I did not consult any studies when I decided to use my surgery date to calculate my three year mark. Just thought that because I had surgery first, there would be no other way to calculate it. Tumor was out, and no testing after chemo was done and no testing after radiation was done to determine what effect either of those might have had. And certainly the time between diagnosis and the beginning of any treatment must vary quite widely as would the dates between the time the tumor actually developed and the time of diagnosis. So for me, surgery is the only reliable date, the only one that makes sense for me.
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So happy for all of you. Almost 4 1/2 years now since surgery. Thanks to everyone here for the good company.
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Piperkay,
Thank you for your response. When I asked my doctors, they all had their own valid reasons for using the dates (Dx or surgery or end of treatment) to calculate the 3 and 5 year “end dates.” I think that the older statistics for recurrence used the Dx dates and also the older definition of TNBC. So, when they looked at data for recurrence, they used Dx dates to see when patients were most likely the recur. For example, an article I read, using data of patients that were diagnosed with TNBC prior to 2015, showed that 75% of recurrence occurred before the third year from diagnosis and the median date of recurrence from the sample of patients was 1.7 years (so all of sample patients that had a recurrence had it by 3 years and 8 months). I know this is nit-picky, but as I get closer to my 3rd year, I’ve become a little obsessed with knowing the exact date for year 3.
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Romashka,
Thank you for posting and sharing the good news.
Whenever a TNBC member posts this good news, I get very hopeful. It really lifts my spirits to hear that the treatments do work for many TNBC patients. So thank you, Notdefined, Farfalla6, and Piperkay for helping me and otherswho are still holding our breaths and waiting for year 3 and 5 to come and go.
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I totally understand, norcals! I think I may be pretty close to those statistics anyway, though, because surgery was only about a month after initial diagnosis. And actually, my TNBC diagnosis was only confirmed after surgery because the initial test was inconclusive. Those with neo-adjuvant chemo have a significantly longer period between diagnosis and surgery, and that time makes a real difference, I would think, in the overall analysis.
And hooray for you, Romashka!
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Congratulations on 3 & 4 years!! That’s lovely to hear. Just heard of a 12 year thriver of TNBC so that made me super happy. I hope we all can get there +++ and that the TNBC vaccine is here soon
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Hi PiperKay and Farfalla6 so glad to hear you crossed the 3 year mark!
Norcals, I agree that it is interesting that people use the different dates. I had neoadjuvant chemo, and I thought I could use the diagnosis date. That would put me at 3 years and 1 month. But my oncologist insists that it is the surgery date.
My mammogram came back clean thankfully. Sending healing and good health thoughts to all of you ladies.
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Today marks five years since my double mastectomy. My "cancerversary ".
Can't believe I made it. I wish, like so many others on this thread, I could know I was I was out of the woods, cancer wise, but unfortunately I had hormone positive cancer as well. But at least it's one less thing to stress over.
Hope everyone is well.
Trish
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trishyla, congrats on hitting the 5th year mark.
Notdefined, it looks like we’re a few months apart in our Dx and surgery dates. I have a CT scheduled in the next several weeks…hopefully, the CT will be clean. I’ll be glad when we don’t need so many tests and scans
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Trishyla - Congratulations on hitting 5 years!!
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Hi everyone,
I finished chemo (TC + AC + Keytruda) and had my DMX. I’m recovering well luckily but my pathology report came back with a RCB-II. I have been unable to recover from this emotionally. My MO says that there’s a 50/50 chance of reoccurrence and I feel hopeless. Anyone with and RBC-II success story? Thank you and God bless
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Hi Arjal.
I totally understand how you feel. It is a rollercoaster. After 4 AC-T and a few taxol treatments, MO felt that the chemo wasn’t working and I was enrolled in a clinical trial at MD Anderson. Right before I was going to move to Texas (I live in california), they took an MRI and it showed a complete imaging response (so my MRI went from 5+ cm of IDC to zero). So I cancelled the move and continued on with taxol. I was really hopeful for a PCR after the MRI result. Unfortunately, the pathology after surgery showed one positive sentinel node and multiple isolated tumor cells and IDC still in tumor bed. I cried when I saw my pathology report because I knew that there was at least a 70% chance of recurrence (I was stage IIIc/IV at diagnosis). Well, I had radiation (top of neck to bottom of ribs) and Xeloda after surgery. It’s almost 3 years from diagnosis without a recurrence (knock on wood). This is a tough journey. I have seen your post and you have been doing everything you can. In fact, you have survived through some very hard treatment. Hopefully, your team will help you move forward. There’s more treatment to come. Most TBNC will get Xeloda or more immunotherapy. We’re here for you and we understand.
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Hi Norcals,
Thank you for your kind and encouraging words. Your story gives me hope and I pray you continue to thrive. Yes, I’ll be doing radiation and Xeloda. I am also being screened for a clinical trial. It just really sucks to have residual, it feels like the bad news never end. I try to not live in fear and just enjoy each day but it is so hard at times. I know that Xeloda helps some but not others, hopefully it will help me. Hugs to you, have a blessed day! Thank you for being there
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Arjal - I can empathize with what you are going through. At week 9 of 12 taxol tx I could feel my tumor had grown. The MRI imaging from a week prior did not show the growth and I could not feel it so when I could physically feel the lump a week later, I freaked out. Had my BMX a month later and sure enough, one positive node. It was decided by two RO's that I did not need rads; started Xeloda 6 weeks later, but had to be taken off after 3 cycles as my body just couldn't handle it. A month after stopping Xeloda, I found a lump about a half an inch away from the original tumor. It was ignored (brushed off as a blemish) until July when I had my exchange to implants, when the biopsy came back positive. I was floored. Had to do 5 weeks rads and am now scheduled for more surgery later this summer after I finish Xeloda.
You are not alone, we are all here for you!
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Hi Serendipity09,
Thank you for sharing, it’s a tough road isn’t it? I hope that you are doing better on Xeloda. I’ll be joining you soon. While the circumstances are not ideal I’m thankful to find sisters that understand. It makes the road less lonely, thank you for being there.Healing hugs to you!
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Hello everyone - I've been waiting on my FISH and it's today. Officially TNBC. Trying to learn all I can.
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Hi Wolfgang,
I have TNBC via fish too. There are good treatments, you can do it! We are here for you.
Best,
Mama
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~waves~ A blast from the past, checking in with all the TN peeps as I go about updating my passwords on all the sites I've used to save my privacy. I see there are some things have changed in the forums! I'm still here and it's been a helluva trip. After surviving TN, I developed a second head neck cancer 3 years after the breast cancer and had to deal with that brutal treatment. I'm sorta okay now, dealing with long term radiation side effects, neck pain from scarring along with dental issues, thyroid, etc.,
I want to read more about the new treatments and what is working.
I was diagnosed in 2012. Some of my profile seems to be missing and all my saved articles. I guess they had to upgrade.
Hang in there and keep moving.
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thank you for checking in QueenKong! Oh my, that is just cruel, head/neck cancer after BC!! I am very sorry to hear that. Glad the brutal treatments are behind you. I hope dental issues & other SE will be manageable. Hang in there!
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Mamacure I have known several cases of BC women getting secondary cancers and surviving. Unbelievable that it struck again but chemo & radiation are also risk factors. Troopers all for going through that!
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Thank you lovemyvizla for the hopeful article!
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Good morning all, stage 3 triple neg breast cancer, 2 years out, now going in for lung biopsy for many new nodules, Wish me luck. I will be in hospital a few days with chest tube. I just hope and pray benign.
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