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  • Beaverntx
    Beaverntx Member Posts: 3,183
    edited February 2022

    Yea for ten years!!!

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    Eric, so wonderful for Sharon!! I'll be starting year 16 in April. What are Sharon's stats?

    35 cubic feet. YIKES on that freezer size. Do tell me how you keep it organized.


    Had leftover salmon and will make grass-fed beef ragu for tomorrow.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited February 2022

    It's upright freezer, which helps. 95% of the freezer holds only orange juice and rhe remaining space takes care if "everything else". Organizing that is easy! :-)

    As the orange juice is used, we will add to the "everything else" and then we have to be more careful.


  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited February 2022

    She was stage 3a, ER+ PR+ HER-, 8 of 12 nodes positive and a couple of nodes had extensions.

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2022

    Eric, mazel tov to Sharon on 10 years!

    Wally, it breaks my heart to learn that QFC is now Kroger-owned. Kroger basically Wal-Mart-i-fies every chain it takes over and sucks the life and distinction out of it. Mariano's (founded in Milwaukee by the guy who ran Dominick's before it closed, and which replaced a lot of Dominick's plus building a few stores from the ground up) started out like QFC was in the '70s: upscale, lots of variety, fantastic fresh produce/meats/fish; plus in the from-the-ground-up stores stuff QFC didn't have: in-house BBQs, oyster & sushi bars, pizza by the slice, great produce/fish/meats, a huge kosher section in Jewish neighborhoods, wine bar (with jazz trios) and liquor dept., quality prepared foods replenished often. The Marianos that went into defrocked Dominick's stores--especially in less-upscale neighborhoods (there weren't any in really poor 'hoods, which rely on corner shops)--had smaller produce selections whose wares often went bad within a day or two of purchase, hot food bars that sat out forever till they looked like bad truck stops, with street people and bus drivers awaiting shift change occupying the tables so paying customers couldn't sit down to eat (not that the food was palatable). But then Mariano's was taken over by the Milwaukee midrange chain Roundy's and the quality of even the bigger stores began to slip--and then Kroger bought Roundy's too, including all the Mariano's stores. No more oyster bars, the BBQs & sushi bars have only prepacked stuff, they fired all the experts in the wine & liquor depts., etc. And this even started happening pre-pandemic.

    Speaking of "what's for dinner?" I'm a little p.o.'ed right now. Bob decided to take on more consults, grab cafeteria dinner, and won't be coming home till after midnight. I busted my butt preparing stuff to make the leftovers seem a lot less "left over," all the while dealing with the cats. So I have to portion out and heat (including making wild mushroom medley from scratch) only what I intend to eat--and the cats (especially Happy) will be hassling me while I eat in front of the TV. (Without Bob, It's on me alone to keep shooing them from the table). Not just that, we're having friends over for Super Bowl, and it's on me to put out the spread---because he doesn't know how. He's never lived alone (he's always had women wait on him) and can't even set a table no matter how many times I show him how (his parents were introverts who never had company or dined out and had terrible table manners--not to mention clutter everywhere). And tomorrow he wants to go to buffet brunch in Rosemont at either Fogo de Chao or the casino (to place a Super Bowl bet--he won't use a sportsbook app because he thinks they foster addiction). Now, the last thing I want to do on a cold morning is drive on icy roads all the way out past O'Hare, jockey for parking, and "consume mass quantities" (as the Coneheads used to say) with noisy crowds--especially when we have to come home and I have to clean up his clutter (every surface is his desk) and put out food for our guests. And of course, still maintain the eating and litterbox schedules for two aging and demanding cats.

    Thanks for letting me rant--I never get to. I know he works so hard and deserves to enjoy himself, but it still fries me when I have to do all the work (and driving) when he's not at work--and I never know when to get food prepared and on the table.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    ChiSandy - sorry to hear your Krogers stores are so bad. But don't bash the whole chain. Our Krogers have fresh sushi made while you watch, bread hot out of the oven and many even have tables in their wine departments with curated tastings & selections. Don't get me wrong - I like other stores for different things, but as a regular store for convenience & value - it's Kroger. I drive 30 miles one way to buy groceries, but would not set foot in the WalMart that is 5 minutes away.

    Eric - woo hoo - 10 years. Hope you'll give Sharon a hug from all of us. Personally I count from my first treatment. I know we all use different "cancerversary dates", but next week will be 11 years for me from my initial BMX surgery. I'm looking down the road to get to 10 years AFTER the LAST treatment, which will still be a couple of years yet.

    Nance - sounds like you already do mostly healthy cooking.

    My niece & her husband were here from 2-6:30 for some serious talk, so I didn't make the cod that I'd defrosted, or the fresh asparagus, or the potatoes. In fact I was so tired that I opened a can of Beenie Weenies and a can of B&M Brown Bread and called it done.

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2022

    Bob just got home and admitted that the last thing he wants to do tomorrow is get up early, drive out to Rosemont (I always get lost, even with GPS because the town keeps changing traffic patterns), pig out, and then immediately rush to get the place ready for our friends. No betting--he'll wait till we can visit our Vegas timeshare sometime this year (or Harrah's along the Riverwalk in NOLA the day we arrive for the wedding). We'll walk across the street to Beard & Belly for a light brunch (quiche & salad, leave the crust, for me; small hand pies & salad for him). He brought home a shrimp wheel from Jewel and a tin of cookies (glazed sour cream rosettes) baked by a long-time patient. Those will go on the Super Bowl table tomorrow. One friend is bringing hummus (we have some open, along with babaghannouj and half a jar of taramosalata, but I don't feel right serving stuff we've already opened) and another is bringing bean dip & queso. I have Kettle & Terra Chips (the blue potato, batata, & sweet potato assortment), two kinds of tortilla chips, Finn-Crisps, crudites and plain pork rinds (the latter two to keep me away from the carbs). I'll also put out various cheeses, salmon & whitefish roes, and jamon Iberico. If anyone wants something hot, I do have a bag of AnyTizers hot wings in the freezer I can nuke if need be.

    There are very, very few things that would cause me to enter a Wal-Mart. Most of my grocery shopping is split between the Whole Foods around the corner, the Jewel in Evanston (which has an even bigger kosher section than Mariano's in Lincolnwood), and Instacart or Amazon Fresh. Sometimes, Target if I'm there for something else. In summer, the farmers' markets (and the gourmet grocery in west Lincoln Park during fresh local strawberry season). For meat & salmon, our Butcher Box subscription and for fish Hooked on Fish (if I like the week's two Fishmonger's Choices). I order the latter online on Sat. or Sun. and pick it up on Tues. I rarely set foot in bakeries or donut shops--way too dangerous.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    I think there's a generation of men who think either kitchen work is "beneath" them or they have been spoiled and it never occurs to them that gender roles are not carved in stone. I've seen enough men pull themselves out of that quagmire and can excel in "domestic arts" if push came to shove. I've told DH too many times that I need a wife, LOL.

    When we lived in WI, Roundys was a Pickn'Save and it was barely OK. When Sendiks started spreading out, it was nirvana. A real, old fashioned store with decent prices if you watched what was in season, and clean, organized and plentiful. Great wine selection and the CHEESE!!! was to die for.

    Out here, we live on a peninsula; not heavily populated so not a lot of choices. There's one fish monger, a tiny wine seller, a "health food co-op" type store, a small coffee roaster and the QFC/SAFEWAY franchise. The only box-store allowed here was a McDonalds, otherwise nothing else.

    I've gone into the Walmart in Sequim when I simply do not want to buy Costco sized products. It is great for frozen veggies/fruits and pet food. Occasionally, the produce looks great, but not often. Things like sweet potatoes, mushrooms, avocados are the best prices around here and decent looking.

    I've thawed some grass-fed ground beef and will make the ragu. If anyone has a recipe they love, I'll happily look at it, otherwise I'll use the Huffington Post recipe they have after intervieweing three "Nonnas."



  • serendipity09
    serendipity09 Member Posts: 732
    edited February 2022

    The local Pick N Save (Kroeger) is nice, plus it's walking distance. I will usually stop at Sendiks or a Metro Mart (also owned by Kroegers) if I'm out and about or going to an appointment (which is very often).The Metro Marts are the ones' that offer the on site oyster and sushi bars, fish baked bread and have the wine bars. They're so nice. We have two really nice Cermaks; usually where I'll but my root vegetables or any other Spanish groceries I need.

    Some of Chicago's finest will be coming over to watch the game and they had special requests; so the Super Bowl menu will be PR rice, grilled filets, shrimp and chicken wings with a spicy guava bbq sauce (they'll be doing the grilling as it's too cold for me), tostones (fried plantains) with a chimichurri sauce and garlic mojo, cheesy meatball sliders, spinach and artichoke bread bowl, taco dip, a charcuterie board, guava/cream cheese pastelillos (pastries) and a chocolate cake.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited February 2022

    My parents, and my mom's parents both pretty much did whatever needed to get done, although there were some preferences about "who did what". However, the "who did what" didn't follow the normal 1950s gender roles.

    I guess I followed their example. :-)

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    Eric, females of the world applaud, laud and love you guys!!

    I tweaked the Huff post recipe by adding cream. So many ragu recipes added milk (we never have it in the house) and some used cream. This recipe had neither, but I needed to use it up, so in it went. LOTS of leftovers. Turned out beautifully!

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2022

    Serendipity, we have a Cermak nearby on Ridge Blvd. in West Ridge/W. Rogers Park. (Used to be a mega-Dominick's). They have the largest produce dept, and the organic section is decent and fresh. I like the variety of Asian & Latin/Caribbean veg & fruits. Their hot bar has carnitas for $5/lb--great for keto. The one on S. Cicero & State Rd. (en route to my husband's hospitals & office in Evergreen Park & Oak Lawn/Chicago Ridge) has a kettle with real tamales (steamed in cornhusks, various fillings) replenished every couple of hours and labeled with the time--sort of like the stickers on the containers of rotisserie chickens. There's a Fresh Farms in Niles that has a massive selection of int'l foods (including E. Asian, Indian, Hispanic, E. European, Greek) and a huge seafood section with very reasonable prices. It's a pain in the butt driving out there, but I occasionally stop by after filling up on gas at Costco.

  • serendipity09
    serendipity09 Member Posts: 732
    edited February 2022

    Cermak opened here about 10 years ago. There are only 2 stores locally. I remember driving down to Chicago to go to the Cermak on North Ave to get our produce. The stores here have the hot bar and yes, I agree their carnitas are very good. They also have a wonderful cheese selection.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    That is one thing I miss dearly...all the ethnic stores and bigger stores, carrying ethnic ingredients. Unless we take a ferry or drive hours to get to Seattle, nothin' here.

  • Reader425
    Reader425 Member Posts: 653
    edited February 2022

    I made a steak and mushroom thing, over diced potatos and onions in the crockpot for my sweetie tonight. Appetizer was shrimp cocktail (from the freezer - only so-so) and made ice cream in a pampered chef mini maker for desert. Can't beat 4 ingredient ice- cream with only 8 g of sugar serving. ( DH is diabetic so this was a treat). Also had a lovely California red table wine with a bulldog on the label (?) All in all satisfactory and DH felt special. ❤ Hope everyone had a loving day however you spent it.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    Yesterday was poached lemon-pepper cod served with creamed peas & new potatoes.

    Today the 2nd codpiece (just couldn't resist if there any other Shakespeare fans out there) was added to sauteed onions, peppers & Rao's Marinara. It was enough with no other sides.

    edited for spelling

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    Minus, LOL.

    How did you make your creamed peas?

    We had leftover ragu. Boy did I eat too much Probably more leftovers tomorrow.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    Wally - I'm trying to use up things that are either leftover in the fridge/freezer or have been in the cupboard too long. I just made a basic white sauce, added the leftover green peas & (horrors) 1/2 a can of Del Monte whole new potatoes. I bought the can for emergency supplies for one of our hurricanes or freezes. I figured since I remember my Dad loving these in the 1950s (probably the last time I ate them), they couldn't be too bad. Well - they were canned potatoes, but palatable. I thought about adding spices or chili power to liven them up, but I was trying to replicate something from my childhood. I'll toss the rest of the can in a soup or stew.

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited February 2022

    minus - codpiece, lol! My Shakespeare class in college was one of my faves. I too have a soft spot for the canned potatoes, and it is def a childhood thing. I have used them for a kind of home fries thing - blot the moisture off the potatoes, halve or slice if needed - I have also used the sliced Del Monte ones, and saute with onion and my house seasoning (1/3 each garlic powder, pepper, and Lawry's seasoned salt in a shaker jar) for a trip in the way back machine with Mr. Peabody.

  • CeliaC
    CeliaC Member Posts: 1,320
    edited February 2022

    Hello all - have not posted in awhile and just completed catching up on reading the postings.

    Kroger HQ is just across the river in Cinci, so I believe we get some better items in the local stores, especially in the mega-store in downtown Cinci. My personal go-to store is Trader Joe's, now that we have one 7 mins from our house. Fresh Thyme is a favorite, as well. Also use ALDI and Meijer pickup for certain items. Whole Foods is a once in awhile visit since it involves a bothersome drive to Ohio & back. Hubs does the Krogering - usually every Weds.

    Hubs is a master at both napkin folding and table setting, as he was once the Ops Manager for a riverboat that did catered cruises. He is also a very self sufficient cook, a necessity after he retired and I worked all day. However, his cooking concoctions do not work for me, as he uses large amounts of garlic, onion & curry - too much for somewhat sensitive digestion. He also has a routine of household chores he does - laundry, dust & vacuum, bathrooms, floors, etc. Hey, when I worked, he would even iron things for me when needed. I just call him Jeeves - he is a combo of butler, gardener, housekeeper, etc., and all with his lovely British accent.

    We did a curbside carryout from Carrabba's for Valentine's Day - Mahi Wulfe (lovely lemony, buttery sauce w/artichoke hearts & sundried tomatoes), Grilled Asparagus, Truffle Fries for Hubs, Warm Bread & Butter (I use Kerrygold Pure Irish Butter). We have enough fish leftover for another meal each. Hubs will make a Brit "specialty" known as a Chip Butty w/leftover fries.

    Today's dinner will be the remainder of a concoction I make using Tikka Masala sauce, riced cauliflower/carrots/broccol, shrooms & chopped chicken breast along with some naan.

    Eric - Congrats to your wife on the 10 year mark!




  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    Celia - nice to see you. Sounds like your DH is a definite keeper. Your Valentines Mahi & the sides sound delicious. I had to look up Chip Butty even though my BFF in college was a Brit & I ate at their home many weekends. No carbs, right?

    Frying up the rest of the canned potatoes w/carmelized onions. Maybe I'll toss in some mushrooms too - even though my father would have been horrified by such an addition. I will either pour scrambled eggs over the top or use a second pan to make an omelette with Jarlsberg cheese. Decisions, decisions...

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    I hope the new generation of men feel the pressure, like women used to "have to be good cooks and housekeepers." Men should have to know how to cook and clean and I hope the young gals are holding them to it!

    As much as I loved the ragu, I hope tonight will be the last. ....but it may be tomorrow. I've got a hankerin' for Asian so I'll thaw out the rockfish and make it with the soy-butter combo (to die), bok choy and brown japanese rice.

    We got home from shopping this afternoon and the shelves were pretty full and most of the veggies looked decent. I bought waaay too much so I'll be juggling trying to figure out what to cook and when.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    Wally - is your combo for the fish 1/2 & 1/2 butter & soy? What else do you add? I love bok choy.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    Minus, the recipe is from Milk Street (and it is free for a while longer: https://www.177milkstreet.com/2020/12/eric-kim-but...). I tweak the recipe depending on what I have on hand and how I'll use it.

    He uses it on veggies, but I used it on fish. Incredible for so few ingredients.

    The bok choy, I use NIna Simonds recipe. I can dig it up from my cookbook and type it up if you are interested. It's pretty basic and I usually eye ball it...oyster sauce, garlic, chili flakes, soy sauce if oyster sauce isn't too salty and a little sake. That's how I usually do it from memory so if you are interested, I'd be happy to get the exact recipe.

  • aussie12
    aussie12 Member Posts: 462
    edited February 2022

    Hi all

    I have been on this site since 2012, 10 years since my breast cancer diagnosis. I've read this forum heaps but never replied.

    I'm not a huge cook but love watching cooking shows and trying not to cook the same food all the time.

    I'm in Perth, Western Australia where again we have a food shortage in our supermarkets because most of our food comes across from Melbourne or Sydney by train. We have just had flooding which took lots of rail line out, First train full of food today after none for weeks.

    My Fish and Chips from a pub meal last week. My favourite.

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  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited February 2022

    Aussie - Welcome to the table. So glad you're joining in. It will be fun to have recipes from down under. I love fish & chips.

    Wally - Thanks for the butter/soy combo recipe. I'm good on my BokChoy. But in a nod to past things, I really miss the Spice Islands Mei Yen. I know, I know - there are several 'work arounds' on the web, but it's just not the same.

  • serendipity09
    serendipity09 Member Posts: 732
    edited February 2022

    aussie - welcome! Your fish and chips looks delicious.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Member Posts: 3,227
    edited February 2022

    Aussie, welcome! When we lived in WI, it was called "Fish Fry" and we loved it (they also offered a fish boil for those who prefer to limit fried food). Out here in WA, it is back to being called Fish and Chips. Interesting...maybe not.

    Minus, I found this on reddit when I had to google what spice island mei yen was...here's the post:

    I contacted Spice Islands asking them if they could recommend a substitution for Mei Yen seasoning as several recipes in their cookbook require it and I could find it no where. They responded as follows:
    Spice Islands Mei Yen has been discontinued, but you can make your own by combing: 9 parts salt, 9 parts sugar, 2 parts MSG
  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited February 2022

    aussie - welcome! The fish looks yummy, and I don't even like fish, lol! My dad was born in Box Hill and raised in Ringwood, outside Melbourne. He left Australia during WWII to be a merchant marine, but was eventually put off the ship in California due to an illness that could not be treated onboard. Long story, but he remained there and built a life. While he became a naturalized American citizen, Australia was always in his heart - and ours, as his children!

    I was tired of recycled Super Bowl snacks for dinner, so last night was roast chicken, rice with garlic and ghee, and Brussels sprouts with a little balsamic glaze. Tonight will be ribeyes with a dairy free sour cream horseradish sauce, roasted split baby yukon gold potatoes, and roasted carrots with thyme.

    eric - belated congrats to Sharon on 10 years - woo hoo!

    wally - my kids are millennials in their 30's, but definitely don't follow outdated gender roles for household stuff, or much else! Their influences growing up were basically traditional. They both took home ec and shop classes in school. DS did the second year of home ec because he wanted to build a gingerbread house and that was part of the curriculum only in the second year, lol! He is a paramedic/firefighter and has had to cook for his crew in some of the different firehouses he has been in - in some they bring their own stuff, in others they eat together and cook in shifts. He is an excellent cook, and has an avid interest in food. He often sends me photos - cinnamon rolls from scratch, grilling homemade franks and sausages, old school carbonara with pancetta rather than bacon, also has come up with some cocktail recipes, and had a garden when he was in Virginia. He has a sous vide and Le Creuset pans - I have neither, lol! He is also very conversant with power tools and had a side business for a while making furniture out of recycled wood. He back country snowboards and does a lot of rappelling and canyoning - very much a guy's guy, but is nuts about his new girl who can keep up with all that - we met her in Sept and she is impressive! DD is not particularly domestic, but she can work on cars - has done extensive work on her giant lifted 4Runner - and knows her way around most power tools. She occasionally cooks - knows how, just doesn't really enjoy it. She is a brand ambassador for Traeger, so she will grill and make sides when she is filming for them and seems to enjoy that more. Her beau cooks a lot and does meal prep for the week. When he moved in he had more spices than she did, lol! She doesn't like to clean or do laundry, but knows how and keeps her house presentable. She is a Coast Guard certified charter fishing Captain here in FL, holds world records with IGFA for fish she has caught, has a roof tent on her truck and does a lot of camping, and is a crack shot with any gun you put in her hand. The one thing they definitely have in common, aside from the power tools, is that they hate to shop - so they missed that part of my DNA, lol!

  • eric95us
    eric95us Member Posts: 2,845
    edited February 2022

    Hi Aussie.


    Mickey and then the scare with Sharon..... I don't celebrate "cancerversaries". But I do realize that the "longer ago the better".

    Special, I'm smiling about the description of the two "beaus". DD here sounds like a younger version of your DD with the exception of the Coast Guard license and the dislike of shopping. Sharon is the one with the CG license (assistant engineer--steam and diesel) and (like me) hates to shop.

    I'm also smiling at the fire cooking. I did a lot of work for the fire department here. Several stations boasted folks who had been head chefs at upscale restaurants or had culinary arts degrees from Le Cordon Bleu Paris, but even those stations didn't have too much extra to brag about! The cooking skills were amazing.

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