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  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Good Morning, Loungettes! Happy Twofer Tuesday! Pool testing day at school today. Yesterday about 20 kiddos got out of quarantine and came back to school. So many positive cases in the community, I expect today's pool testing will come back with at least one positive pool, if not both. I expect tomorrow will be busy with contact tracing and notification and reporting. I'm kind of hoping the powers that be will decide to extend winter break and close school next week, rather than go for 2 1/2 days. All of us nurses are wondering if we are going to be contact tracing/notification/reporting on Christmas Eve.

    Got outside this ayem and caught some of the meteor shower. Saw 3 or 4 in just a few minutes.

    Goldie--this was the first time Mom referred to Sadie as "that dog" with a tone of voice that people use when talking about something disgusting. I think it's the tone that bothered me the most. Too funny about DH ordering a bedpan, how would one use that in a car?? The CPAP noise can be considerable, I remember hearing it from down the hall from some of the nursing home residents who used it. I couldn't imagine being a roommate or bedmate of someone using one.

    Karen--sounds like travel insurance is pretty complicated, but then, what isn't these days? I'm glad DD#1 isn't worried about the mammo results. I admire that woman who is focused on being alive. She has a great point.

    Chi--interesting info about late periods and blighted ovum miscarriages.I never knew that. With so many ways things can go wrong it's amazing that any fertilization ends in a living child. It's a miraculous process.

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  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited December 2021

    been up since 4, which is not unusual, but decided to get out of bed at 4:30. Usually I lay in bed till 5 or so. So on my Cubii and will probably do 1.5 hours instead of 1. Sandy, I have 7 documented pregnancies (4 miscarriages) but before my “first” pregnancy I was 2 weeks late and in my heart I know it was a very early miscarriage but in those days pregnancy tests couldn’t be done til at least 6 weeks. I had the same with my youngest as you did with your son. Never gave it much thought as one the ON dismissed it and two I was thrilled to finally have a pregnancy that was viable. Kim you are so right.
    Kim, I never realized your mother disliked or was so jealous of Silly Sadie. Hugs my friend. Remind me where you are going in February. We get a full 2 weeks for winter break but we don’t get a February break like so many places back East. 3 more work days for you. Stay safe and healthy my friend.

    Be back this evening.

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    Karen, I hope you are having a better day today. Unfortunatley, I think we are going to be dealing with all this Covid crap for a LONG TIME.

    Sandy, interesting about the late periods.

    NM, I didn't know about the meteor shower and when I saw your post, I went and looked outside, as it was still dark. Didn't see any tho. That was not nice of your mom, at all. It's not DH's machine that makes noise, it doesn't make any at all. The mask needs to be air tight, and if it's not, that is what is causing the noise. I forgot about the 12 days of Christmas cocktails. We did that last year.

    Not looking forward to tomorrow morning, at all. I will have to start loading the car at 6, to leave by 6:30. I also have to get DH ready, dressing him, getting the bi-pap machine, water for it, helping him to the car, etc.

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited December 2021

    Goldie - be careful tomorrow. Sending positive thoughts on an easy trip

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    Change in plans. It's Tuesday evening, we are in Phoenix. Winter storm warnings for our travel area, 3-8" of snow across the rim. Leaving our house in the dark, which would be ok, but still early going across the rim, and dangerous. Road is pretty winding and too many people that don't know how to drive in the snow. Plus, it took a lot longer to get everything loaded this afternoon. I would never have made it by 6:30 am. So we would have been late for everything.

  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited December 2021

    Goldie - so glad you weren't driving in those weather conditions. And sounds like you're staying over in Phoenix. Stay safe...

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    Minus, we will be here for 2 nights. I have my infusions (hercepting/perjetta) tomorrow, plus see the doctor. Then after that DH has his appt, like 3-4 hours long! Not sure what all this will entail. Then Thursday morning I have to go for an ECHO, and home after that.


  • mistyeyes
    mistyeyes Member Posts: 584
    edited December 2021

    Goldie- I am glad that you went early and are staying a few days. Hope you get some rest between doctors appts.

  • KIDI919
    KIDI919 Member Posts: 425
    edited December 2021

    Karen1956, I have had a sad, crying day today too. Let's hope tomorrow is better. I am avoiding the news for now.

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited December 2021

    Lori, glad you are safe down in Phoenix and not having to drive through the snowstorms.

    Had my second facial today. Was nearly 15 min. late because the few legal metered parking spaces were full of delivery vans with their flashers on (when they could have parked in the--duh--loading zone. When I finally found a lawful space on the next block (third circle-around in downtown traffic), I had to painstakingly shoehorn myself into it because behind it there was a big black Escalade sitting on the corner (wher parking is prohibited so that emergency vehicles would have room to make turns). Why wasn't it in my spot? Because the fur-hooded Canada-Goose-swaddled diamond-draped b---- sitting and texting behind the wheel was too cheap to feed a meter and park legally. The facial took longer than expected because I had a lot of blackheads scattered amidst the rosacea.

    DOTD was Mumm Napa 2014 Grower Series Ponderosa Vineyard Blanc de Noirs.

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Good morning, Loungettes! Happy Hump day! This week is feeling like it's been two weeks long already. The pool testing samples haven't been logged in at the lab yet, meaning we probably won't see results until tomorrow or Friday, and I am expecting at least one and probably both pools to be positive, so I know what I'll be doing this weekend. This waiting for the results is nerve-wracking. No testing next week, the state decided to not test since there won't be time to follow up before break starts. I am getting so tired of this covid crap.

    Karen--February vacay is in Orlando, we're planning to do the Disney thing if they are still open. Hmm, I never thought of Mom being jealous of Sadie, but that really could be the case. I would usually say I was going home from visiting her to let Sadie out. I never took Sadie to her new apartment, knowing how much she didn't like dog hair or dog smell, or dog anything. 5 and half more days for me, counting today, unless we can get admin to go to break early and not do the 2 1/2 days next week. I am so sorry for your losses, and I bet dollars to donuts you are correct that the very first one was a miscarriage and not just a late cycle. Hugs.

    Goldie-- I guess you will be just about getting up now to start loadiing the car and get DH ready for the trip to town. I think the nursing home folks had older machines, they were HUGE and the machines themselves made quite a bit of noise. I hear the machines are a lot better now. Still,noise is noise, and a real problem at night.

    Morning, Jazzy

    Goldie--woops, update, looks like you are already in Phoenix. Glad you didn't have to drive in the dark or in the storm. Also glad you won't be late for appointments.

    Morning, Minus

    Morning, Misty

    Hugs, Kid

    Chi--good grief, what a parking problem! People can be so self-centered.

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  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited December 2021

    We've had lots of rain and crazy wind and was thinking about you going in the bad weather Goldie. Stay safe and hope all the apts go well 🙏

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited December 2021

    In the 60s today, but the high winds are keeping it from being pleasant. We're in for even higher winds, with gusts of 60-70 mph tonight between 6p-3a. Straight-line winds, but they can still uproot trees and blow down power lines. Made sure all our flashlights are at hand with fresh batteries, and our power banks are charged up for our phones & iPad. Hope we don't have to head to the basement; at least we won't get more than a tenth of an inch of rain.

    Obviously not grilling tonight.

  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited December 2021

    Chi- be careful with the winds. They were clocked here in NM anywhere between 50-100 mph. The highest winds were in northern NM and a lot of damage in the Taos area. They are probably where you are this evening.

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited December 2021

    High winds in Colorado too. In the Denver foothills upwards of 80-90mph. Not sure how windy it was in Denver, but probably 40mph.

    Off day again today - Had 3 hour zoom department meeting which contributed to it. Last hour was really good. It was on gangs and a school in our district that is in a youth lock up.

    After tomorrow I'm on winter break :) Since trip to see DD#2 (and overnight in each direction with DD#1 and SIL) canceled, most of the two weeks are time to putter in the house, some deep cleaning like dusting, going through stuff to donate or throw out. Need to start writing lists of what I put where. This week-end we are going hiking. It will be COLD, but no snow. I have plenty of warm weather clothes and if its sunny out, it will be great.

    Israel has extended its border closer to foreign nationals til at least 12/29 and has turned several countries red which means Israelis can't travel to them. This is due to increasing cases in Israel, the UK, SA, UAE and other countries. Told DD#2 keeping our fingers crossed for summer.

    Lori - hope all goes well with the appointments today and tomorrow. Glad you left before the snow.

    Yesterday would have been my late FIL's 101st birthday. It seems so weird as he only lived to 62 - too short of a life and he was a dear man.


  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited December 2021

    One neighborhood south (about 1.5 miles) a tree was uprooted and took out three cars. The worst of it is supposed to be over in about half an hour, but there will be 30-40mph gusts till 9am. Sitting here with a flashlight pendant around my neck; showed Bob where all the working flashlights are; all my devices are plugged in and ready to be unplugged when the power goes out (our bedside clocks & the treadmill readout will go dark) and we'll round them up to be near the power banks (also charged). Even recharged my Apple watch. And we have the BBQ lighter ready to ignite the stove to boil water for coffee (and plenty of yahrtzeit candles if need be). Even have a manual espresso maker & crank coffee grinder.

    With a fish dinner, we had a 2020 Txakolina from the Basque region of Spain.

  • ringringzi
    ringringzi Member Posts: 3
    edited December 2021

    I have been under a lot of pressure recently at work. I don't have a clear objection to worry about nervousness, restlessness, and symptoms of autonomic dysfunction, such as palpitations, hand tremors, sweating, frequent urination, etc., and exercise anxiety. What should I do?


  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Good Morning, Loungettes! Happy Thirsty Thursday! A bit messy with slush on the roads this ayem, so going to head in a bit earlier than usual.

    Both covid test pools at school came back NEGATIVE! I am amazed! And very happy.

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  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited December 2021

    For the foodies here

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  • illimae
    illimae Member Posts: 5,710
    edited December 2021
  • MinusTwo
    MinusTwo Member Posts: 16,634
    edited December 2021

    Oh wow Jazzy. Thanks for posting. Yum is right. Were you at OldTown?

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited December 2021

    I'm officially on winter break!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Late getting moving this ayem, just pooping in to post a DOTD, will ketchup tomorrow.

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  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    Just going to jump in. We are home, finally! My appts. went fine, gal that does my ECHO remembers me, and we always have nice conversations. She said she peeked at my previous scan and was pleased with what she was seeing that day. DH appt. was like 4 hours, due to all the people he had to see, OT, PT, RT, speech therapist, social worker, person from ALS, seems like 1 or 2 more, but I don't remember, and of course the doctor. EVERYONE loves my DH! He is always so joking with them and is just so likeable to others. I would so like to tell them, this is NOT the person I live with!

    Looks like many of you were hit with the storm that passed through here. I don't see any bad reports, so I guess everyone is good.

    My MO and I are always talking gardening and stuff, and in years past I have taken him tomatoes. He has a new house and lots of fruit trees and always telling me he wants to give me some cumquats. So when I saw him the other day, he was saying that he was just thinking about that and that he needed to see when I was coming next, well it was that day! However, I told him we were staying the night and I could get some tomorrow. So he brought some fruit and left it at the front desk for me. Some HUGE meyer lemons, 2 grapefruit, 2 oranges and about a dozen cumquats!

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  • karen1956
    karen1956 Member Posts: 6,503
    edited December 2021

    Lori - what a sweet oncologist. Sounds like the two of you have a great relationship. Your husband sounds like my late mother - when she went to her pcp everything was wonderful. I would have to speak up and "tell the truth". Her neuro-degenerative disease was different than ALS but horrid non the less. Glad your scan went well.

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    Karen, DH tells the truth. He's just over the top friendly and jokes with them, making them laugh. But he laughs too, so that makes me happy. He's quite the jokey smurf. As for my MO, we do have a great relationship. My visits with him are more about gardening, his trees, and other stuff. Cancer talk is brief, as nothing ever changes for me, except the TM's always going up.

    NM, helping out. Glad the test pool was negative! I hope you are sleeping in this morning.

    Helped DH with a shower yesterday. He's having trouble getting up from the bench, and this morning it was a struggle to stand up from the side of the bed. If he loses his ability to bear weight, I don't know what I'll do!

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  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Good Morning, Loungettes!Happy Staturday! Ketchup day for me today, here and around the house. The weather has been going back and forth between snow/sleet/freezing rain to thawing/melting/black ice in places, with gusty, windy times in between.

    Things at school have been up and down. The negative pool tests were great to get. Finding out the CDC will no longer be case managing the close contacts of school exposures was not. Guess who's been given job of daily symptom checks, quarantine follow up, test ordering?School nurses?Right in one! The Fed CDC has endorsed a test-to-stay approach for schools, meaning student who are close contacts of a confirmed case stay in school and get tested (at school by the school nurses who probably won't be able to have enough test cards due to the shortage) two or three days a week. The state Dept of Ed Nurse consultant has started saying that school nurses should continue to put off other work--like vision andhearing screenings, vaccination (other than COVID and chicken pox) tracking, and have teachers and office staff take over seeing kiddos with minor injuries, upset tummies, and administering medications needed during school hours. I feel like we're being told to give up doing school nurse work, and just be CDC extenders. The Maine CDC is putting out a new Standard Operating Procedure for managing COVID in schools during the winter break, to go into effect when schools reopen in January, and we're all wondering, and afraid of, what that's going to look like.

    Then, yesterday, there was an apparently nation-wide Tik Tok challenge to bring a gun to school. So we spend the day in semi-lock down, made all the kiddos drop off their coats and back packs on entering, and we searched them all before letting the kids have them back. Over a dozen kids were kept home because of the threat. At least one gun was found being brought into a nearby middle school. Several schools in the area just plain closed for the day.

    I was amazed how many students were totally aware of the challenge, but then it had been on the local news that morning.

    But to finish the day, the teachers/staff had the annual potluck holiday lunch get together. There was some pretty good food there--mac and cheese, vegan scalloped potatoes, a homemade cheese ball, cookies, candies, and all sorts of goodies. It was a lot of fun to actually have some time to sit and eat and chat with people.

    Karen--Lots of wind everywhere, recently, it seems! Enjoy your break time, as best you can without traveling. FIL sounds like a wonderful person.

    Chi--sounds like you are well prepared for the windy conditions!

    Goldie--wow, what a nice looking collection of fruit! Glad your appointment went well. Sounds like DH really had the whole treatment, and too bad you couldn't tell them what he can be like at home. People can be so very different with medical people than with their family members.

    Thanks for the DOTD help! I did sleep in this ayem, quite late. And enjoyed it!

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Member Posts: 6,595
    edited December 2021

    NM, DH is like that with any females, not just medical people. That is how we became friends with Tammy (dental hygienist) Tonya and Stephanie (cocktail waitresses at Embassy), Basia (cocktail waitress in Laughlin). I tell them they are part of his harem!

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited December 2021

    Good Morning, Loungettes!Happy Sunday Funday! Waking up to a couple inches of snow, an d still coming down lazily. Really slept in this ayem, didn't get up till 9! Of course, I was up and down until at least 2:30 ayem, just could not get comfortable, couldn't get my mind to turn off, and generally restless. Mom called yesterday and now her plan is for us to take a couple of 2 or 3 day trips, one in the spring and one in the fall, to "have something to look forward to." I think she's realizing that she really can't travel alone any more. I can understand her wanting to get away for a bit I just wish she had someone else to travel with. I'm going to let her plan the whole thing, she'll never get it all put together and maybe that will get me out ofat least the second trip. If she gets the first one put together, she'll never get the second one put together before I go back to work. And if I pick up summer school coverage, there won't be time for more than one trip. Mom doesn't know about the February trip yet. I did tell her quite some time ago that one was planned, but she's probably forgotten about it by now. At least she's not mentioned it.

    I'm still waiting for Sadie nose nudges for ear scratches while I'm checking email and such in the mornings. And still saving the very last bite of whatever I eat for breakfast for her. The house still doesn't feel right without her. I got lovely cards from the emergency vet and from the regular vet. It's better than it was, but it's still hard being without her.

    Goldie--what a hoot about your DH and his harem!

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  • Jazzygirl
    Jazzygirl Member Posts: 12,533
    edited December 2021

    Good morning friends- happy Funday Sunday as NM would say. Catching up here say hello before the next holiday arrives next weekend. I am working three days this coming week, we have Thur and Friday off and I will be heading to the closer hot springs in Santa Fe for an overnighter at the resort there. I have a nice treatment planned on Xmas Eve for some self care and will head back home Xmas afternoon. I have another four day long weekend the week after and will be in town for that, and plannning to catch up with some more friends and things at home to be ready for another year ahead.

    Been getting out for a few holiday things selectively. Went to a beautiful concert last Sunday evening with the Santa Fe Chorale who did a concert here in Albuquerque. I heard them years ago, but only a subset of the group that lives in New Mexico. What I did not realize is that this group includes vocalists from all over the country. It was so beautiful and moving (brought tears a few times). You know the music is really good when you are moved to tears. Beautiful music does that to me. Here is a short clip off YouTube.

    Yesterday I went to a small gathering at a friends house for a holiday open house. She was careful to only invited people she knew were triple vaxed, and no more than 10 people there. My friend consolidated homes with an aging parent and they now have three women (three generations) under one roof, plus space for a whole lotta pets but it all works beautifully. Ton of work to get this home, move in and sell the rest but they did it. It was nice to see her new place and have a visit with the family. There was a little dog that wanted to be my BFF and came and sat on my lap for a good first half hour. Funny how animals pick you right away for friends!

    We had a bit of weather this week (moisture followed by wind) and hoping to get more rain and snow but not sure we will have a white Xmas.

    Goldie- glad you got back and forth okay to PHX. I have more than a few relatives who were or are charming to outsiders, and were never that kind to me. When people are in failing health, they can react all different kinds of ways but also believe the way people act in public and within a family are usually completely different. Sounds like he likes the attention from his harem. The fruit from the people providing you care to you are so thoughtful. Will you both be home to relax over the holiday or more company coming?

    Ill- my coworkers I have been working with on my last project coordinated two outings this week, one for one of the ladies' birthdays and another with someone we worked closely with. The first picture of the tacos were from one place called The Range that has delicious food but find the wait for the meal to be too long to do for lunch anymore. We have gone twice now and it's close to an hour from order to meal and we don't have that kind of time with our meetings. Love their food, will continue to patronize but not for a work day lunch. The second is a place called Los Cuates which is a local favorite and that combo plate was one of the best I have ever had. As a matter of fact, everyone was eyeing my plate and wanting to order it next visit. What good things are you eating this holiday season?

    NM -reading about the TikTok challenge to bring a gun to school is totally frightening to me. Some twenty years after Columbine, we are still dealing with school shootings, including a number of really bad ones lately. How stressful for you and on top of this Covid stuff. And with respect to your mom, if she keeps bringing up the dog, I hope you can just tell her you don't want to discuss anything more with her around Sadie. I have learned with my family who likes to pick at things about my life they think should be different or that I don't have the right to feel a certain way to result in a speedy shut down with "I am not having this convrsation again/anymore, etc." We are too old to put up with this nonsense. Do you have finals you are doing with your coursework right now?

    MinusTwo- the two restaurants you asked about are on Central and the other on Lomas. I am planning another trip to Old Town later this week around dusk on Thursday to see some of the decorations at sunset. I think they may have the luminarias up on the plaza by Thursday evening, as they usually do a big event on Xmas Eve (did that a few years back). I will post pics if I can get some good ones, it's so beautiful down there at Xmas time.

    Karen- congrats with being on winter break!

    Chi- sounds like those winds did a bit of damage where you live. I read the second storm that came thorugh here tossed a bunch of smaller planes around at the airport in Santa Fe resulting in $1 M in damage at the airport there.

    Celia C, Teka, Mistyeyes, Cami, and more- hoping your holiday season is going okay!

    Got some baking started this weekend and need mo butter to finish baking my biscotti. Made the choc decadence yesterday, will do the caramel walnut and some cranberry orange varieties later today.

    Wishing everyone a Merry Xmas (and Winter Solstice too) that will be celebrating this week!

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